Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 29. (Read 10012 times)

It will be difficult for them to get back the money they have lost because it depends on their luck and analytical skills. But most people will return to gambling no matter how difficult it is because they feel they can still gamble and get back the money they lost. And they will say that they enjoyed getting their lost money.

Yes, it is normal for them to return to gambling, but it should be accompanied by an understanding of how far they can go so that they do not lose more money. It will be better for them if they have good control because they will know when they should stop gambling before things get worse.

It will enter our subconscious so that we can become greedy and want to achieve big wins by taking bigger risks. Yes, even though they have won, it is not enough for them, and this is where self-control is important so that they can understand that they have had enough of gambling. And that makes us not chase after victory, especially if we already get it because that is enough for us to feel satisfied with what we have. So if we have good self-control, we can stop gambling without difficulty so that we will not have any burden.

everything related to money will automatically indoctrinate our minds to become greedy even though we have won a big win. If we get it, we will feel that it is still not enough and bet again, and when we lose, we dont accept the loss and continue chasing without realizing that we have lost all the funds he has and his winnings will also be used up after an incident like that a person will regret and be angry about gambling and as if he wants revenge he comes every day wanting to get the same results while he ignores the luck that does not come every day and ends up becoming addicted because he is chasing the big win he has lost.

We are held responsible for whatever outcome we face in the system, we ought to be sincere when dealing with the system, always recording inspecting categories of gambling and thoroughly emphasize on the disciplinary measured to follow inother to quit gambling for the very good. We know how the space works and ought to cut off everything linking to gambling, both real and on phones because it's more like temptations tendered to us that's difficult to resists. Quitting is mere just words concerning the system, the real deal is quitting and total exemption from gambling related activities.

This is an example of good attitude for all gamblers to follow where they never care about winning or losing but also don't chase it because whatever they force themselves to get will also give less than optimal results.
But from what you have applied there is one point that gamblers may rarely be able to do namely accepting defeat because here they lose certain amount of money and there is feeling of dissatisfaction with the results they did not win until in the end they try to continue to chase victory and after that all the money had ran out quickly.
Here, I sure there are also many gamblers who are married therefore many users give each other suggestions and suggestions for all of us to remain more responsible gamblers.
Even though it is very difficult to stop gambling at least we ourselves must be able to control it, don't let gambling control us.

Exactly, that one last shot or most of the time those who Yolo loses a lot of money, a single mistake creates a huge impact to the gambler and will re-try to recover that money, instead of quitting and enjoying they will be force to keep trying as they wanted to recover the money that they lost while playing.

I'm sure there are many gamblers who can relate to your statement, as instead of having that good control, they missed it out, and they are pushed to keep betting and using a much bigger amount trying to recover their previous losses.

Actually, after all. We are addicted to gambling because we always enjoy playing it. But from a particular perspective, we can control our behavior. We can stop gambling for a long time. But we still want to gamble later, and no game can replace it.
It can be said that this is a mild addiction. For example, I like drinking wine but haven't consumed it in the past few months, and I still feel normal. Controlling this action may be due to surrounding causes. Perhaps the main reason is that our families help us maintain this controlling behavior.

I can relate when you say you have a bad behavior or reaction when you experiment losses. I have myself felt bad for a couple of days after I had a bad luck streak rolling dices, in my case I get depressed and do not feel like doing anything.

I assume in your case you get mad instead of sad?
Because in my personal opinion, anger can be more difficult to control than sadness or melancholy. Either way, I hope you do not start to keep track on your wins and losses, because that is a very short path towards trying to chase money and we both know what happens when the chasing starts, it usually does not end well at all.

Good luck and take care of you and your family.

Yes, because I have a family and children, my top priority is still family life. I will not have a fixed balance to gamble regularly. And I also don't keep track of my wins and losses during the year. I don't care if I make a profit or a loss. Because even if I lose, the amount has been predetermined, I can still accept that loss. I know I have bad behavior, but I still have reasonable control over my behavior.

Yes, that's right, because they think it's just one game and stop gambling for a while. But they lost, which sparked their curiosity, so they decided to play one more time. This happens repeatedly until they finally stop gambling and use up all their money. If that's the case, only defeat will come, and they can only regret it because they have used all the money they could have used for other things.

There are many reasons why they lose a lot of money, and the most common is because greed comes to them, and they keep saying that just playing one more time will be okay and maybe they can win big this time. And that's when their lust gets bigger, and they can no longer control themselves, so they continue gambling. But reality only sometimes happens the way they want because most people lose.

People who have won still want bigger wins, and that is normal. But they should be able to realize that they are gambling and don't need to play seriously because that will only make them experience more losses if they realize that when they can win, it is time for them to decide to stop gambling. But not for them because they are too greedy to want to get a bigger win.

That's where self-control is needed to control the desires and greed that come. If they could realize this, they would not continue gambling and withdraw their winnings or if they lost, they would just stop gambling and calm themselves down. They need to break the cycle before things get worse, and they can't cash out their winnings.

So I thought the same thing: but it’s true that women still need to be protected a little more from the possibility of becoming addicted to some harmful passions, which include alcoholism, drug addiction, abuse of sedatives, and, of course, a passion for gambling  level of painful attraction. 
I believe that in all these manifestations of addiction in women they appear much faster than they can in men.  And therefore, men, as calmer and cold-blooded creatures, should always notice in time that some woman he knows has begun to show too much addiction to gambling.  In this case, you should immediately apply some simple measures.  To begin with, these could simply be words that a woman who begins to behave this way loses attractiveness to men.  Such words can have a very good therapeutic effect.  Simply because any woman wants to please men and such words create in her a feeling of inferiority, which can be gotten rid of simply by giving up such attachment to gambling. 
But this recipe is, of course, only suitable for the early stages of gambling addiction.  If this does not help, then you need to use other methods that only professional psychologistts know.

