Topic: Raising children in this current society - page 5. (Read 1028 times)

It is not easy training a child in this society where there are social and economic lifestyles to face at the early stage of their lives. That's why I give it up to parents who are training their children in a godly way without letting them fall out of good character to become a menace to society.

Training children comes with a whole lot of responsibilities and it is not what a family can do alone if they are not financially balanced, mentally okay, and know how to differentiate good from evil.

Children need to be guided properly at the early stage of their life. If a family is unable to catch them young to be of good character at their tender age, the family won't be able to achieve that again once the children grow of age.

Raising children is full of struggle and not as easy as previously imagined. Many parents feel stressed because they are worried that the parenting style they apply can shape their child into a person who is beyond their expectations. Being a parent is a very difficult task and no parent is perfect.
Children continue to learn new things as they grow. And, along the way they may encounter certain situations that require parental intervention to help them find a solution. Situations like this are challenges that require full attention from parents.
We really need to accompany our children's growth and development, provide support to our children & always pray for the best for our children.

Yes, in educating children, that is a tough task carried out by parents. Especially in raising our children in the digital era like today, it is very different from when parents were young when they were playing and playing. Now it cannot be denied that the development of technology is growing very rapidly, the presence of technology can make changes to the child's system, which will have a positive or negative impact, indeed technology can have a good impact on children being able to become independent and learn from the times, and there is a negative side to this. children easily open prohibited sites or are not old enough to open such sites, such as gambling sites, etc. It is true that educate your children according to the times. If we are successful in educating children, your child is a quality part of you.

In our society parents extremely careful about their children's. They think what is good for the children what is bad for there they try to do their best. Parents are always aware about their children's life and they are tensed about their children future life. That's the reason they took their children in a tight area for his bright future. In our society parents wants good future for the children but they don't think that what his child want to do and is his child comfortable that they want his child do in future for living.  That's the reason in our society parents create and pressure of the child for that kind of profession in future that his child didn't like. Many accepted everything and work their parents like. If somehow they look there is a hope to to have a success in the work the child want to do in future then the try to do that best but family didn't want to support him to do his work that he want to do. There is some kinds of parents in our society who will who support their child to do this that kind of work this child like. In my opinion if we are try to understand what our children like to do in future that will much helpful for them to being success in life.

Raising children in today's culture is difficult. The civilization has progressed to the point that youngsters are now exploited to promote indecency in society and are taught to accept it as a normal way of life. The family is the best way possible to socialise. Your child should be able to learn the fundamentals of life at home, as well as the consequences of engaging in unlawful activity.

Allow them to stay away from it and always see bad as bad even if everyone else is doing it and good as good even if no one else is doing it. As you stated OP, prayer is a weapon against it; nevertheless, parents must exert more effort to achieve this.

This kids become so addicted to their gadgets that they care less about what's going on around them and their parents seem so comfortable with it, provided the kids are not invading their privacy or disturbing their peace.

It gives me so much concern when I see an entire family (both parents inclusive ) addicted to one gadget or the other.  And the kids are left with little or no supervision. What is the future of those kids?

These generation parents have got it wrong. With the way children behave nowadays,  you'll know all is not well and if we do not pay attention to these problem,  things will go out of proportion.

This is the modern way of parenting today but it's just sad because it's totally different from how we were raised by our parents. Our internet is the outside play during the days and playing along with other kids.

But this time, the kids are enjoying watching other kids content by playing in every playground and with their toys instead of them playing there and with their own toys.

There's still a need to adjust for the screen time of kids and limit them so that they won't be exposed that much with technology.

Parents pride themselves on the manner that their toddlers are able to operate on Android phones. It is good that toddlers have opportunity to learn fast but the rate of exposure to the internet is the issue. Some parents are really carefree about how their children access the internet and when we are talking about the internet we know what it is, that all manner of pornography exist on the internet whether implied or explicit. Most companies that would run their ads online would impliedly include female who are unclad.

There is a lot of distractions these days when you raise a kid. Everything has their own gadgets and parenting has become pretty much easier because they'll just let the kid sit on the couch and let it alone use the tablet or smartphone.

And with all of these distractions sacrifices the typical parenting that we used to grow with. Technology can really be either useful or harmful depending on how it's used especially on parenting.

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

The challenges of this age is so enormous from financial aspect to the growth of internet and they all has influence on children.

A home that is not financial stable has a tendency of raising children who are going to be needy and having the need of necessities of life exposes children to the vices in society. The boys gets involved in gambling at early age, involve in taking of hard drugs which eventually lead them to gangs who are armed rubbers, kidnappers and other illicit vices including immoral acts and the ladies majorly involve in prostitution and child trafficking.

The internet has its positive and negative sides and so children who don't have good home training get involved to the negative aspect and turn out as internet scammers, hackers etc.

The parents have to focus at the early stage of the children which is the formative stage and it is very important to what a child becomes in the society. They say spare the rode and spoil the child, so the early stage is important in training a child.

Parenting a child now in this modern world seems to be very difficult, sometimes parents don't have time for there kids. The major thing a child needs is just love and care. And every parents is expected to love his/her child. Not the common love we see or hear because no parent will love his kids and send the child far away for studies at that little age. And sometimes what the parent don't get to teach the child the child learnt it from school or friends. If a child will be useful and be of good value to the society the parents must play a huge role in the life of the child. For example let's look at the story of Ben Calson, he wrote a book "think big" one of my favorite, Ben Calson was the dullest student in his class but he said his mom played an important role in his life, she will always force him and scold him to read his books, his mom made reading habit to be part of him, that's what I call a good parenting, so if Ben mom did'nt scold him he would not be where he is today.

