Topic: Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. - page 13. (Read 2605 times)

Interesting, I'm trying to understand your intent and purpose. but maybe you forgot, that we are here on a gambling discussion board. we cannot prevent or prohibit someone from creating threads according to their wishes, the most important thing is not to violate the rules within the community. in our discussions in the community, everyone can tell stories about their gambling, whether it's about their wins, tips, tricks and even their losses. we can exchange information, knowledge and insights as material for our discussions. but, I really understand the intent and purpose of this discussion. none other than, so that those who are addicted, especially those who want to end it, are not motivated to gamble again.

Well, actually the problem doesn't lie with us. suppose, I am the one who posts wins or successes in my gambling sessions. moreover, I posted a screenshot of a large number of wins. as long as you don't break the rules here, everything is fine. and the problem is, it is precisely those who are tempted to see other members' posts about their wins. they are unable to control themselves, even though they have the intention to stop gambling. especially those within our community. IMO, for me the answer or solution is quite simple regarding what you said in this thread. if, you, I, we, realized that we are very easily influenced by other people's posts of success or victory. the ideal option is, to avoid discussions that involve gambling. we ourselves are responsible for what we do, see and listen to. so one of the efforts to prevent it, we ourselves must be fully aware and avoid it. after all, the one who has the problem is ourselves. so, other people are not responsible for other gamblers' addictions.

Sharing success stories should not be used as a trigger to gamble excessively because that happens to many people. They see this success story as an encouragement for them to continue gambling, especially if they have never won big from gambling. They won't stop gambling if they haven't gotten a big win, but even if they have, they won't stop gambling but will continue gambling because they want to get another big win.

It would be greed if they didn't realize that getting a big win was enough for them to stop gambling for a while and they should enjoy their winnings. That is why, if you want to share your success story with people, you should choose who can listen to the success story so that they are not triggered to gamble any longer. We don't want to be blamed by those who start gambling excessively because they have heard our success stories.

I think not only to gamblers but in our everyday activities. Or in any of our financial activities. You know human are naturally wicked In all ramifications. Showing some people your success book is like inviting the demons for a feast. And definitely they will be Verry glad to accept it in good faith. Any huge  sume of money gotten to your wallet is a risk to you especially if you spill it out. So never showcase your wining otherwise you might got kidnapped or traced by rubbers and probably be harmed.

Sharing success stories is not a bad thing. If someone continues based on the success story of your gambling, I think it's just a momentary thing. Whether they decide to continue or quit, I believe it's not heavily influenced by your story, maybe just a temporary inspiration.

On the contrary, if your story contains experiential elements that can help them avoid unwarranted mistakes, that's also a good thing, right? Don't weigh too heavily on the idea that sharing your story will make them continue to plunge into debt or gambling addiction. If not from you, it could be from someone else, and whether they continue or quit can only come from their own awareness and decision.

Maybe for some people who want to enjoy their own winnings, they will hide it from other people so that they can enjoy their own winnings without worrying that their friends will borrow money from them from their winnings. However, there are also gamblers who are proud thats they can win from gambling by telling people that they won and making people feel happy, but don't forget that if you tell people about your winnings, you also have to be prepared to risk spending money to treat friends your friends or maybe someone will ask you for money for your winnings, and there are also people who are jealous of your winnings, so it's better to hide your winnings from other people or just tell your family about the winnings you get, so that no one is jealous of you and you can enjoy it with your family.

If you do the math, maybe the winnings are not worth the expenses we have used for gambling so it is better that we don't have to tell people that we fooled the bookie, because the winnings are not worth the money the bookie fooled us to gamblers.

This also includes if someone is lucky to win, it does not necessarily mean that he will be successful in the future. This means that in gambling there is no such thing as success, but winning will lead to success if he can truly consistently maintain self-control. However, we often see people who win, they cannot maintain control well so their winnings are in vain, because they believe it will be easy to win again and in the end they will often lose and in fact their life will get worse because of their own mistakes.
Of course, it is better to keep your winnings a secret than to talk about them with other people, because it is not certain that other people will be able to accept them or even use the winnings for bad things.

Honestly for myself I would not say that it is success but rather a victory that they get for the luck they get in the gambling session they do so that they can get a number of wins, on the other hand we have to distinguish victory from success because in gambling I think there is no word success but only winning because of luck. Moving on to the topic, from what you said of course it could be a possibility for people to feel jealous of the wins that other people or even their own friends managed to get so as the OP said that it has the potential to make them feel motivated to join in hoping to get the same fate as those who managed to win.

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided. 

This is good advice generally, we should all be humble because we don't know the circumstances of people around us and you might actually cause yourself some unnecessary trouble if you go spouting off your successes too loudly. It's best to avoid introducing people who are unfamiliar with gambling into the scene, because it can be highly destructive if someone is lacking in self control or does not understand the fundamental odds that are set against them, a couple wins at the early stages can cost them a lifetime of ruin potentially. The only setting that it might be acceptable to talk about your gambling, although keep mention of any big wins to a minimum, is in specific gambling locations like casinos.

That's true, and it has become commonplace in society that someone can become selfish and jealous of seeing other people's success and this also makes someone try to get the same success as other people.
It would be better if we were successful in gambling, it would be better if we just kept quiet because that is the best step so that later we don't cause problems for other people because the nature of social jealousy is different for each person and of course the success we receive is not necessarily acceptable. by other people. .

