Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. - page 11.

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Quote from: Dewi Aries on December 31, 2023, 05:19:27 PM

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided.

This also includes if someone is lucky to win, it does not necessarily mean that he will be successful in the future. This means that in gambling there is no such thing as success, but winning will lead to success if he can truly consistently maintain self-control. However, we often see people who win, they cannot maintain control well so their winnings are in vain, because they believe it will be easy to win again and in the end they will often lose and in fact their life will get worse because of their own mistakes.
Of course, it is better to keep your winnings a secret than to talk about them with other people, because it is not certain that other people will be able to accept them or even use the winnings for bad things.

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Quote from: zuzie on December 31, 2023, 11:57:27 AM

Quote from: |MINER| on December 31, 2023, 05:48:45 AM

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's true, and it has become commonplace in society that someone can become selfish and jealous of seeing other people's success and this also makes someone try to get the same success as other people.
It would be better if we were successful in gambling, it would be better if we just kept quiet because that is the best step so that later we don't cause problems for other people because the nature of social jealousy is different for each person and of course the success we receive is not necessarily acceptable. by other people. .

Honestly for myself I would not say that it is success but rather a victory that they get for the luck they get in the gambling session they do so that they can get a number of wins, on the other hand we have to distinguish victory from success because in gambling I think there is no word success but only winning because of luck. Moving on to the topic, from what you said of course it could be a possibility for people to feel jealous of the wins that other people or even their own friends managed to get so as the OP said that it has the potential to make them feel motivated to join in hoping to get the same fate as those who managed to win.

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 05:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

This is good advice generally, we should all be humble because we don't know the circumstances of people around us and you might actually cause yourself some unnecessary trouble if you go spouting off your successes too loudly. It's best to avoid introducing people who are unfamiliar with gambling into the scene, because it can be highly destructive if someone is lacking in self control or does not understand the fundamental odds that are set against them, a couple wins at the early stages can cost them a lifetime of ruin potentially. The only setting that it might be acceptable to talk about your gambling, although keep mention of any big wins to a minimum, is in specific gambling locations like casinos.

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Quote from: |MINER| on December 31, 2023, 05:48:45 AM

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's true, and it has become commonplace in society that someone can become selfish and jealous of seeing other people's success and this also makes someone try to get the same success as other people.
It would be better if we were successful in gambling, it would be better if we just kept quiet because that is the best step so that later we don't cause problems for other people because the nature of social jealousy is different for each person and of course the success we receive is not necessarily acceptable. by other people. .

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Everything has two sides, so when you show your winning to many people, be prepared to receive anything that you won't expect.

There are many possibilities:
1. The skeptic: they will keep asking and denying if you really win.
2. The beggar: they will ask you money because they think you're rich.
3. The enemy: it's either your friend or a new person that ask you a strategy to win, if you not tell it or your friend are lose after using your strategy, they will blame you.
4. The robber: they will search any information about you in order to steal your money.
etc.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 05:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed.

So maybe it's up to them to decide how they feel about it? If someone can feel good or motivated with my win, who am I to decide if they should or shouldn't hear about it?
I'm not a person who likes to brag, but when you win, you're happy and you share that with others. Person who feels envious or depressed with that news has a problem. I'm not to blame for that problem buy that person's inability to cope with the real world. You can't save everyone and you can't think about everyone around you because you'll never do right by them all.

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Quote from: Saisher on December 31, 2023, 09:36:03 AM

I prefer not to talk about my gambling activity to anyone, especially to people who are close to me, if I tell them about my winnings they may be tempted to try gambling, if I tell them my losses they might think that I'm too addicted to stop, and advice me to stop gambling because they think there's no logic in gambling if you're losing, even I tell them that I'm playing for fun.
So whatever you tell them whether your losses or your winnings it will backfire, so it will do you good if you keep everything to yourself, it will save you from criticism and from influencing other people from playing and you will not get into any debate about your gambling, you are not going to be in a position to be defensive.

I usually share stories related to gambling with friends who are fellow gamblers. and those are close friends who usually exchange experiences and information related to gambling.
Some gamblers, maybe like me, have a hangout that includes almost all gamblers. but I chose to play alone somewhere else. meeting friends just to tell stories, although some of them still play at hangouts.
but I will usually be more closed about sharing anything related to my gambling. I limit what I need to tell and what I don't need to.

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Quote from: cryptomaniac_xxx on December 30, 2023, 06:40:23 AM

I'm not sure about it though, I might hear someone win big, but that is, I'm not a free loader. I think it's ok though, I mean of course everyone is going through phases in life specially in gambling. But gamblers have to face that, if you can't take it, then stop for a moment so that it won't affect you mentally.

