Topic: Raising children in this current society - page 6. (Read 1220 times)

Some parents see their children as burdens.  They prefer to send them to schools at a tender age so that thay can have the time to engage in other activities. But they fail to know that the most important task of a parent is to properly raise children. Even during holidays, children are still sent out for what they call in my country "Summer Lessons" just to ensure that they don't stay at home. It is understandable when parents have to engage in these actions because of work but when it is done because of pleasure or the inability to take responsibility, then it is very wrong.

Children of this age learn more from ICT, mostly social media. Parents should always monitor children's activities online to ensure that they are not been exposed to drugs, pornography, religious extremism, terrorism, underage gambling, and scams. It is also important for parents to know who the friends of their children are. They should ensure that they are hanging out with the right company.

Don't also fail to correct and sometimes discipline the child when he is wrong. And also encourage and reward him when he does the right thing. Spend time with your children and always discuss how they are doing in school and other places. Be friendly so that they can always tell you how the feel about certain situations. Prayers are more potent when you play your role as a parent.

Raising a child in this society and during these challenging times can be difficult, there are so many things which can rather go against one's vision of  what a family is.
If one does not have time to raise them, then internet will raise them and whatever youtuber or influencer which in the spotlight in that moment. I would have thought that with all this technology we currently have at hand, raising a child would have been easier...
Hopefully someday things will go back as they used to be, with people giving more attention to their family and spending more with their siblings, instead of focusing on their social media accounts 24/7.

Can you image what parenting in the future could look like? A busy couple leaving their children to entertain by himself with a VR headset...  . A toddler being educated and raised by strangers on the internet through a VRchat avatar.

Exactly...time..most parents hardly have time for their children... imagine admitting a child as young as nine months into a school just because they hardly home

In America, one of the best things you can do is to change the birth certificates (BCs) for your children.

BCs have a form in which they have been drawn up. The form matches a standard, simple transfer of property form like the Uniform Commercial Code shows. When you sign the BC, especially if you are the mother, you transfer the child into trust under the government. You wind up being second to the government in the trusteeship. Government becomes the reigning Trustee.

The first thing to do is, when you sign any document with government, sign it on the signature with the words "non-assumpsit" ahead of your signature. Non-assumpsit means 'no contract'. Government will accept many of your 'agreements' with them this way. And you ultimately will not actually have made a contract with them.

Regarding the BC, you probably want it for your child. There are benefits in life that your child can gain through having a BC. But there are protections from the long arm of the government if you don't have a BC for your child... although you might have to show it in court. But your strength will be greater if you can show that there wasn't any written agreement, and the benefits were simply given. Think it through.

The next thing to do is to change your signature on any current BCs of your children. Change it so that the 'non-assumpsit' words are added to it. This may be difficult in some States, but it can be done.

Home school your children, so that they are not indoctrinated by government's worldly indoctrination. Teach your children about Jesus-salvation, teaching them from the Bible.

Giving your child a solid foundation comes down to us as parents finding time for them. They learn so fast and are influenced by what ever happens in school or kindergarden but even with those events, us as parents can influence how they view it. I feel like this covid era hurt smaller kids so much, especially in places where masking was mandatory. That influence is so hard to revert.

The society and the environment we lived in have never been condusive enough that we allow our children to be brought up by the influence of what the society offers, we have to take good care of our children for our own sake and their impending future, children should not be left on their own to live the kind of life they want, they must also be monitored against the societal influence and we shouldn't take their responsibilities in the hands of the government when we are their parents and first guardians.

I think that parents should be lifelong guardians for their children not only for a certain age but also after adulthood if they make a wrong decision and move forward according to that decision Parents must take responsibility to steer them away from the wrong path if they try and raising children is one of the most complex tasks in the world.Moral Decay Social Decline Political Decline Family Expectations There are many factors that hinder child-rearing Our social system has become such that parents want children It is not possible to educate or educate the children properly, parents are not able to educate their children in a self-directed manner, and our social system is responsible for this.The society has imposed certain rules due to which the parents cannot make their children drink red even if they try hard, due to which the children are not able to acquire patriotism even though they are educated and the country is not good for the nation Because of this I agree with your words that prayer is a very powerful medium and also one's responsibility is to blame one's prayer and neglect one's responsibility There are some moral issues of parents behind not bringing up their children well that the parents or family environment order in the family they are messy in their own life no matter how much you No matter how hard Law education tries, the children of that family will never be like human beings, they will always conduct social activities Finally, whatever you do through proper work education will bring good benefits to your family and if we don't try to change ourselves, the children will also follow our example worse.

That's right, no one can raise a child better than his/her parents. She/he came from them and that's why there's the bond which is stronger than any other connection from other people. But there are also parents that are no good in raising kids, they just want to have fun and all of a sudden created a human being that they can't handle because of being irresponsible. As for the teachers, there are teachers that do care that much to their students especially the little ones and in the grade schools.

I agree about prayer but remember that prayer without action is nothing. You keep on praying but as a parent, you do nothing to do what's best for your child. We as parents serve as their guardian automatically is already bonded to them until we die. This is the reality about being a parent. We will always be a parent to our kids and someday they will depart from us and will make their own families. But even with that, they're always our kids and we'll always be a parent to them no matter how old they grow and no matter how what happens and even the world turns upside down.

Prayer will not solve everything, in raising a good child, a parent need to be committed to the task especially when the child is still very young because that is a very delicate stage and age to learn the good and bad, and because the bad can easily be learnt, every parent need to be careful and watchful of the  kind of friends their children keep and also be watchful of the kind of movies and television program that they watch. As a parent, you need to draw your child close, so that they will be able to talk to you when they are confused, so that they will not make bad decisions in life.

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound,  it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected.  If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong  thing.
 
Parents are working tirelessly to put food on the table and make name for themselves too in the society.  While they are at it, they tend to delegate their parental responsibilities to maids, relatives,  teachers and even strangers.  Giving room for the children to learn and know things they are not supposed to know.

Parents should take breaks from their busy schedule and social media too to rescue their children and the next generation at large.  Teach the children the right values now or you will never have the opportunity to do it later.

I think raising children is one of the most difficult assignments on earth. Most characters exhibited from children this days are being learnt from outside, most times schools and social gathering.
I do no think a parent will ask his child to dip his hands into fire, every parents would want his child to be responsible and well doing but most children decides to be irresponsible and use less to their society.
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.
The scripture will say, train up a child in a way he should grow and when he is old he won't depart from it. As you rightly said prayer is the strongest weapon

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon