Reputation at stake will you stop gambling

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Quote from: Vannie12 on June 10, 2020, 09:34:58 AM

Being a "gambler" is never the issue. Reputation is not questioned if you are known to be okay in the society, fair, and respected. Reputation is affected considering how people know you as a person. If you think you are not looking down on anyone I think you should not worry about reputation.

You can't be in favor of everyone. There will be folks that will looked down upon you once they've known you as a gambler. That actually falls whenever they see you and started to think you as a gambler.

Not as someone that's good in the society.

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Quote from: spike420211 on June 10, 2020, 03:31:17 PM

What you are talking about will work only in those cases when the game addiction does not affect the actions and behavior of the individual.
At first, it happens when the addict has enough money and time to satisfy his addiction.
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Yeah, there is nothing wrong with a gambling addiction if it doesn't make you become a worse person. No need to hide it and if someone knows about it then let it be.

Gambling addiction will make you worse or only affect your actions and behavior if you make it as your main source of income or at least you have a high hope to get big return from it.

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Quote from: iTradeChips on June 10, 2020, 11:03:06 AM

Many people would think of gambling as something they could do if there is nothing else to do, a pastime if you want to call it. Godfathers and business associates play Mahjong at a friends house on a Sunday, while the others are doing barbecue at the yard and kids playing. The reputation of a person would tarnish if only he is not careful with his actions and decides to gamble and be affected by the losses. Always be a careful gambler and a business minded gambler. You will not lose and will even earn awe for staying sane.

Indeed, gambling is not always seen as something bad or can cause problems and it all goes back to the nature and personality of each individual, because as long as they have control then gambling will only remain a consolation for them and is no longer about seeking financial gain or income. Those who make a bad image of gambling is because of their own behavior that does not have control when getting defeated or even always get pressure by people around who make it continue to gamble without realizing the time to stop.

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Quote from: 3meek on May 07, 2020, 04:45:05 AM

I just said it's better not to tell anyone about your passion for gambling! Cheesy

It'll be so much easier for you and the people around you...
It does not matter whether gambling is prohibited or not!
Why would anyone even know about it?
No one has unnecessary questions, no one imposes his opinion!

Personally, I'm not even talking about my passion for cryptocurrency or gambling! Only my family knows about it...

Pretty controversial strategy.

Indeed, in the case of hiding your attachments, you cannot be completely sincere with your relatives and friends.
You will have to hide what you really are that can destructively affect your relationships with people.

People whom you are dear will accept you as you are, and they will be your fulcrum in case you need help if your addiction gets out of control.

I am inclined to the fact that you should not tell everyone what you are, but to those people with whom you want to build close relationships you must be completely sincere.
No matter how bitter the truth is, this is part of you, which means it cannot be bad.

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Quote from: Vannie12 on June 10, 2020, 09:34:58 AM

Being a "gambler" is never the issue. Reputation is not questioned if you are known to be okay in the society, fair, and respected. Reputation is affected considering how people know you as a person. If you think you are not looking down on anyone I think you should not worry about reputation.

What you are talking about will work only in those cases when the game addiction does not affect the actions and behavior of the individual.
At first, it happens when the addict has enough money and time to satisfy his addiction.
However, as in the case of drug addiction, when the conditions for receiving the next dose are complicated, the human psyche changes radically. A former respectable citizen can turn into a nervous and quick-tempered unreliable sociopath.

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Many people would think of gambling as something they could do if there is nothing else to do, a pastime if you want to call it. Godfathers and business associates play Mahjong at a friends house on a Sunday, while the others are doing barbecue at the yard and kids playing. The reputation of a person would tarnish if only he is not careful with his actions and decides to gamble and be affected by the losses. Always be a careful gambler and a business minded gambler. You will not lose and will even earn awe for staying sane.

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Being a "gambler" is never the issue. Reputation is not questioned if you are known to be okay in the society, fair, and respected. Reputation is affected considering how people know you as a person. If you think you are not looking down on anyone I think you should not worry about reputation.

