Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 57. (Read 12632 times)

Because they are found out, parents must immediately explain to their children what they are doing at the casino, so that children do not misunderstand and hate their parents' behavior, because if left unchecked, it is possible that their children will follow in their footsteps. parents' footsteps in playing casino and that is not good for the children's future.

Yes, by providing good guidance or understanding and slow explanations, I think it will make it easier for children to understand what gambling is.

Yes, we know that there's no such thing about perfect parenting even if you dont gamble in front of  your kids but with those external factors that would really be your children would be able to encounter then it wouldnt really be giving out assurance that it wont really be that making them as a gambler. This is why it would really be that important that you should really be letting them at least know on what are the risks when you do deal up with gambling. We do know that not all would really be that good when it comes to self control. Good if your children does have that kind of discipline
but there's no way for us to let know if they would really be like  that.

This is why proper teaching and awareness on what gambling is, is much more better rather than on not on telling them at all. You are really that putting yourself
on such issue if you are really that not minding about those probabilities.

Ok, lets open a discussion again. Allow me to take you as an example. Dont say it on public, but rather answer to yourself. Do you and your father or mother have similar hobbies and work right now? Lets take it even deeper, try to remember what your parents usually did when you was a kid. Somehow I am sure that you have different interests in life. But like youve said, they did all that in front of you, but somehow you probably are different.

The idea is, that kids see to many things that adults do, but somehow many stress that they will get addicted to everything they see. If a father likes fishing, then the kid, when he grows up, will buy half of fishing store product range. That is how many posters here see things gonna turn. But that isnt like that.

I don't agree with your assertion that gambling in front of kids doesn't make them to grow to become gambling addicts rather it is the lack of proper teaching from parents that makes them grow to become addicted in vices like gambling.
Children are wired to do whatever they see an adult do and that's not because they know what they're doing but because they're absolutely ignorant of what they're doing but wants to do it because they saw an adult doing it. Children learn things that you didn't even teach them but what they see you do and that's why it's totally wrong to gamble in front of kids

This was the important thing followed by the gambler to prevent their kids future,because the gambling at the earliest stage was not the good for the kids.Actually the gambling sites not allowing the kids to play,but after seeing their parents games in the gambling sites.The kids do the gambling using their parents Id in the mobile phone.The gambler parents can teach the gambling and say the kids about the risk in the gambling sites.So they will do the safe gambling when they become the adults after their graduation.Instead of kids learn from their friends,it is better to teach by their parents.So the parents also say the risk in the gambling sites.

And what would be the reason of not showing that we gamble? Because "good old they would become addicted", that has been mentioned here thousand times already? But kids dont grow addicted to everything they see. One of first things newborns see are pacifier. Kids dont grow addicted to pacifier. The reason why people turn addicted to gambling are their mental condition. Dont want kids to become addicted to gambling or other things - dont be a lazy parent. Education, spending time with them, talking, explaining are what prevents raise of addiction. But hiding, banning is not a solution, that is laziness and lack of desire to solve things.

Children usually learn everything from their parents and also come in contact with friends after growing up so a good friend must suggest good things. Also if the environment is good then good environment makes people healthy easily. A hazardous environment is a threat to the existence of life. Just as humans are adapting the environment to suit their needs the balance of the environment is being damaged. When the environment is bad everyone indulges in gambling and the chances of addiction are high starting from young children, the youth become addicted.

Being a responsible parent is not easy and requires learning from time to time so parents need to improve their abilities in educating their children. Parents also need to show their closeness to their children so that their children can discuss everything with their parents. This will give their children an understanding that their parents are figures they can trust to get the right information. When children start to grow up, they get used to saying things they might not know so they can get explanations from their parents. That would be better than getting an explanation from their peers where the information still needs to be clarified.

Parents can also choose not to tell in detail because they are not yet at an appropriate age to know this. Parents will only explain according to their age so that their children can understand based on what they want to know.

