Topic: Raising children in this current society - page 3. (Read 1203 times)

The problem with most parents now is that they don't care about the upbringing of the child as most parent is now after making money thereby discarding their parental care to their children which really affect the child while growing up because since their parents are not giving them the required attention they deserve, they would be exposed to people who are vulnerable in the society and can impact negative ideas to the child without the parents knowing. For sure we are in computer age that children tends to learn very fast and their brains are super intelligent as any thing they learn outside they tend to practice it be it negative or positive things.

Raising child in this current society is really different from the past.
Most parents this days are lazy unlike before, this days most of the child are always on their mobile phone or tablets to play or watch.
It is not like before that those child should be playing outside having some physical activities to have fun like running or playing at a park.
Some parents also spend less time with their child cause of the internet they would spend more time on screen than their child.
If we want our child to frow up to be a better person, it is not prayer that could help them it is us we should spend time with them show them what to do and how to do it.
Be their role model so that they would copy it, instead of just giving them what they want just so that you could spend time on screen.

Times have changed a lot.  Everyone has become so much modern that now they don't have time to take care of children. Neglect of parents is the main reason for spoiling children.  Children are now becoming mobile addicts due to the modernization.Urbanization of their play area is mostly affecting the children now for mobile addiction.  We should provide more play space for children.  Give more time to children.  And pray that they become good people.

The adolescent age is the time parents needs to put their eyes very well on their children because this the time children needs freedom to have pleasure the way they like, at this point if parents are so coll with their children it will really have a bad effect on the children.  The society have a great influence over children,  and if children lacks guardians that can take care of them , the society influence them. That's is why most of the people commiting crimes in the street is a result of bad parenting.

As a child is growing it is the utmost duty of the parents to direct his or her path, I know that juvenile delinquency must occur but before then the patent has a lot of role to play, if it is the female child, the mother has to mentor her on sex education which is very important, as a mother don't shy away from the needful because if you do, you will find yourself to be blamed, most time adolescent age has a lot of effect in children because if hormonal changes and this changes are inevitable, so what people should do at this point as parents is to make sure the monitor their children advice them on the need to be well behaved so that they can reflect positively to the society and also pray for them while doing this.

Play a father or mother roles in the life of your children make the children to be a good children in the environment and, whenever the children go out to mingle with other children, there will surely be some people that will see that good attitude or bad attitude on them that will make them to talk about your role you play in their life in the society.

 You will discover that there are some children are doing well in the classroom more than other students which is the handwork of other parents who play their parents role in their home not to depend on only teacher alone which is the best thing for other parents to do to help their children to improve in the society.

I know the society is very bad but children can still raised well if parents can really put all their attention on their children to make sure that they are giving them a good training.  The World is changing every day and terrible things are happening everyday, parents have a lot of duties to play if they do not want the environment to have influence on them. I don't think it is even right to even think of depending on the government to make the society better, do your things and never hope on the government.

All parents play a role in a child's upbringing, but parents must be careful to keep up with the fast pace, technology and access to information of the modern world. As a simple example, children's Internet browsing and exposure to social media must be balanced and parents must review their own roles in keeping their identities in the online world. Also, the filtering and control applied to reduce societal neglect, family members must be explored and schedules developed for the child's previous activities. Today's society is full of nudity. So we need to play a role as parents in raising our children.

The society has always been a place where children can just grow without needing the support of their parents. No doubt it is only parents who can train their children the way they really want. I think children are just like plant, when you have a plant from tender stage if you want your plant to do well it needs to be nurture very well and If the plant is growing into the direction that is not okay by you, you have the power to make it grow to the direction been satisfied by you and this the sane way children.  Parents attentions are needed in the growth of children for them to make better and grow just the way they want to see them.

Parenting in this modern world requires a lot, we can't just put all the blame on the society, society cannot just spoil your child, when you give your child to the society I think that's when society can spoil them, in essence we as a parents can protect our child from all sort of corruption and rubbish happening now. Little children are the leaders of tomorrow so we as parents should do everything in our power to protect them.
Most parents don't have time for their kids anymore all in the name of work, but there's nothing bad working cause parent work hard for their children so they can live a better life, but when there's no close relationship between the parent and the child the child gets easily corrupt, that's where peer pressure comes in, sometimes parents nowadays don't know the kind of people our children keep as friends. Keeping friends with a cultist sounds dangerous cause they will always initiate little children to that act.
Sometimes we hear stories like rape and other stories, but should we blame rape on parents, I will blame rape on parents, as a parent it's our duty to take good care of our children, sometimes I see little children hawking on the street and that's not right, they get easily corrupt on the road while selling. Parents have a huge role to play.