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Quote from: 3meek on April 08, 2020, 08:40:12 AM

Many people really have a bad attitude towards gambling and those who play it! So if you want to achieve success in society, you better not tell anyone that you are gambling!
However, at home you can do whatever you want, and you should not care about other people's opinions!
So it seems to me that if you keep your mouth shut, gambling will not hurt your reputation!

Totally agree with you. I have often noticed at the poker table how rich and respected in society people behaved like complete freaks.
Often this was due to the fact that they wrote and squandered all the money available with them without a trace.

They are mostly involving in gambling without rest thats why their behavior really freaks them out.

I remember that there are incident that A gambling addict burn a casino killing Himself and some other people inside the casino hotel.

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In my own opinion, everybody has their own vices and bad behaviors,.....

Sounds not a good intro, gambling is not bad at all, it depends on how people think but as long as it's not illegal or not considered a sin in what country you are living, then you should not be ashame of it, people should understand that the world has already changes, time for them to change their mind on judging gambling, it should be considered as an entertainment.

Yups because there are people that has no vices at all since birth til they die so this is not really happening.

And having bad Behavior?this is depend on our breeding because there are also people that is very nice all their life.

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Quote from: robelneo on November 19, 2019, 07:58:45 AM

Ok you are gambling just for fun, your friends and neighbors knows that and a friend invited you to his party to be one of the candidates as a councilor and campaign will start in 6 months, now, of course, you need to have a good reputation, will you stop gambling just to have a good image this coming campaign and how will you defend yourself if accused as a gambler.

You have clearly says that "I am Gambling just for Fun" so why need to stop?my reputation is safer because i am not addicted into gambling and my family is clear from it so whats the reason?

and also i am the type of person that is not doing anything just to please someone,instead i am frank and truthful and also straight i will say what i want you to hear and i will do what you need to see.

In this way i preserve the respect of my neighbor until now so there will be any gaph in case i need to run for politics.

Being truthful is an asset always remember that.

If only people will understand you, it's not gonna be problem.

What politicians has to do when they run for politics, is they try to please everyone although in reality we can't please everyone.
Therefore, if even some people does not like a gambler politician, a politician would consider stopping or hiding what he is doing just to get the trust of that voters.

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Quote from: robelneo on November 19, 2019, 07:58:45 AM

Ok you are gambling just for fun, your friends and neighbors knows that and a friend invited you to his party to be one of the candidates as a councilor and campaign will start in 6 months, now, of course, you need to have a good reputation, will you stop gambling just to have a good image this coming campaign and how will you defend yourself if accused as a gambler.

You have clearly says that "I am Gambling just for Fun" so why need to stop?my reputation is safer because i am not addicted into gambling and my family is clear from it so whats the reason?

and also i am the type of person that is not doing anything just to please someone,instead i am frank and truthful and also straight i will say what i want you to hear and i will do what you need to see.

In this way i preserve the respect of my neighbor until now so there will be any gaph in case i need to run for politics.

Being truthful is an asset always remember that.

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Quote from: BitcoinsGreat on May 06, 2020, 08:37:51 AM

If you care about the people then you will not be able to play or enjoy gambling.

Honestly speaking, is it not what keeps us away from getting too much into the murky side of life? The reason people stop gambling is because they wasted too much money on it and not with family. But of course it is their own choice. If someone enjoys gambling then should do it as a responsible adult.

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Just forget what people say and think about you if they find you are doing gamble and you stick to what you are doing.

The social stigma is often unbearable for some people. But online casinos should stop this problem. Since during this period people are playing from home too.

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If gambling is illegal in your area, then you should hide this fact that you play gambling to avoid any legal action against you, but in all other cases, you should freely play gambling.

Even in the places where casinos are illegal the operators find some or the other way to provide gambling games, so it should not be an issue though a risky one to take. But hey, gamblers are risk takers. Cheesy

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Answer to this question depends on several factors, and the most important factor is of course where you live! While in some countries gambling is illegal (and more than that, we can say rejected by society), in some countries it's legal and it's not wrong if you are doing that!
I don't have special job, I gamble and most of the people that knows me know that I play poker and other gambling games. I don't hide my wins and loses, I talk openly about gambling, what that means to me and why I gamble! Others can accept that or not, but I don't care about that!

