Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 10. (Read 2235 times)

Agree on what you have said, we would really be always loving on trying out to blame out on whatever we do able to see whether the site or other people on the unfortunate condition that we do able to
experience on which it isnt really that a shocking behavior for most gamblers. In the end, you would really be the only one who would really be that suffering on what the actions you had made.
If you dont have that kind of self control and discipline towards gambling then you are really that putting yourself on such trouble.  Gambling should really be just that for fun and not on stressing up yourself because once you do find yourself that having that kind of situation then this isnt really for entertainment anymore but rather you are really that desperate on making money
and on the time that outcomes are really that different on what you are expecting then this is where blaming time begins.

The blame-game is natural, and one which can never be totally eradicated entirely inasmuch as gambling is concerned, since it has to do with people losing something of value, most especially of such money had been budgeted for a different item altogether, and you ended up losing it to gambling without any alternative of getting the money back.
Moreover, blame-game could be of certain degrees, that is, a scenario whereby someone could blame himself and never gambles anymore, or someone could blame himself, learn from his mistakes and move on, e.t.c.. Hence, the lever at which the blame-game works differs from one individual to another.

I agree with your statement.

People tend to be one-sided when it comes to winning and losing. Like what you just mentioned, whenever we fin, we always focus on ourselves too much to the point that we tend to discredit the efforts of others even if they contributed on why we won on the first place. Then if a person loses, they tend to blame others since they cannot accept the fact that they lost due to their efforts.

In conclusion, it is always easy to look for a scapegoat than to accept our shortcomings. It is so much easy to blame others rather than to accept our mistakes and this is primarily the reason on why we blame others on the mistake that we made.

It's not uncommon to find or hear some people who say and suggest something that does seem reasonable, the difference in the way of delivery does not matter because we can also know that all suggestions and ideas lead to good goals which in fact can make gamblers safer and calmer in their gambling activities as I said earlier and however this is a better approach that must be taken if you are one of the gamblers who are quite active in your gambling activities.

As we know that gambling can always trigger things that we never expected before, especially in terms of bad effects, the many temptations there make gamblers almost carried away because they cannot maintain their consciousness, actually I think all of this is a choice, because there is enough evidence that we can make as examples and considerations, such as the bad effects experienced by addicts in real life. and I'm sure all gamblers don't want to be carried away by the flow because they can't maintain their consciousness, And I'm sure all gamblers don't want to experience the same thing and so it's very clear that there is no other way to do it other than having a good approach like you said with control and some other limits and maybe I would add that don't put any expectations on winning because the randomness that exists in gambling does not allow it to always be realized.

This is the human nature. Humans are so good at blaming their misfortune on a factor but tend to give accolades to themselves for fortunes. This is not different in gambling. When a gambler wins he is happy and then channels the winning to self-effort and when he is on a losing trek he tends to transfer blame to gambling.

In my opinion, such a gambler is immature. It is high time people understand that gambling is like a mountain. It is always there and it is you who go to the mountain because mountains don`t move. Thus, whatever happens to a gambler should solely be blamed on the gambler and not gambling. If you have self-control, you will not have a problem gambling but when you lack control you will have problem gambling. So, this is about the gambler and not the gambling. Apportioning blame has never solved a problem. So, instead of blaming your misfortune on gambling gamble wisely.

This is true. In fact this makes sense as we see some gamblers exert their frustration on people around them. Any little thing they are all aggressive on you. So when they lose, they can’t take the blame, they have to take it off their shoulders and put it on someone or something else. Just like how many people cuss and blame sports players when they didn’t score a goal leading to their money being lost.

Those gambler just need to accept the fact that they loss, no need to blame or find a reason why they loss.
If they couldn't accept it then it is better for them to just stop on gambling because they couldn't accept the fact that they aren't always going to win on it.
They are blaming others because they couldn't accept their loss and wants to make it easier for them to cope up with it.
Instead of blaming just grow up no need to find reason, cause in the first place when they gamble they should already be aware that they could lose, and they already accepted the risk in gambling their money.

We will alwa finds a means of resulting every of our gambling ugly experience on something being responsible for that around us, but forgetting that we also contributed to the highest percentage of them all, gambling is not what we should always expect a winning game without having the both side of it's experience, we should also blame the mistakes we do which have contributed to the failure we have in each gambling attempt we make.

We can see such people almost everywhere who do no accept their mistakes and instead blame others for it.
They don't even want to listen what the other is saying and complete blames the other for it.
It's better to stay away from such people because them understand is like digging your own grave.

This is what responsible gambling and it has been said over a million times from different members in different words but the concept is the same, you can decide what will happen in the future which makes gambling more unpredictable and amusing. Knowing our limits is very important thing in our limit that also applies to gambling and never chase loss because someone won while doing it.

Any gambler who stakes his money on an upcoming event with the idea of making 100% return is a joke to me, no doubts that miracles still happen and one could be very lucky atimes, but it's not something that happens very often, it's very rare and happens to 1 in 10 persons, In the world of gambling, loss is bound to even punters that sometimes makes huge profits from it also secure heavy losses atimes, but try to bring up new strategies to win again. That's why as a gambler, one ought to be very strategic, a gambler without skills or strategies is like a farmer going to the farm without his tools.
 I believe that the casino sites and gambling platforms have their license to operate their business online and off and every gambler especially online have come  across the terms and conditions of the platform and even agreed to it sometimes upon registration, so i wonder why same person would say gambling is a scam because they're not benefiting from it or blame the Casino when they lose out of greed.

