Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 6. (Read 2235 times)

Actually you have a point but we can't even say if they are really honest with their customers, because there are instances that if you observe, it seems like there is fraud going on, especially the slot machines in a casino house. I'm not sure if it's really just bad luck but it's surprising if every day you play, there are only losses and no wins. Wouldn't you be surprised if that happened to you?

What irks me more about these seta of people that throws tantrums about how their lives has been ruined and bastardized by gambling is that even in that series of complains they are still into gambling they haven't quit. And I wonder, who is actually ruining who. Because from how I see It it is the person that is actually ruining his life in this one.

It is natural that we quit from any activity, business or relationship that is not favouring us but whereby we still settle in and dishing blames out we are mainly acting stupid because the blame game won't bring any resounding solution but quiting will not only bring you solution but with a peace of mind too.  If you must gamble, then gamble responsibly.

I agree with almost everything you say, but, please, don't  say "behind the scenes". It creates an impression that gambling sites are doing something shady, while in fact they don't even need to be dishonest to make their profits. They provide services and take a fee in the form of the house edge, and they doing it openly; no need for cheating, actually.

Anyone who comes to gambling wants to make money from it, regardless of whether it is for entertainment or taking it as a serious job. To participate in a certain game or job, we must understand the rules of the game or the skills related to it. I think gambling is like any other type of job out there, which also requires the necessary skills to get good results. Many people say that this is just a game of red and black, based mainly on luck, it is true that most gambling games are 50/50 but what makes the winners better than the losers is the way they control their emotion, and that is also a skill you need to learn.
Therefore, if you have not determined from the beginning what you need to have, losing is natural, you cannot blame anyone, it is like being fired for not doing a good job. The number of winners in gambling is like the number of rich people in this world, it is small and not for the majority, that is natural and that is the fairness of life.

It’s was shocking to hear this news,because the missing person is the kid.So anything can be happened,because after the loss they may get into the suicide because of the fear.But some ransom also the cause for the missing,we should wait and find the result of the investigation.The money 200$ is not the big money,but by the kids was involved in the Aviator game.They can be followed by some criminal to kidnapping the kids for the ransom.The suicide cause is they had used the school fee to play the Aviator game,the loss is not the wrong one.But the kids committing because of the fear with their parents and their parents reaction for the loss.

today in my country I read a news that said that a young man was sent to withdraw money from the bank, his parents told him to withdraw 200$ (I converted my country's money into American dollars and gave 200$), the son raised the 200$ and he disappeared, he has been missing for 3 days, when his parents reported him missing and the police started investigating, they managed to discover something shocking, the young man took the 200$ and went to play aviator which is a gambling, the parents told the police that that money was to pay their son's school bills, at this moment the son is still missing. It is not known whether he is alive or not. but this is not the first case in my country, in the last 3 months there have been more than 10 cases of suicide involving an aviator game

due to the many cases of suicide involving the aviator game, the police in my country blamed the aviator game, but this is a serious mistake, the aviator game is not to blame, the aviator game does not think, it does not act for itself . and just a computer program. but the police in my country blamed the aviator game, strangely enough, most of the suicide cases involving the aviator game are police officers in my country who borrowed money, played aviator, wrote a letter saying things and committed suicide. So the police in my country, instead of investigating these cases further, just decided to blame the game. By this I mean that people often blame others because they don't want to admit that it's their fault.

If you are not new in gambling you already know this but there are just gamblers who are bitter about losing. All what they want is to win and earn more money but it's not possible. We need to lose too sometimes so that others can also win. That's a healthy gambling community.

Those who are ruined by gambling are addicted to it. I feel sorry for them but it's not yet the end as long as they are willing to change their situation. If we are playing a game of luck, it's okay if we a aren't making a well-informed choice but we need it or such plan in order to quit on the casino immediately once we achieved our desired winning, so that it won't be returned to the casino anymore.

Some individuals are used to blaming others when they lose as they don't want to take responsibility for their actions. They blame others so they won't feel guilty about what happened that made them to lose money when gambling. Blaming others for your losses is a waste of time, when you blame them the money won't come back and they won't give you back the money and also since you didn't accept the responsibility, you won't learn from that mistake.

