Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 8. (Read 2235 times)

It seems that there are still some gamblers who don't really understand the concept of real gambling they are talking about something that is not fundamental, after all this is gambling and not a place that can turn someone into a rich man, and the idea of accepting mistakes for things that they think should not be done really has nothing to do with the results in the gambling they do, as you said even if they manage to identify their mistakes it will have nothing to do with the results at the end of the session, But identifying or knowing the mistakes and making changes is useful for a preventive measure, such as if you always suffer a lot of losses, then the problem and what should be changed is that you have to limit the time for involvement as well as the amount of budget allocated, and obviously this only leads to a preventive measure so that you no longer suffer large losses and does not mean that by doing this you can get bigger wins.

No matter what you do you will never be able to increase the winning percentage to a more "likely" one because the casino has everything organized behind the scenes, and that means you will only be able to win when you are really lucky, or your winnings depend on how lucky you are at the time of the session if you are involved in a purely lucky type of betting.

That is not even about coping or venting, to be honest. Those examples are of people whoare not mature enough to be ready to take responsibility on their actions and where they put their money on. Those are people who one is supposed never to share betting advices with, it is just a mental trick done by them to avoid any self-accountabilty for money they were not even ready to wager in the first place.
I am not sure which of those two examples you talk about are worse, then compared one against the other, but if I had to be forced to interact with either someone who blames the casino or someone who directly blames me, I would rather not to be personally attacked by anyone while I am just trying to get some amusement out my spare time.  

Also, pretty rude if someone does not even credit you for giving a good betting tip, at the very least one just expects and thank you. Not even money.

I absolutely hate such people and can't bear them near me, especially those who blame the casino for their losses and think that there has been some sort of manipulation by the house to make them lose, I mean, why the hell would they need to do that just for $50 when they have players betting thousands of dollars every second?

Another category of such people is those who would first ask you for suggestions, and if you give them some suggestions and they act upon them, and if they lose money after doing that, they would start blaming you because they followed your suggestion and lost money. I mean, what the hell? You are the one forcing me to give you some suggestions and now you are blaming me for it, you were not forced to do what I said it was a mere suggestion. What's more ironic is that they would never give you any credit if they manage to win following your suggestion, lol.

What "faults" are you talking about? It looks like you think that if faults were identified, the number of losses would be reduced subsequently. But, in fact, no matter how much you analyze your play, you can't improve anything in purely luck-based games. Accepting defeat is a good attitude and it can improve your mood overall, but it will not make you win more.

Entertainment is just the expression you get in a time when things are not too chaotic, your mood has enough positivity to neutralize the negative things as well as the luck that comes from gambling, typically we have unexpected joys coming from family as well as happiness with love, even advancement in work performance, when luck is so surrounding, it's hard to blame some bad luck. While we have all the bad things of the day surrounding us, mindless cursing and blaming will appear, this situation is just not good for long, it's normal to force your mouth to say a few bad words, but you still shouldn't say too many hurtful things

People continue to gamble after experiencing loss because they cannot accept their loss easily, and they see that they still have some money that they can use to gamble, so they decide to continue gambling. They know it could cause them to lose even more money, but they still want to try to recover their losses and chase the next win. Continuing to gamble is not wrong, but they should be able to measure their own abilities, especially after seeing the defeats they have received, and it is better if they can stop gambling. They still have a lot of time to spend gambling, so by stopping gambling, they can reduce their tension and also rest. We cannot force ourselves to exceed our set limits because that could cause us to lose even more money.

What is clear is that mistakes will always occur to gamblers who fail to have good mindset and management, they will feel what is called being controlled by their own desires.
But it does not rule out the possibility that gamblers who have large bankrolls can get satisfactory results and this is not just matter of luck but also how they use good strategy in gambling.
There will be conditions where the gambler experiences defeat and there will be conditions where the gambler can win, all of which will have bad impact if the gambler himself cannot have the right approach.
So far, from personal experience and observation of various gamblers that I know, on average they are gamblers who always experience failure in limiting themselves and when faced with opportunities, they make mistakes more often.
Only their mindset and how much control they have can change all of this into result that meets expectations.

It possible that making money will happen if win comes, but doesn't gambling guarantee defeat?
We have to be able to think up to this point if we really want to be smarter gamblers and not easily make mistakes.
We have to be able to think that gambling is actually not place to make money but a place to spend or waste some money.

