Topic: Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. - page 10. (Read 2605 times)

Here in my country I have seen many people who, when they don't have money, don't post anything, they are completely anonymous people, it seems like they aren't alive because they disappear for a long time. but these same people, when they earn a lot of money thanks to some business or job, they start to carry out a wide campaign of exhibitionism on social networks, when men are posting photos with very expensive clothes and in luxurious places, they post a lot of cars and women and luxury food. I honestly constantly wonder what the purpose is for them to do these kinds of things, although I suspect they do it because they want to be admired and loved in society. but the problem with that is that the thieves, the criminals, the kidnappers when they look at this

They are seeing a great opportunity to steal from the house of that person who keeps posting luxury things, when they are women, when they don't have money they don't post anything about themselves, but when they have money they start posting photos with exaggeratedly short clothes. and they post food and luxury places, because the rich will invite them to travel to luxury places and give them money, in other words, they are prostituting themselves. The problem with this is that when they are old, they no longer have that beautiful body, and they go looking for a man to marry and will only end up with a man who is characterless, violent and a liar and who every day will be condemning them for their past. That's why, in my opinion, people shouldn't focus on showing off on social media. should live without showing off

Oh, I totally agree with you, that was not what I meant. Of course, most people share their victories not in order to sell anything, but as a protection mechanism like another member answered before or, imo, because we often like to pump our selfs when we are successful by showing these moments to others. This behavior os not specific to humans, but there is no doubt that our species behaves that way too.

That's right, I have the same view as you which is that I think bragging about winning in gambling is not really necessary, I understand that it is a great achievement especially if the amount of victory is very large which makes me think it is natural if you want to brag by publicizing it to others, especially some of your friends who are also gamblers, it doesn't matter because everyone always wants to look superior to others, but it is unnecessary to brag in an excessive way. One of the disadvantages is that it is very likely that some of your friends who are also gamblers will eventually ask for or claim the right to the amount of winnings that you have won, no problem if you are willing to share it, but if it turns out that you are one of the stingy people then obviously this situation will cause problems in your friendship with them. And besides that, as you said, there is a possibility of adverse effects that can be experienced by people who see it, there is a possibility that they will try to pursue the same winnings as you get with the aim of bragging back to you, but the worry is when they are not as lucky as you in the sense that they will spend more money.

Well, you do have a point, but sometimes it's not bad to share your achievements. Let's put it this way: you are a humble person who is gambling and suddenly wins a jackpot. Now a days, people have the habit of posting on social media about great things to them, so it can't be helpful to share those experiences, just not in the form of flexing or showing off to the people or viewers of your post or story. Also, be prepared, as many people might have different views about you doing gambling. It can't be helped because we are in a social media era where discrimination and saying bad stuff to others are scattered or are becoming a norm or habit for many people. So if you want a quiet life and you are winning at gambling, it's much better to stay low-key and do what you want without someone judging you.

I don't think we need to boast it big here yet just because of the euphoria you get when you hit a huge win it is normal you want to publish it somewhere where it will get glorified,like this forum.However I agree that we should not overdo it and it would be enough to just share the bet slip that you won it.I don't like sharing the replays anymore as it can have bad consequences on people watching the replay who can go and try to get that huge win themselves.

Yes, I completely agree with the OP. Even if you wanted to show off to your friends, relatives or other people, they will probably think about the game and they will definitely have an irresistible desire to play. They will do this with thoughts like “why am I worse than him or other winning players” or they just want to test their luck. And even if the player starts to lose, he will bet more and more furiously with each bet, trying to make the winnings higher than you told him. Behind these stupid actions will be human envy, depression, anger that a person has accumulated, whether at work or anywhere else.

The main thing I want to say is that even when telling someone about our victories, we seem to invite the person to play, but at this moment we don’t realize it, because we just want to show ourselves higher, increase our worth, or just show off like a little boy, and not an adult and reasonable person.

