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February 20, 2024, 01:19:01 PM
#83
How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon
raising a child isn't a one-man duty as it takes a whole community yo raise up a good or a bad child. But the truth is that times have changed and the kind. Of parenting style that was prevalent ten years ago isn't what's applicable in this current time. If you train up your child the same way you were trained, you've successfully trained up an outdated kid that will struggle very hard to meet up with the current trend of things in today's world.

For you to effectively train up a good child in todays world, you need to use a little but of the discipline of the 2000s parents and add to it the leverage kids In their 20s enjoy and then you teach them your own kind of parenting style.
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February 19, 2024, 07:15:17 PM
#82
Absolutely The valid point. No one can love a children more than their parents. Teacher or others person just do thrir formalities and nothing else. But only partners grow their children with love and responsibility which create strong bonding between them but they are many parents who don't want to grow there children but send them to the Boarding school. And yeah prayer could be  the strongest weapon cause thus a children can become responsible, discipline, well behaved, aware about good and bad things from his childhood
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February 13, 2024, 02:23:30 PM
#81
Yh,I suggest parents spen more time with there kids,and nurture and train them in the right and proper moral standard of the society.
The illicit, illegal,Cyber crime and pornographic materials online is alarming and taking over almost all sites the world herself needs to revive and bring back the days, values was prioritize.
Religious organizations should also improve and set measures to curb this nuisance in our society.
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February 08, 2024, 03:33:42 AM
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It is detrimental to leave the upbringing of your children to their teachers and minders. They may spend most of their time with them, but it is important that as parents, make out time for your children. Correct them when they are wrong, praise them when they do right.
They learn very fast. Be their role model. They are watching you and learning more from your actions than from your words.
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February 07, 2024, 05:44:06 PM
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What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.

Truth is that the internet can rather make and elevate these children. I think it is the carelessness of the parents that makes them have access to sites and social media platforms that they shouldn’t. Parents are meant to constantly supervise what their children are doing on their phone. Best is to limit them to games and learning platforms. For instance YouTube has YouTube for kids, there are limits you can place and the internet wouldn’t spoil a child.
The social media really effluents children a lot, and parents are should be blamed for this because they do not when it is the right time for children to have access to phone. When children have access to phone when they are very young they use it for stuff that will be a problem to them. We all know the disadvantage and the advantage of internet,  and children so much enjoy things that will be a problem to them , and I won't blame them because they think they are doing the right thing.

Just yesterday, I took time to watch approximately 2 hours of the senate hearing in which representatives of  top social media platforms (Facebook & IG, 𝕏, TikTok, and Snapchat) were being questioned on the impact that their platforms are causing to the young ones in the society. Honestly, I understood the senates’ concerns but I also think that it isn’t just about the social media platforms. Parents have a role to play too. They are supposed to supervise their kids and ensure that they aren’t doing something improper.
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February 07, 2024, 04:38:00 PM
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How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Op the topic is  a very big one but many see it as not necessary, there is allot to learn in this topic. Child raising in this jet age is a thing to puzzle how some parents are put  negligence on their responsibility, most in the area of some kind relationship handing everything to their teachers is very bad. Child raising in the time past when love is the other of the day is a collective effort of every member of the society to guide correct any one who is misbehaving any area found to be misconducts but today is not longer thesame every body mind their business. Though allot of technology devices is their to use in training up child but their are some things the child need relate with the parents that don't need external body to affairs, this area is where most parents failed and that has allot to impact on the child if not properly handle turn out negative.
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February 07, 2024, 12:53:51 PM
#77
What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.

Truth is that the internet can rather make and elevate these children. I think it is the carelessness of the parents that makes them have access to sites and social media platforms that they shouldn’t. Parents are meant to constantly supervise what their children are doing on their phone. Best is to limit them to games and learning platforms. For instance YouTube has YouTube for kids, there are limits you can place and the internet wouldn’t spoil a child.
The social media really effluents children a lot, and parents are should be blamed for this because they do not when it is the right time for children to have access to phone. When children have access to phone when they are very young they use it for stuff that will be a problem to them. We all know the disadvantage and the advantage of internet,  and children so much enjoy things that will be a problem to them , and I won't blame them because they think they are doing the right thing.
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February 07, 2024, 05:47:21 AM
#76
It feels like everyone in this topic is still children themselves, not parents.

Some people write such nonsense, which is immediately clear - they stuff posts to get a couple of cents for advertising in signatures.

No offense!
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February 07, 2024, 03:16:47 AM
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What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.

Truth is that the internet can rather make and elevate these children. I think it is the carelessness of the parents that makes them have access to sites and social media platforms that they shouldn’t. Parents are meant to constantly supervise what their children are doing on their phone. Best is to limit them to games and learning platforms. For instance YouTube has YouTube for kids, there are limits you can place and the internet wouldn’t spoil a child.


Most of the times, I'm usually more concerned on how children can be more conversant with the internet than their parents and improvise things in a way as a parent can not find loop holes to their dangers of the internet. These kids are getting more smart every day and one natural factor that can help restrain them is a proper home training. If not, then their are chances of them going astray since we don't follow their every movement, parents go to work and they go to school, it's hard to detect what they do during those period you were not with them.

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February 06, 2024, 06:48:07 PM
#74
Times have changed a lot.  Everyone has become so much modern that now they don't have time to take care of children. Neglect of parents is the main reason for spoiling children.

Neflection by parents and broken home has so much influence the society and this has negatively affect so many children. Our society is full of corrupt children basically from this two reason.

Children are now becoming mobile addicts due to the modernization.