If you want to stop losing when gambling then you first have to stop blaming other individuals when you lose your bets. You also should start budgeting your games so you don't over spend when gambling or over gamble from playing too many games and if you were to lose you won't have to lose too many amounts of money that you'll start looking for other individuals to blame so you don't feel guilty.

It all matters about acceptance and something that do talks about realistic approach towards gambling then there should really be no problems on which it would
really be that a common thing that people would be thinking about becoming that rich with gambling on the sense that it could give out that kind of probability on hitting up those higher
chances or odds that will really be possibly that bring you up into a situation or condition that you might be getting rich. Yes, its possible but its not something that too easy to hit on,
odds or chance are close to impossible and this is why it would be better that you should be not delusional on that aspect.

When you do lose then its a common behavior for most people who do really love on pointing out the blame into something whether into the site itself or into those people
around or to those who had been recommending on doing so. This is why it would be best that you should really be that having that self control on time such as this.

there is nothing wrong if someone wants to seek entertainment in gambling as long as they know all the risks and are willing to accept these risks and most importantly know how to avoid bad risks.
gambling is just a way of having fun with a little luxury like paying for your place to play the games you like and on the one hand, if a gambler already knows all that, there should be no need to blame anyone when he loses because that is a risk when he is unlucky.
blaming the gambling party is just a very silly attempt when we buy pleasure from what has been provided but when we lose we blame the casino and for me that is very silly.

However, gambling is nothing more than a probability activity or a chance activity which means that obviously you will be able to win when you are "lucky" no matter how skillful you are. The possibility of losing cannot be completely avoided because gambling is a risky activity and that is the risk that anyone can lose any amount of money and anyone can win or double the amount of money, but everything there is nothing more than a "possibility" which means you may lose or you may win, you cannot know when you can win but losing is a definite risk because this is a business for casinos which means you really have to have good luck if you want to win but the problem is that anyone can never know when he can get lucky.

Therefore gambling is really based on the right understanding because this activity involves a huge risk that can lose you any amount of money in an instant. On the other hand many people are involved in gambling but there are some of them who feel fine without experiencing significant impact while others are those who are trapped in many problems due to gambling and that means there is something wrong that you apply to your gambling activities, looking at the examples of many people and then doing self-introspection to recognize the location of the error is what you must do when you are in such a situation rather than blaming the innocent party.

We will not be able to beat the casinos because we know that the casinos are the ones running the business. We can only try to gamble moderately with self-control and restrictions so that we don't exceed what we can afford. When we lose a certain amount of money, we will not blame the casino because that is the risk of gambling, and we should have understood it when we started gambling. To avoid losing a lot, we must always control ourselves when gambling and limit our time and money so that when we lose, we don't lose a lot of money. Many people have misunderstood this, so they still make mistakes like that, so they will only blame the casino even though it is their own fault. With the awareness that we must be able to limit our gambling games, we still try not to exceed the limits and only use gambling as entertainment and nothing more. If we can be responsible gamblers, we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and can avoid the problems that other gamblers have faced.

That's why a gambler must have good self-control to control his emotions when he loses. He will not try to recover from that loss because he is already thinking about what further risks he will accept. He does not want to lose more money, which will not help him recover his losses. The gambler also won't blame the casino when he loses, so he will just gamble in moderation because, for him, gambling is just entertainment that doesn't need to be played too often. When gambling, a person must always be able to control his emotional stress so that it does not increase, too high, and only self-control can control his emotions so that they do not increase.

If it is to entertain themselves, they should not come to gambling because it will be a waste if they lose. They will keep blaming the casino while the casino won't respond, and even if they say that in the chatbox at the casino, maybe the admin will immediately block their account because they have made a fuss at the casino. Such people do not need to gamble, and it is better to use other activities besides gambling so that they do not need to blame other people or the casino. They should be aware of the risks of gambling so that they can always try to limit the amount they lose.

People who blame others after losing a bet of gambling know that there is no way to get their money by blaming. But some gamblers habitually do these things. They think that losing bet and  blame others and maybe their loss is not because of their own failure but because of others. And this act they probably console themselves. But a gambler should never such blame. He takes his own risk with his own money and neither gives nor accepts the share of winning or defeat. A gambler should understand these things well before gambling.

i actually think that it's okay for a gambler to get emotional if they lose, we don't need to be naive that we are like that sometimes. however, the most important thing is that gamblers don't get too emotional when they are emotional, so that it makes them think irrationally and end up gambling recklessly. gamblers should be able to calm themselves down first and gamble when they have gathered their composure again, then they can gamble again.

