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The concept of a person's achievements having a damaging effect on others does not appeal to me. While a person winning may encourage another person having difficulty with addiction to keep going because they believe they too can win if they keep playing, I believe it is necessary to bear in mind that everybody's path is unique, and we ought not to compare ourselves with those that we see on social media. We ought to concentrate on our own objectives and satisfaction rather than allowing the achievement of others to make ourselves seem insufficient, because we don't see the problems and sufferings that they may be experiencing, which can lead to inflated hopes and unhappiness with our own life.
For every gambler, of course they must have their own goals and do not need to be influenced by other people's lives and the wins that other people get do not require us to continue gambling in the hope of getting wins like other people have, but we have to stick to our planning. ourselves and also don't let us not be able to enjoy the bets we are playing because we are influenced by the winnings that other people have obtained so that we cannot concentrate on the game we are playing and no longer control ourselves in betting so we bet greedily which will make us a lot of money. the losses we get and it is true that someone's life path will always be different even if they play the same type of bet because someone's luck is certainly different.
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This story reminds me of the amount of people started gambling because of me, sometimes I really don’t know how to feel. I don’t think it’s guilt that bothers me now, but it’s a mistake I have done many time which is gambling beside my friends and showing them my biggest winnings. Due to my actions, many friends are asking me to top up their gambling accounts on weekly basis just to gamble and bet on anything, chasing some wins that I have got with much luck, the while story is just to compete and show us in between that they also can get that.

For instance, on sweet bonanza slot, I have got 12x before which is something very hard to get in a low risk and low volatility slot. What happened is that my friend from that day are trying to get the same number, because of that sometimes I feel bad sharing such things. Everyone should be careful showing winnings to anyone else, it might be pushing them to addiction or worse, trying to steal your winnings!
This proves that your story of success might become a downfall for others. So be careful to whom you are sharing your story of success, as some people might misinterpret it and might rush into gambling without analyzing that it could lead them to a lot of losses and misfortune, rather than constant winnings and profits.

As long as gambling is concerned, it’s better that you just keep your winnings on your own. You don’t know what will be its  effect to others if they hear it, it’s either they get envy and start following your pattern, or they’ll take advantage on your success and make you as their next victim in line.

True, we never know about the feelings of others which may be something that we consider pleasant or joyful is news that makes them feel superior which is clearly every human being has feelings of envy or jealousy that can sometimes make them do anything because of unacceptance when seeing other people have better luck in life and in the end this kind of thing can trigger problems that actually shouldn't be a problem.

Of course, however it is better to hide it because there is no point in showing off the results of your victory to others anyway and if it turns out that you cannot plan to hide the victory then I think you have a reason for this action which is most likely that you want to get praise from others for your success, so of course think rationally when you want to make decisions, if for example there is no benefit then it is better not to do it.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed.
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This story reminds me of the amount of people started gambling because of me, sometimes I really don’t know how to feel. I don’t think it’s guilt that bothers me now, but it’s a mistake I have done many time which is gambling beside my friends and showing them my biggest winnings. Due to my actions, many friends are asking me to top up their gambling accounts on weekly basis just to gamble and bet on anything, chasing some wins that I have got with much luck, the while story is just to compete and show us in between that they also can get that.

For instance, on sweet bonanza slot, I have got 12x before which is something very hard to get in a low risk and low volatility slot. What happened is that my friend from that day are trying to get the same number, because of that sometimes I feel bad sharing such things. Everyone should be careful showing winnings to anyone else, it might be pushing them to addiction or worse, trying to steal your winnings!
This proves that your story of success might become a downfall for others. So be careful to whom you are sharing your story of success, as some people might misinterpret it and might rush into gambling without analyzing that it could lead them to a lot of losses and misfortune, rather than constant winnings and profits.

As long as gambling is concerned, it’s better that you just keep your winnings on your own. You don’t know what will be its  effect to others if they hear it, it’s either they get envy and start following your pattern, or they’ll take advantage on your success and make you as their next victim in line.
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This story reminds me of the amount of people started gambling because of me, sometimes I really don’t know how to feel. I don’t think it’s guilt that bothers me now, but it’s a mistake I have done many time which is gambling beside my friends and showing them my biggest winnings. Due to my actions, many friends are asking me to top up their gambling accounts on weekly basis just to gamble and bet on anything, chasing some wins that I have got with much luck, the while story is just to compete and show us in between that they also can get that.
We should not gamble in front of our friends because they will definitely arouse the desire to gamble as a result of seeing our winnings, even though we do not influence them to gamble, they will try to open gambling to play again and they will definitely experience gambling addiction because they have a history of being active gamblers.

