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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

The less people know about you, the happier you will be.

I think that is very true. At least it has been, for me. Most people will choose to exploit your weaknesses if it serves them. This does not go for ALL people, of course. But I have found it useful to hedge your bets against human nature.

And everyone is differently affected and need different cures. So they are the only ones who know how to best help themselves.

Success stories are great motivators though. That alone may also help people battle their addiction.

Come in mind that we are just humans on which we are really that beings who do have feelings or emotions on which on the time that you would really be having those kind of winnings then
you would really be just that simply having those normal reactions that you would really be tending to boast it up. Yes, it might make others to be that desperate but its none of their business
or right on what you should gonna say and what you shouldnt. This is why it is really that common that there would really be those winning gamblers are really that being too tactful
in regarding into their wins on which its better to let them celebrate at least. If we are really that in concern into those people who might be able to hear out then its their
fault if they would be making these wins to be their inspiration on playing more with gambling.

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Quote from: maydna on February 02, 2024, 04:39:10 PM

And that means we shouldn't share our winning stories with other people carelessly because that could trigger them to follow what we do. If they follow us in gambling but they don't have good self-control, they will only plunge themselves into gambling, and in the end, they will become addicted to gambling. When they still don't realize it, their gambling addiction will get worse, and later, we may be blamed for telling them about our winnings even though we had no intention of inviting them to gamble. It is the fault of those who do not know what needs to be prepared before they gamble and what they must have before gambling. They are fascinated by the wins we get and want to win like us, so that will make them gamble like we do.

The gambler had their own winning and losing story,but he need to motivate himself on the losing story begin.Because when the losing was possible in the gambling,the gamblers should accept their will be the next story of winning.The gambler who able to control themselves with the game can able to make the biggest money in the gambling site.The gamblers who can control to the temptation of playing more game after the big winning able to withdraw the funds from the gambling site.The rest of the gamblers will lose their money in the gambling site by the greedy on the gambling game.Greedy was the enemy to the gamblers to get satisfied with the dollars which he won based on their ability.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

The less people know about you, the happier you will be.

I think that is very true. At least it has been, for me. Most people will choose to exploit your weaknesses if it serves them. This does not go for ALL people, of course. But I have found it useful to hedge your bets against human nature.

And everyone is differently affected and need different cures. So they are the only ones who know how to best help themselves.

Success stories are great motivators though. That alone may also help people battle their addiction.

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Sharing gambling victories without losses is incomplete. Telling half the tale and expecting cheers is like that. I usually say, "If you talk the talk, walk the walk." Sharing your luck, however modest, isnt about bragging; its about making someone else happy.

Yes, worrying what others think is smart, not weak. Like collecting data. Every response - good or bad - is feedback. I can improve my social game. Why not make every tip a personal growth tool? I consider that a win.

While we love gambling and its stories, let's remember the human aspect. Sharing wins or moral support can make all the difference. The feedback from others? Bring it. Everything's part of the game and keeps it interesting. Gambling is about the experience and the connections we establish, not simply the money.

The approach you take towards sharing your winnings in gambling shows a positive and loving mindset. Acknowledging defeat as an integral part of the storytelling process shows wisdom and a holistic understanding of the game. Treating shared experiences as a way to bring joy to others and foster stronger social bonds adds a positive aspect to the gambling experience. Embracing feedback, whether constructive or critical, as an opportunity for personal development also shows maturity and balance in one's approach to gambling activities.

Quote from: len01 on February 01, 2024, 01:19:13 PM

maybe what you mean is telling about success in winning but not telling about the amount.
there's no harm in telling anyone about winning from gambling, but you still have to look at your friend's condition, whether they are feeling well or are sad about losing from gambling because the impact is not only to make you jealous, but your friend might borrow money to bet and catch up. it's a loss and of course you will think that if you lend him money, you will only lose again and he won't be able to return your money, but if you don't give him a loan, your friend will definitely be angry.
well, that's when the bad impact of telling stories about winnings to the wrong people is like misleading yourself and actually the right friend to tell the story to is only your partner.
giving a little money to another friend and telling about the win is a very wise way, but it still has bad consequences in the end.
I prefer to hide everything about defeats and wins to avoid other risks as I said.

thinking about other people? yes, it is necessary but I won't do it because usually they will continue to approach us when we get a big win but they will avoid us when we have nothing left.

