Raising children in this current society - page 5.

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Quote from: Dunamisx on October 21, 2023, 08:09:42 AM

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers,
we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

The environment or society always plays a very important role in the lives of our children's because it is the first step in their lives. So we are to be very cautious about the environment we allow our children to react to. It is not that we shouldn't keep our children away from the environment, but the trust is that parents have to take very good steps in monitoring their children's behaviors so that children are not fully influenced by the habits of society because they can be good or bad. But with the challenges we are facing now in the 21st century, almost all environments face a high percent of bad habits that children can easily learn and be a great problem to control later in the future. So parents should not fully depend on any society to raise their children for them; parents need to be supportive of their children when they are growing so they can be positive.

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Quote from: Dunamisx on October 21, 2023, 08:09:42 AM

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers, we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

In 19th century parents don't do much in raising their children but you will see child will be well behaved, Is the duty of every parents to serve as guidance to this children but still they can not do it alone they need the help of the society. In early century society help in taking care of children more than the parents but this is all done by the help of parents, parents don't follow their children around, during that period if the child did something bad and elderly person see it they take the action immediately by punishing the child and the parents will be very happy and also thanks the person and when the child got home he/she received another punishment again by their parents.

In this new era parents themselves found it difficult to raise their children because of the way the society had turned to, now parents take the full responsibility of taking care of their children not like before that society use to be, the main issue of this is as a result of social media that have free access, this is based on my observation, anyone can view it in different way.

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Quote from: Asiska02 on October 29, 2023, 05:19:36 PM

The world is in the age where children are being born into modern civilization, those that are not needed during the child’s early developmental stages but they can’t be avoided because we value and respect civilization more than any other thing that should be of more importance to us. What we should be aware and do is that, we shouldn’t allow our children to be caught up in this mess called civilization, thereby allowing them to lose the basic parental upbringing that will shape their future. If this type of mistake is made, their life become increasingly unbearable to handle for them because of the restrictions you will want to impose on them and can’t happen at that time.

Early child up bringing is important and most crucial both in education. Children need the kind of appropriate education that will increase his or her prospect in life and for better living and opportunity.

Civilization is not all that bad because there are certain advantage that comes with it for instance you can access all information you require in your academic endervour online online in the past that you must study through hardcopy document. However, parents can avoid some habits that are not good for children upbringing because at that stage of childhood, everything is assimilated as their bring is very quick to pick both right and wrong. The burden is on the parent in the training of the child, so avoid activities you don't want your child to know at least in his early stage.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

The world is in the age where children are being born into modern civilization, those that are not needed during the child’s early developmental stages but they can’t be avoided because we value and respect civilization more than any other thing that should be of more importance to us. What we should be aware and do is that, we shouldn’t allow our children to be caught up in this mess called civilization, thereby allowing them to lose the basic parental upbringing that will shape their future. If this type of mistake is made, their life become increasingly unbearable to handle for them because of the restrictions you will want to impose on them and can’t happen at that time.

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The mind of an infant is like a new computer. It absorbs whatever you feed into it and it overtime, recognizes and adapts your pattern and behaviors. You also install an anti virus software as it would most likely come in contact with different computer viruses out there.

There have always been and probably would always be vices in our society. That’s not going to change any time soon as it seems to be getting worse as time goes by. Parents need to do more on how they bond and interact with their kids. Teach them right from wrong and how to treat other people with your words and your actions. It’s not an easy job to train a kid right but it can be done.

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Several religions of the world having tens of millions of followers have been for long offering prayers to the supreme being. That hasn’t stopped or reduced the wrongdoings and suffering that people endure. Thoughts and prayers alone won’t solve anything.

Proverbs 22:6. Solomon who is known for his great wisdom already tipped us off.

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Children need to be loved. Parents need to understand that just giving birth to a child and providing for the child is not love.
Parents should have a close relationship with their kids. Kids should be able to talk to their parents freely about anything.
There's no point in being like a master to your children where you tell them to do and not do a thing and they just say "Yes ma/sir".
Be like a friend to your children. Let them be comfortable with you enough to come to you with every little business that goes on in their lives.
If they see someone they have a crush on, they should be able to talk to you about it. If they do something wrong outside, they should be comfortable enough to tell you about it. This way you can teach them the right way of life.