We must choose to gamble away from the public environment, so that our gambling does not have an impact on other people and actually gambling must be hidden from other people except fellow gambling communities, because I never publish jackpot wins in front of friends or publish them on social media because they will definitely gamble in the hope of winning, but if they participate in gambling then they have indirectly made a mistake that invites them to gamble.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
I have princilples when it comes To disclosing information, when it comes To gambling I have alot of secrets that helps me alot , firstly, I can tell people that I have won a game But I cant tell them the amount because it is not everyone that likes your Progress . Actually it is not everyone that deserve To hear your winning because It is not everyone that you share your loss experience wirh Too. I Dont actually disclose the amount I won To people because I have never borrowed money from anyone To bet So i bear My loss alone And My gain all alone And i Dont know the reason why maybe that is How nature wants me To be .

Lastly , there are sets of people that you will tell about your winning And they will  think that you have turned to be an experts And will be disturbing you for predictions from time To time . So learn to keep your Success To yourself because people can also mock you on being successful .
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

The concept of a person's achievements having a damaging effect on others does not appeal to me. While a person winning may encourage another person having difficulty with addiction to keep going because they believe they too can win if they keep playing, I believe it is necessary to bear in mind that everybody's path is unique, and we ought not to compare ourselves with those that we see on social media. We ought to concentrate on our own objectives and satisfaction rather than allowing the achievement of others to make ourselves seem insufficient, because we don't see the problems and sufferings that they may be experiencing, which can lead to inflated hopes and unhappiness with our own life.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed.
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This story reminds me of the amount of people started gambling because of me, sometimes I really don’t know how to feel. I don’t think it’s guilt that bothers me now, but it’s a mistake I have done many time which is gambling beside my friends and showing them my biggest winnings. Due to my actions, many friends are asking me to top up their gambling accounts on weekly basis just to gamble and bet on anything, chasing some wins that I have got with much luck, the while story is just to compete and show us in between that they also can get that.

For instance, on sweet bonanza slot, I have got 12x before which is something very hard to get in a low risk and low volatility slot. What happened is that my friend from that day are trying to get the same number, because of that sometimes I feel bad sharing such things. Everyone should be careful showing winnings to anyone else, it might be pushing them to addiction or worse, trying to steal your winnings!
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It should really not be a problem. The message of sharing your winnings is just a gesture of celebrating that once in a lifetime opportunity and everyone should have a freedom of doing so. It is the receiver who is responsible of interpreting and to give meaning of it whether he would take it as bragging or welcoming him to borrow or be hopeful of a tip or whatever comes to his mind; it is just subjective. We shoul not discredit  other people of something which made them happy just because we are not having the same experience. It would be an inspiration to rightful ears but a negative thing for people who are envious and toxic. It is not meant to attract bad people to force you getting it, no one would want such thing and adjustment should not he made by the winner himself just because of threats around. It also depends on the intention of the player and for sure most of us, if not all, are already in the right age and mind, to know when to speak of your profit or not. Just a commonsense I guess.
The issue here is not the way some people may interpret your actions, rather the hidden danger is that there is a lot of people out there that are looking for potential targets to steal from, and celebrating on the internet about a big win that you got may attract those kind of people to your life.

And even if most of the time nothing will happen, due to this celebration you could become one of their victims, is it worth? Not in my mind but maybe that is a risk worth taking for you.
What you say is correct because we should keep hiding our winnings from many people and only tell it to those closest to us to avoid any danger. We don't want to be victims of acts of violence that might occur, so we must always be careful if we want to share stories of win. We also cannot show off to many people because that will cause something bad for us later.

By always being alert, we can avoid any danger that might come so that we can avoid it. And if it is a very large winning money, we have to keep it a secret by not saying or sharing about the big winnings we get. However, if we tell many people, we don't know who will have bad intentions against us, so we should be really careful.
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It should really not be a problem. The message of sharing your winnings is just a gesture of celebrating that once in a lifetime opportunity and everyone should have a freedom of doing so. It is the receiver who is responsible of interpreting and to give meaning of it whether he would take it as bragging or welcoming him to borrow or be hopeful of a tip or whatever comes to his mind; it is just subjective. We shoul not discredit  other people of something which made them happy just because we are not having the same experience. It would be an inspiration to rightful ears but a negative thing for people who are envious and toxic. It is not meant to attract bad people to force you getting it, no one would want such thing and adjustment should not he made by the winner himself just because of threats around. It also depends on the intention of the player and for sure most of us, if not all, are already in the right age and mind, to know when to speak of your profit or not. Just a commonsense I guess.
The issue here is not the way some people may interpret your actions, rather the hidden danger is that there is a lot of people out there that are looking for potential targets to steal from, and celebrating on the internet about a big win that you got may attract those kind of people to your life.

