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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

It appears that children are being born into a higher level of age in this day and age. Children tend to learn faster at a young age, perhaps this is because they are exposed to computers at a young age, making them so familiar with them that they misuse them. Children who are raised differently and lack proper morals in society are frequently victims of excessive internet exposure. Lack of regulation on its use for children has reduced it to a toy tool for them to explore and interact with things they are not supposed to at their young age, fostering bad habits and behaviour in society.

The family is the first stage of a child's socialisation, if they fail in that aspect, they will fail in every other aspect and are more likely to be influenced and involved in illegal activities. Keeping a good and proper check on your children's activities is the best thing for every parent to do in this new age; if the parents lacks in this regard, it begins to be the doom of the children in society.

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Quote from: uchegod-21 on October 20, 2023, 01:48:41 PM

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound, it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected. If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong thing.

This is the era of information technology and it brings with it all manners of negative vices and the youth are the major carriers of these vices. Technology has brought so many innovations that has made humanity more comfortable to live in the world but at the same time we are facing serious training challenge in our hands.

Children learn so much unhealthy stuffs from the visual media, television and the rest, they browse online to see things they age is not ready to graple with and so they also exibit them wrongly. I believe the biblical verse that says spare the rod and spoil the child is very much suited for this era. Parents have to be on toes to be sure that they turn out good children and youth to the society because good and sane society actually starts from the training young people receive.

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Quote from: uchegod-21 on October 20, 2023, 01:48:41 PM

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound, it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected. If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong thing.

Well even though there may be some element of truth in what you said, but the truth is that that is just a statement based on assumptions and we have to be very aware of that and its possibilities, we can't say that all the kids that falls that age of 2000 are all rude since we still have some children's who are born in that age who are still very well behaved and have control them self and behaved most respectfully,

But if we say they have high mental alertness to attract whatever character that is exhibited around them, that I may accept and be the reason why some of them may be rude is because of the environment they grow in and the behaviour of their parents determined also behave.

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Quote from: sunsilk on October 22, 2023, 02:18:04 PM

There is a lot of distractions these days when you raise a kid. Everything has their own gadgets and parenting has become pretty much easier because they'll just let the kid sit on the couch and let it alone use the tablet or smartphone.

And with all of these distractions sacrifices the typical parenting that we used to grow with. Technology can really be either useful or harmful depending on how it's used especially on parenting.

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

There are so many distractions these days that it is hard even for an adult to talk about raising a child. As the world gets better, so does talk of crime, corruption, and many other things. Gadgets have a way of making parenting easier for busy parents, but when children become overly dependent on them, it can have negative effects on them. and parent rely on their children's gadgets so they don't even have enough time to spend with their children, and that will have psychological effect on them.

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Quote from: Suzume on November 11, 2023, 02:30:32 AM

Our society makes childrens life hell. Because society forces them to do what against their comfort zone. Children who like to do something the society say what they will do in future he has no bright future with his dedication and this type of work he loves. Because of society many lost their dreams that makes the children's sad and broken but they have nothing to do because their parents don't understand them. Why they will understand them every parents are tensed with their children future what they will do in life that's why the force to do that work their parents like. Because of that kind of mentality what society will say what are you going to do that's make a children depressed that's why many children's committed suicide and many fell into depression.

This reality was not tied to a specific time because caring for children was and still is a difficult task at all times and in any place. The peculiarity that characterizes our time is that the requirements for living, including basics and luxuries, have become very expensive due to the world’s integration into a globalized totalitarian system that makes economies affected by each other.

Today, due to the Ukrainian crisis, there has been a disruption in the distribution of grains to many countries of the world and an increase in the prices of all materials that use grains as raw materials. The rise in feed prices in the countries that produce them also leads to an increase in the prices of milk and all its derivatives in most countries of the world.

All of these indicators make it difficult to ensure easy living conditions for children, not to mention the security instability that threatens the modern world due to racist movements and conflicts for interests.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

It's about educating yourself on raising children, and not being a main character of your life anymore. You sometimes need to put your life on hold as it was and focus on what's important.
When you get your first child, your priorities and some of your values will shift. You should put more focus on practicality and psychological well being rather than delegating your work to some spirit, or what ever you believe in.

You can pray if you want or not to pray if it suits you, but that doesn't really affect the outcome, especially if you are trusting solely in praying. It might relax you as a form of meditation, but don't count that as a parenting. You need to do parenting yourself and not trust invisible dad from the sky to watch your kids. There's an actual physical parents that child needs to be present and noticing them in order for them to grow up as emphatic, and balanced, good human beings.

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You don't need to worry about that. BD-level of crazy is whole another scale and government will take custody of those children in no-time.