In gambling advertising especially social media post like stake.com doing they talk about both winning and losing to grab people's attention. They want to make it exciting, so they mention the possibility of getting prizes but also say that sometimes you might not win. This way they get both people who like taking risks and people who are careful about losing money to pay attention. It's like telling a story that makes gambling seem more interesting to a lot of different people.

Most gamblers who lose are unable to motivate themselves and will instead continue gambling because they think they can still win the gambling game even though it will still be difficult for them. When they lose, they should be able to understand that it is a sign to stop their gambling activities before the loss becomes even bigger. They must be able to control themselves from the temptation that will come after they lose, and that can make them return to gambling. That is why they must continue to exercise self-control so as not to be tempted by the offers they see at the casino. And when they win, they also don't need to tell anyone they know about their win because that is the gambler's privacy.

Because in the end in this case we must know that everyone just want to show their strong side and does not want to show the negative side that they have and that is quite normal because after all everyone wants to do that not only in gambling but in all aspects because they do not want to show that they are weak and always want to show their strength in the form of victory in gambling or other achievements that they have.

This is a form of normal self-protection from a human being because we know that when we show ourselves weak then we can indirectly get a situation where we become underestimated and not everyone expects something like this so they will continue to try to publish strength so that the stigma of everyone who sees us considers that we are someone who can do success and will not be underestimated.

That's why it's important for us to keep the story of our victory to ourselves because the victory we get doesn't necessarily have a positive impact, and besides, we shouldn't tell other people about our victory, because we never know whether it can encourage other people or vice versa, personally, I I prefer to keep it to myself, meaning I never tell or just show my winnings on my social media, unless my wife knows more about my winnings than anyone else.

I am a person who always takes care of the feelings of other gamblers, sometimes we never know that other people have a lot of debt because of gambling so they feel annoyed with themselves seeing us win at gambling, it definitely really hurts their feelings, that's why I always take care of other people's feelings by we gamble for ourselves and win for ourselves so we don't have to let other people know the story about our winnings at gambling, even though it might have a good impact, we can't see it from just one point of view, we have to look at it the other way around.

       -   Well, in that matter, it's really better for us to decide for ourselves whether or not we will be successful in the field of gambling here in the crypto space. You may be right, because we do not hold the mind of every gambler who has a gambling addiction.

We have heard a lot of bad news because of the effect or cause of having an addiction, which even leads to a crime situation or a gambling addict hurting someone just because of the greed they have.

As we all have different perspectives, it is true that we should exercise caution when sharing our gambling success stories with those who listen. While some listeners may see it as motivation to keep playing, others may see it negatively due to a bad gambling experience they had. I believe that various individuals may react differently when you share your own gambling stories with them. For example, some people may find your descriptions of gambling inspiring or amusing, while others may feel jealous, disapproving, or even triggered if they have experienced gambling addiction.
Of course, I think that sharing such experiences in a casual conversation may be received differently than doing so in a formal or professional setting.
I think it's also crucial that we keep sensitive or personal information about anyone who could have been engaged in your gambling activities private, especially if they haven't granted their consent. In summary, when we share our gambling success stories with others, we should eventually use careful consideration for their opinions and emotions.

It should be noted that not all gamblers share success stories because they want people to gamble. Most people who share success stories on their pages want subscribers so they can make money. This person can go to the length of fabricating stories just to make gambling so lucrative. Even when we consider the bookies it is still their mode of advert. They make winning so easy and this is so because they want more players so that they can make more money.

The above notwithstanding, when I win, I only tell my friends who are into gambling. If you are not into gambling then I don't have to tell you about my winnings because the information is not important to you. The reason why I don't bother sharing my loss is that all gamblers know that you must lose so why tell them what they know? The only exciting report is that you won and when I do I tell my guys and we eat the bookie's money together.

Well, some casinos offer the option for people to post their winning bet ID in public, to actually show that people are winning on their platform.

The social media postings also do not show all the prior losing bets and their accumelated amount subtracted from that win that was posted. (Example : You bet $5 per bet and only win after say 2 hours, spending $10 000 and then you win $9500..... Net profit = $500) 

It's like for example Instagram: people share perfect images about their apparently perfect lives. The problem is that, many times, it is all fake and, even if someone managed to get such a perfect life, sharing it so other people with normal or even miserable lives see and compare them is not very ethical.

