Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 61. (Read 12632 times)

There are children who are influenced to gamble by their parents and you can search it on Google, especially those kids who are living in the slums because there are no regulations there as long as you have money. Back then where I resided, they played billiards and were able to beat adults with their skills but some of them got bullied and stole their money from them. That's why environment and community matter whenever you want to save your children from such kind of scenario because even though you're not a gambler if almost everyone in the community is a gambler, there's a low chance to save your children from them.

Are these underaged children really victims of gambling, or they are victims of hostage of financial situation in their family or surrounding? Kids get lured by gambling as they only see easy and quick money there. If they would see quick and easy money in jobs, or drug dealing (worst scenario), then they wont gamble. I am 99% sure, that these underaged gambling kids are from poor familiar mostly. And I had to admin, that I have never saw a kid from rich parents gamble and being crazy about it. So imho that is all because of money, not because they saw someone play entertaining games with cards, chips or slots.

The good thing About this Debate is that we always learn things that are customs and things that exist in different countries with their great cultures, for me it is Something that should not be that they inhibit or hide the game, not at all because we are free peopl e, In my case, I am a person who does not hide anything, I am not afraid of anything , or anyone, and I can do whatever I want because I want to do it, that is something that Identifies that I like to Admit and do , just When I choose in the casino, When it comes to Making sports bets, I do it and I say it to anyone without any shame, but let's see, if you look at it, if we play it's not bad, if we don't do it either, well things will always be that way to be able to establish the limit, then in this order of ideas many things can be done that have to do with having a better time to make it known that this is a casino, the casinos were made so that people can enjoy, have fun, have a different time and can do the Difference in Terms of other activities.

Casinos have to be seen as what they are , not as fun or as a job, many people who have luck in casinos and win, think that a casino is for that, well they will always be wrong, the fact that a casino can give a a certain amount of money, it doesn't mean that people are with the same luck all the time, because winning in a casino is luck, and basically what is needed is that, if a person has a lot of luck and they win all the time, then that's great. It really is Something that is not so Common , the Only Problem is when that luck runs out , because when that Happens , what are they Going to do next ? If things don't flow Anymore, how are they? Then that is where you will realize that playing in a casino cannot be taken as a way to generate Income , only as fun where you can win or lose , that is why it is Considered a game for Adults.

This has happened in many places and many underage children have become victims of gambling because they learned about gambling from their older siblings or the adults around them. This is indeed sad because children should be able to learn other things that are more useful at their age and can provide other benefits after they grow up, but instead, they use their time to gamble even with their peers. This should be a serious concern for parents to pay better attention to their children. Otherwise, there is a tendency for children to continue gambling secretly without their parents knowing. In addition, if he does not have money, he can commit crimes such as stealing and even robbery. It would truly be a sad ending for them if they were involved in such a serious crime.

Besides even if there was no one and nothing at school that led them astray, kids these days have access to the internet and they can look for whatever interest them and even gamble online behind their parents back if they are motivated enough to do so.

So hiding your activities is not going to do much if you do not prepare your kids to understand why gambling or engaging in many other risky activities at their age is a mistake.

Dont gamble in front of kids and think that you have saved them from gambling addiction. But when time comes to go to school, prepare that they can do whatever they want, but pretend to be white sheeps at home. Gambling is least dangerous what they can learn while being outside parents supervision. So instead of wasting time thinking how to hide your gambling activity, educate kids more and build reputation or authority. 

Honestly that is very bad as we all know that Evey time we saw a child who gamble  then we felt so bad and anger why thier parents let them in a young age play in gambling. Honestly speaking it's all about guidance by parent's cause children will follow what they saw. And for example what you've said above mate in a very young age  he his in gambling then if he loss  all his money then where he go? So there's a chance that he steal money from his parent in order to gamble. And that is not a good example for a  young age kid.

Teenagers with little to no guidance and love from primarily the parents are open to such vices and is more likely to have an early start indulging themselves in such vices.
And they sometimes get the wrong notion that gambling could be a source where income can be made. I think that increases their interest in wanting to gamble. And in their ignorance on how addictive and financially damaging gambling can be, they’ll soon adapt gambling as a habit and if not careful, it would slowly become an addiction. That’s when school becomes less of a priority and stealing to indulge himself would not seem so bad anymore.

I can also say that if in anyhow the kids have something that occupy their mindset things that will not let them to be curious to whatever their parents are doing, they are safe and will continue being normal without any consequences that they might be in danger learning about gambling in their early stage, better to make sure that you are attentive enough it will help the development of your kids and it will avoid their curiosity.

That is another proof of my words, that we can gamble in front of kids, because they have others as authority and no matter how you hide or forbit to do something, then if someone does it or it is popular (or a trend between kids), kids will do it anyway. You can ask them or limit them from doing anything, but if their friends do, they would do it anyway.

I once met a 13 year old boy playing slots, when I asked him how he knew about the game he was playing, he said he knew about the game from his older brother, that really broke my heart to be honest. as parents (for those who are married and have children) never show slot games or other types of gambling to our children, they are still in the learning stage, don't let our carelessness disrupt their learning and playing period (there have been many cases of children becoming gambling addicts and they don't want to go to school and even steal their parents' money to gamble).

No matter if you do gambling in front of your kids or not, they will eventually get to know that you are a gambler even if you gamble hiddenly from them. Its very hard for parents to gamble, and children living in the same house does not know the gambling habit of their parents or even elder brothers (or sisters).