And even if most of the time nothing will happen, due to this celebration you could become one of their victims, is it worth? Not in my mind but maybe that is a risk worth taking for you.
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Yes, that's correct. We have to choose anyone who can know about our win so that news of the win does not spread to many people. Moreover, we don't know who will later find out that we have won a lot of money from gambling. That can cause problems for us because they can ask us for money and say that asking for a little money will not reduce the winnings we get. But I don't know if telling other people can make us lose all the money because I just heard about that. Maybe it's just a coincidence. But I agree with the short sentence you said that don't tell everyone about our win. We must decide with whom we will share our win and who we will invite to celebrate it.

Yesterday I read in another topic (sorry, I'm writing from my smartphone and cannot find it right now) a member who said that he told some friends that he was into Bitcoin, in order to encourage them, and they started calling him "Mr. Bitcoin" and such things, and he regretted having told them anything because people who hear that usually think that everyone who is into Bitcoin is rich, and he was a bit worried about his safety.

With gambling it's the same, I guess: if someone wins big, it's better not to tell it to anyone, if you want to stay, or at least feel, safe. Envy is really bad.

Very true envy is also one of the big 7 sins hahaha so if we win big and tell everyone not everyone going to accept that. sometimes there a people who envy you and talk nonsense after that. I mean tell a friend is totally a friend if you have close friends that support you etc. but not all our friends are good hahah sometimes they have two faces behind them.
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In as much as what you're saying is true, gamblers find it difficult to keep their little win to themselves. It's very difficult before you see someone win up to $1000 in gambling and people will not know. For those who are into sports betting and who do it in a betting shop, you will agree with me that before you even come to the betting office with your ticket, they already know that you've won, and even when you try to keep the win to yourself, they will tell others in the shop that someone won a certain amount in that betting shop.

I know of some fellow sports betting friends who will even be angry at you because you refused telling them you've won a bet you've previously played.  People always believe that if me A can win, that they will also win and that's one serious course of addictive gambling.
People will always want them to be celebrated, and for people like me who gamble in their house before people later find out about my win, I would have spent the money and gotten something valuable for myself from gambling. I love my privacy people don't even know that I gamble, When I am in the comfort of my house, I start making a good selection of what my games look like, and since I gamble very well, I take a lot of time when selecting and arranging my games. and from what your betting sites hear, you see a lot of people exposing their wins. If you are the kind of person who bets in a betting shop, you cannot hide your victory, and people will start disturbing you for money. When you finish giving away, they will still be the ones insulting you. And if I win, I tell them, after I have used my money, anything anyone wants to say, let them say it.
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Yess that is 1000% very true I only tell my close friend I don't even tell my family member hahahahah maybe my brother. Because if i tell to everyone especially about gambling that is gonna be a big shit show hahahaha. so I only tell my close friend because sometimes he do gambling too
That's good because you know who can find out about your winnings. If you tell everyone, they will ask for a share of your winnings and you will not be able to enjoy the winning money because it may have been used up by the people who asked for a share of the winning money. We have to determine the people who need to know about our winnings from gambling and that means we have to be really selective in choosing the people.

Any individuals that asked alot of questions can be ignored, when they ask you questions you don't have to reply them or you can change the topic or avoid exposing yourself to them as many individuals have bad intentions against us when we're succeeding. You can also tell them small things and not tell them everything that's happening or the big amounts that you have won. Problems comes from closed friends more than it comes from other individuals that we don't know.

People are angry when you're doing better than them and they'll want to bring you down also when we win big from gambling, we shouldn't be loud about it. Use that money to invest in anything that's more dependable than gambling as gambling doesn't give you money always. Some days, it'll be taking money from you and when you don't have somewhere that's a reliable source of income you'll get broke quick.
With fewer people knowing about our wins, it will be better because we don't have to talk about our wins to many people. We can also avoid people with bad intentions towards us because they don't know we have won a big victory. By keeping the big winnings we get a secret, we will be calm in living our days and can also enjoy the winnings with the people we want. We also don't need to bother with the many people who will come to our house if they know about our win.

