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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
I got your story op and frankly I must say that your last illustration of getting other gamblers back to gambling isn’t were the problem lies but rather on the safety of the winner.
Have you thought of the dangers of sharing a success or winning story at the wrong place and at the wrong time?, there might be possibilities of the winner been robbed or harmed to claim his winnings and the rest of other challenges that might be associated as well.

Whatever the case might be, it is always advisable to be conscious of the environment at which we stay to share our success stories be it from gambling or any other place, as there have been several cases of people losing their lives as a result of jealousy and it’s likes.
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Firstly, a person may be jealous. After all, we all hear stories about someone’s success many times and we really want to be in their place. Because of this story, a person can be pushed to act recklessly.
I would especially emphasize the situation when a person lost a lot of money and decided to stop gambling, every minute he struggles with the desire to win back the money, and at that moment he meets someone who has won a lot of money and is now happy.
Next to one story about winning money, there are ten (not exact statistics) stories about losing money; it is not customary to talk much about them, but it is always worth remembering. We always look at one side of the coin and don’t know how many people have lost before, how to win and how many will lose in the future
I wish everyone to be wise!
Yeah, but most people don't understand this, and whenever you manage to win something significant, they become too excited, and out of that excitement, they tell everyone about their winnings, this also often becomes the reason for their luck to get struck by evil eyes and they start losing right after that and then they regret why they shared their winnings with others. As said a hundred times already, not everyone will be happy in your happiness, so you should keep it to yourself.

People who lose constantly but don't stop gambling are often motivated by the stories they have heard or seen of others so it's also not good sharing your success stories with others because a lot of people would gamble more after they hear about the success you got from gambling.
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Deep down we just want to express our financial gains to the world in one or other way but it's better not to that will avoid lot of distractions that comes on your way especially when you have money lot of people will be giving advices about utilising the money properly which is overwhelming for most people and they could make a wrong move with the money which they actually don't want to.

I will stay quiet not to save anyone but to save myself from others.
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Yeah, it's just like investment. We should always keep our winnings to ourselves. People should not always know how much we are earn or the amount of profit or progress we have financially. Even if they do not have bad intentions toward you. They may boast about you in an unpleasant place where hoodlums and bad gangs are. Perhaps their intentions are to share about your progress and motivate the people around that environment, but they do not know they are putting you in a critical situation.

The most important thing is we should always know the friends we keep around and the people we choose to share the amazing things that happens in your life.
Instead of having an enemy under cover, we should anticipate it before it happens. It's okay to hide our winnings from the crowd for our safety and comfort.
They don't need to know what we get from gambling, and if it is a win, it is our right to tell anyone we want to know. We don't need to tell other people we don't like because this is a matter of someone's privacy. We only spread it to people who are really close to us so that there are no misunderstandings between us and them.
But trying to check out on where OP is really that pertaining or concern into then this is basically talking about your influence about into those gamblers who are really that tending to quit on which on the time that
you would really be making out those kind of announcing your winnings publicly then there are indeed some individuals who would really be seeing this to be some sort of boost.
Instead of quitting then they would really be that definitely be continuing just because they've been that heard of those words and this is something that OP is really that concern into.

For me its really just that normal that people or winning gamblers would really be having that kind of reaction,specially if they do come after a series of loses and
made out some immediate comeback then for sure that kind of reaction would really be just that normal or something that a human being would do.
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Yeah, it's just like investment. We should always keep our winnings to ourselves. People should not always know how much we are earn or the amount of profit or progress we have financially. Even if they do not have bad intentions toward you. They may boast about you in an unpleasant place where hoodlums and bad gangs are. Perhaps their intentions are to share about your progress and motivate the people around that environment, but they do not know they are putting you in a critical situation.

