Topic: Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. - page 6. (Read 2605 times)

You said it right on which its normal to have reactions since we do really love that kind of winning moment specially when you are experiencing some losing streak then suddenly you have won up something?
Who wouldn't really be that happy to have that kind of reaction on the time that  you do won? Of course you wont really be minding about others situation as long you could freely express your emotions or reaction.

There are really just that those people who are really that mindful about other peoples condition even if it means on stopping completely your freedom. lol. We are free on sharing up our expression
and its up to someone whether they would really be motivated out to play gambling again just because they've seen or hear out someone that they are winning.

Yes, some sort it would really be sparking out someones interest for those people who would be tending to completely stop or having a break but its their mistake or
fault that they do keep on coming back into those gambling platforms or communities on which it would be normal that they would really be possibly or likely to hear out those words.

I believe there is no point in bragging about gambling achievements. Firstly, because gambling is very much dependent on luck and win a large sum of money repeatedly is unlikely to succeed. Secondly, bragging is the fate of a weak person who, as you rightly said, is trying to make himself stronger in the eyes of others. In my opinion, if a gambler wants to improve his self-esteem after a big win the best solution would be to give a small part of the money won to a charity or buy things and personally take to one of the orphanages. 

Not all people would really be having on the same control when it comes into their emotions on the time that they would really be hearing out someones success on which it would really be just that normal that there would really be that some sort of boost up on the time that they would really be able to hear out someone who is really that winning. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to have those kind of thoughts that it was really just that possible for you to be able to hit up on the same thing and this what makes you desperate. You cant really be able to stop someone for you not to have those kind of reactions like sharing up
on what you had won publicly since it would really be just that a normal human being reaction to have that kind of approach that you are really that basically making some wins.
Sometimes it do really just turns out that its a bit exaggerated on some point.

I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.

If there is something I have learnt is that one is even supposed to be careful when talking about money in front of family and friends, anyone who we could consider to be loved ones in general. Because there are many cases of very bad parents out there which are capable of feeling envy on their own children and brothers.
I have a friend from Peru whose mother constantly tries to get money out of him, regardless how he earned it, as soon as he gets a job or manages to buy something for himself, she talks to him and asks for her part.

Because of cases like that one, we must contain any urge on bragging about money or a very good luck streak in the casino. Even if we talk about it to loved ones, there is no warranty the word won't spread around ones neighborhood...

Everyone has a choice for their life, every person's successful journey is not always what we see goes smoothly, we often see the end result there are struggles and sacrifices at stake so that we get satisfying results, never be someone else let alone show our pleasure to others because It's not certain that people can do what we do, a person's successful life is enough to be a motivation, not a form of target that must be pursued, let alone trying to achieve it, everyone has different luck in life.

So that's how life is, sometimes poor people like us sometimes have big dreams of being someone else, let alone being obsessed with other people's success, which we think is easy, even though there is a process of struggle in it that we never know, for example, when we see successful people gambling and winning, but we only see the victory, don't see the struggle of the money he has spent to get that victory, it's not easy to be a successful person and it's not that easy to be a successful person there is a hard job to do and even we find it difficult to do it, that's why when we are in the position of being a successful person, never show your victory to others.  

Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.

Unfortunately, this is how it works. Rich people are very blind to the feelings of the poor, they just don't understand how much they are influenced by success stories. I can tell you a situation in my life when I had a rich friend who constantly bragged about how well he was doing trading, and that he earned $3,000 in a week.
Should I have been happy for him?
I tried, but in the end I don't care about his success, because I don't earn that much money, and why should I listen to these boastful stories? It's the same in gambling - everyone is jealous of a successful person, although he doesn't understand it like a fool.
Also, in gambling, such stories motivate others to play more and more fiercely, wanting to win.

When we brag about our wins, other people may not like it and think we are showing off to them. They might do something that could be bad for us so we shouldn't tell everyone about our win.
We must be able to choose anyone who can listen to our win so that they really feel the joy that we get. We don't need to share our winning stories on our social media pages because there will be people who don't like it.
We should hide our winnings from the crowd and only share them with people close to us. That way, we can avoid bad things that could happen to us.

One thing you refuse to understand is that we are not the same person, so we can't have the same personality, and I so much respect the plight of @Baki202 which I replied to. The plights are all genuine, but the caution, control and solution that will be attributed to them could be different, and that difference could be based on our different personalities which I respect so much. You may live your life as though you do not care about others, but others can't be like you because they are not you. We have different kinds of people, some will dare you, do bad to your face and do not care at all, while others may even be worse. But you also see other people who are good and care to a fault, so people can never be the same. As it is, just as I replied in line with the context, if the solution to the whole issue is for him to gamble privately in his closest, why not? Even if he is such a private that do not want people to know what he does with his life, especially about gambling, whyn't he go for it?

Technology has helped gambling and gamblers to that extent, it is never by force we go out to gamble or be lousy about our gambling activities, especially the winnings.

Mind you, the settings of his locality matter as well, maybe it is possible he can't just risk it and not be detected by people. If the guy is a well-known person in that locality, even the agent who attended to him when he placed the best could be the one who would leak it out to other people. From there, unnecessary knowledge happens which could lead to demands and begging from him by people. And when you are a generous type, you would want to satisfy enough people to avoid further issues since it's his locality we are talking about. In light of this, it is better for him to have a concern about his gambling activities and outcomes while gambling outside even if he would be forced to do it once in a while. These are serious concerns even if you take them lightly, and you should know that everybody can't lead a life of I-don't-care-about-others you tried to preach.

A gambler who became motivated to keep playing because of the successful story of other gamblers are not that bad if he can still play with discipline. But believing the same fate might hit him as well despite of the losses he already had is not a good mindset. Because you're already influenced by this motivation to not lose hope, that's not how gambling works.