Yes, if parents feel there is no need to show it to their children, they can choose to hide their gambling activities and will only gamble when they are not at home. Of course, as parents, we will be shocked when we see our children gambling online and there will probably be many parents who will immediately scold their children if they see their children gambling.

It is best if parents see their children gambling, they can provide a good explanation so that there are no misunderstandings between parents and their children. There is no need to scold them because after all, they are still children, because that will carry over until they grow up.

       -  As much as possible, we should not show our children that we gamble. We know that when they see us gambling on our desktop or mobile device and we see them gambling online, we will be surprised. If they suddenly tell us that they saw us gambling online, then we will no longer be role models for them because they will think that we are forbidding them, but we are gambling.

These are just some of the things that we can think of if our children can tell us when we happen to see them playing gambling, because we are also the source of why he developed curiosity. And it should also be properly and correctly explained to them what gambling brings to people.

Wild imagination and can create curiosity inside their minds, responsible parenthood always have that sense of urgency not to show any possible bad habits that can be develop from the young minds of their children, though it is still dependcing from how close you are with your kids and how well you are in explaining things and how the interactions of those young people when you provide explanation if ever there's a need to explain things for your kids.

More on responsibility takes and how you will perform it during that early stage of your kids, else, it’s better to keep the secret and play away from the sight of your kids.

That of cellphones still marvels me to see toddlers efficiently operating a cellphone. It happens like a reflex action, but they may have been watching their parents operate the phones, without them knowing. And soon enough, they now create magic with these phones. Kids no longer need to ask parents to switch on a video skit on the mobile phone for them anymore. They simply do it themselves without any guidance. Hence, allowing kids around us watch while we gamble, will also affect them in similar ways. Soon, it won't take them nothing to access your laptop and visit the gambling website, when you're not around. Unfortunately, the account may not be logged out. They'll get there to try what their dad is doing. Not only that they'll spend the funds in the balance. The effect of gambling on them will emerge. Who knows how long it'll take before, they'll be free from such addiction. Which began at a very young age. They can also spread it amongst their growing sibling. Causing more harm than good to the family. Underestimating the brain power of kids, isn't reasonable as adults.  Their IQ is fresh, with no issue to disturb or distract their thoughts. Anything they focus on would be executed perfectly, with lesser stress. Unlike adults, who have been exposed to different heartbreaks, which now affects them emotionally and mentally. It's always a good idea to let kids to stay away from us before we engage in activities like gambling. For the good of the kids.

Most parents will just tell their children to go away when they see their parents gambling with their friends. If parents don't want their children to see their parents gambling, it would be best for the parents not to gamble if there are still children or they can move to another place far from the children so that the parents can gamble freely. But if any of his children see him gambling, one day, his children will definitely ask their parents about it and most parents will say this is an adult activity, you shouldn't need to know. That is why parents need to be aware of not doing activities that are not suitable for their children to see because their children can record everything, and maybe they will also try it with their friends.

The current promiscuity can lead them to things that are not wanted such as gambling, because there is a lot of gambling, especially with online gambling, it is also easy to get them interested even if it is just to try if they cannot control themselves, addiction can occur, right what you said is that it is better for parents to tell them when they grow up by telling the bad side of gambling, maybe they will think hard before gambling and make considerations for the decisions they have to make.

No one knows a person's thinking, even good ones can change, human nature is changeable so it doesn't guarantee that they can be responsible when they get to know or even play gambling, because this has changed a lot of people who initially lived their lives well but after gambling became chaotic, is it good for parents to explain everything firmly to avoid things that are not wanted in children, because no parent wants their child's future to be destroyed because of gambling, and like I said unless they can control themselves well, maybe that can reduce the risk of addiction.

Even if a child saw their parents doing gambling, It's up to the parents how they will explain it to their child, teach them and explain it to them that gambling is not suitable for kids and much better if parents will discuss the disadvantages of doing, in that way, the curiosity if a child will lessen. I agree with you, with the guidance and support of the parent, It will prevent their kids to do the things they see what their parents doing.