Yeah, if you want your children not to adopt gambling habits from parents, the parents would need to quit gambling. But then, would those kids will never gamble ? No, they will.
There are kids who will be engaged in gambling but their parents were not gamblers, why ? Because when the kids move in the society they will know about gambling and may try it at their friends or relative place.

Although I don’t think the idea of gambling in front of your kid is responsible, the idea of it not looking normal is arguable. People have and still do gamble in front of their kids that it doesn’t seem weird anymore. .
And I don’t think young children would get that interested in gambling when they’ve got of kiddies things that would occupy their time and mine.

Some kids being exposed to gambling either from the parents or wherever, would most likely develop an attraction and a liking to it as they’ve seen daddy gamble all the time.
It doesn’t look responsible to me gambling in front of your little ones.

So it's really better not to gamble in front of our children or other children. Because gambling does not bring good things to children who are young in mind and age. And it doesn't look normal, to be honest.

Then sometimes, even if we don't show the child that we are gambling, they will still have curiosity to learn about gambling, and of course what is imprinted in their minds is that gambling looks good; such concepts are seen in the scenario.

Take a look on a picture Ive posted. You say kids are very curious, but they also dont focus on things, as we parents do. While playing that operetion game, they might understand, that during operation, patient does not feel pain. So they would take scalpel, knife or any sharp object and go play surgeon with alive “toys”. Their “might happen” thing might really happen quicker than “might become addicted when grow up”. Thus, this game is allowed, and for many “gambling is bad”.

Once again, none here has given a prove that kids will grow up addicted if the watch us gamble. People operate just with “might” or “perhaps”.

These people can follow technological developments well so that they don't experience any difficulties in understanding them. It's not easy for other people, but not for them because they can learn by themselves without help from other people. Maybe if they are not guided properly, they could take the wrong path, and if that happens, it will be difficult to correct them or bring them back to the right path. That is why the need for guidance from parents is to continue to accompany their children during their growth period, and even though they are adults, parents must continue to supervise their children well. Moreover, children's social interactions nowadays are very free and can make children do things that are beyond people's minds.

Yes, they can be curious and want to find out more, and if parents can keep an eye on what their children are doing even when they are browsing the internet, they will only try to look at something that is their time. They also won't be curious about gambling because they don't see adults gambling. Children are now more critical in seeing things and will continue to ask questions until they are satisfied, and that is what I experienced with my nephew, who is just under 10 years old.

Playing Monopoly is different from gambling, at least in my opinion, because we teach children to prepare for their future by investing, and it's not gambling. At least, that's what I think, but I don't know if you think it's gambling.

I often invite my children to do physical activities rather than playing somewhere, you know what I mean. This is so they get used to doing physical activities and also helps them get used to moving.

It's true, and children are now used to the internet and can find out what they want easily. We won't know how they finally understand what they're looking for, and they might even teach us something we need to know. So they still need guidance from adults to take the right path. Most children do or take the wrong path because there is no supervision from their parents and there is an attitude of neglect from their parents so that children feel that they can do whatever they want.

That's the problem if you are the one who gives the idea for your children, I mean if they see you enjoying when playing your favorite gambling games, that curiosity will come out from them and start to find it out, and like what you mentioned, children of todays generation have that easy access in learning things out, with the easy use of internet they can quickly learn whatever it is that they are curios with, so be very careful in things that you are doing in front of your kids, especially those things that you would not like them to follow you or you don't like them to be involve with.

Yes, that's right, even at the age of 18 I think it's still a period of play at that age, because there are still opportunities to study again at college universities, after they enter the new university they have to think about their own needs that must be fulfilled by finding a job, or at that time they can choose good and bad things. They will also learn about gambling through word of mouth or advertisements on the internet. So in my opinion, there is no need to tell them about gambling, because when the time comes they will know by themselves and choose which things they should take.

The current socialization that uses a lot of cell phones or other gadgets is very vulnerable to getting to know gambling because with the current online gambling, it makes advertisements for gambling sites on the internet. Of course, those who cannot be away from gadgets will more or less know about gambling by themselves, but when they are adults, it does not mean that parents let go of their supervision, even though they are adults, there is nothing wrong with parents still supervising them because no parent wants their children to know things that are dangerous for themselves. And in my opinion, don't start the conversation to discuss gambling with children, if smart parents just see different behavior, they can guess that something is wrong with their children.

You see, you yourself mentioned that they would be curious the game itself, but not about how to make money through that game. You can go light mode and gamble without showing them your balance or real money if your gamble IRL. Watch their reaction.

If all of you are afraid that the kid would get addicted to getting money through gambling, then why Monopoly is recommended for kids starting from 8 years? There money are also involved. It can teach kids to make investments. And *Oooh nooo!*, the kid will spend all his and parents money on buying railroad stocks. Never play monopoly in front of your kids!

And I hope non of your kids would ever see Operation board game, as they will grow up into butchers and maniacs.

In todays era on which computer and other technology is really that rampant or something that it is really that mainly part of lives today then it isnt really that shocking that people who had been born today on past years are already that smart when it comes to things around specially on whatever transactions or communication or streams or whatsoever. This is why no matter how hard you do
or try your best on trying out to avoid to those gambling things in your kids, sooner or later they would really be encountering those things normally or naturally on which it would really be rather wise
that you should really be making or letting them know and realize on what are the cons of it so that on the time that they would be able to encounter it then they do at least have the idea
on what they should gonna do or simply they would really be avoiding it out.