Topic: Setting up financial structures before going into the family way - page 2. (Read 1156 times)

Good educate for every one before marriage build up good financial and have much saving because if you face difficult with income when marriage I doubt how long your marriage relation will existing. 

I think so too, it would be nice before marriage, we as men must have a job with a clear income, because after marriage of course the aspect of needs will increase economically or financially. although there are people who get married who do not have a permanent job, I don't think we should make that an example that we can get married even though we don't have a job, because it's good in my opinion to have a job that has a fixed income that is better than not having a permanent tang job.

that's right, I agree with you, our needs when we are single will be different from our needs when we have a wife or family of our own, that's why I think, before getting married it's a good idea to have a job that makes clear money, because that will also help us to It will make finances easier later, especially if we have a permanent job with a steady income and have a side business that would be good, but regarding side businesses you can do this when you are married together, because there is nothing wrong with your wife helping with household finances.
Many cases of divorce occur due to unstable financial problems, and this should be a lesson for all of us so that we can consider marriage before having a clear, steady income, even though there are some people who are married but don't work yet, perhaps they rely on their parents' wealth. and I think that's unethical. So I think having your own job with a steady income would be better, even if your parents want to help financially, that's not a problem, but it's best if your parents' help is used as capital to start a business, maybe that's better. and it's true as you say, not to mention that now the cost of a wedding is very high, therefore men hope to work hard for their future.

Yes, I often hear that sentence, marriage is not just about uniting two souls, but uniting two different thoughts, and this must be fixed so that there are no conflicts that can cause big problems, we have to fix the two minds that must be united so that it can happen. so there is a definite goal so that a good goal occurs. Apart from that, in choosing a partner we also have to be smart, don't make the wrong choice because that will determine the future, because if we choose the wrong choice, of course we will have problems or changes in ourselves which will become a worse person because we are carried away by our partner who really has a personality. which is not good, so I think if we have a partner whose personality is not good, we can try to make him change into a better person.

and as you said, the man is the head of the family, so of course we have to be smart, wise and firm in carrying out a family relationship, lest we make mistakes that can tear a relationship apart, that's why I always think about You can have a clear income before getting married because this is of course very important.

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With cases of failed marriages and an increasing population of youths without proper training and upbringing, it's sad to know that the root cause of it is mainly as a result of poor financial structure and plan before entering into marriage.

Setting up a system that is consistently bringing money before getting into marriage is almost as important as choosing who to get married to.  as long as food and some basic needs of the children is not a problem, it's easy to tame your children to behave a certain way but if you lack the financial resource to taking care of your family, it's almost certain that you've lost your children to learning and depending more on others to meeting most of their needs which automatically defeat what ever moral you intend planting into their lives.

It's very necessary we educate ourselves and the younger ones coming behind us to take their financial life seriously before embarking into the journey of marriage, even the Bible that most religious people depends on for guidance strictly admonishes that "he that can not provide for his household is worse than an unbeliever" and so you understand how important your financial life his before thinking on settling down.

Your wife will in addition to the love you both shere , respect you the more if she knows that you've been very responsible when it comes to providing for the financial needs of the home and likewise, no man will want to loose A woman that support in providing for the needs in the home.

Don't be blended by love as a young person, their are times that love won't be enough to run a home and that's when factors like your financial strength can come through for you.

Being financially buoyant in marriage will even help you love your partner better so try and use your head.

that's right, I agree with you, our needs when we are single will be different from our needs when we have a wife or family of our own, that's why I think, before getting married it's a good idea to have a job that makes clear money, because that will also help us to It will make finances easier later, especially if we have a permanent job with a steady income and have a side business that would be good, but regarding side businesses you can do this when you are married together, because there is nothing wrong with your wife helping with household finances.
Many cases of divorce occur due to unstable financial problems, and this should be a lesson for all of us so that we can consider marriage before having a clear, steady income, even though there are some people who are married but don't work yet, perhaps they rely on their parents' wealth. and I think that's unethical. So I think having your own job with a steady income would be better, even if your parents want to help financially, that's not a problem, but it's best if your parents' help is used as capital to start a business, maybe that's better. and it's true as you say, not to mention that now the cost of a wedding is very high, therefore men hope to work hard for their future.

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the main thing before marriage is to have an income. without income whatever is done about the motivation for financial management will not work.
because there is no money to manage, because there is no income at all.
parents must have given a good education from school to college. so then the matter of work and financial management must go alone because they are adults.
marriage is not about love, but marriage needs a life to feed his wife and children.

Being financially stable will contribute a lot to the welfare of the marriage. With sufficient funds to raise a family, that will make both the husband and wife stress free in their marriage and will most likely live a happy marriage. Unlike those marry without stable sources of income and without stable savings, the marriage might only suffer in the long run and the success and happiness of marriage will be put into compromise.