Raising children in this current society - page 4.

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Quote from: btc78 on November 10, 2023, 08:45:16 PM

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

Yes, they’re no perfect parents anywhere but your opinion about kids always going to have something to hate their parents for is not entirely true.
I also don’t think parents having a busy schedule and not having much time to spend on their kids could make their kids resent them. They’re quite aware of the busy schedules of their parents and may feel bad at their absence, but certainly not resentment.

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Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 11:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

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Quote from: Bushdark on November 10, 2023, 07:21:58 PM

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Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 11:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

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Quote from: boyptc on November 10, 2023, 06:35:20 PM

Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 11:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

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Quote from: boyptc on November 10, 2023, 06:35:20 PM

Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 11:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

The "coco melon" really cracked me up. I didn't know any of those stuff till a child's mum broke it down to me after her child was crying and requesting to watch it. Back then, when we were growing up, we had our novels to read and not much of screens to watch, even with PG rating on some moves and documentary, it's still not easy to raise kids.

It's like the society is ahead of itself, racing to nowhere and certain morals are extinguishing and society feels safe and when the consequences erupts, mental health is blamed, what a pity.

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Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 11:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

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I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult. Although you might think you are training them well, but not knowing that socialization is advantageous and also disadvantageous. Example you teach your children the way of life and how to scale through hoddles in life, who should be there role model and there about. But as they meet some friends that lacks home training dey choose their lifestyle because bad things are easy to learn than good. Sometimes dey go to porn site and download or whatch ponography which will leed to early quest for sex at tender age. Some female might got unwanted pregnancy while some boys also fall to same trap. Likewise also drug and smoking adict. So training a child nowadays of internt is quite difficult.

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Raising children is one of the most difficult responsibilities one can be saddled with, most especially at this period of the age where information is flying here and there most of which is wrong and has a great tendency to mislead the younger ones.

For you to parent your children rightly you need to be very intentional about it and it will require you to take decision to deprive them certain privileges that will expose them to the vices in society.

Of course, you can't perform the role of a parent all by yourself and so you will need the religious organization, the school, and other social institutions to help you in the process, and because there is a high possibility that the information they feed your children could be flawed, you have to constantly monitor there thought process to ascertain there view on so many matters regarding life.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Prayer, strongest weapon? There are lots people who don't believe in prayers and they still raise well behaved children. There are also very prayerful people who are even religious leaders and yet there their children choose to misbehave in the society. Does it mean they don't pray enough?.

The society is already full of all sorts of vices. But we can still find ways of ensuring that our children get disciplined when they do wrong. While I was growing up, another parent or an elder can even discipline a child and still report the child to the real parents for more disciplinary actions. But today if you try it with some parents, you will be in trouble. People now spare the rod to spoil the child.

We can take actions not prayers. Know their friends, Know where about, put them in good schools where indiscipline is not tolerated and always be there for your children.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

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Raising children in this current society has to be a full time job. It should not be a responsibility to push to the hands of another person like a minder. No matter how busy you are, you have to look for time and a way to fit in your responsibilities to your children so that you can always know what is happening in their life and not just be too focused on your job that you end up being successful in career, but raised bad children that you cannot be proud of, or children that will bring the family name to the mud. If you are not set to be a parent, you do not have to become one yet.

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Teachers are great, but they can't replace the influence of parents. Parents have big responsibilities to do. You have got to keep an eye on what your kids are up to, who they're hanging out with and what they're absorbing online. It's a lot of work but it's essential to ensure they grow up with the right values and understanding.

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Quote from: Dunamisx on October 21, 2023, 09:09:42 AM

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers,
we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

The environment or society always plays a very important role in the lives of our children's because it is the first step in their lives. So we are to be very cautious about the environment we allow our children to react to. It is not that we shouldn't keep our children away from the environment, but the trust is that parents have to take very good steps in monitoring their children's behaviors so that children are not fully influenced by the habits of society because they can be good or bad. But with the challenges we are facing now in the 21st century, almost all environments face a high percent of bad habits that children can easily learn and be a great problem to control later in the future. So parents should not fully depend on any society to raise their children for them; parents need to be supportive of their children when they are growing so they can be positive.

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Quote from: Dunamisx on October 21, 2023, 09:09:42 AM

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers, we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

In 19th century parents don't do much in raising their children but you will see child will be well behaved, Is the duty of every parents to serve as guidance to this children but still they can not do it alone they need the help of the society. In early century society help in taking care of children more than the parents but this is all done by the help of parents, parents don't follow their children around, during that period if the child did something bad and elderly person see it they take the action immediately by punishing the child and the parents will be very happy and also thanks the person and when the child got home he/she received another punishment again by their parents.

In this new era parents themselves found it difficult to raise their children because of the way the society had turned to, now parents take the full responsibility of taking care of their children not like before that society use to be, the main issue of this is as a result of social media that have free access, this is based on my observation, anyone can view it in different way.

