Raising children in this current society

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Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Prayer will not solve everything, in raising a good child, a parent need to be committed to the task especially when the child is still very young because that is a very delicate stage and age to learn the good and bad, and because the bad can easily be learnt, every parent need to be careful and watchful of the kind of friends their children keep and also be watchful of the kind of movies and television program that they watch. As a parent, you need to draw your child close, so that they will be able to talk to you when they are confused, so that they will not make bad decisions in life.

Nowadays, raising children is actually easy because everyone has digital tools such as baby swings, and children's games are becoming more sophisticated, but today's children have less morals due to this influence, where parental love has shifted a little so that Sometimes children look for other pleasures outside of the immediate ones. When they look outside without a filter, they all take it because there is no supervision anymore. Good education for children is actually both parents, they are the ones who know the characteristics of children. The solution is that if parents find it difficult to care for them, after they are 8 years old or have reached the age to take the education level, it is better for the child to go to school in a place where the children are boarding, because the boarding school is the second place for the child to prevent negative things.

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With this upgrading advance technology, everything is in our hand. We can use it as we want. But we have to careful about what our children adopting cause there are bad things too including good one. so we should be alert to ensure they are adopting good things. Children can learns from Teachers, relative or other source like YouTube or other social media but this is parents, who should correction their kids if necessary. And yeah prayers could be the best weapons cause a region helps people to opt the right path and spreading peace everywhere

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Am wondering how porous the entire society is, in terms of immorality, reckless behaviour and hardship itself, It will be almost very difficult to raise children in this kind of era, children are the blessing from God and I think parents generally should take anything con ning their children serious in other to avoid some mistakes from occuring, though as I Mentioned earlier I know that it seems difficult but we can start from where.
The environment plays a a role in life of a growing child, despite that some homes are trying to survive this hard times, lets also make It a priority to always take full responsibility of parents because sometimes the children grow to blame their parents for what they have become, som we need to do our possible best set a standard for our children to grow with.

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Parenting is one of the best things that one can do, contrary to others opinion about raising children as being difficult
Raising children in this time is not as difficult as many sees it as it is a matter of giving attention to your children and making them your priority
The truth is we have allowed the so called western culture to affect us in such a way that we have abandoned our first responsibility as individuals and that is the home and giving our children the right moral upbringing that we got from our parents

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How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

I think raising children is one of the most difficult assignments on earth. Most characters exhibited from children this days are being learnt from outside, most times schools and social gathering.
I do no think a parent will ask his child to dip his hands into fire, every parents would want his child to be responsible and well doing but most children decides to be irresponsible and use less to their society.
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.
The scripture will say, train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he won't depart from it. As you rightly said prayer is the strongest weapon

A few actions parents could do in order to direct their children in a beneficial path. First, display the conduct you wish to see in your children. If you want children to be kind and respectful, display that conduct by being respectful and kind yourself. Second, have discussions that are open and truthful with your children concerning the risks as well as advantages of the internet. Make sure they recognize that not everything they see online is sincere, and that they should use precaution when sharing information online. Third, it is necessary to create limits and restrictions on usage of the internet.

All you pointed out are clear responsibility of the parents to help shapen the life's of their children and this should begin at the very early stage, let him be taught on morals and aswell see the reflection of that same thing his being taught in you as a parent, my people will say " An apple doesn't fall far from the tree", whatever attribute we portray their is high possibility of our kids becoming that same person. The internet is getting wild and kids should be restricted but how unfair kids are intellectually fit to manover such restrictions but first giving a child a proper home training is the best means to a successful society.

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Quote from: Obim34 on October 20, 2023, 02:24:15 PM

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

I think raising children is one of the most difficult assignments on earth. Most characters exhibited from children this days are being learnt from outside, most times schools and social gathering.
I do no think a parent will ask his child to dip his hands into fire, every parents would want his child to be responsible and well doing but most children decides to be irresponsible and use less to their society.
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.
The scripture will say, train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he won't depart from it. As you rightly said prayer is the strongest weapon

A few actions parents could do in order to direct their children in a beneficial path. First, display the conduct you wish to see in your children. If you want children to be kind and respectful, display that conduct by being respectful and kind yourself. Second, have discussions that are open and truthful with your children concerning the risks as well as advantages of the internet. Make sure they recognize that not everything they see online is sincere, and that they should use precaution when sharing information online. Third, it is necessary to create limits and restrictions on usage of the internet.

