Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 9. (Read 2213 times)

The process requires separate understanding and awareness from the gambler himself. However, when you encounter difficult conditions such as consecutive losses, the choice is to leave and stop and continue at another opportunity. or continue to pursue victory.
People who are aware will probably stop and close the game. but when you play, situations sometimes make our emotions uncontrollable. and continuing the game is sometimes the wrong choice but we still choose it.

In everything in life there are gains and losses. So the sooner you understand this and bet only what is necessary and in moderation, your life and your emotions will be very different.

That's human nature especially if they are immature enough to determine something that its really their fault on why they experiencing such unfortunate lose on the casino. They should stop blaming those platforms since in first place they are the one came there and try to test out their luck. Also they really need to be mature enough to know the consequences of the action they do so that they would know what need to change on their attitude and so they can adjust on something important for a gambler to do. We commit mistakes in gambling and these people should adjust and stop blaming those platforms on the wrong decisions they do.

Not just from person to another one, even with the same person he could be complaining today for the losses, happy and celebrating the second day he wins. It’s the human nature not just in gambling but everything he does, so most of people feel better they prefer to blame anything else beside them and take out their responsibility when someone negative happens due to their actions and activities.
Personally, I have done that multiple times when I lose while playing slots games, I start saying that I haven’t win anything from this slot so that must be it problem or the casino, knowing deep inside it’s just me who is unlucky and that happens to everyone.

While other gamblers tend to even to worse than just complaining or blaming, some of them once they lose on a real casino by destroying that slot machine or table, fight with the dealer or other gamblers. We have also seen stories here where some people lie about their losses in gambling and blame it as someone stole the funds.

I agree with you but the sad thing is, that people find blaming their irresponsibility on something else(gambling) much easier, it makes them feel better and at the same time makes them feel like they are victims. this is why gambling awareness is extremely important, not only does it educate people on how to gamble responsibly it also teaches them to take responsibility for their gambling habits and not just blame every stupid decision they make while gambling to gambling.

I would like to support OP. I am also tired when people complain and blame everyone when they lose in gambling. Especially I dont like when people say that casino make something special to make them lose. That casino on purpose do manipulations to get those couple of dollars that gambler has just bet. People must learn how to cope with their emotions.

The first instinct whenever an individual loses a game or is frustrated with something else. Point those fingers to someone and let the blame game begin. The sad part is when you are playing as a team and one player points his finger at his teammate, that will probably hurt.
I think that's one of the bad traits that we inherit from our parents or those we grow up with or it could be inside us but just needs to be activated.

Regarding the blame game in gambling, it happens a lot of times. Visit the chatbox of an online gambling site and you will see a lot of rants from gamblers.
But, I do feel them and that is why I just let them do it. If it could somehow help them release all the rage that they are keeping then so be it. Besides, I don't think an admin or a moderator will stop them unless they are using foul words which leads to the account being muted.
I do understand the frustration because many times that it happened to me too, an example would be a long losing streak and your wallet almost being depleted without any RTP happening. Those kinds of things happening to a gambler leads to frustration and they will think the system is rigged or they cheat. Well, it is rigged and we have to accept that the first time we lay our hands on an online gambling site.  

Yes. Just because rich people have more money to play with and can play for longer periods of time, it doesn't guarantee that they will win. In fact, the more they play, the more money they can lose. Winning isn't about having a lot of funds, it's more about having self-control.

Is backup money to continue gambling not the same as revenge gambling? In my opinion, they are the same thing. When people desperately need to recoup their loss by engaging in further gambling is revenge gambling. From experience, you will run into a crisis because you would be gambling with the wrong state of mind. Funny enough, revenge gambling doesn`t guarantee you winning rather you will make the bookies richer because the cry of a gambler is the smile of a bookie.

The implication of this is that you will end up losing more than expected. For instance, If I fund my online bet account with $500 with the mind of only playing with that amount and lose the money, will it be wise to fund again or take a pause? Experience tells us that taking a pause is better. Remember he who fights and runs, lives to fight another day. If you die today there is no fight tomorrow and gambling continues so there is no need for backup money rather there should be a limit to what we can gamble and once exhausted we are done for the day. A gambler shouldn`t be quick to place additional bets on other events in quick succession hoping to make up for the initial loss. Always accept your loss.

This is not always true although having enough bankroll will help you to play longer since you have extra money to bet once losing streak hits you hard. However this is a double edge sword since the more your bankroll is the more money you can possibly lose so it’s better not to rely much on your bankroll size since casino counters it with maximum bet and maximum so it will be harder for you to recover your losses once your down since you have max bet.

Casino will just slowly kill you with their house edge especially if you are already down with huge percentage of your bankroll. It’s important to just play what you can afford to lose.

I think this is similar to saying "this gamepad doesn't work" after losing 1 v 1 video game. People generally love to blame other when they lose in gambling. I personally dislike people blaming others about their gambling losses. Some people even go further and say "you sit there, that's only reason I lost" which is completely meaningless. Gamblers should have strong mentality to keep on gambling in my opinion. We should all stay sane.