That means he is just a gambler who hopes to get a 100% win. He forgot that even if he traded or have a business, he could lose all his money. Either way carries the same risk but not as high as on gambling. Blaming the casinos is childish. It is better for person like that to stay away from gambling, because gambling is not a business that can give their players a 100% guaranteed of their money without even losing 0.1%. If he accuses the casino of committing a scam, then he must have a real evidence that companies fraud caused the player to lose. As long as the system has standards according to the license provided, then even if the player loses within 1 month of gambling every day, there is no reason to blame the casino or accuse them of cheating. It could be that he already had the chance to win, but because he was greedy, he lost completely because he didn't want to stop playing.

So many gamblers are doing this I know a lot in my neighborhood who blame almost everything, even the weather or the black cat that walks in front of them, this is just their reason so they will not blame themselves so they can go back to gambling, they don't want to blame themselves because if they do that people will question them on why they continue gambling when they will just blame themselves when they lose.
So most of the time they blame the casino like they are being cheated or the casinos are not being fair, they are so self-righteous that they believe that they did the right thing so they cannot lose.

We have so many gamblers who are poor bettors and then blame the casinos for losing a lot of money, some of them even open a scam accusation just to make it appear that the casinos are at fault, when in fact their being a poor bettors or manipulating the rules are what cause their losses or being banned.

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

People have and probably would still blame everything and everyone else but themselves for their own actions and failures. Admittedly, no one likes to fail or lose.. but it’s life. There are wins and losses for literally everyone and the sooner one owns up to his mistakes and failures, it would be easier to learn from it and move on.

We might be able to provide advice to novice gamblers regarding the actual understanding of gambling. it may save some gamblers from falling into negative gambling. but not for novice gamblers who know gambling themselves. for example from social media advertisements or spam messages in social media groups.
Gambling casinos advertise huge signup bonuses. deposit bonus. even such advertisements assure maximum winnings. That's how novice gamblers first fall into the perception that gambling is a game for financial gain.

That's why someone needs to know that when he loses a lot of money from gambling, it is because of his own fault and there is no need to complain about gambling. No one forced him to gamble using a lot of money and no one told him to gamble for a long time. These people really need to realize that gambling should only be for fun and not for making money. With such awareness, they will not want to gamble for long and will always limit their gambling activities.

A person who blames gambling for causing him major losses needs to see a specialist so he can realize that it was his own fault. He needs to change his mindset so he won't think of blaming gambling. With this awareness, he will know that playing gambling for too long and using a lot of money can result in big losses. He will try to reduce his gambling activities rather than experience as many losses as before so that he will not blame gambling anymore.

It's always just about luck that will lead you to the expected results as well as the amount of winnings you get, and I understand that anyone can win in gambling even with large amounts, but the problem is that there is absolutely no certainty that can guarantee you a win in every session because as you said above that it only depends on luck and this is what makes there is no consistency in the winnings from gambling which makes losses more frequent than wins when you make more attempts.

On the other hand you have a pretty good approach to gambling by only putting small amounts into your involvement and I would probably say that you are one of the more responsible gamblers, you have also said that even if the results don't match it won't upset you and you will be fine. However, this approach is more advisable than being aggressive, because with a healthy approach like responsible gamblers, it will make you more calm in every situation especially if you lose at the end of the session.

Whether gambling is dangerous or not depends on how each person reacts to it and the circumstances in which they engage in it. There is a large number of people who consider gambling as a way to gain financial gain, a belief that drives them to impulsive actions that lead to a loss of self-control and frequent mistakes in their betting choices.

If someone has a wrong understanding about gambling, it can lead to inappropriate actions in playing it. As a result, gambling can only result in financial setbacks and other detrimental consequences. Therefore, it is important for us to always remember that gambling functions as a means of entertainment and is done for fun. In addition, we must be skilled at distinguishing between things that are important and things that are just entertainment. In this case, engaging in gambling does not guarantee status as a paramount endeavor.

If you fail you fail,if you win you win,I don't know why the blames will be put  into the gambling.its a game of fun and if you don't love what you do,you let go of it.its just like a game of chess and ludo that people play for fun and to make it look more attractive they stake money so the winner goes home with it,that how all of this casinos started and then they grow bigger by the day

So if any gambler thinks for his failure he can put the blames on gambling then his making a huge mistake and by doing so,he is  spoiling the name of gambling. Yes,it's all about decision making and when you know very well you can meet up to the gambling standard and doctrines then why venture into it.

Yes, almost no investment is risk-free, but they usually offer, ceteris paribus, a reasonable expectation of gain. We cannot say the same about gambling, where you have to beat odds that are against you by definition.

And saying that it is an investment for the casino owners, well, what can I say? you're right, but it has nothing to do with the topic you started and we are discussing here, which is focused on the gambler's perspective.