This means that parent's concern to keep them from seeing what their parents are doing is very important so that their children do not ask or even learn how gambling works. And apart from that, parents also need to educate their children well and correctly so that their children don't do things that can cause them to get into trouble. The approach taken by parents can vary from one child to another because the character of each child will definitely be different too. Maybe parents can show their children why gambling can affect their lives later when their children grow up. With guidance and supervision from their parents, children can prevent themselves from taking the wrong path so that they won't get into trouble when they grow up.

That's actually a good point, where you just simply tell your children that it is just a simple game, but I still believed that they would still be learning that the mechanics of some games would need some bet if you do not inform them about the bad effects of gambling which they might think is normal cause they can't distinguish what's wrong and what's right. I think it's not really a good idea to bring your kids into an environment where people are betting up their money and relying on luck to win, it is not just about the game, it is that we are trying for them to not adapt and learn this kind of habits cause not only that they are a good imitator but also environment influence their behavior. When the time comes they encounter a gambling game that is familiar to them, for they are gonna be interested in playing it and it will continue which might lead to addiction. It's really much better for them to understand and learn when they can already decide for their own.

Though gambling isn't that bad for our kids to know because it's rather they're taught on the advantages and disadvantages of gambling by their parents than to allow them to grow up and be influenced to play gamble by their friends. It is very advisable for parents to teach and educate their children on this that can damage their lifestyle at an early age because if we do that they are going to grow up with what they are taught by their parents and it will make them to understand they dangers that surrounds taking such actions.

For me hiding ones gambling habit from the kids is not to good because whatever thing you're hiding from your kids one day they will definitely find out what you're hiding away from then so when they are aware of things you do that isn't really that good it will enable the kids to abstain from such practices when they are growing up. Even if they are to partake in that habit but they will be responsible in it since they've been taught about the do and don't by their parents.

Yes, that's right, in general, the assumption of people will be like that, that they think that children of that age will not be able to build their own involvement in gambling, at first glance, yes, it makes sense with the limitations that children have, but that's not entirely because obviously anything can happen unexpectedly. Your statement makes sense, that usually small children will be faster in responding and learning everything just by seeing other people do it, in addition to a child who is still unstable their curiosity level is very high, for anything that is fun then they will quickly understand it. Like using a cellphone, even though there are no special lessons for them to understand how a cellphone works but with the passage of time and with the childhood intelligence they have it is not uncommon to find children of that age who are already proficient in operating cellphones, it is one of the things that is unexpected.

So from that it is really not recommended for every parent to gamble in front of their child or around their child's environment. After all, there are still many other places and times for you to gamble, if you insist and do not care about the advice of others then it is the same as you risking your child's future as a result of uncontrolled gambling, so it's better to just avoid it.

Well, to be honest, I don't see anything really important here, playing gambling games in front of children is absolutely no big deal, children love games, and even if they don't know how to play, they would love to watch their parent playing games as watching can also be fun.

And why i said I see no big deal in this is that, like you said, children can not differentiate good from bad, same way they can not differentiate a gambling game from a normal video game which alot of our children play this days.

If you are gambling, like playing a slot game, there is no way your child will know that you are gambling except you tell him or her, what he or she will understand is that you are playing a game, simple.

And if you want, you can one day download a video game from Google playstore or iPhone app store and give the child to play, and make him or her understand that that was the same game he or she watched you play the other day, this way, they won't ever know anything about gambling until they grow up and start mingling with people outside like in school or so, who they may learn such thing if people they mingle with are people who already know about gambling.

Kids are always try to learn what are their elder doing. We are always follow their parents and try to learn then what is the parents activity the sea what are they doing and after that they try to do it there own. If you gamble in front of your children definitely they will do it. That's why childrens follow their parents so I never prefer a parents to do gamble in front of their children.