Or do something that will let you forget about gambling. And if by chance you tell someone then they are depressed or something, it's not going to be your fault though. I met other gamblers throughout that boast of their winning but that it's, no consequences whatsoever.

Free loader or not, there is no way that we can't avoid it. Also even if we are not into gambling, as we can hear it on the news or on some random talks. It is okay for some but for some it isn't. The effect to us, can also depend on the story of the gambler. Whether we accept things or not, I think we still can get used to them later on, so things aren't going to be that heavy anymore.

If we are an over thinker and then we don't want to hurt someone else feelings even if we don't mean it, then it's better to just keep things for ourselves. I know it can be hard but if the things that we fear of, came in to a reality, then that is going to be much harder.

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Quote from: Outhue on December 31, 2023, 04:18:24 AM

Gambling wins is not even something to share to others, how will this motive anyone? When it's not a degree or a badge of honor, or even a safe way to success, if you win big today from gambling it doesn't mean you won't be broke again, and some people made millions from gambling only to lose everything back to gambling again, success from gambling is not something to celebrate.

If I win big I will rather keep it a secret, and that's why I choose online gambling, I don't want anyone to know that I am into gambling, so I have no reason to tell anyone that I win a lot from gambling, you are right that this can motive the stupid ones, because gambling is a game of luck, how can you be motivated by something that's all about pure luck?

The skills gambling may teach are acknowledged, not celebrated. Regarding discretion, your approach makes sense. Gambling is risky, so hide earnings. Prevents unwanted attention, envy, and expectation. Online platforms offer anonymity for privacy. Another perspective is that sharing experiences, especially in gambling, can promote learning and community growth. Risk and reward are better understood by discussing techniques and risks. Giving insight into a misunderstood world, not encouraging reckless gambling

Gambling is primarily luck, but it takes strategy and skill. Winning is about talent and chance, not luck. Influence requires balance. Our stories may teach, not deceive. We use wins and losses to demonstrate that gambling is a complex combination of luck, skill, and sometimes just fun. Enjoyable but risky, gambling requires respect for its volatility and luck

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Quote from: piebeyb on December 31, 2023, 06:44:16 AM

Quote from: |MINER| on December 31, 2023, 05:48:45 AM

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's what many gamblers should do when they win at gambling, it's better to keep quiet and close themselves off, because not everyone has to know about the wins we get because maybe there are also many people who are jealous of our success, making someone do something they shouldn't do, especially If someone is in the process of stopping their gambling addiction, it will certainly have a bad impact on that person.

Believe me, there is no need to prove to anyone that we won against the dealer, always remember when the dealer beats us, maybe more than we won, how much we have lost in gambling and it should be a slap to ourselves so we don't just show off our victory. because you win against the dealer, the best advice is to try to be quiet and enjoy it yourself without other people knowing.

Gambling victories are best kept private, in my experience. They can unwittingly stimulate gambling addicts in online forums. Being sympathetic to others' journeys is key. Gambling should be fun, not stressful. I also find it grounding to focus on losses rather than celebrate successes. It reminds us that the house usually wins. A humbling idea that promotes responsible gambling. Finding a balance between thrill and risk is key.

I like your self-enjoyment point. Wins should remain personal joys. Gambling should be personal and sensitive of its effects on others. Responsible gambling and community service are both important.

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I prefer not to talk about my gambling activity to anyone, especially to people who are close to me, if I tell them about my winnings they may be tempted to try gambling, if I tell them my losses they might think that I'm too addicted to stop, and advice me to stop gambling because they think there's no logic in gambling if you're losing, even I tell them that I'm playing for fun.
So whatever you tell them whether your losses or your winnings it will backfire, so it will do you good if you keep everything to yourself, it will save you from criticism and from influencing other people from playing and you will not get into any debate about your gambling, you are not going to be in a position to be defensive.

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Some gamblers cannot stop doing this, it's one of their motivation why they want to win so they can boast that they are winning and other people are wrong in their impression that you cannot win in gambling.
Even though they lose money, they will hide it and only tell their victories, they don't care who is listening to their story, some gamblers are addicted to telling their winnings to the point they are faking their winnings so that they can tell people that they are good in gambling.

This is just one of the symptoms of people who are addicted to gambling, they deny their losses and boast about their winnings, they tell everybody that they can win in gambling, and it creates a bad effect on newbies, this is why newbies should not just believe on gamblers and pick the right gamblers who will give them advice on how to become a good gambler, not someone who is addicted to story telling.

