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Quote from: topbitcoin on January 07, 2024, 11:28:04 AM

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

maybe what you mean is telling about success in winning but not telling about the amount.
there's no harm in telling anyone about winning from gambling, but you still have to look at your friend's condition, whether they are feeling well or are sad about losing from gambling because the impact is not only to make you jealous, but your friend might borrow money to bet and catch up. it's a loss and of course you will think that if you lend him money, you will only lose again and he won't be able to return your money, but if you don't give him a loan, your friend will definitely be angry.
well, that's when the bad impact of telling stories about winnings to the wrong people is like misleading yourself and actually the right friend to tell the story to is only your partner.
giving a little money to another friend and telling about the win is a very wise way, but it still has bad consequences in the end.
I prefer to hide everything about defeats and wins to avoid other risks as I said.

thinking about other people? yes, it is necessary but I won't do it because usually they will continue to approach us when we get a big win but they will avoid us when we have nothing left.

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Quote from: topbitcoin on January 07, 2024, 11:28:04 AM

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Quote from: topbitcoin on January 06, 2024, 02:58:40 PM

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

Sharing gambling victories without losses is incomplete. Telling half the tale and expecting cheers is like that. I usually say, "If you talk the talk, walk the walk." Sharing your luck, however modest, isnt about bragging; its about making someone else happy.

Yes, worrying what others think is smart, not weak. Like collecting data. Every response - good or bad - is feedback. I can improve my social game. Why not make every tip a personal growth tool? I consider that a win.

While we love gambling and its stories, let's remember the human aspect. Sharing wins or moral support can make all the difference. The feedback from others? Bring it. Everything's part of the game and keeps it interesting. Gambling is about the experience and the connections we establish, not simply the money.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that? Cheesy

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

Funny as it may seems but that's true, much better if we keep this kind of thing to ourself because it's just like we are exposing our financial privacy or other source of money by telling it to other people, even if the closest friend of ours. It seems like it's hard to explain to them again and again, and maybe later in the end, when they try to do it and they lose, they'll blame us for what happened. We have our own ways of how to share things with other people, but for me, when it comes to financial matter or source of income, I prefer to keep it to myself as confidential.

Maybe not totally exposing our privacy in means of financial aspects but rather we can be used by those people especially if they need something from us. Their are people want to exploit something especially if they know they have something to get from us that's the reason why its really better to keep silent on everything especially on our win so that we will not get bothered by those opportunist. People need to understand that we are not selfish on our wins but rather we are just careful since winning on gambling is temporary and also we need to protect ourselves for any harmful possibilities that's why its important for us to secret all activities related on financials spendings to avoid issues that might come to us.

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Generally it is wrong to tell someone of how much money that you earn, because most people out there are going through a lot of shit, they are just looking at someone or something to prey on, I had a news in my locality of how a guy won 4.7million box on football betting, the news spread all over my locality, this guy was the one that told people of his winning, in the night breaking the next day, arm robbers visited him, and they were demanding for that money they heard he won, he said that he haven't cash out the winning from the locall betting shop, they thought he was lieing that he doesn't want to give them the money, so he was shot dead in front of his love one, why am I saying This? For your own security, it's really wrong to tell someone of how much you are worth or how much you own, if it's really a huge amount of money.

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Quote from: arjunmujay on February 01, 2024, 03:09:21 AM

Quote from: agustina2 on January 31, 2024, 06:30:35 PM

Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that? Cheesy

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

Funny as it may seems but that's true, much better if we keep this kind of thing to ourself because it's just like we are exposing our financial privacy or other source of money by telling it to other people, even if the closest friend of ours. It seems like it's hard to explain to them again and again, and maybe later in the end, when they try to do it and they lose, they'll blame us for what happened. We have our own ways of how to share things with other people, but for me, when it comes to financial matter or source of income, I prefer to keep it to myself as confidential.

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Quote from: agustina2 on January 31, 2024, 06:30:35 PM

Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that? Cheesy

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

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Don't cut the fun of others if they are sharing their wins, so what if they have won and shared it? Just quickly scroll to other things and threads so that you won't see it.
I don't think that you're jealous and don't pass the burden of your emotion and feelings to the people that are happily sharing their achievements and you may never know how long they've waited to just win that moment.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that? Cheesy

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

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I have lamented in this thread before and I made it know that gambling is a game of luck and neither you and lose is not something a gambler have to or need to campaign outside concerning it Victory in gambling and also it's sad mood in gambling, this the things we have to know, speculating or announcing your wining in gambling to everyone is not encouraging due to you don't know who ha e you in negative mind and you don't know if procrastination will continue to be your surname when publicise your wining to the world, so gambling is something of secret and it suppose to remain secret

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Everyone has different ways of reasoning but it all depends on how they see's it otherwise there is nothing wrong sharing success story with people over there, only that they are naive and can go to utilized the information in other way round where it could affects them entirely. when you said that there is nothing wrong with but just of human nature they don't wanna hear someone made good money from something they've been trying for years and has no success. Then we also say that anyone who goes to utilized this information the other way round can be seen as irresponsible gambler.

