Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 31. (Read 10025 times)

Your post is right, playing gambling will not lead us to wealth, even you may lose many people who are very valuable, because all you think about is winning and curiosity, it is difficult for people who are addicted to gambling to escape. they will continue to borrow money from the closest people, my advice is better not to make gambling your main job, it is very unlikely to get profit.

Although its fantastic that you think people may overcome their gambling problems with self-control and a caring environment, lets face it: the brutal truth of the situation cannot be avoided. Its a sticky, complex maze of gambling that clings to you with a fierce tenacity that is incredibly hard to escape, isnt it?

Though support and desire are important, its important to remember that gambling is more than just a habit. Addictions alter our brain networks, and this one is no different. This is a made-up issue: How can we tell the difference between a quick spurt of motivation and true willingness?

It is important to realize that the goal is usually not to just "stop" but rather to change our connection to the thing that unites us. And that transition, that metamorphosis, is a huge task, particularly when you're addicted to something as alluring as gambling.

Exactly. I also think that there are fewer of them precisely because it is so inherent in nature that women are narcissistic, but they rarely turn out to be of a combative nature, ready to go in their struggle with addiction to the end, despite the fact that there is already zero on the deposit. I think such girls with a combative character were usually brought up by fathers with exactly the same characters.

You should only quit gambling if it ruining your whole life and if you are finding it had to quit.

In all my years of being a gambler, I would say that no gambler will quit just because someone else told them to. Those you quit didn't need anyone to tell or appeal to them to quit. They quit after coming to the realization that they want a better life for themselves.

It is hard to quit gambling. The first few weeks will be worse. But after then you'll be strong to push through it.

Yes, to be able to stop gambling really requires a very high level of discipline, even gambling addicts must have greater strength to maintain discipline or something that has been planned and all of this is definitely based on a strong desire to stop gambling and if you have that desire it is definitely a little stronger easy.
Gambling addiction is always considered negative or very bad for society so all of this can be an incentive for gambling addicts to immediately leave gambling to live without gambling and become a better person and I believe that even though it is all very difficult to do there is enough support strong from the people around me, I am sure that the addict will easily get out of the gambling industry.

There is a wonderful saying - all smokers quit smoking, but some people manage to quit smoking while they are still alive.

And seriously, when a person has a goal and aspiration to come to it, he will definitely succeed in it, even if not from the first time.

My neighbor smoked cigarettes for more than 30 years and quit as soon as he realized that his future life strongly depends on his health. Another friend of mine had problems with alcohol, so he got rid of this habit. Many people give up gambling when they realize that it has become a source of problems instead of joy.

It is easy to say, but if you are already attached to it, the level of difficulties is far from what you can imagine. Once gambling already dominated you there's nothing inside your mind but everything is about how you will play and what strategy you wanted to execute, but getting your point, If you really want to quit completely you can do something like that, I mean better to keep yourself away from any physical or online access to any gambling services.

Your self-will is the key to control yourself, if you will keep yourself away from any gambling activities, sooner or later that kind of lust will be removed from you and it will start or renew the usual things that you have before you engage yourself into gambling.

So, I think that in these characteristics of the human psyche lies to some extent the question of gender inequality in relation to gambling addiction.  It just turns out that women with a narcissistic character and also women with the qualities of a fighter, an athlete, a person who  p ersistently strives for success and the highest step of the pedestal are still fewer in percentage terms than men.
 And since there are fewer such personality types among women, then, accordingly, much fewer women reach the stage of gambling addiction compared to the male part of the population.

Everyone is held on to responsibility, we face them or run away from them, is our decision to make. We have goals that must be accomplished with regard to for the system to function properly. Quitting gambling necessitates making sacrifices and implementing disciplinary measures. Addiction is the worst condition that could happen to any gambler in the universe. They tend to bet on games arbitrarily, with no goals and accounts that are progressively depleted. It is very easy to cease gambling  with mere words, yet very tough to stop gambling.

Both types are not good because no matter what, they will only lose their money in gambling. They could apply it to other things, such as their work, so they can complete it well and get an appreciation for what they have done. But when it comes to gambling, they won't get it easily because they will suffer losses, especially for those who can't stop on time and are still chasing bigger wins. So to stop gambling really requires enthusiasm and a strong desire so that they can carry out their plan to stop gambling.

Psychologists have noticed that people become addicted to gambling in which two types of temperament intersect. The first type is narcissistic personalities. These are leaders who do not like to sit on the sidelines and are ready to prove their importance over and over again. They want everything at once and see a similar opportunity in the casino, because there you can win the jackpot with the first bet. The second psychotype is athletes by temperament, fighters. People who have been taught since childhood to fight to the end, forgetting about the pain, and try to get what they want. It is at the intersection of these two characters that a person has the maximum chance of becoming addicted to gambling.