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Quote from: Asiska02 on October 29, 2023, 06:19:36 PM

The world is in the age where children are being born into modern civilization, those that are not needed during the child’s early developmental stages but they can’t be avoided because we value and respect civilization more than any other thing that should be of more importance to us. What we should be aware and do is that, we shouldn’t allow our children to be caught up in this mess called civilization, thereby allowing them to lose the basic parental upbringing that will shape their future. If this type of mistake is made, their life become increasingly unbearable to handle for them because of the restrictions you will want to impose on them and can’t happen at that time.

Early child up bringing is important and most crucial both in education. Children need the kind of appropriate education that will increase his or her prospect in life and for better living and opportunity.

Civilization is not all that bad because there are certain advantage that comes with it for instance you can access all information you require in your academic endervour online online in the past that you must study through hardcopy document. However, parents can avoid some habits that are not good for children upbringing because at that stage of childhood, everything is assimilated as their bring is very quick to pick both right and wrong. The burden is on the parent in the training of the child, so avoid activities you don't want your child to know at least in his early stage.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

The world is in the age where children are being born into modern civilization, those that are not needed during the child’s early developmental stages but they can’t be avoided because we value and respect civilization more than any other thing that should be of more importance to us. What we should be aware and do is that, we shouldn’t allow our children to be caught up in this mess called civilization, thereby allowing them to lose the basic parental upbringing that will shape their future. If this type of mistake is made, their life become increasingly unbearable to handle for them because of the restrictions you will want to impose on them and can’t happen at that time.

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The mind of an infant is like a new computer. It absorbs whatever you feed into it and it overtime, recognizes and adapts your pattern and behaviors. You also install an anti virus software as it would most likely come in contact with different computer viruses out there.

There have always been and probably would always be vices in our society. That’s not going to change any time soon as it seems to be getting worse as time goes by. Parents need to do more on how they bond and interact with their kids. Teach them right from wrong and how to treat other people with your words and your actions. It’s not an easy job to train a kid right but it can be done.

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Several religions of the world having tens of millions of followers have been for long offering prayers to the supreme being. That hasn’t stopped or reduced the wrongdoings and suffering that people endure. Thoughts and prayers alone won’t solve anything.

Proverbs 22:6. Solomon who is known for his great wisdom already tipped us off.

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Children need to be loved. Parents need to understand that just giving birth to a child and providing for the child is not love.
Parents should have a close relationship with their kids. Kids should be able to talk to their parents freely about anything.
There's no point in being like a master to your children where you tell them to do and not do a thing and they just say "Yes ma/sir".
Be like a friend to your children. Let them be comfortable with you enough to come to you with every little business that goes on in their lives.
If they see someone they have a crush on, they should be able to talk to you about it. If they do something wrong outside, they should be comfortable enough to tell you about it. This way you can teach them the right way of life.

When you have a relationship with your kids, they respect you, and they idolize you. That way it'll be easier to teach them. Children are smart, they may not fully understand but they'll see how much you try for them, and that way they'll be more inclined to listen to you and do what you'd like even when they're not where you are.
Try not to do what you don't want them doing at any point in their lives, it doesn't matter if it's in front of them or behind them.

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In other countries that have a failed society, other parents are considering home school because the schools that they used to trust are not reliable anymore when it comes to teaching their children the right way. Thankfully, this is not the case in our country because we still have schools that are strictly teaching children real education from their childhood until college in the universities. We still have the traditional atmosphere when going to school despite countless brainwashing all around the world and that's because our government is still active and well when it comes to updating the children about their educations and needs.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 09:01:34 AM

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

This is helpful for people or parents who are very religious, unfortunately many religious parents also often fail to educate their children properly according to their religious beliefs because religious parents often just force their children to follow what they are told without being able to answer correctly any of their children's curiosity, so prayer alone is not enough.
Parents must be able to be friends with their children and be the first person to help their children when they have questions about this world, so you have to be a parent who has a lot of knowledge and never let other people, including teachers at school or close relatives, be the ones who have a big role in educating your child because that is a mistake.

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Lmao! This is supposedly to be a joke to show how incompetent you are. Your grandma take care of dozen of kids too, but you failed to baby sitting just two kids? That is a lot to make fun of, whether you are too spoilt and unable to work hard, obviously all you gotta do is work harder, taking three jobs, trade crypto during lunchbreak, trade for passive income, earn from dropshipping, whatever, don't make your grandma disappointed! Joke aside, I can see how you would evntually raise kid into a spoilt brat too, but why should I care about someone else problems, I had seem enough how society is shaped toward punishing good samaritan, good guy always die huh? And good luck raising your child to be another good guy that would be as gullible as the good samaritan.

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