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

If you care about the people then you will not be able to play or enjoy gambling. Just forget what people say and think about you if they find you are doing gamble and you stick to what you are doing. If gambling is illegal in your area, then you should hide this fact that you play gambling to avoid any legal action against you, but in all other cases, you should freely play gambling.

I agree that people shouldn't care so much about other people opinion. If gambling makes you happy and you enjoy it but at the same time you are able to keep control, then go.for it.
However, if gambling is illegal in some player's country I'm not so sure that is very wise to continue. That might cause serious legal problems and punishment so it's necessary to asses if it's worth the risk.

Of course, you are the one who responsible for your own actions. You will not get happy if you always think of what may others says about you. If you want to play gambling, get on it and make sure that you enjoys yourself always when playing. But make sure to have control over yourself. You must not get into the game or to the idea of always playing gambling.

Gambling is risky not just because of its 50-50 chances of earning but sometimes in some places gambling isn't a thing or we called illegal. You must know what games you will play because your own reputation is at risk if you just hold onto the idea of playing no matter what. Gambling is a easy and enjoyable game. All you have to do is to be intelligently play and if your reputation is on the line, you must know how and when to stop.

I agree with that, I agree that you should not be affected with what other say about you when it comes to gambling as long as you are still in control and as long as it isn't illegal in your country. However I think op is asking about how it will affect his upcoming campaign. What I suggest, if he is really into winning the campaign, he should prove that he can stop gambling and prioritize the campaign. I hate to say this but when it comes to public serving, there are people who would also think that gambling can affect a public servants personality, gambling is legal in my country and still there are people who always think gambling is dangerous, we can't fully change their idea of gambling, maybe they know someone who are addicted to it.

And those same people are the people he will serve in the future if he win. And if he can't fully stop gambling, I think he should assess himself if he really is in control. It will be a big problem if he win, public serving comes with a responsibility, and there would be a lot of temptation with the power that comes with that responsibility.

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Quote from: butcherme on March 06, 2020, 09:25:16 PM

Being a gambler is not a sin. Specially you said you are doing it for fun.
If people don't vote for you it is simply because they don't trust you. Don't worry on what people think about you. As long as you are not destroying yourself for gambling.

Where is the line on which you understand that you are harming yourself? The upholstery in the system is not able to see the whole system, from the side.
Therefore, most gamblers will always say that they are not sick and everything in their life is fine. But in fact, only other people who are looking at the addict from the side will be able to see it.
In this case, they simply must consciously convey their vision to the addict.

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Quote from: Kong Hey Pakboy on May 07, 2020, 05:39:34 AM

In my own opinion, everybody has their own vices and bad behaviors,.....

Sounds not a good intro, gambling is not bad at all, it depends on how people think but as long as it's not illegal or not considered a sin in what country you are living, then you should not be ashame of it, people should understand that the world has already changes, time for them to change their mind on judging gambling, it should be considered as an entertainment.

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In my own opinion, everybody has their own vices and bad behaviors, even they always go to church. So if you are thinking about your reputation infront of other people, it is much better just to hide your hobby as a gambler and making it a huge secret because you can still gamble through online and play at the casino by renting private room or table, so that no one can see you.

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Answer to this question depends on several factors, and the most important factor is of course where you live! While in some countries gambling is illegal (and more than that, we can say rejected by society), in some countries it's legal and it's not wrong if you are doing that!
I don't have special job, I gamble and most of the people that knows me know that I play poker and other gambling games. I don't hide my wins and loses, I talk openly about gambling, what that means to me and why I gamble! Others can accept that or not, but I don't care about that!

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

If you care about the people then you will not be able to play or enjoy gambling. Just forget what people say and think about you if they find you are doing gamble and you stick to what you are doing. If gambling is illegal in your area, then you should hide this fact that you play gambling to avoid any legal action against you, but in all other cases, you should freely play gambling.

I just said it's better not to tell anyone about your passion for gambling! Cheesy

It'll be so much easier for you and the people around you...
It does not matter whether gambling is prohibited or not!
Why would anyone even know about it?
No one has unnecessary questions, no one imposes his opinion!