Instead of making people angry because they know that we won big and have evil intentions toward us, we should remain silent and not share our winnings with them. That would be better because we can enjoy the money and use it for our daily needs so they won't ask any further questions. We don't need to buy expensive things because that can arouse their curiosity and they may ask us where the money comes from.
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Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I'm not sure anyone is truly successful at gambling. What often happens is that we lose and then win, lose again, win again, lose again, win again, it's like a repeating cycle. For gamblers, losing and winning are normal things, and I believe that when someone gets a big win, there must be a big loss behind it.

So actually there is no problem sharing the winnings, in fact usually someone asks for a tip if someone shares the winnings so they prefer to keep quiet so that no one asks for a tip.  Cheesy
Its an endless cycle and this is something that we should really be that thinking about and this is something that we should really be treating up this way on which there's really those winning moments but with those loses are even more. It would really be just that common that there would really be those people who would really be boasting out their winnings into public as if they are really that true winners
on this space and someone who do really just that making those simple reactions on which we know that as a human being then it would really be just that normal on having those reactions.
We do really mean that much but its not our fault if we do make out some inspirations into other people since its their decisions on how they do play. You arent forcing them and this is why
i dont see such issues.
It should really not be a problem. The message of sharing your winnings is just a gesture of celebrating that once in a lifetime opportunity and everyone should have a freedom of doing so. It is the receiver who is responsible of interpreting and to give meaning of it whether he would take it as bragging or welcoming him to borrow or be hopeful of a tip or whatever comes to his mind; it is just subjective. We shoul not discredit  other people of something which made them happy just because we are not having the same experience. It would be an inspiration to rightful ears but a negative thing for people who are envious and toxic. It is not meant to attract bad people to force you getting it, no one would want such thing and adjustment should not he made by the winner himself just because of threats around. It also depends on the intention of the player and for sure most of us, if not all, are already in the right age and mind, to know when to speak of your profit or not. Just a commonsense I guess.
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Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I'm not sure anyone is truly successful at gambling. What often happens is that we lose and then win, lose again, win again, lose again, win again, it's like a repeating cycle. For gamblers, losing and winning are normal things, and I believe that when someone gets a big win, there must be a big loss behind it.

So actually there is no problem sharing the winnings, in fact usually someone asks for a tip if someone shares the winnings so they prefer to keep quiet so that no one asks for a tip.  Cheesy
Yes, there are, but the percentage is very small or could be called very rare because in each country there are not necessarily more than 10 people who can actually get success from gambling, but on average they are not gamblers like most of them out there.
They are professionals and have various knowledge and skills that can help improve their playing abilities, usually referred to as poker experts or gambling gods and people like this do not gamble in just any place.
They will also take part in various official championships and competitions which are like world championships and of course there are prizes and awards in championships like this, we can see them almost every year.
It just that not everyone or every country will be able to have the freedom to watch every competition because of the various prohibitions that each country has against gambling.

If we talk about gambling in general, there will only be defeats and losses because this is business, this is an industry that provides uncertainty to customers.
But we are happy, we get entertainment and excitement in every game or bet we make, so we don't need to think long about losing or losing, just use the money we have prepared to lose and have fun.

Moreover, whatever happens is our right whether to tell other people or not, but almost all of them are gamblers who prioritize anonymity.
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In as much as what you're saying is true, gamblers find it difficult to keep their little win to themselves. It's very difficult before you see someone win up to $1000 in gambling and people will not know. For those who are into sports betting and who do it in a betting shop, you will agree with me that before you even come to the betting office with your ticket, they already know that you've won, and even when you try to keep the win to yourself, they will tell others in the shop that someone won a certain amount in that betting shop.

I know of some fellow sports betting friends who will even be angry at you because you refused telling them you've won a bet you've previously played.  People always believe that if me A can win, that they will also win and that's one serious course of addictive gambling.
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Yes, there will be people who will ask lots of questions about our winnings in gambling and about things related to gambling. We might become busier because we have to answer questions from them and if we don't want to experience that, we don't need to talk about our wins and don't even tell our close friends. We have to be able to take care of ourselves after winning because we don't know if there are bad people who will do bad things to us.

Any individuals that asked alot of questions can be ignored, when they ask you questions you don't have to reply them or you can change the topic or avoid exposing yourself to them as many individuals have bad intentions against us when we're succeeding. You can also tell them small things and not tell them everything that's happening or the big amounts that you have won. Problems comes from closed friends more than it comes from other individuals that we don't know.