The internet also have a bad influence on this children because they just watch anything they see there. Parents should try to monitor what their children watch online. Most things children practice are seen from either their parents, environment or on the internet.
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February 04, 2024, 07:28:20 AM
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What is corrupting the children this days is the use of internet, even a 7yrs old child owns a smart phone and his free to access the internet not for knowledge acquiring but to enjoy social lives.

Truth is that the internet can rather make and elevate these children. I think it is the carelessness of the parents that makes them have access to sites and social media platforms that they shouldn’t. Parents are meant to constantly supervise what their children are doing on their phone. Best is to limit them to games and learning platforms. For instance YouTube has YouTube for kids, there are limits you can place and the internet wouldn’t spoil a child.

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February 02, 2024, 06:38:26 PM
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How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

The problem with most parents now is that they don't care about the upbringing of the child as most parent is now after making money thereby discarding their parental care to their children which really affect the child while growing up because since their parents are not giving them the required attention they deserve, they would be exposed to people who are vulnerable in the society and can impact negative ideas to the child without the parents knowing. For sure we are in computer age that children tends to learn very fast and their brains are super intelligent as any thing they learn outside they tend to practice it be it negative or positive things.
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February 02, 2024, 08:49:08 AM
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Raising child in this current society is really different from the past.
Most parents this days are lazy unlike before, this days most of the child are always on their mobile phone or tablets to play or watch.
It is not like before that those child should be playing outside having some physical activities to have fun like running or playing at a park.
Some parents also spend less time with their child cause of the internet they would spend more time on screen than their child.
If we want our child to frow up to be a better person, it is not prayer that could help them it is us we should spend time with them show them what to do and how to do it.
Be their role model so that they would copy it, instead of just giving them what they want just so that you could spend time on screen.
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February 02, 2024, 08:41:52 AM
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Times have changed a lot.  Everyone has become so much modern that now they don't have time to take care of children. Neglect of parents is the main reason for spoiling children.  Children are now becoming mobile addicts due to the modernization.Urbanization of their play area is mostly affecting the children now for mobile addiction.  We should provide more play space for children.  Give more time to children.  And pray that they become good people.
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February 01, 2024, 11:52:11 AM
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[most time adolescent age has a lot of effect in children because if hormonal changes and this changes are inevitable, so what people should do at this point as parents is to make sure the monitor their children advice them on the need to be well behaved so that they can reflect positively to the society and also pray for them while doing this.
The adolescent age is the time parents needs to put their eyes very well on their children because this the time children needs freedom to have pleasure the way they like, at this point if parents are so coll with their children it will really have a bad effect on the children.  The society have a great influence over children,  and if children lacks guardians that can take care of them , the society influence them. That's is why most of the people commiting crimes in the street is a result of bad parenting.
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February 01, 2024, 07:29:48 AM
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Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon
Prayer will not solve everything, in raising a good child, a parent need to be committed to the task especially when the child is still very young because that is a very delicate stage and age to learn the good and bad, and because the bad can easily be learnt, every parent need to be careful and watchful of the  kind of friends their children keep and also be watchful of the kind of movies and television program that they watch. As a parent, you need to draw your child close, so that they will be able to talk to you when they are confused, so that they will not make bad decisions in life.

As a child is growing it is the utmost duty of the parents to direct his or her path, I know that juvenile delinquency must occur but before then the patent has a lot of role to play, if it is the female child, the mother has to mentor her on sex education which is very important, as a mother don't shy away from the needful because if you do, you will find yourself to be blamed, most time adolescent age has a lot of effect in children because if hormonal changes and this changes are inevitable, so what people should do at this point as parents is to make sure the monitor their children advice them on the need to be well behaved so that they can reflect positively to the society and also pray for them while doing this.
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February 01, 2024, 06:12:33 AM
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How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon
Play a father or mother roles in the life of your children make the children to be a good children in the environment and, whenever the children go out to mingle with other children, there will surely be some people that will see that good attitude or bad attitude on them that will make them to talk about your role you play in their life in the society.

 You will discover that there are some children are doing well in the classroom more than other students which is the handwork of other parents who play their parents role in their home not to depend on only teacher alone which is the best thing for other parents to do to help their children to improve in the society.
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November 30, 2023, 02:53:12 AM
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Currently, the society is corrupted and we need to train our children so that they don't get deluded or lose their fucus while growing up.
We are seeing the way things are getting worse seeing children doing things they are not ought to do. Out future generations might have more challenges to face if we don't educate the ones in this current generation. The government also have a role to play here so that the society would be condusive for everyone. The family and individual parents have a crucial role to play here.
I know the society is very bad but children can still raised well if parents can really put all their attention on their children to make sure that they are giving them a good training.  The World is changing every day and terrible things are happening everyday, parents have a lot of duties to play if they do not want the environment to have influence on them. I don't think it is even right to even think of depending on the government to make the society better, do your things and never hope on the government.
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November 30, 2023, 01:19:47 AM
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All parents play a role in a child's upbringing, but parents must be careful to keep up with the fast pace, technology and access to information of the modern world. As a simple example, children's Internet browsing and exposure to social media must be balanced and parents must review their own roles in keeping their identities in the online world. Also, the filtering and control applied to reduce societal neglect, family members must be explored and schedules developed for the child's previous activities. Today's society is full of nudity. So we need to play a role as parents in raising our children.
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November 27, 2023, 10:43:08 PM
#64
How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon
The society has always been a place where children can just grow without needing the support of their parents. No doubt it is only parents who can train their children the way they really want. I think children are just like plant, when you have a plant from tender stage if you want your plant to do well it needs to be nurture very well and If the plant is growing into the direction that is not okay by you, you have the power to make it grow to the direction been satisfied by you and this the sane way children.  Parents attentions are needed in the growth of children for them to make better and grow just the way they want to see them.
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