Before even involving yourself in gambling, one should already know what he's getting himself into, a gambler should be fully aware of that gambling isn't really guaranteed investment, winning isn't always guaranteed as you can loose everything you have trying to chase profits or even your losses. I mean every gambler knows this, so saying gambling destroyed your life is something I'll never accept.
If there's anything that destroyed your life in gambling, then it's nothing more but your greed and desperation, because if you gamble responsibly without having the mindset or seeing gambling as a do or die, then there's no way gambling can destroy your life. I mean you're not the only gambler who experiences losses in gambling, every gambler does but responsible gamblers knows when to call it a quite and when to continue gambling and that's what makes you immune to gambling hazzard.

Thats the advantage on having a bigger bankroll on which you could really be able not to make yourself having those kind of adjustments on your gambling activity and having that
possible recovery if ever you would turn out to be lucky but of course it wouldnt really be still that a guarantee because we know that once things turns out to be messy or simply you arent that
lucky enough then chances on wrecking yourself hard would really be there. Blaming? Its a common human being behavior on which they are really that having that kind of behavior on the time
that you would really be suffering extreme loss. There are ones who could be able to control out but there are ones who dont be able to do so.

The possibility of the rich person to make the big winning because of their back up money for the further game.The gamblers who want to make huge money should hold the money for the backup even after the loss.Many poor gamblers will lose the hope and money in the gambling site.So the poor gamblers don’t have any backup money for the further game.This was biggest drawback for the poor gamblers,even after earning good strategies with the loss.The poor gamblers won’t have money to make the continuous winning.So the gamblers who have huge money will create more money from the same gambling site.

Well, in a logical viewpoint, rich people has a higher tendency of winning than average to poor individuals. Why? bigger your bankroll means more chances of betting and more chances of winning. With poor gamblers or ones who don't have that much they will only be able to bet a few times depending on their winning percentage. This is not to limit things, many people who are financially deprived  managed to win and turn things towards their lives. We are not playing against other players tho' but rather with your chances of winning and bankroll management in order to be profitable in the long run. Poor gamblers or gamblers having nothing much if financial freedom would be normally has higher nervousness but that doesn't mean that they are afraid to risk 'coz if that's the case they won't be even in this activity we re having in the first place.

And with random blaming or transferring of frustrations to objects or surroundings, then that won't be valid except for the fat that it could be one's reason to cope up with negative emotions. It is also a safeguarding technique used by them to not hurt their ego that they have lost that much from this industry.

of course what you say is true, some have fun and celebrate and some lose and suffer, in gambling it is a gathering place for rich and poor people, the rich tend to be more likely to win and they have a higher chance of winning than the rich, I say it because usually the rich don't really care about the bets they play while the poor are too afraid of risks, do you think this is fair?
it's fair if it's simpoor vs simpoor
rich people vs rich people

I don't think anyone is actually painting gambling here mate. Everyone has a personal experience with the gambling activities. Not everyone will make wins some will while some will loss. That's what balances the who thing. You can't just go ahead blaming gambling for ruing you life or causing you loss as it's just an activity that you personally decided to partake in. If we go around like that placing blames on gambling it shows more of irresponsibility.

What ever decisions we make as to when it comes to gambling is ours to bear that why it's said to gamble what you can afford to loss. If you put too much into gambling and expect to win double, you might end up losing all. While Gambling we should make sure to make the right choice to avoid situations where we start pointing fingers.

Gambling has never been an investment. People only started looking at it as an investment due to the jackpot and huge wins it could provide to a gambler. In agreement to the general rumor that all the money a player has spent gambling, will be handed out to him as a jackpot. So, people easily spend money on gambling on such bases. And they don't regret losing, the only problem is that they are actually suffering pains than financial loss. Gamblers know that they'll win at some point. It gives them some bragging rights as a gambler. Seeing it that money shortage is the reason to the trouble or problem why gamblers blame their new habit inherited from gambling, could be argued. As not all are actually suffering from the problem. Gambling addicts don't always run out of money completely. They get worried over the amount of money spent on a single day because of gambling. Such shock in them can be choking them to an extent of raising an alarm. Which during his explanations to others would make it sound like gambling is the cause his trouble. But dip down he was only passing through the pain of spending high amount of money consistently.

Luck is a part of every aspect of life, including gambling, and blaming oneself or others for not winning only increases the negative impact of losing. I think it is necessary to focus on responsible gambling practices, understand the odds, and treat gambling as a means of entertainment rather than a guaranteed source of financial gain. By taking a balanced approach to gambling, we can reduce the unnecessary blame and blame associated with it and create a healthier relationship with the activity.

Besides, some can find support and help from friends or relatives who share the same interest in responsible gambling. It is also preferable to search for reliable resources and information on how to play safely and identify signs of addiction and potential negative effects. And introducing and implementing the right financial management strategies can have a significant positive impact on your gambling experience. Good budget plans can help reduce the financial and emotional stress of gambling and promote self-control.

You are right. Those who win may get some benefits and can open a business from the winning money. But those who lose and become addicted will ruin their lives and those of their families. Granted it's a balance but what I know is that more gamblers lose and become addicted than gamblers who play the game just as a game.

I think gambling is not the same as investing. In investing, you will be given assets that you can save and sell whenever you want. This is different from gambling where you risk your money on a game with the possibility that your money will double if you win or lose completely. So I think gambling is a game and not an investment at all.