Children these day lack to exhibit a reading habit all there attention is on social media, little kids these day I see dancing on tiktok I get amaze. Since the world is now a digital world but somethings should be regulated for our kids.

Some parents see their children as burdens.  They prefer to send them to schools at a tender age so that thay can have the time to engage in other activities. But they fail to know that the most important task of a parent is to properly raise children. Even during holidays, children are still sent out for what they call in my country "Summer Lessons" just to ensure that they don't stay at home. It is understandable when parents have to engage in these actions because of work but when it is done because of pleasure or the inability to take responsibility, then it is very wrong.

Children of this age learn more from ICT, mostly social media. Parents should always monitor children's activities online to ensure that they are not been exposed to drugs, pornography, religious extremism, terrorism, underage gambling, and scams. It is also important for parents to know who the friends of their children are. They should ensure that they are hanging out with the right company.

Don't also fail to correct and sometimes discipline the child when he is wrong. And also encourage and reward him when he does the right thing. Spend time with your children and always discuss how they are doing in school and other places. Be friendly so that they can always tell you how the feel about certain situations. Prayers are more potent when you play your role as a parent.

Raising a child in this society and during these challenging times can be difficult, there are so many things which can rather go against one's vision of  what a family is.
If one does not have time to raise them, then internet will raise them and whatever youtuber or influencer which in the spotlight in that moment. I would have thought that with all this technology we currently have at hand, raising a child would have been easier...
Hopefully someday things will go back as they used to be, with people giving more attention to their family and spending more with their siblings, instead of focusing on their social media accounts 24/7.

Can you image what parenting in the future could look like? A busy couple leaving their children to entertain by himself with a VR headset...  . A toddler being educated and raised by strangers on the internet through a VRchat avatar.

Exactly...time..most parents hardly have time for their children... imagine admitting a child as young as nine months into a school just because they hardly home

In America, one of the best things you can do is to change the birth certificates (BCs) for your children.

BCs have a form in which they have been drawn up. The form matches a standard, simple transfer of property form like the Uniform Commercial Code shows. When you sign the BC, especially if you are the mother, you transfer the child into trust under the government. You wind up being second to the government in the trusteeship. Government becomes the reigning Trustee.

The first thing to do is, when you sign any document with government, sign it on the signature with the words "non-assumpsit" ahead of your signature. Non-assumpsit means 'no contract'. Government will accept many of your 'agreements' with them this way. And you ultimately will not actually have made a contract with them.

Regarding the BC, you probably want it for your child. There are benefits in life that your child can gain through having a BC. But there are protections from the long arm of the government if you don't have a BC for your child... although you might have to show it in court. But your strength will be greater if you can show that there wasn't any written agreement, and the benefits were simply given. Think it through.

The next thing to do is to change your signature on any current BCs of your children. Change it so that the 'non-assumpsit' words are added to it. This may be difficult in some States, but it can be done.

Home school your children, so that they are not indoctrinated by government's worldly indoctrination. Teach your children about Jesus-salvation, teaching them from the Bible.

Giving your child a solid foundation comes down to us as parents finding time for them. They learn so fast and are influenced by what ever happens in school or kindergarden but even with those events, us as parents can influence how they view it. I feel like this covid era hurt smaller kids so much, especially in places where masking was mandatory. That influence is so hard to revert.

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers, we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

I think that parents should be lifelong guardians for their children not only for a certain age but also after adulthood if they make a wrong decision and move forward according to that decision Parents must take responsibility to steer them away from the wrong path if they try and raising children is one of the most complex tasks in the world.Moral Decay Social Decline Political Decline Family Expectations There are many factors that hinder child-rearing Our social system has become such that parents want children It is not possible to educate or educate the children properly, parents are not able to educate their children in a self-directed manner, and our social system is responsible for this.The society has imposed certain rules due to which the parents cannot make their children drink red even if they try hard, due to which the children are not able to acquire patriotism even though they are educated and the country is not good for the nation Because of this I agree with your words that prayer is a very powerful medium and also one's responsibility is to blame one's prayer and neglect one's responsibility There are some moral issues of parents behind not bringing up their children well that the parents or family environment order in the family they are messy in their own life no matter how much you No matter how hard Law education tries, the children of that family will never be like human beings, they will always conduct social activities Finally, whatever you do through proper work education will bring good benefits to your family and if we don't try to change ourselves, the children will also follow our example worse.

That's right, no one can raise a child better than his/her parents. She/he came from them and that's why there's the bond which is stronger than any other connection from other people. But there are also parents that are no good in raising kids, they just want to have fun and all of a sudden created a human being that they can't handle because of being irresponsible. As for the teachers, there are teachers that do care that much to their students especially the little ones and in the grade schools.

I agree about prayer but remember that prayer without action is nothing. You keep on praying but as a parent, you do nothing to do what's best for your child. We as parents serve as their guardian automatically is already bonded to them until we die. This is the reality about being a parent. We will always be a parent to our kids and someday they will depart from us and will make their own families. But even with that, they're always our kids and we'll always be a parent to them no matter how old they grow and no matter how what happens and even the world turns upside down.

Prayer will not solve everything, in raising a good child, a parent need to be committed to the task especially when the child is still very young because that is a very delicate stage and age to learn the good and bad, and because the bad can easily be learnt, every parent need to be careful and watchful of the  kind of friends their children keep and also be watchful of the kind of movies and television program that they watch. As a parent, you need to draw your child close, so that they will be able to talk to you when they are confused, so that they will not make bad decisions in life.