With gambling, I can understand that people who win big can be eager to share their victory with others, but remember that people who lose don't often talk about it, so only sharing these good news creates a false impression about a very different reality that can be devastating to sensitive people who often lose.

Don't confuse the exception with the norm.

From your point of view, telling success stories in gambling is very important. You should be happy about your wins, but you should also think about how they might affect other people. Getting hooked on gaming is very dangerous, and people who are already hooked may use success stories to keep gambling instead of getting help. Be aware of the different things people around us are going through and be careful when we talk about these things. People can make the gambling community more helpful and understanding by being aware of what might happen if people share their wins and tell others about their good luck.

Maybe they are just happy with the result they earn for certain day and for them its a success since they survive the day for winning some amount on gambling. But they don't actually count the stats since obviously we know what would be the result.

What's more important to them is they get that win and that makes them feel more excited and enjoy on what they currently do.

This will really depend on someones preferences since not everyone have good mindset in each result they get since there are other people still not happy even if they win since they want more and always count how much overall they spend on weekly or monthly basis.

I'm not of the opinion you should be constantly meticulous about your words in order to not potentially harm someone around, especially when sharing personal achievements which were and are important for you, as this way you are expressing your happiness and emanating it around. It's wrong to be opressed to not express feelings anymore, being them good or bad emotions. If people around are going to get upset somehow, then it's their problem, not yours.

Of course, each case is unique, and you won't arrive to a burial laughing and joking, so use your reason and act accordingly to the present situation, but don't feel fearful of saying something, because you don't know how the reaction of the present people will be. Actually, people are too fearful about saying and expressing how they feel and their genuine personalities nowadays, which turns to be one big issue in our society, as people don't act naturally and authentically anymore. In the end people just get paranoid and artificial.

This is the same kind of mindset where people can't tell someone he or she is beautiful, because an ugly one who is present will feel offended. A gambler in loss has to be aware there are winning gamblers in the world, and there is nothing he can do about it besides accepting it's not his case. We can't have everything we want and things don't always turn to happen the way we want. To understand and accept it means to be mature to face reality.

There are ones who do really love on sharing up their success stories which actually its not really that a success but rather a temporal win on which it would really be wiping all the
frustrations that you do have been able to feel a while ago. On the moment you would really be able to win up some amount in gambling then there are ones who do
celebrate out on obvious manner on which there are ones who do just that being silent. This is why it would really be that depending on someones preference
and when it comes to their reaction then it would really be that different to each other. Just like on what others been saying that its none of their business
on how you would celebrate yourself about into those wins.

Well in this case things are very emphatic, there are more bad things than good, and more bad things than good, that will always be something that is evident in every sense, I personally have always noticed and realized something, When I'm about to look for casinos and things and they give me money, sometimes the slightest envy of the people makes me block out many more opportunities. I could say that when things like that are noticed, one should keep quiet, in fact He says that the polans you have have to be quiet.

Sometimes the best things are the ones that are not counted, if we count our things, things can be thrown back and nothing is fulfilled, so taking these things into consideration we will not be able to emerge, it is better than the profits in it don't tell each other too much, because first the envy of many, secondly the ideas that they want to steal will always look for a way to do it.

If humanity were that, a little more human, then the victories of others make the eprosans happy and few suffer from envy, not everyone thinks like that and few make a difference, however when we are in a casino that is why Crypto makes the difference, so we do it in the most anonymous way possible to avoid these types of problems. When we are expecting some privacy, we are always going to do the best we can so that we are not tracked. There have been many thefts when the companies announced They have crypto in fact many have been robbed from their home, criminals come in and threaten them with a gun, and that makes them rob them, so sometimes things are better kept secret, when it comes to money we should be secretive in that sense and it doesn't do much to stop others from starting to invent, because the bad things are the ones that predominate the most, so it's better to avoid them