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Quote from: usekevin on January 06, 2024, 03:30:25 PM

Quote from: topbitcoin on January 06, 2024, 02:58:40 PM

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

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Quote from: oktana on January 06, 2024, 03:59:04 PM

Very important to note otherwise you will be in unnecessary situations. Imagine if you won $1M and you go about telling everyone who knows you. They will all come to you saying that they want their own cut of the money, or may even start telling you their life problems and all sort of tales. Asides that, you don’t really know who is your friend. The person you trust could have envy and plan something bad for you. At least such bad friendship stories have been heard numerous times. Merely telling someone you won is still motivation.

On the time that you do hit up some million winning then it would really be just that common sense that you wont really be that making yourself that too obvious on which on the situation or condition that you have said that people would really be that flocking around you and telling and asking about money or whatsoever since they do know that you have won big. There's a right time for that, its not bad to express out your emotion in terms of winning gambling on which i do agree that unavoidable on some moments in life but there were people who are really that good when it comes to control
on which they wouldnt really be that easily getting that affected or simply that really just good when it comes to hiding those things on which i could say that it is really just
that better on having that way rather than on telling anyone basing on the situation that you are facing.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Sharing your success gambling story does not only encourage a gambling addict but can also but you at risk too unknowingly because you may not know who is listing to your story and maybe envying you and would one day become a potential threat to your safety because they want to have a fair share of your wins which you did informed them about.

It's very much advisable you be discreet with your wins and if you must share to the public use an anonymous system of identity it will help keep you safe from certain attention which you don't desire to get. It's very important to think of your safety before sharing certain stories. Most addict can actually get triggered when they hear stories of people's success and so it's important that whenever an addict is trying to quit gambling, as much as possible such person should avoid anything that suggest gambling in any form to them because it may trigger them again therby making quitting even more difficult.

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Very important to note otherwise you will be in unnecessary situations. Imagine if you won $1M and you go about telling everyone who knows you. They will all come to you saying that they want their own cut of the money, or may even start telling you their life problems and all sort of tales. Asides that, you don’t really know who is your friend. The person you trust could have envy and plan something bad for you. At least such bad friendship stories have been heard numerous times. Merely telling someone you won is still motivation.

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Quote from: topbitcoin on January 06, 2024, 02:58:40 PM

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Gamblers get joy and rejoice whenever they win in their gambling platforms it's very rall before you could see anyone who wins a bet and hind it to the public what they normally do is to ensure that they have dispense the information of their wining so that anyone who do mock them because they are playing gambling will never believed them or trust in them, so things gamblers does in order to attract people or get their emotions is during the period they win gambling, so gamblers knows what they needs is your encouragement and good news about gambling that their fellow gambler win somewhere else, so such will trigger them to gamble more.

Really just that normal to have those reactions since we are really just that humans on which it would really be just that have that kind of impulsive feeling or boost up on the time that we do win up.
So its normal that you would really be that keeping on saying to public that you have won, yes despite of the losses that you do have then those kind of disappointments would really be going away on which
you would really be that definitely be thinking up on telling anyone that you have won something specially if its a significant amount that you havent been able to win before but if it just really that small then you would really be having those typical stuffs or reactions. There's no way that you can stop someone for them to have those kind of reactions.

If someone had been inspired of those winning reactions or calls then its up into their own decisions in life whether they would be following someone and become that impulsive
or they would really be that definitely going on the other way or path on which they just dont care on what other situations that they are currently seeing.
It would really be just that depending on you because if you do look with those winnings positively then most likely this one would be pushing you
to play even more.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Gamblers get joy and rejoice whenever they win in their gambling platforms it's very rall before you could see anyone who wins a bet and hind it to the public what they normally do is to ensure that they have dispense the information of their wining so that anyone who do mock them because they are playing gambling will never believed them or trust in them, so things gamblers does in order to attract people or get their emotions is during the period they win gambling, so gamblers knows what they needs is your encouragement and good news about gambling that their fellow gambler win somewhere else, so such will trigger them to gamble more.

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This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

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Quote from: Queentoshi on December 29, 2023, 04:33:52 PM

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Every gambler loses at gambling but I don't know of any gambler who never loss. I think every gambler loses and wins again. So as much as they regret the loss, when they win again they enjoy it. If we don't celebrate after winning, we will never get anything from gambling. We should enjoy those victories, if only for a short period of time, even if it is to comfort our minds. But it must be limited to a certain extent. Also, if a gambler has more losses than wins, he will never find the joy of celebrating those wins. As a gambler I think losing is a common thing. If we can control gambling, we can enjoy the winnings.

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