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Quote from: rohang on September 21, 2023, 02:29:07 PM

i dont have kids but if i did i would never ever let them come close to gambling let alone gamble myself infront of them.

I believe gambling is one of the worst addictions a person can have and it would make me a failure as a father if i let my kids get into it

The reasoning you put forward as a conscious guardian is truly commendable as a proper father would never engage in gambling in front of his children. But most of the people who participate in gambling in our country are uneducated and they do not take any privacy approach to indulge in gambling and casino. Most of the people in our country participate in gambling in public and they gamble in front of small children in schools, colleges and Shishu Vidyaniketans which have a bad effect on the mental development of children. But every conscious guardian and citizen must take a plan from the government to take strict punitive measures against these gamblers.

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Quote from: alegotardo on September 21, 2023, 08:33:43 PM

Children learn much more from their parents' example than from what they say.
Just as you shouldn't smoke, drink alcohol or watch pornography in front of your children, you shouldn't play gambling in front of them if your parents don't want them to "follow this example".

Unlike alcohol or drug addiction, in which the symptoms are physically noticeable, gambling addiction presents less obvious signs and therefore many parents will not even notice this habit in children who gamble in secret. Therefore, the later they start gambling, knowing how to control their emotions and impulses, the better it will be for their financial and social lives.

The children are like their parents,if the father is gambler and son will be the gambler.Because as per the scientific experiments done by the experts,they found the inherit habit of the parents will be in the blood of their children.It mean the gambler children will have the gambling addiction by nature.This not only to the gambling addiction but also to the activity of the parent like spending of the money on their expenses.So if the parent was linear in spending the money on the expenses,one of his child will do like them.So if the gambler get addicted itself made their children to gambling addiction from the inherit habits.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

Children learn much more from their parents' example than from what they say.
Just as you shouldn't smoke, drink alcohol or watch pornography in front of your children, you shouldn't play gambling in front of them if your parents don't want them to "follow this example".

Unlike alcohol or drug addiction, in which the symptoms are physically noticeable, gambling addiction presents less obvious signs and therefore many parents will not even notice this habit in children who gamble in secret. Therefore, the later they start gambling, knowing how to control their emotions and impulses, the better it will be for their financial and social lives.

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Quote from: AmoreJaz on September 21, 2023, 07:54:32 PM

Quote from: dothebeats on September 21, 2023, 07:39:48 PM

I'd never gamble in front of anyone in the first place. It ruins the mood and the overall experience for me. This is why I chose to do online gambling to begin with: to gamble alone and at peace without anyone in sight. I'm not sure about other people here but I for sure, won't gamble in front of anyone especially my kids. It's more of a personal preference than me trying to protect my kids in the future and I'd stick with it. Of course, I can still educate my child/children regarding gambling and its possible negative effects, but using a different approach.

always best not to gamble in front of them or don't let them know that you are into gambling to begin with. you don't know what ideas they will think about on you or on gambling itself. they are still young to learn the nature of this activity. adults at least should know their responsibilities when it comes to gambling.

Kids used to follow what we do. This is common with the kids, and we need to be responsible staying away from them while gambling. This generation of kids were much connected to digital gadgets and they easily find what we were doing. During their playful days they easily get interested on games, and the same could easily land them on gambling. For the same we shouldn't be the root cause.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.

I agree. Children's minds are like sponges. But instead of soaking up water, they soak up experiences that they see from the actions of adults. Especially when it comes to actions of their parents. Gambling, drugs, alcohol, smoking, swearing and all bad character traits could become a permanent component of the childs personality, later on in life. This is because their brains are still growing, and the neural network is still forming. Anything that disturbs this process could end up permanently altering the child for the worse.

But then again, hiding the truth from the child to the extreme also does not work. If you pamper a child too much, they will grow up without necessary life skills, and something like that can be just as damaging to them, later in life.

I think it all boils down to the particular age of the child because I believe some kids have a level of understanding at some specific age while other are just like plain slate ready to be filled up with gibberish or meaningful habit depending on the particular one they are exposed to. And also environment also determines because there are some certain things you do as a father that you would be very cautious about because if the environment that your kids are exposed to.

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Quote from: dothebeats on September 21, 2023, 07:39:48 PM

I'd never gamble in front of anyone in the first place. It ruins the mood and the overall experience for me. This is why I chose to do online gambling to begin with: to gamble alone and at peace without anyone in sight. I'm not sure about other people here but I for sure, won't gamble in front of anyone especially my kids. It's more of a personal preference than me trying to protect my kids in the future and I'd stick with it. Of course, I can still educate my child/children regarding gambling and its possible negative effects, but using a different approach.

always best not to gamble in front of them or don't let them know that you are into gambling to begin with. you don't know what ideas they will think about on you or on gambling itself. they are still young to learn the nature of this activity. adults at least should know their responsibilities when it comes to gambling.