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Quote from: Obim34 on October 20, 2023, 02:24:15 PM

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

I think raising children is one of the most difficult assignments on earth. Most characters exhibited from children this days are being learnt from outside, most times schools and social gathering.
I do no think a parent will ask his child to dip his hands into fire, every parents would want his child to be responsible and well doing but most children decides to be irresponsible and use less to their society.
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.
The scripture will say, train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he won't depart from it. As you rightly said prayer is the strongest weapon

I would have totally agreed with you but your first statement where you said the character of children are beign learnt from outside that's a lie, before a kid knows anything he first learnt from his parents, I've seen kids just so young as 2 years exhibit character of beign insultive and arrogant and when I look at it one of his parents has such a character and the child only learnt from them, if a child came from a good home and learns bad character outside it is easy to solve such problem with discipline but not when he is learning from you as a parent that one can be very hard to deal with.

I understand your point, but do you think a child will get punished if his bad habit is being emulated from his parent, instead they should be proud of their child becoming like them. Children are easily satisfied with what they hear and see, both at home, around the neighborhood, school and where ever they find themselves.
Another reason why I said so, children spends much time not around their parents but in school where they get mixed up, do the calculation your self you will understand most of the habits children gets involved into are not learnt from home but outside.

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Quote from: Obim34 on October 20, 2023, 02:24:15 PM

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

I think raising children is one of the most difficult assignments on earth. Most characters exhibited from children this days are being learnt from outside, most times schools and social gathering.
I do no think a parent will ask his child to dip his hands into fire, every parents would want his child to be responsible and well doing but most children decides to be irresponsible and use less to their society.
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.
The scripture will say, train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he won't depart from it. As you rightly said prayer is the strongest weapon

I would have totally agreed with you but your first statement where you said the character of children are beign learnt from outside that's a lie, before a kid knows anything he first learnt from his parents, I've seen kids just so young as 2 years exhibit character of beign insultive and arrogant and when I look at it one of his parents has such a character and the child only learnt from them, if a child came from a good home and learns bad character outside it is easy to solve such problem with discipline but not when he is learning from you as a parent that one can be very hard to deal with.

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Raising a child in this society and during these challenging times can be difficult, there are so many things which can rather go against one's vision of what a family is.
If one does not have time to raise them, then internet will raise them and whatever youtuber or influencer which in the spotlight in that moment. I would have thought that with all this technology we currently have at hand, raising a child would have been easier...
Hopefully someday things will go back as they used to be, with people giving more attention to their family and spending more with their siblings, instead of focusing on their social media accounts 24/7.

Can you image what parenting in the future could look like? A busy couple leaving their children to entertain by himself with a VR headset... Roll Eyes

. A toddler being educated and raised by strangers on the internet through a VRchat avatar.

Boss you have mentioned many things which I found very interesting, technology advancement will be a problem to an extent in the future because most parents see themselves as digital parents and the have forgotten that there no way a technology can do more better than a human been because they are just programmed.
Parents should engage their children in discussion session to know there problems from time to time, they should be give attention despite how things is in the world today we should do our best as parents to train our children the way they should be an example to others to emulate.

It is a matter on how adults and parents see the ideal way to live their life's while having children, you know. There will be people who will always prefer to interact with their family in person and face to face, in the same way it has been done through all the human history, however, because of this new generations of parents feel more comfortable with the idea of technology shaping the way their interest with others, then it will be just matter of time before some company develops something like an Artificial Inteligence babysitter or something similar to it. So parents would not feel forced to give as much as family time to their children as before.

It is truly a double edged sword, if you ask me.