People are angry when you're doing better than them and they'll want to bring you down also when we win big from gambling, we shouldn't be loud about it. Use that money to invest in anything that's more dependable than gambling as gambling doesn't give you money always. Some days, it'll be taking money from you and when you don't have somewhere that's a reliable source of income you'll get broke quick.
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Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I'm not sure anyone is truly successful at gambling. What often happens is that we lose and then win, lose again, win again, lose again, win again, it's like a repeating cycle. For gamblers, losing and winning are normal things, and I believe that when someone gets a big win, there must be a big loss behind it.

So actually there is no problem sharing the winnings, in fact usually someone asks for a tip if someone shares the winnings so they prefer to keep quiet so that no one asks for a tip.  Cheesy
Its an endless cycle and this is something that we should really be that thinking about and this is something that we should really be treating up this way on which there's really those winning moments but with those loses are even more. It would really be just that common that there would really be those people who would really be boasting out their winnings into public as if they are really that true winners
on this space and someone who do really just that making those simple reactions on which we know that as a human being then it would really be just that normal on having those reactions.
We do really mean that much but its not our fault if we do make out some inspirations into other people since its their decisions on how they do play. You arent forcing them and this is why
i dont see such issues.
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Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I'm not sure anyone is truly successful at gambling. What often happens is that we lose and then win, lose again, win again, lose again, win again, it's like a repeating cycle. For gamblers, losing and winning are normal things, and I believe that when someone gets a big win, there must be a big loss behind it.

So actually there is no problem sharing the winnings, in fact usually someone asks for a tip if someone shares the winnings so they prefer to keep quiet so that no one asks for a tip.  Cheesy
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Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. Yes it much very true and I also have a story of mine that I do win but in trading I can basically earn 100$ in 2 hours I tell my friend and that night I just lost all of it including the first balance that Im using for my first trade.

There some youtube short say if you winning don't tell everybody or you gonna lose after it, and somehow this is very true.
Its just coincidence i would say because whether you do tell or not about something then it cant still be able to assure whether you would be losing or winning into the next one and this is how gambling do works.

We do know that there are people who would really be that easily get attached when someone does have those kind of declaration and
celebrating that they have won something.Loses would be normally be kept secret of course.

Yeah I believe that's just a coincidence but I had this more than once time it was like 3-4 times after I told a friend about winning and then the other day or just in an hour I lost hahhahah that is why Im rarely tell nowadays.

But different from you I tell the loses to my friend aswell  Grin

Yes, that's correct. We have to choose anyone who can know about our win so that news of the win does not spread to many people. Moreover, we don't know who will later find out that we have won a lot of money from gambling. That can cause problems for us because they can ask us for money and say that asking for a little money will not reduce the winnings we get. But I don't know if telling other people can make us lose all the money because I just heard about that. Maybe it's just a coincidence. But I agree with the short sentence you said that don't tell everyone about our win. We must decide with whom we will share our win and who we will invite to celebrate it.

Yess that is 1000% very true I only tell my close friend I don't even tell my family member hahahahah maybe my brother. Because if i tell to everyone especially about gambling that is gonna be a big shit show hahahaha. so I only tell my close friend because sometimes he do gambling too
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That's a good point. You never know who is sincere with you and who has their personality and reality masked in front of you but aren't well-wishers of you, so it's not advisable to share every single thing and every joy with every person you know. You don't even know if your close friends are sincere with you or not, and anyone can have evil eyes for your joys, which is why, it's better if you keep such things to yourself.

When we talk about gambling, some people generally don't think very well about it, so when you share that you've won something from gambling, they might show that they are happy for you at first, but there will surely be discussion about how you are indulged in gambling and that maybe you are an addict.
We can only find people who are sincere to us by establishing friendships with many people and from those friendships, we will know which friends are truly sincere and can be trusted. Friends whom we can trust are the ones who can find out about our wins, and celebrating with them will make our friendship even closer. But those who are not sincere towards us will try to find a way to continue approaching us because they have certain aims and objectives towards us.

Yes, there will be people who will ask lots of questions about our winnings in gambling and about things related to gambling. We might become busier because we have to answer questions from them and if we don't want to experience that, we don't need to talk about our wins and don't even tell our close friends. We have to be able to take care of ourselves after winning because we don't know if there are bad people who will do bad things to us.
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