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You shall buy her new toys. It's very bad to see kids will be replicating our activity like playing gambling if they saw that. I think that you shall gamble privately once none was close to you.
Our kid can also try to imitate our activities. Sometimes, they were indirectly aware of our activities. Im always hiding once im willing to play it. Since my wife has no problem with it but i just avoid to play it once i was with my kid.

Try to make her busy by giving her some tasks. Im not yet allowing her to deal with gadget. Im seeing some cases in my country kids being addicted to the gambling.
It's give very bad impact as they have no control over their emotions.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.

I do gamble in front of my kids but nothing worse happened, good thing.

If they do understand what gambling is, even without them seeing us doing gambling, they will do gambling no matter what. It's even more confusing to them if we hide our gambling activity from them since that will make them think about why we hide it.

Gambling is almost everywhere. They can see it anywhere even just by watching Youtube and browsing websites.

What to do is to just guide them along the way. If we hide gambling to them, they will start to find out by themselves which is far more risky.

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I'd never gamble in front of anyone in the first place. It ruins the mood and the overall experience for me. This is why I chose to do online gambling to begin with: to gamble alone and at peace without anyone in sight. I'm not sure about other people here but I for sure, won't gamble in front of anyone especially my kids. It's more of a personal preference than me trying to protect my kids in the future and I'd stick with it. Of course, I can still educate my child/children regarding gambling and its possible negative effects, but using a different approach.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.

That's absolutely true my friend, because one thing about kids is that they are wired by the creator (i.e God) in such a way that they take notice of whatever their parents do during their early growing stage both consciously and subconsciously, and on that not, it's always good to behave properly whenever you are around with your kids, so that they don't pick up the wrong attitude/characters. Because kids are always quick to learning everything, and the earlier you start teaching them good values, morals and skills, the more they get use to it as they grow up

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Quote from: uneng on September 21, 2023, 07:25:07 PM

You can avoid letting your children see you gambling, but keep in mind at some point it's inevitable they will be aware about gambling by themselves or by someone else, so in my opinion I think it's better that they get aware about it through a responsible guidance like yours, than through a stranger on the streets who is likely to introduce your children to gambling in the wrong way, giving them a dangerous perception about it.

To be a negligent parent is a big issue, but to be an overprotective parent who puts the child inside an impassable bubble is also an issue of the same size.

Ironically, children or teens are more likely to be introduced to the world of gambling, not by some stranger in the streets, but rather by some acquaintance, friend or family member.

I think it is an story most of us can relate to: we are going through our childhood and youth undisturbed, until some friend comes to us with some dices, with a poker set or even a lottery ticket. There is where parents are supposed to be at, not to isolate their children from the dangers of real world, but to educate them on the facts of gambling; the same way we get educated about other things, like smoking, alcohol or even the value of money and time. It is all about personal growth.

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You can avoid letting your children see you gambling, but keep in mind at some point it's inevitable they will be aware about gambling by themselves or by someone else, so in my opinion I think it's better that they get aware about it through a responsible guidance like yours, than through a stranger on the streets who is likely to introduce your children to gambling in the wrong way, giving them a dangerous perception about it.

To be a negligent parent is a big issue, but to be an overprotective parent who puts the child inside an impassable bubble is also an issue of the same size.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

It’s really a bad idea to show children about gambling. You might think they don’t know what you are doing, but don’t be surprised, they will go behind you and start gambling, and you know they are kids, they are easily carried away, and they will find it difficult to stop gambling or control themselves, which will lead to addiction. At the end, they will end up doing illegal things just to source money to gamble, so it’s just better to allow kids to stay away from gambling. When gambling, never allow your kids to come close to you because they will end up gambling when you are not close.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Hey gamblers' community, hope you're all doing great.
I wanted to convey my message here that gambling in front of our kids may put adverse effects on their growing minds and they may also take the wrong path and start gambling (either by asking you personally for funds or by stealing it in order to fulfill their gambling cravings).

I'm sharing this because I saw this issue with my kiddo who was once watching me gamble at a website playing blackjack and she started asking me more about the game. Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.

It is never advisable to play gambling in the presence of children because the kind of children we have this days ate very smart and tend to know things easily and also find it difficult to forget things. Gambling in front of children can be very influencing to children which might make a child to grow up to become a chronic gambler. Children are always to learn things that will have much negative impact on them , gambling should be an activity far from children.

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Yep. People downplay the negative effects that this may inflict upon their kids' psyches but it's something you can't just disregard. You have to understand that to them, you were the pinnacle of a role model. Anything that you do in front of them, they will pick up on subconsciously and may manifest itself in their lives in the future. Gambling is just one thing that you have to keep out of the kids' reaches as much as possible. It's for adults only, and shouldn't be done in front of your kids.

Be responsible parents and ensure that your kid's not getting any negative behaviors from you, gambling may be good and all for you but you have to remember that these kids aren't aware of the concept of gambling addiction nor responsible gambling, do yourself and your kids a favor and avoid yourself from gambling in front of them.

