They should be able to stop blaming gambling and choose to introspect on what they have done so that they can know that it was their fault. No one is to blame, especially since it was their money that was consciously used for gambling. But because they are greedy and want more money, they end up gambling excessively, which results in them experiencing total defeat, so they can easily blame it on gambling. Even though it is their own fault for not paying attention to the use of their money, we can't remind them because they won't want to listen to our advice.
Yes the better a gambler gets over losses the better he can manage his emotions. Naturally when people make losses they always look for something or someone worth blaming. Just like there is a causation to every gambling loss so people tend to want to have a cause to blame when they lose but the fact is it is not a proper practice.
As a gambler one should learn to manage the emotional stress that comes with either loss or wins as both if not properly managed can affect a gambler negatively. When some persons win they can become over excited and end up making wrong decisions.