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Quote from: |MINER| on December 31, 2023, 05:48:45 AM

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

that's true, because in my opinion everyone definitely has their own selfish attitude, and that makes them always jealous of what other people get, and in my opinion when someone wins at gambling they don't have to tell everyone, because of the nature of each different people so maybe many of them respond to winning differently, obviously there are those who take it casually, and maybe there are others who take it seriously, where they become motivated to win at gambling which makes them themselves are addicted to gambling, even though being addicted to gambling doesn't guarantee that they will get the same win as the previous person, because everyone's luck is different.
That's true, not everyone deserves to hear about someone's victory because it will bring something of its own, it also depends on the people who respond to it.

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Quote from: |MINER| on December 31, 2023, 05:48:45 AM

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's what many gamblers should do when they win at gambling, it's better to keep quiet and close themselves off, because not everyone has to know about the wins we get because maybe there are also many people who are jealous of our success, making someone do something they shouldn't do, especially If someone is in the process of stopping their gambling addiction, it will certainly have a bad impact on that person.

Believe me, there is no need to prove to anyone that we won against the dealer, always remember when the dealer beats us, maybe more than we won, how much we have lost in gambling and it should be a slap to ourselves so we don't just show off our victory. because you win against the dealer, the best advice is to try to be quiet and enjoy it yourself without other people knowing.

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Quote from: Pandu Geddon on December 30, 2023, 10:34:40 AM

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but you certainly see that there are people who share their winnings with other people. some of my friends did that, sharing winning screenshots from the slot sites they usually played on. For friends who are used to gambling, there may not be a problem. but there may be negative sentiments from people or their families if someone doesn't like gambling.
It would be better not to share our defeats or wins with anyone. play for ourselves and don't need to listen to what people say.

Yes, I have seen someone share their winnings with other people, and that was my friend who managed to win from a gambling game. Yes, some people cannot accept such things because they think negatively about gambling. And we should not tell other people about our defeats and victories because it could cause problems for us.
And instead of experiencing things like that, it's better to keep them for ourselves so that things don't happen that we don't want. Besides that, keeping that from others will save us time from people who want to say many things about what we did in gambling.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 05:33:52 PM

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I didn't like sharing my wins or losses with everyone because I like keeping it secret. I can comfortably share my wins with only people that are close to me like my relatives and friends. Anybody who is engaging in gambling should know that other people's stories shouldn't determine how they gamble because wins are unpredictable. These stories could serve as a motivation for us not to give up, however we should gamble within our means. I don't also think that an experienced gambler will be moved by these stories because he has understood how the gambling space works.

Another reason why broadcasting your win is not appropriate is because of safety reasons. You might be a target of criminals if they know that you have won big.

Quote from: aioc on December 31, 2023, 05:51:26 AM

You are right that gamblers should be careful about who they are telling their story of winning, it could be people who just started out in gambling or it could be people who do not know about gambling but tempted to do so because they become inspired by what you're showing them.
In the end, you get the blame for misleading these newbies.

Some of the wins that are publicized on social media might even be fake, which is why it shouldn't be a motivating factor. We have seen cases where some casinos partner with celebrities to promote the gambling firm by showing their wins and losses to their followers on social media. This is why newbies should be careful not to believe everything they see on the internet.

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Quote from: moneystery on December 31, 2023, 04:33:04 AM

but we cannot dictate to someone not to share their success story with others, because it is their right to share their success story and whether it will have a positive or negative impact on other people is none of their business.

because it's quite funny when someone shares their success story in their gambling life, and someone reads it and uses it as motivation for his gambling, but unfortunately he fail and end up spending a lot of money without getting anything. but can the person who shared the story be blamed? i don't think so, because he only shared his story, the one who is to blame is the person who used the story as motivation for himself because he was not wise in acting and thinking.

This is what im saying that we are free to express our feelings and emotions on which it is really just that normal on the time that we do have some wins on playing gambling. No one would really intentionally sharing up their success stories just to make someone desperate on playing gambling or making them impulsive but rather it would really be just that normal that they would really be happy
on the time that they do make up some hits.So whether we dont really like for those things to be said then it cant really be just that stopped for someone to tell on what they do feel and what are the things that they do have in mind. So for someone who do be able to hear out those kind of boast of winnings then it would really be up to us whether we do let ourselves getting impulsive or not.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 05:33:52 PM

Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

It's very tempting to brag about your winnings because not every day do you get to win, in our gambling journey there are more losses than winnings and to boast about our ego and to make it appear that we are doing good we tend to brag about our winnings, we have seen this happening also here in Bitcointalk, posting their winning telling people this is to inspire and not to brag but anyway you look at it it's meant to brag.

You are right that gamblers should be careful about who they are telling their story of winning, it could be people who just started out in gambling or it could be people who do not know about gambling but tempted to do so because they become inspired by what you're showing them.
In the end, you get the blame for misleading these newbies.

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That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling. I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

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