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Being a parent is not easy either and with the current work environment they have to spent more time doing their duties for their bosses than their loved ones because money is crucial for everything. And mostly both parents has to go for the job to meet their needs so the kid is actually brought by a third person.

Teachers play a vital role but they also forget their responsibility of teaching discipline is a basic manner.

Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

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This is Bullshit! you need to take responsibility for whatever happens.

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It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

That is true.

But being responsible is different, we all know that there's no perfect parenthood and even kids too. It is just so happen that the current society and with the modern technology, if we're going to combine both of them, it's always been impactful whether negatively or positively.

The dependence of it is always based on how the parents do handle the grooming of their own kids. I just hope that I'd be also one of the good parents out there despite that I'm quite a busy guy and I do understand about being busy on work and at the same time raising a child.

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Our society makes childrens life hell. Because society forces them to do what against their comfort zone. Children who like to do something the society say what they will do in future he has no bright future with his dedication and this type of work he loves. Because of society many lost their dreams that makes the children's sad and broken but they have nothing to do because their parents don't understand them. Why they will understand them every parents are tensed with their children future what they will do in life that's why the force to do that work their parents like. Because of that kind of mentality what society will say what are you going to do that's make a children depressed that's why many children's committed suicide and many fell into depression.

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Quote from: btc78 on November 10, 2023, 07:45:16 PM

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

Yes, they’re no perfect parents anywhere but your opinion about kids always going to have something to hate their parents for is not entirely true.
I also don’t think parents having a busy schedule and not having much time to spend on their kids could make their kids resent them. They’re quite aware of the busy schedules of their parents and may feel bad at their absence, but certainly not resentment.

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Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 10:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

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Quote from: Bushdark on November 10, 2023, 06:21:58 PM

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I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

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Quote from: boyptc on November 10, 2023, 05:35:20 PM

Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 10:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

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Quote from: boyptc on November 10, 2023, 05:35:20 PM

Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 10:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

The "coco melon" really cracked me up. I didn't know any of those stuff till a child's mum broke it down to me after her child was crying and requesting to watch it. Back then, when we were growing up, we had our novels to read and not much of screens to watch, even with PG rating on some moves and documentary, it's still not easy to raise kids.

It's like the society is ahead of itself, racing to nowhere and certain morals are extinguishing and society feels safe and when the consequences erupts, mental health is blamed, what a pity.

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Quote from: Samlucky O on November 09, 2023, 10:12:33 AM

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

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I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult. Although you might think you are training them well, but not knowing that socialization is advantageous and also disadvantageous. Example you teach your children the way of life and how to scale through hoddles in life, who should be there role model and there about. But as they meet some friends that lacks home training dey choose their lifestyle because bad things are easy to learn than good. Sometimes dey go to porn site and download or whatch ponography which will leed to early quest for sex at tender age. Some female might got unwanted pregnancy while some boys also fall to same trap. Likewise also drug and smoking adict. So training a child nowadays of internt is quite difficult.

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Raising children is one of the most difficult responsibilities one can be saddled with, most especially at this period of the age where information is flying here and there most of which is wrong and has a great tendency to mislead the younger ones.

For you to parent your children rightly you need to be very intentional about it and it will require you to take decision to deprive them certain privileges that will expose them to the vices in society.

Of course, you can't perform the role of a parent all by yourself and so you will need the religious organization, the school, and other social institutions to help you in the process, and because there is a high possibility that the information they feed your children could be flawed, you have to constantly monitor there thought process to ascertain there view on so many matters regarding life.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Prayer, strongest weapon? There are lots people who don't believe in prayers and they still raise well behaved children. There are also very prayerful people who are even religious leaders and yet there their children choose to misbehave in the society. Does it mean they don't pray enough?.

The society is already full of all sorts of vices. But we can still find ways of ensuring that our children get disciplined when they do wrong. While I was growing up, another parent or an elder can even discipline a child and still report the child to the real parents for more disciplinary actions. But today if you try it with some parents, you will be in trouble. People now spare the rod to spoil the child.

We can take actions not prayers. Know their friends, Know where about, put them in good schools where indiscipline is not tolerated and always be there for your children.

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Quote from: Peter Faith on October 20, 2023, 08:01:34 AM

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Raising children in this current society has to be a full time job. It should not be a responsibility to push to the hands of another person like a minder. No matter how busy you are, you have to look for time and a way to fit in your responsibilities to your children so that you can always know what is happening in their life and not just be too focused on your job that you end up being successful in career, but raised bad children that you cannot be proud of, or children that will bring the family name to the mud. If you are not set to be a parent, you do not have to become one yet.

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Teachers are great, but they can't replace the influence of parents. Parents have big responsibilities to do. You have got to keep an eye on what your kids are up to, who they're hanging out with and what they're absorbing online. It's a lot of work but it's essential to ensure they grow up with the right values and understanding.

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