Everything has two sides, so when you show your winning to many people, be prepared to receive anything that you won't expect.

There are many possibilities:
1. The skeptic: they will keep asking and denying if you really win.
2. The beggar: they will ask you money because they think you're rich.
3. The enemy: it's either your friend or a new person that ask you a strategy to win, if you not tell it or your friend are lose after using your strategy, they will blame you.
4. The robber: they will search any information about you in order to steal your money.
etc.

So maybe it's up to them to decide how they feel about it? If someone can feel good or motivated with my win, who am I to decide if they should or shouldn't hear about it?
I'm not a person who likes to brag, but when you win, you're happy and you share that with others. Person who feels envious or depressed with that news has a problem. I'm not to blame for that problem buy that person's inability to cope with the real world. You can't save everyone and you can't think about everyone around you because you'll never do right by them all.

I usually share stories related to gambling with friends who are fellow gamblers. and those are close friends who usually exchange experiences and information related to gambling.
Some gamblers, maybe like me, have a hangout that includes almost all gamblers. but I chose to play alone somewhere else. meeting friends just to tell stories, although some of them still play at hangouts.
but I will usually be more closed about sharing anything related to my gambling. I limit what I need to tell and what I don't need to.

Free loader or not, there is no way that we can't avoid it. Also even if we are not into gambling, as we can hear it on the news or on some random talks. It is okay for some but for some it isn't. The effect to us, can also depend on the story of the gambler. Whether we accept things or not, I think we still can get used to them later on, so things aren't going to be that heavy anymore.

If we are an over thinker and then we don't want to hurt someone else feelings even if we don't mean it, then it's better to just keep things for ourselves. I know it can be hard but if the things that we fear of, came in to a reality, then that is going to be much harder.

Arsenal are currently trailing to Fulham away from home, this is not the time Arsenal would be dropping point, Manchester city and Liverpool are both in good form and any slip up from Arsenal would be costly, although I think they did not play badly today so far and I still believe in the second half of the match Arsenal would come out stronger and at the end of the day they should be the winner.

Gambling victories are best kept private, in my experience. They can unwittingly stimulate gambling addicts in online forums. Being sympathetic to others' journeys is key. Gambling should be fun, not stressful. I also find it grounding to focus on losses rather than celebrate successes. It reminds us that the house usually wins. A humbling idea that promotes responsible gambling. Finding a balance between thrill and risk is key.

I like your self-enjoyment point. Wins should remain personal joys. Gambling should be personal and sensitive of its effects on others. Responsible gambling and community service are both important.

I prefer not to talk about my gambling activity to anyone, especially to people who are close to me, if I tell them about my winnings they may be tempted to try gambling, if I tell them my losses they might think that I'm too addicted to stop, and advice me to stop gambling because they think there's no logic in gambling if you're losing, even I tell them that I'm playing for fun.
So whatever you tell them whether your losses or your winnings it will backfire, so it will do you good if you keep everything to yourself, it will save you from criticism and from influencing other people from playing and you will not get into any debate about your gambling, you are not going to be in a position to be defensive.

Some gamblers cannot stop doing this, it's one of their motivation why they want to win so they can boast that they are winning and other people are wrong in their impression that you cannot win in gambling.
Even though they lose money, they will hide it and only tell their victories, they don't care who is listening to their story, some gamblers are addicted to telling their winnings to the point they are faking their winnings so that they can tell people that they are good in gambling.

This is just one of the symptoms of people who are addicted to gambling, they deny their losses and boast about their winnings, they tell everybody that they can win in gambling, and it creates a bad effect on newbies, this is why newbies should not just believe on gamblers and pick the right gamblers who will give them advice on how to become a good gambler, not someone who is addicted to story telling.

that's true, because in my opinion everyone definitely has their own selfish attitude, and that makes them always jealous of what other people get, and in my opinion when someone wins at gambling they don't have to tell everyone, because of the nature of each different people so maybe many of them respond to winning differently, obviously there are those who take it casually, and maybe there are others who take it seriously, where they become motivated to win at gambling which makes them themselves are addicted to gambling, even though being addicted to gambling doesn't guarantee that they will get the same win as the previous person, because everyone's luck is different.
That's true, not everyone deserves to hear about someone's victory because it will bring something of its own, it also depends on the people who respond to it.

That's what many gamblers should do when they win at gambling, it's better to keep quiet and close themselves off, because not everyone has to know about the wins we get because maybe there are also many people who are jealous of our success, making someone do something they shouldn't do, especially If someone is in the process of stopping their gambling addiction, it will certainly have a bad impact on that person.

Believe me, there is no need to prove to anyone that we won against the dealer, always remember when the dealer beats us, maybe more than we won, how much we have lost in gambling and it should be a slap to ourselves so we don't just show off our victory. because you win against the dealer, the best advice is to try to be quiet and enjoy it yourself without other people knowing.

Yes, I have seen someone share their winnings with other people, and that was my friend who managed to win from a gambling game. Yes, some people cannot accept such things because they think negatively about gambling. And we should not tell other people about our defeats and victories because it could cause problems for us.
And instead of experiencing things like that, it's better to keep them for ourselves so that things don't happen that we don't want. Besides that, keeping that from others will save us time from people who want to say many things about what we did in gambling.