The most important thing is we should always know the friends we keep around and the people we choose to share the amazing things that happens in your life.
Instead of having an enemy under cover, we should anticipate it before it happens. It's okay to hide our winnings from the crowd for our safety and comfort.
They don't need to know what we get from gambling, and if it is a win, it is our right to tell anyone we want to know. We don't need to tell other people we don't like because this is a matter of someone's privacy. We only spread it to people who are really close to us so that there are no misunderstandings between us and them.
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Sometimes it cant really be that be avoided that you might really be having that kind of reaction on which you would really be that having some boast when it comes to your winnings publicly
on which its normal since we are just humans on which excitement could be felt but there are really should moments that you should really be avoiding on being that too showy or expressive on what you do have in mind and its true that not all would be a happy for you on what you are currently experiencing. The other thing on here is that we do know about the probabilities that there would really be those individuals who would really be that becoming that too boost up on the time that they are seeing someone who do make out those big wins and trying to copy as much as they could.
When we brag about our wins, other people may not like it and think we are showing off to them. They might do something that could be bad for us so we shouldn't tell everyone about our win.
We must be able to choose anyone who can listen to our win so that they really feel the joy that we get. We don't need to share our winning stories on our social media pages because there will be people who don't like it.
We should hide our winnings from the crowd and only share them with people close to us. That way, we can avoid bad things that could happen to us.
Yeah, it's just like investment. We should always keep our winnings to ourselves. People should not always know how much we are earn or the amount of profit or progress we have financially. Even if they do not have bad intentions toward you. They may boast about you in an unpleasant place where hoodlums and bad gangs are. Perhaps their intentions are to share about your progress and motivate the people around that environment, but they do not know they are putting you in a critical situation.

The most important thing is we should always know the friends we keep around and the people we choose to share the amazing things that happens in your life.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
As If it even matters, no body cares about you, either money made from gambling or other ways its your business, you don't owe anyone any explanation, it should be private, and everyone has enemies, if you tell them good news all the time they can turn into devils instrument and they will come after you.

It is very hard to make it in life today, so if you are getting there you should keep your mouth shut, many people won't be happy when they see you win, because they are also trying so hard to no Vail.

People should keep their success and progress hidden and look like someone who isn't even progressing, just so that you can get to where you wanted to be, unless you are living in a secluded area where everyone minds their business.

Yeah right, We should really keep as a private and confidential things everything that gives us income, let's remember that people's behavior changes especially if money is involved, here we can see what the effect of money is on one person, and not all of our friends can be trusted because it's not because of being paranoid right? but not everyone is happy with what you have, for sure they talk about you behind your back. I believe in the so called eviil eye nowadays, so even on social media we should not be too public about what we share, that's one of the things I've learned lately, I realized that it's really better to act low key, no expectations from other people and no one will criticize your every action and move, those who are jealous of you are waiting for all your mistakes and failures in life so it should be private so they wait for nothing.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
As If it even matters, no body cares about you, either money made from gambling or other ways its your business, you don't owe anyone any explanation, it should be private, and everyone has enemies, if you tell them good news all the time they can turn into devils instrument and they will come after you.

It is very hard to make it in life today, so if you are getting there you should keep your mouth shut, many people won't be happy when they see you win, because they are also trying so hard to no Vail.

People should keep their success and progress hidden and look like someone who isn't even progressing, just so that you can get to where you wanted to be, unless you are living in a secluded area where everyone minds their business.
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I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.
Not all people would really be having on the same control when it comes into their emotions on the time that they would really be hearing out someones success on which it would really be just that normal that there would really be that some sort of boost up on the time that they would really be able to hear out someone who is really that winning. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to have those kind of thoughts that it was really just that possible for you to be able to hit up on the same thing and this what makes you desperate. You cant really be able to stop someone for you not to have those kind of reactions like sharing up
on what you had won publicly since it would really be just that a normal human being reaction to have that kind of approach that you are really that basically making some wins.
Sometimes it do really just turns out that its a bit exaggerated on some point.

That makes sense, indeed if we see other people being able to get something or be successful, we definitely want it too. If it's not like that, we might be jealous. The urge to want to get the same results as other people who can get something that is truly tempting is definitely there when we see other people getting it, especially family members or friends. especially with what is called profit, after all who doesn't want profit? Of course everyone wants it, but we have to be able to see what we see, because in gambling the results will not be the same even if we follow the same steps as those who have won.

In my opinion, winning at gambling is based on luck, so if we see someone else win and we want to get it, it won't just happen smoothly, of course most likely what will happen is only defeat.
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Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.