Personally, I'm not even talking about my passion for cryptocurrency or gambling! Only my family knows about it...

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Quote from: 3meek on May 06, 2020, 05:44:17 AM

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

The bad sides of gambling are many ones of them just like you said, whenever people know that you are doing it constantly they will automatically name you as a gambler. being a gambler can be rough because you will not get anything from the people. no benefits no nothing and the worst part is, they will not trust you on what they have including things or any materials they're thinking you might sell their things to get some funds for gambling. Which is you now that it would never happen because they entrusted it to you. but you won't stop them from thinking that because the majority of gamblers who lost everything in gambling ended up in misery and lost their reasons to live their life with dignity.

In the eyes of other people especially those who are religious and conservatives playing gambling will attached you right away for being a gambler. Those people easily criticize you with your entertainment. Without knowing your side they are already judges you with your participations, it's needed to discreet yourself and not to allow anyone to know about your involvement to this kind of activities.

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Quote from: yazher on May 06, 2020, 05:32:36 PM

Quote from: 3meek on May 06, 2020, 05:44:17 AM

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

The bad sides of gambling are many ones of them just like you said, whenever people know that you are doing it constantly they will automatically name you as a gambler. being a gambler can be rough because you will not get anything from the people. no benefits no nothing and the worst part is, they will not trust you on what they have including things or any materials they're thinking you might sell their things to get some funds for gambling. Which is you now that it would never happen because they entrusted it to you. but you won't stop them from thinking that because the majority of gamblers who lost everything in gambling ended up in misery and lost their reasons to live their life with dignity.

Then I would not live in such country or community if the person around me at that judgmental.
You know what? they are the ones making themselves foolish because they automatically judge a gambler a bad person with a bad reputation, I hate that kind of attitude and if I am running for politics to serve people like them, I'd rather withdraw my candidacy.

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Quote from: 3meek on May 06, 2020, 05:44:17 AM

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

The bad sides of gambling are many ones of them just like you said, whenever people know that you are doing it constantly they will automatically name you as a gambler. being a gambler can be rough because you will not get anything from the people. no benefits no nothing and the worst part is, they will not trust you on what they have including things or any materials they're thinking you might sell their things to get some funds for gambling. Which is you now that it would never happen because they entrusted it to you. but you won't stop them from thinking that because the majority of gamblers who lost everything in gambling ended up in misery and lost their reasons to live their life with dignity.

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Answer to this question depends on several factors, and the most important factor is of course where you live! While in some countries gambling is illegal (and more than that, we can say rejected by society), in some countries it's legal and it's not wrong if you are doing that!
I don't have special job, I gamble and most of the people that knows me know that I play poker and other gambling games. I don't hide my wins and loses, I talk openly about gambling, what that means to me and why I gamble! Others can accept that or not, but I don't care about that!

Wherever you live, and whatever laws in your country, you are always better to keep quiet about your passion for gambling! People are absolutely everywhere bad attitude towards gamblers!

If you care about the people then you will not be able to play or enjoy gambling. Just forget what people say and think about you if they find you are doing gamble and you stick to what you are doing. If gambling is illegal in your area, then you should hide this fact that you play gambling to avoid any legal action against you, but in all other cases, you should freely play gambling.

I agree that people shouldn't care so much about other people opinion. If gambling makes you happy and you enjoy it but at the same time you are able to keep control, then go.for it.
However, if gambling is illegal in some player's country I'm not so sure that is very wise to continue. That might cause serious legal problems and punishment so it's necessary to asses if it's worth the risk.

Of course, you are the one who responsible for your own actions. You will not get happy if you always think of what may others says about you. If you want to play gambling, get on it and make sure that you enjoys yourself always when playing. But make sure to have control over yourself. You must not get into the game or to the idea of always playing gambling.

Gambling is risky not just because of its 50-50 chances of earning but sometimes in some places gambling isn't a thing or we called illegal. You must know what games you will play because your own reputation is at risk if you just hold onto the idea of playing no matter what. Gambling is a easy and enjoyable game. All you have to do is to be intelligently play and if your reputation is on the line, you must know how and when to stop.

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