By paying attention to our friends' emotional and financial balance and condition, and by being aware of the social consequences of discussing our gambling adventures, we can proactively avoid potential problems, such as unwise loan applications. It is wise to carefully choose which friends to confide in and refrain from divulging specific figures regarding our wins or losses, as this can maintain the integrity of our relationships and reduce the detrimental impact on both parties involved. Additionally, upholding a sense of financial confidentiality serves as an additional layer of protection against further harm.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

As practice shows, rational arguments do not work on addicted gamblers - otherwise they would not even start (or continue) spending money on gambling. Yes, other people's success stories can cause harm (psychologically) to people because they compare their results with someone else's and maybe become jealous or feel their need more acutely. But this is the real world - you cannot hide from it behind rose-colored glasses, you must be able to accept it as it is. If someone cannot do this, then this is more likely their problem and not yours, and you should not stop being proud (even publicly) of your achievements. The main thing is that it be in an adequate form and not in the form of arrogant boasting or something like that.

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Quote from: asyakashi on February 02, 2024, 09:48:17 AM

Indeed, telling about gambling success will indirectly encourage gamblers and try as much as possible to follow our style, but on the other hand, people will ignore it because they know the true meaning of gambling, depending on the character of the person who hears it.

And that means we shouldn't share our winning stories with other people carelessly because that could trigger them to follow what we do. If they follow us in gambling but they don't have good self-control, they will only plunge themselves into gambling, and in the end, they will become addicted to gambling. When they still don't realize it, their gambling addiction will get worse, and later, we may be blamed for telling them about our winnings even though we had no intention of inviting them to gamble. It is the fault of those who do not know what needs to be prepared before they gamble and what they must have before gambling. They are fascinated by the wins we get and want to win like us, so that will make them gamble like we do.

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Indeed, telling about gambling success will indirectly encourage gamblers and try as much as possible to follow our style, but on the other hand, people will ignore it because they know the true meaning of gambling, depending on the character of the person who hears it.

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Quote from: mvdheuvel1983 on February 02, 2024, 05:14:18 AM

A lot of things has been said concerning the topic of discussion but I think it is based on your relationship with someone that will make you to even talk about your winning and your losses in gambling.To some people your story be it winning or loss may motivate them to give gambling a tryer to some it may cause them to reduce or stop gambling entirely so it depends on who you tell your story. Privacy should be one of the things we consider when discussing with people especially stories that involves investments i believe it depends on personal understanding of everyone who's into any kind of investment.

Your story will affect each individual differently and you won't know how it affects them therefore not telling them your gambling story regardless of it being a win or lose would be better. If the story motivate them then they'll start gambling and as beginners, they have more chances of doing it all wrong due to the greed they'll be getting from your story. They've seen someone that won from gambling and they will want to also win but they don't yet understand how gambling works.

The story can also cause envy and jealousy which will make them to plan evil towards you. There are stories of friends betraying each other after winning together or getting to know about the wealth that their friend has gotten from gambling. Being private is the best thing to do and don't tell other individuals about your success or failure in gambling. It should be a personal experience so you don't regret telling others.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I usually hate to brag about my gambling winnings. Those winnings are mostly based on luck and luck just comes and goes. There's no point for me to brag about having luck, because my luck would most likely go away tomorrow. And I hate bragging in general.
Almost all gambling addicts are mentally unstable and I agree that bragging with your success in front of a gambling addict could have negative consequences. The problem is that many casinos use testimonials from gamblers, who won money as a part of their marketing campaigns. How can you stop the casinos from doing such sneaky marketing moves?

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

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This is very true, every story you hear can either make you or break you. There are persons who may be at the verge of giving up on gambling, but when they hear the success story of a fellow gambler, the decided not to quit and they get to smile at the end. While others it may be the nail on their coffin, as they keep trying their luck and they become more broke and depressed. Your advice is good but I don't think it can actually stop gamblers from talking about their success story because some persons feel good doing this.

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Quote from: Baofeng on February 02, 2024, 05:07:42 AM

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

Everyone has a different view on this matter and that's why again those who see any information about your winnings don't always like it, because it's true that not everyone likes the winnings you share on social media or in this forum because there are still many people who experience defeat at gambling and will take it as something serious, like a kind of ridicule, but for true gamblers they will consider it as good motivation that there is still a win at gambling that can be obtained.