I believe there is no point in bragging about gambling achievements. Firstly, because gambling is very much dependent on luck and win a large sum of money repeatedly is unlikely to succeed. Secondly, bragging is the fate of a weak person who, as you rightly said, is trying to make himself stronger in the eyes of others. In my opinion, if a gambler wants to improve his self-esteem after a big win the best solution would be to give a small part of the money won to a charity or buy things and personally take to one of the orphanages. 

What you said is also true my friend that there is actually no point in saying or showing off the achievement of victory in gambling because the results they get are nothing more than the victory they get when they are in a lucky situation, gambling has absolutely nothing to learn to make you always win, because in the end it is always about the chances of winning and the possibility of losing which is not based on any certainty and guarantee, meaning that no matter how big your victory is in the end it is still possible for you to experience defeat in the next few sessions which may be greater than your current victory.

Well exactly, if they just brag about themselves regarding the victory they managed to get then I think there is nothing to appreciate because it is nothing more than just luck, but if for example they use the winning money as a result of the lucky situation on some useful things such as donating some of the winnings to the orphanage or to the poor or the poor then obviously it is an act that I think deserves appreciation.
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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I very much agree with you. Firstly, a person may be jealous. After all, we all hear stories about someone’s success many times and we really want to be in their place. Because of this story, a person can be pushed to act recklessly.
I would especially emphasize the situation when a person lost a lot of money and decided to stop gambling, every minute he struggles with the desire to win back the money, and at that moment he meets someone who has won a lot of money and is now happy.
Next to one story about winning money, there are ten (not exact statistics) stories about losing money; it is not customary to talk much about them, but it is always worth remembering. We always look at one side of the coin and don’t know how many people have lost before, how to win and how many will lose in the future
I wish everyone to be wise!
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Your winning story will not make people you share your story with to stop you not to win again than to help them to introduce some tactics that will position them to success too.

I know there are many gamblers who will be asking you if you have win from your gambling, so that they can borrow money from you, you can hide your winning story from such gamblers because they can do anything evil to collect the money from your hand later.

 I will never allow others gamblers winning story to make me to increase my budget on gambling or get motivated to continue playing when I'm losing or winning in the gambling center, which are some of the things I will never do in the gambling.
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A gambler who became motivated to keep playing because of the successful story of other gamblers are not that bad if he can still play with discipline. But believing the same fate might hit him as well despite of the losses he already had is not a good mindset. Because you're already influenced by this motivation to not lose hope, that's not how gambling works.

It's always nice to see someone gained a decent amount from gambling. But it is important for us to limit ourselves and not too hopeful just because others are able to do so. Remember that majority of gamblers are not in profit.

I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.
Not all people would really be having on the same control when it comes into their emotions on the time that they would really be hearing out someones success on which it would really be just that normal that there would really be that some sort of boost up on the time that they would really be able to hear out someone who is really that winning. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to have those kind of thoughts that it was really just that possible for you to be able to hit up on the same thing and this what makes you desperate. You cant really be able to stop someone for you not to have those kind of reactions like sharing up
on what you had won publicly since it would really be just that a normal human being reaction to have that kind of approach that you are really that basically making some wins.
Sometimes it do really just turns out that its a bit exaggerated on some point.
You said it right on which its normal to have reactions since we do really love that kind of winning moment specially when you are experiencing some losing streak then suddenly you have won up something?
Who wouldn't really be that happy to have that kind of reaction on the time that  you do won? Of course you wont really be minding about others situation as long you could freely express your emotions or reaction.

There are really just that those people who are really that mindful about other peoples condition even if it means on stopping completely your freedom. lol. We are free on sharing up our expression
and its up to someone whether they would really be motivated out to play gambling again just because they've seen or hear out someone that they are winning.

Yes, some sort it would really be sparking out someones interest for those people who would be tending to completely stop or having a break but its their mistake or
fault that they do keep on coming back into those gambling platforms or communities on which it would be normal that they would really be possibly or likely to hear out those words.

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Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.

