Topic: Reputation at stake will you stop gambling - page 4. (Read 2894 times)

Trading is different in gambling, and the gambling term in the literal gambling from Trading is different. Playing gambling's risk is bigger and irresponsible because winning your profits in gambling is much lower than in Trading. The come back of your money in Trading is always there, once you lost your profits because of bearish market, eventually, if you're patient enough, it'll come back to you, unlike in gambling, once you lost your money, it ain't gonna come back unless you're lucky enough to win again.

I am with the side that if you know yourself you are not harming anyone by any means, why will I stop gambling? It's either you are into this because you want some entertainment, just enjoying life. You know yourself more than anybody, so if they do talk at your back, then, I think there's no reason to be acquainted to these people. It is on you how to take care of your business and not other people.

Yes in several occasions reputations is much important, but not if the person knows how to handle his activities and engagements. Minding things
should be in the person capabilities to take care of his actions.
For those who are concern with how people will talk about them will see this as important matters but to those are not concern they will let
this to continue and enjoy.

I'm not sure why gambling has such a negative connotation to be honest. Traders are professional gamblers.

It is not like they are bad people, it is because of being misunderstood at some point, not all of the people are knowledgeable and critical thinkers therefore it is a must to set aside your gambling habit if you really wanted to take care of your reputation, for example is just like what I've said on my previous opinion, a politician, you have to be a good role model for your people to believe you and do the same thing to others.

Good deeds is very contagious, that is why it is important. A simple analogy is like a parent and it's child, if a parent would gamble and his kids will see it, his kids would probably do the same thinking it is good because their parent is doing it too.

Indeed that you are not doing anything wrong if you are only gambling; however, in the eyes of other people, gambling is an activity that they can easily be judged or talk bad.
If your own reputation is at stake, I am sure stopping your gambling activity is necessary even if it is just for fun. At the end of the day, reputation is much important when it comes to this matter.

The important here is we should know when we need to make good things to other people. No matter if they judge as a gambler, a drunker, or else, as long as we don't harm the others, that is enough for us. We don't take it as a severe thing about that because reputation can be searched, but the good things are tough to make and get it. We need to stay at our line and never make something bad to other people because that will cause our life will be bad too in the future.

This is streotyping when a person are gambler they think bad about that person which is very wrong. A player who do not harm the others is good but if the player lend money to the other people  that is not good that make your reputation is bad but if you don't do that don't be scared to know them that you are gambler . Gambling will not determine your personality as a good person.

Why would I intend to stop playing gambling if I know to myself that I am not doing anything wrong? As long as I play with proper moderation and treat playing gambling as just for fun or entertainment, then I have nothing to worry about my reputation because being a gambler does not directly intent that you are already a bad person. It is on the way how people perceive and understand how playing looks like. The problem with the people is the mindset and generalization that thinking playing gambling is a wrong doing. Well, sort of it can be a wrong one, but not at all cases because different people do also have different ways on how they manage playing gambling. As long as I know I am not making anything wrong on playing gambling, I will not stop playing because playing it does not mean my reputation will already be at stake. It is just a matter of how you will be able to present yourself on other people that even if you do play gambling, still you can manage to control yourself for you to be able not to get addicted on it and serve only just for fun. Also, if I will be going to be a candidate, probably I will not tell that I do play gamble since the society is really having a wrong mindset about gamblers so I better just keep it for I do just play for it as for fun.

In theory, sounds perfect considering the forum board participants but the reality slaps hard. Talking about your last won is not acceptable by the conservative family members and friends, they will do everything for bringing back you to real life. What I have said is proven in real-life stories. Real-life slaps harder than the failed theories, this is my own conclusion after the 7-year gambling experience in online gambling websites.

It is true that no one wants to trust a gambler, if you are addicted to gambling, no one will vote for you if you will want to be a candidate as a counselor. Although I am not addicted on gambling but I do not think I can completely quit gambling to participate on councilor election, Maybe I'll reduce on going to casino, Otherwise I will go into hiding.

So this is not  the thread for them because if you happen to read the OP this is about the person that is involving in politics and asking if he will stop gambling to Win the Election.

so addiction is not part of this because for sure they have a ruined reputation as they don't care like what you said.

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Just be yourself because i believe Politics is not the one we wanted too but this is by Destiny .

For countries if it is legal then I think not major problem would exists because one can play for fun. But yes if one is addicted and people know about it then it cans seriously affect the image and people might want to quit under such circumstances. Another thing if it is illegal in countries and still gambling then again, there is too much issue other than image also la could be impose on such people.

You're not getting the point. Being a politician (for example) is a serious position in a country, because you are the one who will lead and propose laws that will help your citizen, now, if you're playing gambling, that would make a lot of issues, a misunderstanding, and so on. Even if you're not addicted, or even if you say you're not using your people's money in your habit, they wouldn't believe you, because in their minds, they are thinking that at some point, you're going to steal people's money and spend it on gambling.

Well you couldn't blame them for thinking like that, because you as a politician should be a good role model, that instead of playing gambling, why not focus on helping your people and be a good public servant.

It depends on how important the reputation according to the person is and how the new environment will consider gambling. A promising reputation can bring someone out of habit. Although many people assume that gambling is just for fun and may not be known to people, if in this case gambling is considered a bad habit, then someone will leave it if one day has the potential to disrupt his reputation.

But I don't guarantee that gambling addicts also care about reputation.

Many people really have a bad attitude towards gambling and those who play it! So if you want to achieve success in society, you better not tell anyone that you are gambling!
However, at home you can do whatever you want, and you should not care about other people's opinions!
So it seems to me that if you keep your mouth shut, gambling will not hurt your reputation!

Everything have it's own limitations, if you are sure that you are in control of this kind of activities then you are good to go and there's no need for you to change up, reputations only be bothered if you are irresponsible and you can't control things out. There's a big need for you to change up and choose between if you are are too much engaged and your willingness to secure your identity to be more positive.

No , I will not, it is not good to change the way you live just to please others or just to make your image good for other people to reach their expectations as well. You don't need to explain yourself you are a gambler, but you are responsible in every actions that you will be doing. I think it is more than enough for them to trust you, and also you are a good tax payer as a gambler, and as long as you are not addicted and not fall in any bad crimes, I think it is good.

are you involved on politics  ? because i read that you mentioned elections  . it does not necesary to abandon one hobby just because your doing the other one but you can still do them both , just put up a schedule for one of them and your good to go  .

 its cool because your only gambling for fun and your not also addicted while majority of the gamblers that i know are now being consider as addictive because they cant last a day without playing it up to the point that thier reputations are now being affected    .  i feel sory for them tho 

The privacy associated with online casinos is what made them popular against the offline, brick and mortar casinos. Then came the cryptocurrency casinos so the only thing that kept your name linked to bank account and using that to deposit money was also erased due to the pseudo-anonymity of bitcoin and altcoins.

But of course you will be known by people gradually if you let your gambling habits get the better of you. Whether one needs to control that or not is their choice but morally on should control if their reputation is being questioned.