I agree with that. We must be responsible for our own actions and losing means we took the risk. If there's anyone who is at fault, it will be us.
We made the choice and we can also choose not to gamble so we won't lose anything but if we did take the other path, we must be ready for the consequences. And gambling sites are not a charity to just give away the money we gambled, there will be a fight first and that's to analyze things first before making a bet.
Pointing the finger at gambling sites will not help, hell even their customer service won't help us if we lose our money through gambling because it's all in terms.
This ain't like a console game where we could just save our progress and then load again is we made a mistake. Once the money is lost, we cannot do anything about it. The only option is to just win it back by playing more. But the risk will still be there that we might lose it all.

Yes, because luck is something that cannot always be predicted when it will come, and if there were some people who could actually know when they would be lucky then it would be clear that many people would have become rich instantly by gambling, but the facts show that it really is. it doesn't happen and most of it is nothing more than illusions or hallucinations in the minds of people who come with the aim of winning.

Of course, in any kind of betting, be it sports or anything else, of course the main point is that luck will always be something that is very important which will be able to determine the outcome at the end of the session, especially getting a win, for example in sports betting, even if you have understanding and experience as well as broad insight. about the world of sports, but it is not uncommon for the team you are betting on to end up losing due to something unexpected that happens on the field such as a red card which ultimately makes the match run unbalanced and also ultimately makes the team you bet on lose, right? Once or twice I have experienced this kind of scenario, therefore, as I said before, no matter what, your best strategy will still rely on luck.

There is no healthy approach other than gambling by only placing small amounts. You have explained several facts about the advantages of placing small amounts and this will make us feel the pleasure of gambling more without having to feel too much pressure due to losing.

Yes, but it's the emotions that is involved here, we can't control it obviously, we have to find someone or something like escape mechanism to cope with our (heavy) loses. And just like when we win big as well, we could attribute it to someone being a lucky charm. I know a girl (we can call her escort), a old but rich man when playing in a casino, just wanted this girl to be beside him because she thinks that she is the lucky charm.

However, I don't hear stories than when this rich man losses millions, he blame it to the girl. Maybe he is sane or knows that game too well, or just simply blinded by the beauty of this young girl that even in losses, he thought that they can recoup the next day with the girl beside him playing baccarat or slot machine.

No one is happy to lose money; by all means, it's understandable to be upset. However, there's a thin line between taking responsibility for your actions and your own mistakes and blaming other people or a casino for your misfortunes. Gambling is usually a triggering event or an excuse for a problematic behavior. Lack of self-control is the actual issue, not gambling itself; it can occur in any kind of behavior that can become addictive and thus harmful, such as alcohol or compulsive purchasing. Not being able to control how much you spend or how much you drink is your issue, not someone else's, but one you cause yourself.

The ability to cope with both losses and wins is a great asset for maintaining a healthy and sustainable relationship with gambling. It's natural for people to seek reasons or someone to blame when they experience losses, because it can be difficult to accept personal responsibility for the outcome. Assigning blame is not a productive practice in the context of gambling. Instead, focusing on understanding the inherent risks, managing the emotions, and learning from both wins and losses can lead to more balanced decision-making.

Emotional resilience is key in navigating the highs and lows of gambling. While it's understandable to feel excitement after a win, gamblers need to remain level-headed and avoid making impulsive decisions that could lead to further losses. Maintaining emotional stability contributes to a more positive and fulfilling gambling experience while minimizing the potential negative consequences associated with emotional extremes.

I get that losing money gambling can be frustrating.  Believe me, I've been there.  But blaming the dealer or saying things like it's that machine's fault is just making excuses.  At the end of the day, gambling is gambling - you win some, you lose some.  Thats the nature of it and 

I'm not trying to lecture.  I just think getting angry and making accusations won't improve your chances or mentality.  Having a level head is important.  Freaking out makes it all less fun anyway.  It's best to just accept the losses in stride.

Stay sane out there, folks!