I believe there is no point in bragging about gambling achievements. Firstly, because gambling is very much dependent on luck and win a large sum of money repeatedly is unlikely to succeed. Secondly, bragging is the fate of a weak person who, as you rightly said, is trying to make himself stronger in the eyes of others. In my opinion, if a gambler wants to improve his self-esteem after a big win the best solution would be to give a small part of the money won to a charity or buy things and personally take to one of the orphanages. 
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A gambler who became motivated to keep playing because of the successful story of other gamblers are not that bad if he can still play with discipline. But believing the same fate might hit him as well despite of the losses he already had is not a good mindset. Because you're already influenced by this motivation to not lose hope, that's not how gambling works.

It's always nice to see someone gained a decent amount from gambling. But it is important for us to limit ourselves and not too hopeful just because others are able to do so. Remember that majority of gamblers are not in profit.

I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.
Not all people would really be having on the same control when it comes into their emotions on the time that they would really be hearing out someones success on which it would really be just that normal that there would really be that some sort of boost up on the time that they would really be able to hear out someone who is really that winning. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to have those kind of thoughts that it was really just that possible for you to be able to hit up on the same thing and this what makes you desperate. You cant really be able to stop someone for you not to have those kind of reactions like sharing up
on what you had won publicly since it would really be just that a normal human being reaction to have that kind of approach that you are really that basically making some wins.
Sometimes it do really just turns out that its a bit exaggerated on some point.
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A gambler who became motivated to keep playing because of the successful story of other gamblers are not that bad if he can still play with discipline. But believing the same fate might hit him as well despite of the losses he already had is not a good mindset. Because you're already influenced by this motivation to not lose hope, that's not how gambling works.

It's always nice to see someone gained a decent amount from gambling. But it is important for us to limit ourselves and not too hopeful just because others are able to do so. Remember that majority of gamblers are not in profit.

I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.
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Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.

If there is something I have learnt is that one is even supposed to be careful when talking about money in front of family and friends, anyone who we could consider to be loved ones in general. Because there are many cases of very bad parents out there which are capable of feeling envy on their own children and brothers.
I have a friend from Peru whose mother constantly tries to get money out of him, regardless how he earned it, as soon as he gets a job or manages to buy something for himself, she talks to him and asks for her part.

Because of cases like that one, we must contain any urge on bragging about money or a very good luck streak in the casino. Even if we talk about it to loved ones, there is no warranty the word won't spread around ones neighborhood...
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Unfortunately, this is how it works. Rich people are very blind to the feelings of the poor, they just don't understand how much they are influenced by success stories. I can tell you a situation in my life when I had a rich friend who constantly bragged about how well he was doing trading, and that he earned $3,000 in a week.
Should I have been happy for him?
I tried, but in the end I don't care about his success, because I don't earn that much money, and why should I listen to these boastful stories? It's the same in gambling - everyone is jealous of a successful person, although he doesn't understand it like a fool.
Also, in gambling, such stories motivate others to play more and more fiercely, wanting to win.
Everyone has a choice for their life, every person's successful journey is not always what we see goes smoothly, we often see the end result there are struggles and sacrifices at stake so that we get satisfying results, never be someone else let alone show our pleasure to others because It's not certain that people can do what we do, a person's successful life is enough to be a motivation, not a form of target that must be pursued, let alone trying to achieve it, everyone has different luck in life.

So that's how life is, sometimes poor people like us sometimes have big dreams of being someone else, let alone being obsessed with other people's success, which we think is easy, even though there is a process of struggle in it that we never know, for example, when we see successful people gambling and winning, but we only see the victory, don't see the struggle of the money he has spent to get that victory, it's not easy to be a successful person and it's not that easy to be a successful person there is a hard job to do and even we find it difficult to do it, that's why when we are in the position of being a successful person, never show your victory to others.  Grin
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Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.
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Unfortunately, this is how it works. Rich people are very blind to the feelings of the poor, they just don't understand how much they are influenced by success stories. I can tell you a situation in my life when I had a rich friend who constantly bragged about how well he was doing trading, and that he earned $3,000 in a week.
Should I have been happy for him?
I tried, but in the end I don't care about his success, because I don't earn that much money, and why should I listen to these boastful stories? It's the same in gambling - everyone is jealous of a successful person, although he doesn't understand it like a fool.
Also, in gambling, such stories motivate others to play more and more fiercely, wanting to win.
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