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Quote from: Hispo on October 21, 2023, 09:29:27 PM

Raising a child in this society and during these challenging times can be difficult, there are so many things which can rather go against one's vision of what a family is.
If one does not have time to raise them, then internet will raise them and whatever youtuber or influencer which in the spotlight in that moment. I would have thought that with all this technology we currently have at hand, raising a child would have been easier...
Hopefully someday things will go back as they used to be, with people giving more attention to their family and spending more with their siblings, instead of focusing on their social media accounts 24/7.

Can you image what parenting in the future could look like? A busy couple leaving their children to entertain by himself with a VR headset... Roll Eyes

. A toddler being educated and raised by strangers on the internet through a VRchat avatar.

Boss you have mentioned many things which I found very interesting, technology advancement will be a problem to an extent in the future because most parents see themselves as digital parents and the have forgotten that there no way a technology can do more better than a human been because they are just programmed.
Parents should engage their children in discussion session to know there problems from time to time, they should be give attention despite how things is in the world today we should do our best as parents to train our children the way they should be an example to others to emulate.

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Quote from: uchegod-21 on October 20, 2023, 02:48:41 PM

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound, it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected. If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong thing.

Parents are working tirelessly to put food on the table and make name for themselves too in the society. While they are at it, they tend to delegate their parental responsibilities to maids, relatives, teachers and even strangers. Giving room for the children to learn and know things they are not supposed to know.

Parents should take breaks from their busy schedule and social media too to rescue their children and the next generation at large. Teach the children the right values now or you will never have the opportunity to do it later.

You are completely accurate; parenting is an important obligation that should not be handled lightly. Parenting is more than just putting food on the table, dressing them, and providing the finest education possible; it is also about keeping an eye on them, knowing how they are living their lives, what they are capable of, and what they like and dislike. Knowing who those around them are is also important since they may be connected to their fellow students at school or church, which can be an advantage and a curse at the same time. There is a lot of pressure to fit in and be cool, and it can be difficult for youngsters to resist because they want to be included and do what everyone else is doing. So all of this might be a difficult time for the parents. So that's why we're often told to "train up a child in the way he should go, so that when they grow up, they won't depart."

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Undoubtedly, every age has its relative technological perplexities, so it has a tremendous influence on the people of all age bracket. The teenagers and the youths are the most victims if proper care is not accorded to them. Though prayers to the Almighty God is Paramount, yet one thing is needed as is stated below;
An adequate education on the Dynamics of the forces propelling the change of the society must be made known to the younger ones, and that the disseminated knowledge contains the advantages and disadvantages for people to learn and consider.

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Quote from: Tmoonz on February 27, 2024, 10:41:02 AM

Alot are really happening, formal education is very essential in the life of every children, children first learn easily by vision of what they see, and the environment they found then selves has major role to play, one funny thing is that most parents don't easily have enough time for children, and at that point they will find themselves wondering in the street looking for who they can relate their troubles with and most do end up getting bad advice.the truth is parents are meant to keep a close watch of their children as they are growing up to adult hood. There is increasing rate of bad influence globally such that any child that has a good home up bringing hardly mix up with the bad ones.

Although society indeed teaches a lot. But, unfortunately, it is worst that most of the parents do not spend time with their children to grow up the moral activities in the children. The one and last institute is indeed the mother's lap, so we should understand that along with the school education, We must take care to make the kids aware of our presence and play our part in their better education. What the children learn at home, we see the reflection of that in society, so must take care of our children along with their random studies at all .

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Alot are really happening, formal education is very essential in the life of every children, children first learn easily by vision of what they see, and the environment they found then selves has major role to play, one funny thing is that most parents don't easily have enough time for children, and at that point they will find themselves wondering in the street looking for who they can relate their troubles with and most do end up getting bad advice.the truth is parents are meant to keep a close watch of their children as they are growing up to adult hood. There is increasing rate of bad influence globally such that any child that has a good home up bringing hardly mix up with the bad ones.

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The most considerable aspect of raising up the kids are environments.
Environments are like Influences that either corrupts good manners or it breeds up good manners. At no cost can parents bring up their kids by themselves alone without the contribution from others. It could be either by the strangers or familiar people because your child you be in school and has to interact with people, they would have someone they can just say high to by the streets even when you the parents are walking along with them.
At ris juncture, they as kids either learns by what they sets their eyes on or by who Interacts with them. Since no parent wouldn't want to corrupt their kids by themselves and even if they they, it would be act of ignorance. So primarily environment matters considering how are child is brought up.