It's always nice to see someone gained a decent amount from gambling. But it is important for us to limit ourselves and not too hopeful just because others are able to do so. Remember that majority of gamblers are not in profit.

Neither I nor you have the power to stop a man from telling his success story. A man's success story can have a positive impact on my life, and a moral message can impact. We humans have our humanity, we can judge ourselves what is good and what is bad. Now if I tell my success story here it is my personal right and others will say it is his personal right. Gambling for entertainment This gambling game should never be used outside of entertainment. If success is obtained while taking entertainment then it is definitely good for a gambler and if loss occurs while taking entertainment then it is also good for a gambler because a gambler must understand the pain of losing. So people are free to tell their success stories and taking gambling as entertainment is good for me for all of you. So take positive cues from someone's success story and avoid negative cuse.

I don't think so, as everything has a positive as well as a negative side and catching the inspiration is their own decision whether they took the positive side or negative one. But I think maybe someone will get it and take it in his gambling track and will be successful like you. I know sharing your success story with anyone and any type of success whether it is gambling-related or something else is not always beneficial because people change when they hear about your success but I believe that there may be someone who needs some motivation and from your success story he will get it and perform well. So always Think positive its results will be always positive.

It's best to just shut your mouth when you're around with people that don't have the same hobby as you. And that's because that you'll just hear bad things about what you do coming from them. You don't have the same activities and that's why as we all know with gambling, it's always the negative thinking that everyone is placing towards the gamblers. Despite that you know yourself better and you're a responsible gambler, they're going to include you as one of the worst people in the world just because they've known you as a gambler.

See, they know not better than you and you know yourself better than them. But take a look at them as they give negative feed back to you not knowing that you can control your gambling activities and you've won some and lose some. Even with that, it's best to remain lowkey and remain it as a secret with all of your gambling activities so that they won't give any feed back to you and you're just there having fun. If you win, then that's fine and you'd just continue with what you're doing while them, they're there to watch you out whether you do good or not.

Sometimes it cant really be that be avoided that you might really be having that kind of reaction on which you would really be that having some boast when it comes to your winnings publicly
on which its normal since we are just humans on which excitement could be felt but there are really should moments that you should really be avoiding on being that too showy or expressive on what you do have in mind and its true that not all would be a happy for you on what you are currently experiencing. The other thing on here is that we do know about the probabilities that there would really be those individuals who would really be that becoming that too boost up on the time that they are seeing someone who do make out those big wins and trying to copy as much as they could.

Privacy in gambling? That's not fixing the problem, it's hiding from it. Why the shame? Because society judges. But what if we change the damn game? Gambling, done right, is just another skill, like picking stocks or anything else. People spend money on entertainment, right?

Hiding your wins with charity donations... that's a weak move. If you're good enough to profit, own that sh*t. It's your money, earned with your head. Don't apologize. The people judging, they need to check themselves. Is it jealousy? Frustration with their own lives? Their insecurities are bleeding onto you

Moving away? Might buy you time, but it's not a solution. We gotta tackle the stigma head-on. Expose the hypocrisy. Demand honest conversations about what responsible gambling actually means. Shifting the blame won't shift the culture. We need to change the hearts and minds, not just zip codes

Basically, humans live in groups and when there is someone who can make the atmosphere different then they will try to follow him. In gambling, it is the same, when there is a gambler who is very engrossed in playing his bets, his friends will definitely be curious about that too. They will also bet regardless of the type of bet and who doesn't want to make a lot of money?

But they forget not to measure their abilities so they are very obsessed with winning big and they don't realize they are losing a lot of money. This is very difficult to stop because when they lose, they will try to return the money they lost while also making a profit. In reality, this is not the case and the more you bet, the more money you lose. It is best to gamble only as a means of having fun and not to involve using large amounts of money. The impact of social media is real and I think every time there is a win from gambling, they will try to ask where the site is that can make money.

In such a situation, I think you shouldn't think of other people. The fact that those people disagree with the idea of gambling, only means that they are not the target people who deserve to hear about your gambling activities.  Basically, they have a different view of your habit, which is gambling, this sole reason is the only thing they need to disregard hearing or knowing your gambling story.

Of course every person or gambler must have their own goals whether it's to win gambling or to have fun But I think it's true that not everyone, deserves to hear the victory over the gambling we do because there are some people's views on gambling that don't like gambling Even with the winnings on display but still for people who do not like gambling they will not have a good view even if it is with a win.

It is true,  we must be able to enjoy the gambling that is done if we only think about winning it will only make the gambling that is done cannot be enjoyed or the gambling that is done will only make us lose self-control.  It's important to know that you're not going to have to worry about a lot of things, but it's important to know that you're not going to have to worry about a lot of things.

You have said it all by pointing to the fact that you are a private person, my friend, you better keep it that way. Thankfully, we have the privacy option in our gambling activities by silently opening our betting apps and doing our thing in our closet in such a way that people might not even know we gamble. If this is what you love, then always do it. And if you are such who cares about giving, you can still do that on a different volition by knowing the people in need and helping them without telling them the source of your income. They do not have to know to the point that they know what you do and be using it to insult you later like you said.

Although I do not see shame here, once you are good at gambling and earn through it, those who are even begging you for the money should be the ones burying their heads in shame and not the other way around where they insult you. For what?

Alternatively, if you are such that like to go out for gambling and are only concerned about the people you would see there and who might know you, why not change location? After all, it is not everywhere you would know people that will be disturbing you. I made this last suggestion because, at times, we can't do everything in isolation, we should mingle as well too. Or else, you might kill your social life if you think you can be doing everything privately.