Maybe the pattern can be used in cases of gambling addiction. Still, we also have to know that other factors can cause someone to become addicted to gambling, such as playing gambling continuously, not having control over the use of money, having thoughts about making money from gambling, and others. Maybe men have a chance of becoming addicted to gambling more quickly than women, but men and women have the same chance of becoming addicted to gambling. When they want to stop gambling, there must be a desire from within so that they can think that there are other things they can do and not gamble continuously. By trying to do small things that can enable them to change or reduce their gambling addiction and if they can do this continuously without stopping, they will see that they can stop gambling sooner or later.

In general, studies of all kinds of addictions, including addictions such as alcoholism, show that women become alcoholics much faster than men if they are placed in approximately the same living conditions.  This is probably a natural characteristic of the female body and ffemale psyche.  For the same reason, I would suggest that. in addiction to gambling and the transition of this addiction or hobby into a real addiction to gambling, which can safely be considered a disease, occurs faster in women than in male gamblers.  I made this conclusion by analogy with alcohol addiction, but of course I am not sure that this pattern holds true in the case of gambling addjiction.

I have said this in several other threads about avoiding gambling or wanting to recover from addiction. simpler way is just to go to the place furthest from the gambling industry and if you dont have access to move, the main thing you can do is explore the case. I mean, if gamblers really want to quit land based gambling, it would be better to try to lock themselves up at home as long as they can and if they are addicted to online gambling, its easy just to avoid internet access.

It sounds very easy but I am sure it will be very difficult for addicts because as you said staying away from something you have done often is a very difficult thing. but if there is always an effort to try there is no harm.

Addiction is hard for everyone. Wanting to escape that rabbit hole is a big step. They wanna out? An added bonus! How about some fun gambling? Imagine you're at a casino with a set budget. Be persistent! It's like a diet cheat day. You enjoy without overindulging.

I completely agree about sports! Ever played slot tournaments? Similar to casino sports. The rush and competitiveness are limited! Tricks include setting aside a fun budget. Without chips, you're out. Enjoy, don't splurge, and don't confuse enjoyment with winning back what you've lost.

Suppose the machine glitches and gives you extra coins while you're playing. Do you continue because hey, free money? Or leave with a tale? Remember, it's all about the fun of the game and not the chase.

You got a valid point, quitting is just a start but to remain outside of something that you are already engaged that deep, it's another thing that you needed to fix, moving to place where you can really avoid doing what you are usually involving yourself will help you to avoid making another mistake in deciding your future, it only means that moving to a place where access to any gambling both online and offline will give you that freedom from gambling.

It's a wise thing to do, making sure that you will not go to come back after you made that decision to quit for good.

I think that things can be quite good when the person who is a victim of being addicted wants to recover, because if that is the case and they want to get out of it, it is something they already have as an advantage, in this order of ideas things can be flow to be better, of course when you talk about how to do things to have better Chances of doing things, friends and people close to the affected person also come out, the faster the person wants to get out of this, the easier it is for them to follow the instructions, It's difficult when a person is addicted and doesn't recognize it, because basically when things are not discussed about how to deal with it, they go wrong, firstly because the person gets offended and secondly because people who are like that tend to be very determinants, and the mere fact that when a person Usually says something like that, they are capable of getting angry with whoever, then in this order of ideas things tend to get complicated.

I have always said something, when it Comes to casinos and Cases of addiction in people, because things simply tend to go in Other types of Directions , such as lending money to banks, friends, among other things doing 'The situation is more complicated, that's why I say something, if a person practices a Sport, his body and mind will be Busier , he will be a little more tired of his body, and it has been determined, well at least for me, when I do a lot Protect Yourself , because I don't Feel like using my mind while working doing other things , so what I want is to Watch TV, rest, shop more with the family, if that applies to someone who is not an addict, then for an addict who It has all that on the surface because it has to work, for this is what all of us must always prepare ourselves, have a good geti'pon of money, to always be alert not to spend more than we Should , and not Confuse fun with the pressure , Stress and chasing Winning when you Have lost a lot of Money.

The worst part is that not only quitting an addiction is extremely difficult, it is even more difficult to remain clean for the rest of your life, and this is because in part the environment in which those people moved incited them towards that direction, and if they really want to remain clean then they need to leave that environment behind, this explains why for example celebrities find it so difficult to remain clean for good, as not only they have a fortune which they can use to buy whatever they want, they must also move in an environment in which becoming addicted again is simply too easy.

But if the person is not an addicted gambler then it will be very easy for him to quit gambling but whereby the person is a chronic gambler that is gambling misappropriation or disorder gambler then it will be very difficult for the person to leave or quit gambling because at that the spirit is very high and and it has entered his bones and brain.

Yes when you have taken that thing as part of your life activities then to leave it is not easy again. And what I think that can make rid of addicted gambler is lack of money. When there is no more to gamble for about months then the gambling spirit will go down gradually.