When you have a relationship with your kids, they respect you, and they idolize you. That way it'll be easier to teach them. Children are smart, they may not fully understand but they'll see how much you try for them, and that way they'll be more inclined to listen to you and do what you'd like even when they're not where you are.
Try not to do what you don't want them doing at any point in their lives, it doesn't matter if it's in front of them or behind them.

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In other countries that have a failed society, other parents are considering home school because the schools that they used to trust are not reliable anymore when it comes to teaching their children the right way. Thankfully, this is not the case in our country because we still have schools that are strictly teaching children real education from their childhood until college in the universities. We still have the traditional atmosphere when going to school despite countless brainwashing all around the world and that's because our government is still active and well when it comes to updating the children about their educations and needs.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

This is helpful for people or parents who are very religious, unfortunately many religious parents also often fail to educate their children properly according to their religious beliefs because religious parents often just force their children to follow what they are told without being able to answer correctly any of their children's curiosity, so prayer alone is not enough.
Parents must be able to be friends with their children and be the first person to help their children when they have questions about this world, so you have to be a parent who has a lot of knowledge and never let other people, including teachers at school or close relatives, be the ones who have a big role in educating your child because that is a mistake.

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Lmao! This is supposedly to be a joke to show how incompetent you are. Your grandma take care of dozen of kids too, but you failed to baby sitting just two kids? That is a lot to make fun of, whether you are too spoilt and unable to work hard, obviously all you gotta do is work harder, taking three jobs, trade crypto during lunchbreak, trade for passive income, earn from dropshipping, whatever, don't make your grandma disappointed! Joke aside, I can see how you would evntually raise kid into a spoilt brat too, but why should I care about someone else problems, I had seem enough how society is shaped toward punishing good samaritan, good guy always die huh? And good luck raising your child to be another good guy that would be as gullible as the good samaritan.

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It is not easy training a child in this society where there are social and economic lifestyles to face at the early stage of their lives. That's why I give it up to parents who are training their children in a godly way without letting them fall out of good character to become a menace to society.

Training children comes with a whole lot of responsibilities and it is not what a family can do alone if they are not financially balanced, mentally okay, and know how to differentiate good from evil.

Children need to be guided properly at the early stage of their life. If a family is unable to catch them young to be of good character at their tender age, the family won't be able to achieve that again once the children grow of age.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Raising children is full of struggle and not as easy as previously imagined. Many parents feel stressed because they are worried that the parenting style they apply can shape their child into a person who is beyond their expectations. Being a parent is a very difficult task and no parent is perfect.
Children continue to learn new things as they grow. And, along the way they may encounter certain situations that require parental intervention to help them find a solution. Situations like this are challenges that require full attention from parents.
We really need to accompany our children's growth and development, provide support to our children & always pray for the best for our children.

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Yes, in educating children, that is a tough task carried out by parents. Especially in raising our children in the digital era like today, it is very different from when parents were young when they were playing and playing. Now it cannot be denied that the development of technology is growing very rapidly, the presence of technology can make changes to the child's system, which will have a positive or negative impact, indeed technology can have a good impact on children being able to become independent and learn from the times, and there is a negative side to this. children easily open prohibited sites or are not old enough to open such sites, such as gambling sites, etc. It is true that educate your children according to the times. If we are successful in educating children, your child is a quality part of you.

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In our society parents extremely careful about their children's. They think what is good for the children what is bad for there they try to do their best. Parents are always aware about their children's life and they are tensed about their children future life. That's the reason they took their children in a tight area for his bright future. In our society parents wants good future for the children but they don't think that what his child want to do and is his child comfortable that they want his child do in future for living. That's the reason in our society parents create and pressure of the child for that kind of profession in future that his child didn't like. Many accepted everything and work their parents like. If somehow they look there is a hope to to have a success in the work the child want to do in future then the try to do that best but family didn't want to support him to do his work that he want to do. There is some kinds of parents in our society who will who support their child to do this that kind of work this child like. In my opinion if we are try to understand what our children like to do in future that will much helpful for them to being success in life.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Raising children in today's culture is difficult. The civilization has progressed to the point that youngsters are now exploited to promote indecency in society and are taught to accept it as a normal way of life. The family is the best way possible to socialise. Your child should be able to learn the fundamentals of life at home, as well as the consequences of engaging in unlawful activity.