Currently, the society is corrupted and we need to train our children so that they don't get deluded or lose their fucus while growing up.
We are seeing the way things are getting worse seeing children doing things they are not ought to do. Out future generations might have more challenges to face if we don't educate the ones in this current generation. The government also have a role to play here so that the society would be condusive for everyone. The family and individual parents have a crucial role to play here.

Its big problem in our society if chirder try to do something their parents say it will create problem in their study. They forcefully block them to do something before complete their study. But the current situation of our country no one can give surety that you will get job after completing you study. But who will convince parents.

But they never know what they want at that young age so they will travel in the path that their parent chose for them but in school curriculum they get all the basics covered and also they can pursue their extra curricular activities too from their high school itself but that's my opinion which may differs from others though.

With what is going on in the society today, every parent have to be very careful on the ways they raise their wards from the influence of the society, considering how corrupt manners are looming around everywhere, we must not allow our children get exposed to the environmental influence because they are something we cannot accept seing our children growing up with, there are lots of vices happening today and there were not secluded from children, parents should take full responsibility of their child support and make every necessary provisions for them in other not to seek for external extension.

You're right and I believe that it's important to spend time with your kids at young age, where the personality develops at rapid pace and a child learns the fastest. I see so many people make the mistake of putting kids in day care since the age of 1 and then hey wake up to a teenager they share no connection with. A child that escapes from home to spend time with friends because the world is familiar and home is not. I want my child to value home and family the most and know there's always support and understanding waiting there.

I'm not going to home school her into her teenage years, although I feel like doing that on your own before primary school is a must these days.
People tend to think that home schooled children are soft, unprepared for the real world, but they aren't. You send kids to all the extracurricular activities they want, but they can choose what they want to do and get a like-minded group of friends there.

Parent should be hold responsible for anyhow there children is behaving in the society. There are parent that care less for their children and do not ask questions about their activities and what they do at all. We all have the right to know what our children is really doing so that we can kind them from going the wrong part.

 Just like the way we see today seeing children that are not of age betting and doing some ridiculous things that is never accepted at there age. We need to talk to our children and guide them on the certain way they are supposed to behave in the society.

Home schooling can work up to a certain age but to get to know society school is the best place and as a parent will only nurture the kids with the best thing in all the way. So they never got exposed to the reality of the world which is why they can't able to face it when reality hits them hard. Give all your love as you wish but also teach them the reality of this world which is never going to be as sweet as we behave to our kids.

Society fuck childrens life. Parents are already ever and tensed with the children's future in our country. The forces the children to do work against there comfort zone. That make a children depressed a lot. They do work against they comfort zone if some time they fail to do this work societies says your son can do this do that etc. then the parents force the children to do it properly that's the main reason children's who don't take pressures committed suicide. The current generation children's are so much confused what they will do. They are continuously forcing by their parents for the work they don't want to do.

Prayer works but there is time for everything , it is not bad to train your child to know God but the child might End up becoming a religious fanatics . When a child is born it is assumed that the child’s brain is empty and whatever you tell the child registers in his or her brain consciously or unconsciously.however, one of the major factors that affects a child’s upbringing is the environment where the child stays while growing up .This might be the domestic environment, school Environment, church Environment and so on.

Parents are one of the major players of a child’s upbringing but the Environment determines the child’s future because if the environment is corrupt there is a possibility that the child will also be corrupt and vice versa when   The environment is good .Peer group also facilitates in a child’s upbringing because the age brackets and kinds of friends that the child will keep in future will also affect the child positively or negatively.

I agree, which is why me and my wife are basically a pair of teachers for our child. We haven't been working as teachers most of our lives because there were more profitable trades out there, but we have the necessary education. I've noticed that our daughter is doing great when it comes to all the basic skills at very young age. She remembers stories and tells them from memory, sings songs, recognizes letters and numbers. We're not pushing her or anything, but we've decided not to send her to day care and instead we work shifts and spend time with her at home.


This is Bullshit! you need to take responsibility for whatever happens.