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There is a term called the generation gap, which is a natural phenomenon as a result of several variables that reflect on the individual’s personality and identity.
It is the gap between the ideas and beliefs of two or more generations. It includes differences or disparities in religious, political, and intellectual beliefs, values, actions, tastes, and others.

The mentality of parents in our time is completely different from those who raised you or me, and raising children has become difficult because the principles have changed and the way of raising has changed with them.
Despite the new generations obtaining all the material things that lead to life, we have forgotten how to make a child grow up with a lofty mentality and principles.

"It is easy to be a father and it's difficult to be a dad ".

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Quote from: Jonyshake71 on February 19, 2024, 07:15:17 PM

Absolutely The valid point. No one can love a children more than their parents. Teacher or others person just do thrir formalities and nothing else. But only partners grow their children with love and responsibility which create strong bonding between them but they are many parents who don't want to grow there children but send them to the Boarding school. And yeah prayer could be the strongest weapon cause thus a children can become responsible, discipline, well behaved, aware about good and bad things from his childhood

This is not always right everytime, there are parents who had abandoned their children for a very long time without caring for them.
Since we have good parents, we also have bad parent and we must try our best to make sure that we differentiate between the two.
The society is the one that trains children not just the biological parents. That is why they would always have to go to schools and learn behaviorally to be well suited for the society.

I second your though as I have seen this happening with a lot of my closed ones even my colleagues as they are way too occupied with their job and the running behind money which they do in order to provide better future for their children but at the same time they forget that spending time with their children is also very important as I have seen parents literally crying and regretting because they were too busy with their work and their children found solace with some random people who introduced them to drug. To cut a long story short we need to focus more on our children as we can earn money even at later stage but cannot relive the past and correct the mistakes.

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Quote from: Jonyshake71 on February 19, 2024, 07:15:17 PM

Absolutely The valid point. No one can love a children more than their parents. Teacher or others person just do thrir formalities and nothing else. But only partners grow their children with love and responsibility which create strong bonding between them but they are many parents who don't want to grow there children but send them to the Boarding school. And yeah prayer could be the strongest weapon cause thus a children can become responsible, discipline, well behaved, aware about good and bad things from his childhood

This is not always right everytime, there are parents who had abandoned their children for a very long time without caring for them.
Since we have good parents, we also have bad parent and we must try our best to make sure that we differentiate between the two.
The society is the one that trains children not just the biological parents. That is why they would always have to go to schools and learn behaviorally to be well suited for the society.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

it's not a very easy task in raising our children in this current society. Why because as parents one needs to create time for their children. These days we see how most children behave. They behave disrespectful and feels no one can tell them what to do and what not to do. And this is because of how some parents have raised their children. Growing up and seeing how life goes. I always tell myself I wouldn't bring up my children in the way they'll be new and scared of the outside world. Most parents have failed to educate their children on how to face the world and handle it in a manner they won't be scared. Parents should learn to educate their children on how the world works and not instilling fear in them. Those children who were caged at home are leaving reckless life when they are out of their parents home and then making wrong decisions because they feel the life they are seeing is sweet and better. It really isn't a simple task but every parent should try their best to make out time for their children, be disciplined, and educate them on the bad and good sides of life so that they won't go astray.

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Quote from: Bravut on February 13, 2024, 02:23:30 PM

Yh,I suggest parents spen more time with there kids,and nurture and train them in the right and proper moral standard of the society.
The illicit, illegal,Cyber crime and pornographic materials online is alarming and taking over almost all sites the world herself needs to revive and bring back the days, values was prioritize.
Religious organizations should also improve and set measures to curb this nuisance in our society.

This is a serious assignment that parents needs to carried out to help their kids not to get spoilt. The reason why kids gets into all this bad activities is because parents fails to carry out their duties. Parent this days fails to train their children in the best way for them to be able to do the right things as they grow up. The kind of parents that we have this days takes things for granted that is why so many young kids this days want to go into illegal lifestyle to make it in life.

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