We need to always test our willingness to leave an activity behind, sometimes I just stop gambling for a month not because I do not want to gamble a little bit, but just to prove myself that I can remain that long without gambling, so far I have been able to do this, however if for some reason I found myself thinking constantly about gambling or being unable to avoid gambling for that long then I will know I have a problem, and then I can take the necessary measures to avoid the worst possible outcome which is to become addicted to gambling.

Then you are okey.
If what you say is a clear representation of your state and your money management, then there is nothing you should change, if you like it as an entertainment source.
Do you keep a set balance when you get money (in terms of percentage of your income) so you can gamble regularly?

I am also curious if you keep track of your wina and losses through the year. Because I believe it is a malpractice which can only lead to loss chasing in the long term, and probably to addiction to gambling.

Their is the possibility of getting profit from the gambling,but the gambler who do random bet don’t know this possibility of winning the game.The gamblers mostly forgot to understand the gambling is not the making platform like the trading.When the get huge win from the gambling,the assume their will be continuous win from the gambling.But the fact is the winning in the gambling is like two sided coin.The gambling possibility will be favour both the win and loss.If you had win from the gambling,you can enjoy the game.If you get the loss from the game,it’s essential to quit the game for certain period of time.

I cannot quit gambling even though I knew and could not profit from this game. And especially, I am not addicted to gambling. I always control my emotions so as not to lose much money.
I love the thrill of this game. It's fun to play them. Whenever I have money saved, I set aside a little to try my luck. When I don't have money, I won't care about gambling. It could be a psychological adventure game for me.

It's easy if you're not hooked that much in gambling but who's an addicted gambler who isn't hooked on gambling, right? All of the addicted gamblers are hooked on it. Thus, that's why quitting is hard for the most of them.

IIRC, I have never dreamt of I'm gambling, honestly that's serious severity of addiction that you've got there and I wonder how you're able to think of yourself when you've come into that point that you also dreamt of playing slots.

Yup, when you've been doing it on a daily basis and you're able to do that for a year or two then that's what hard is. You're used to gambling and you'll stop in an instant? That's highly unlikely because majority of the gamblers that do want to quit got through that hardship and it's not an easy thing for the most of them even if someone says it's been so easy for them.

People watch someone win large in gambling and think, "Why not me?" They see, crave, and take it. I've said it before: not everyone wins. Some have the knack. They're skilled, strategic, and profitable. We don't know how much they invested before winning the prize, which is a significant but. None of us know

Some gamblers aren't that lucky. They lose heavily. Do they stop? No! They keep betting, hoping the next one will be big. Like a cycle, folks. In deep, they can't see out. There's always an exit. Always! Willpower, effort, and determination are needed. Gambling is enjoyment. Pure fun! It's neither work nor business. It should keep fun. Let's be clever, okay?

Quitting gambling can be both easy and hard, depending on the individual and the severity of their gambling addiction. i still remember when I first started playing slots even in my dreams I could see reels just spinning. At times I would work up and just try to roll some spins to try eaz up my mind. So I can imagine if you are used to play everyday definitely it's not an easy thing to say am quitting

Yes I understand what you mean, it's basically like that buddy and that's the temptation in gambling, even though they only get one win but strangely just that can make their hopes even higher, assuming that they will be able to get another and bigger win the next time, But the reality is that well as you said after the winning streak there will be a clear losing streak too but the defeat seems endless and only for those who can restrain themselves will survive and will not be too exhausted all the money, so the importance of self-control is none other than when you are in a position like this.

Yes, such a mindset is only for those who have entered the trap of addiction who say they can get income from gambling, and obviously the end result is that in fact they actually lose more, but strangely it doesn't seem to matter to them and just keep playing. It is true that of course there are many factors that can make them finally lose, one of which is the greed you mentioned, it is not uncommon for me to find someone who has managed to get a win but finally loses again, and that's because they are too greedy, never satisfied with what they have got and always want more. You have to remember you won't be able to get lucky at all times, so even if you initially win but eventually you lose again it's because of greed, although there may be those who succeed but it is very small in number and chances.

Just one single win give them that hope, I mean they think like that after experiencing that they are able to make money after winning some bets, not knowing or not expecting that after that winning streak reality will stab them at the back and start emptying their savings, people who believes that they can make a decent amount of money out from gambling most of the time losses a lot.

There are many factors that lead them to lose, greed or unable to control, instead of quitting while you are still in green they will choose to push for more and try to win bigger amount of money, from that time, the appetite already rise up and the adrenaline keeps them think that things will be sided to their favor and let them win the desire amount that they wanted to cash out.

You do not need to be surprised because some people think like that. They want to make money from gambling, especially because they have often seen several people who have succeeded in making money and making gambling a place to make money and a source of income. But we don't know how much money they have used until they can make a lot of money from gambling. Even so, some people can really make money from gambling, but they have better abilities than other gamblers.

Other gamblers still lose a lot of money from gambling. But that doesn't make them realize that what they are doing is wrong, and instead, they continue what they have been doing. And what happens is that they get deeper into gambling and have difficulty avoiding gambling because they feel they are tied to gambling. But actually, they can still get out of gambling, which requires intention and hard work. We already know that gambling is entertainment, so we do not need to use it as a source of income but only as entertainment.