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Quote from: Hamphser on September 21, 2023, 03:59:26 PM

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I agree. Children's minds are like sponges. But instead of soaking up water, they soak up experiences that they see from the actions of adults. Especially when it comes to actions of their parents. Gambling, drugs, alcohol, smoking, swearing and all bad character traits could become a permanent component of the childs personality, later on in life. This is because their brains are still growing, and the neural network is still forming. Anything that disturbs this process could end up permanently altering the child for the worse.

But then again, hiding the truth from the child to the extreme also does not work. If you pamper a child too much, they will grow up without necessary life skills, and something like that can be just as damaging to them, later in life.

Whatever they do saw in their parents are really that indeed rightful things on their eyes on which it is what most people been saying here and even with our own experience when we are still a child then we would

really be seeing those things to be right and we would definitely be following it because it would really be definitely be influencing us on following on whatever things that they've been dealing with.
This is the main reason on why i would never ever consider on showing up something in front of my kids which it isnt really that only limited on gambling but also in other things as well which
it isnt something that would really be that just right for them to see on but there are really some circumstances on which you cant really be able to avoid or have been accidentally be seen.
This is why if you dont like to be on this situation then better keep it to yourself as a parent on whatever things that you are dealing with specially on things that you dont want for them to follow.

Chldren now a days are very smart, the kids of today are not like the kids of the 80s and 90s, the ones of this century are fast learner, anything they see from the elders, they reciprocate them sharply and it's not their fault, it's the nature and how things have transformed. If you have ever had a child or been around the family that has them, you will notice that they don't allow them watch some channels, that's basically parenting because the kids are still young and they shouldn't be thinking about that kind of aspect in such age, similar thing goes to gambling.

Exposing your kids early to gambling is like setting trap for yourself to blame because when they grow up with that kind of mentality, it will hunt them for the rest of their life, they will prefer gambling than doing any other things in life, if you give them money to invest, they rather see that money in casino house than reasonably think on how to invest it wisely for the future, what you cannot control in the future, it's better you don't start it with the kids.

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Quote from: Stedsm on September 20, 2023, 07:58:32 AM

Then one day, she wanted to play it herself and asked me if she can go for it and I said "no, it's not your legal age to go for such games". So, it's better to keep our kiddos away from gambling and let them focus on their studies, else it'd actually ruin everything for the whole family if the kid takes the wrong path.

I think that this would have adverse effects. If you instead gave her a go, explained the risks, explained tjr complexities of the game and the negatives of gambling etc. Then at least that information could have stuck with her.

Instead what you have chosen to do is be lazy, say "you can't do this yet" (which in her mind, probably makes her even more curious) and "wait until you're of age" which only means she will definitely try blackjack when she is of age to.

Would you rather her walk into a casino and lose because she doesn't know how to play, or know how to play and enjoy the novelty?

It'd better to guide and teach kids when they ask you something, I think.

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Quote from: alastantiger on September 21, 2023, 04:43:54 PM

Observational learning is learning my watching what others do or say. Parents are their kids role model and as such they should make sure that whatever behavior that they are portraying to them at a young age is one that is positive and will make them live and function well as members of the community, that help the children's growth and development.. Gambling in itself may not be bad, but is that what a parent would want their kids to see them doing at such a young age? I don't think so. There is a time when the parent would openly gambling if that what they in the presence of their kids.

The generation to day can easily adopt and yes minors already have the access in technology and exposing them early in gambling might not be a good idea. For me I’m against to this for whatever reason you are saying because as a parent we should display the best role model and guide our children so they can fully develop and be more responsible. We all know casinos are prohibiting under age gambler so why push for this? Be a good parent even if your Children is not around, make it a habit.

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It's very repugnant to conceive such an idea and get used to it as well... Kids are very fast to learn and adopt 'em happenings around Thier environment... Since some can barely talk, they learn from what they see...but for the ones that can speak, read and write - it'll definitely speeden up the whole goddam process...
In conclusion, you're definitely training the kid into your own choice of life, which isn't supposed to be so... I don't support that idea cus the kid might take an advantage of it which may as well, lead to early adoption.
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Quote from: alastantiger on September 21, 2023, 04:43:54 PM

Observational learning is learning my watching what others do or say. Parents are their kids role model and as such they should make sure that whatever behavior that they are portraying to them at a young age is one that is positive and will make them live and function well as members of the community, that help the children's growth and development.. Gambling in itself may not be bad, but is that what a parent would want their kids to see them doing at such a young age? I don't think so. There is a time when the parent would openly gambling if that what they in the presence of their kids.

Gambling is meant for the adults and not some infant children that are dependent on their parents or guardians for survival. We should implement principles that would always keep our habits especially gambling related discussions out of the picture when our kids are present. Gambling infront of the kids would be one of the basic terrible mistakes we should ensured we avoid. It's very dangerous when we deal with the system, controlling our emotions and keeping our gambling activities discreet from our kids will also help them. They're young and fast growing, there eyes keeps capturing every thing they come acrossed.

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