Allow them to stay away from it and always see bad as bad even if everyone else is doing it and good as good even if no one else is doing it. As you stated OP, prayer is a weapon against it; nevertheless, parents must exert more effort to achieve this.

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Quote from: sunsilk on October 22, 2023, 02:18:04 PM

There is a lot of distractions these days when you raise a kid. Everything has their own gadgets and parenting has become pretty much easier because they'll just let the kid sit on the couch and let it alone use the tablet or smartphone.

And with all of these distractions sacrifices the typical parenting that we used to grow with. Technology can really be either useful or harmful depending on how it's used especially on parenting.

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

This kids become so addicted to their gadgets that they care less about what's going on around them and their parents seem so comfortable with it, provided the kids are not invading their privacy or disturbing their peace.

It gives me so much concern when I see an entire family (both parents inclusive ) addicted to one gadget or the other. And the kids are left with little or no supervision. What is the future of those kids?

These generation parents have got it wrong. With the way children behave nowadays, you'll know all is not well and if we do not pay attention to these problem, things will go out of proportion.

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Quote from: Gozie51 on October 22, 2023, 02:43:19 PM

Quote from: sunsilk on October 22, 2023, 02:18:04 PM

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

Parents pride themselves on the manner that their toddlers are able to operate on Android phones. It is good that toddlers have opportunity to learn fast but the rate of exposure to the internet is the issue. Some parents are really carefree about how their children access the internet and when we are talking about the internet we know what it is, that all manner of pornography exist on the internet whether implied or explicit. Most companies that would run their ads online would impliedly include female who are unclad.

This is the modern way of parenting today but it's just sad because it's totally different from how we were raised by our parents. Our internet is the outside play during the days and playing along with other kids.

But this time, the kids are enjoying watching other kids content by playing in every playground and with their toys instead of them playing there and with their own toys.

There's still a need to adjust for the screen time of kids and limit them so that they won't be exposed that much with technology.

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Quote from: sunsilk on October 22, 2023, 02:18:04 PM

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

Parents pride themselves on the manner that their toddlers are able to operate on Android phones. It is good that toddlers have opportunity to learn fast but the rate of exposure to the internet is the issue. Some parents are really carefree about how their children access the internet and when we are talking about the internet we know what it is, that all manner of pornography exist on the internet whether implied or explicit. Most companies that would run their ads online would impliedly include female who are unclad.

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There is a lot of distractions these days when you raise a kid. Everything has their own gadgets and parenting has become pretty much easier because they'll just let the kid sit on the couch and let it alone use the tablet or smartphone.

And with all of these distractions sacrifices the typical parenting that we used to grow with. Technology can really be either useful or harmful depending on how it's used especially on parenting.

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

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The challenges of this age is so enormous from financial aspect to the growth of internet and they all has influence on children.

A home that is not financial stable has a tendency of raising children who are going to be needy and having the need of necessities of life exposes children to the vices in society. The boys gets involved in gambling at early age, involve in taking of hard drugs which eventually lead them to gangs who are armed rubbers, kidnappers and other illicit vices including immoral acts and the ladies majorly involve in prostitution and child trafficking.

The internet has its positive and negative sides and so children who don't have good home training get involved to the negative aspect and turn out as internet scammers, hackers etc.

The parents have to focus at the early stage of the children which is the formative stage and it is very important to what a child becomes in the society. They say spare the rode and spoil the child, so the early stage is important in training a child.

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Parenting a child now in this modern world seems to be very difficult, sometimes parents don't have time for there kids. The major thing a child needs is just love and care. And every parents is expected to love his/her child. Not the common love we see or hear because no parent will love his kids and send the child far away for studies at that little age. And sometimes what the parent don't get to teach the child the child learnt it from school or friends. If a child will be useful and be of good value to the society the parents must play a huge role in the life of the child. For example let's look at the story of Ben Calson, he wrote a book "think big" one of my favorite, Ben Calson was the dullest student in his class but he said his mom played an important role in his life, she will always force him and scold him to read his books, his mom made reading habit to be part of him, that's what I call a good parenting, so if Ben mom did'nt scold him he would not be where he is today.

Children these day lack to exhibit a reading habit all there attention is on social media, little kids these day I see dancing on tiktok I get amaze. Since the world is now a digital world but somethings should be regulated for our kids.

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