Everyone has different characteristics and behavior in viewing someone's pleasure and victory at gambling, sometimes they are angry with themselves because they feel like they have failed and did not get the full victory as you shared, there are even people who regret taking quick decisions that make them end up losing a lot of money in gambling, that's what drives a lot of views from the public, that's why I never like sharing my winning stories on social media. It also prevents friends from borrowing money from me later. lol Grin

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A lot of things has been said concerning the topic of discussion but I think it is based on your relationship with someone that will make you to even talk about your winning and your losses in gambling.To some people your story be it winning or loss may motivate them to give gambling a tryer to some it may cause them to reduce or stop gambling entirely so it depends on who you tell your story. Privacy should be one of the things we consider when discussing with people especially stories that involves investments i believe it depends on personal understanding of everyone who's into any kind of investment.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I was really thinking about it, but yeah it could be true though, but within our circle of friends, most of the time we will share our win, not of the intention to give them some when you win, but I guess we just want to compare. Maybe it was a competition from within our circles or just bragging right, hehehe. But for those you don't know or at least not that close, yeah, maybe it's not good to tell them that you are winning and what is the amount.

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

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What about someone whom in his circle has no friends that are into gambling? Anyway thanks for the advice, some gamblers do get motivated by others winnings while some get depressed, but they get depressed because they have tried multiple times to win in gambling with no luck so far, I won't dare get depressed because you win in gambling while I don't, because it's complete luck at work.

Sharing success stories is not a great idea apart from gambling, people who share their success stories are easily becoming a target of bad people around the world, now kidnappers will go on social media to look into peoples stories, see who just do something great, like build a giant hotel or houses and so on, then they try to find them in the real life.

You are you, don't me moved about what happened to others around you, your time will come if it's bound to happen, especially in gambling, you can't sleep on it, your friends or people around you just get lucky, when they lose money I bet they won't be ready to share that with you, every gamblers have their bad days and good days.

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Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

If you can think sharing your success in gambling will make other to force to gamble for them, I see no difference with:

1. Sharing a success in cryptocurrency, they will force you which coin you invested and trade for them.
2. Sharing a success in real life e.g. promotion, they will force you to give them a job.
3. Sharing a as an athlete, they will force you to share your winnings a little bit to them.

In the end, they will ask something that gives them benefit even though they did nothing for you.

Unless you straight up reject those person who are requesting these things to you. It's just that there are people who don't understand the struggle and the risk we face whenever we get a success from what we are doing. I find it no problem sharing our winnings especially if the person can understand the struggles I face to get the success, but if there are other person who I know new to the thing and just want to ride my success, I will mostly no entertain them.

Atleast for the people who requested to join the ride to success, they should at least learn the fundamentals or know the risks. It is hard to be blamed if you failed, also it's an additional pressure if someone is waiting for your success.

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Quote from: AnonBitCoiner on February 02, 2024, 12:18:24 AM

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

If you can think sharing your success in gambling will make other to force to gamble for them, I see no difference with:

1. Sharing a success in cryptocurrency, they will force you which coin you invested and trade for them.
2. Sharing a success in real life e.g. promotion, they will force you to give them a job.
3. Sharing a as an athlete, they will force you to share your winnings a little bit to them.

In the end, they will ask something that gives them benefit even though they did nothing for you.

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Quote from: 0t3p0t on February 02, 2024, 02:53:32 AM

Yeah there is always two sides of the story and of course choices as well. Some people tell stories of victory but it's the opposite of what had happened to them but can't blame them because they also have reasons why they do that. There is this honest gambler that just wanted to share his or her winnings. It is actually up to us whether we get inspirations to those stories or not but the important thing is that we are enjoying the game but yeah it is really not everyone deserves to hear our winnings in gambling.

share it with the right people. Share stories of wins or losses in gambling with people who have the same activity. so there will be feedback for us.
but nowadays you certainly see quite a lot of people sharing their wins on social media via screenshots. I guess it really shouldn't be done. it might make things even more difficult for itself if more people don't like it.

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Yeah there is always two sides of the story and of course choices as well. Some people tell stories of victory but it's the opposite of what had happened to them but can't blame them because they also have reasons why they do that. There is this honest gambler that just wanted to share his or her winnings. It is actually up to us whether we get inspirations to those stories or not but the important thing is that we are enjoying the game but yeah it is really not everyone deserves to hear our winnings in gambling.

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Quote from: bitterguy28 on February 01, 2024, 07:15:09 AM

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

Some people feel that sharing their winning moments in gambling can give them pride. They will see how many people will congratulate them so it will give satisfaction to those who win.
But someone who doesn't care about that will keep their winnings to themselves and only tell about it to those close to them. They feel it will make them forget that winning is due to their luck in gambling.
I agree to share moments of success with my wife but not to share moments of victory in gambling because not all wives can accept the fact that we gamble and win Grin

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Quote from: bitterguy28 on February 01, 2024, 07:15:09 AM

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

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