Winning and losing can happen when you gamble. Although some have made money, others have been ruined. Personal accountability and making well-informed choices are very important. Nevertheless, addiction and hurt are real issues that need to be addressed by society and need support systems. Knowing both the pros and cons of gaming is very important.

When it actually favour them, they would forget about the banting and say Gambling is good and gambling has change my life but just because there own decisions didn't favour them, they will blame everything on gambling for ruining their life, I thought all consequences has action and there is equal and opposite reaction. You know gambling is 50-50, no other out of it but when it doesn't just go as you want cry as victim when nobody even force them to gamble.

If you believe that anytime you bet and you expect nothing, there is nothing that will ever disappoint you in gambling, you will even be surprised anytime you win gambling and that's what bring the fun of it but when you are too focus and expect to win and you don't win, you will hate gambling forever and it's when you force it get worser.

I am a person who believes that gambling is not a place to earn money. Gambling for me is entertainment, where when I really want to find pleasure I will gamble. I will stop when I win, and will stop when the money I brought is gone. There are no regrets when playing.
For some people, gambling may be a negative thing because many people fall into addiction which affects their lives significantly. People who blame their losses at the gambling table are usually people who are frustrated because they didn't get the win they expected.

Viewing it as pure entertainment, devoid of guaranteed rewards, is crucial to avoid the pitfalls of addiction and emotional distress. The initial excitement of gambling can be intoxicating. The potential for quick wins, the adrenaline rush of a close call, it's all very seductive. But it's vital to remember that gambling is designed to be a zero-sum game, where the house always wins in the long run.

The problem arises when people mistake gambling for a viable path to wealth. They start chasing wins, pouring in more money, and eventually, the entertainment turns into an obsession. This is where the emotional toll becomes evident. Losses sting, leading to self-blame and despair. The cycle repeats, fueled by the mistaken belief that the next bet will be the one to turn things around.

So, how do we break this cycle? It all starts with accepting the inherent randomness of gambling. There's no guaranteed outcome, no magic formula for success. Instead, approach it as a leisure activity, with set limits and clear boundaries. Treat your bets like the price of entertainment, not an investment.

Blame game is normal for most of us when we're too emotionally attached on that time we gamble. Disappointing bets that are there and seemingly going to take care of themselves but then, in the end we're losing. I just can't take the idea of having someone to blame because we're losing. That is a sign of being immature and when you're like that, you definitely have to grow up and avoid being the blamer of your own actions.

Regrets do come at the end and when they realize that they've been beaten by the games they've bet on then that's totally fine on their end to analyze their mistakes and bets on that moment. The blaming comes when you just can't point your finger to yourself and that's why it is essential that you need to make up this thing on your own and be the man that have gambled and understood that losing is part of the game and you'll not lose if you don't gamble at all. For this matter, you're unlucky and just accept the reality that not at all times even if we feel that luck is with us, it is just not there.

One of the main reasons on why people would really be continuing for them to play just because they cant really just that accept that they have lost their bets and they do know that there's nothing wrong with their selection on which it do comes into a point that they are really that blaming something that there's something wrong like this and like that on which it is really that a laughable thing.
Why they cant really just that accept the fact that they had really been that able to make mistakes which we know that gambling isnt always on the winning side. If we do lost a bet then
its better to move on and just that call it a day rather than on pushing yourself into betting just because you cant really just that accept yourself that you are on the losing side. lol

The gambler who loss the money in the gambling site can able to make the same money in the gambling site alone.Because their was a might,we should search the thing where we lost.So this was reason for the gambler to do gambling after the loss.But the gambler who do gambling with the random bet will loss the money in the short while.The gambler should create a strategy for the game that strategies will help him to make huge money in the future game.Many people think that the gambler who loss the money will not able to recover in the future.But the gambling skills help him to recover the big money losses in gambling site.

They will never realize that it was actually their fault. Even though they already know, they don't want to admit it and instead blame it on gambling, and that really isn't a responsible gambler. Losing money in gambling is a normal thing, but we don't need to lose large amounts of money because we are the ones who have to control ourselves when gambling. We also must not fall too deep into gambling and must be able to consider gambling as entertainment so that we will not be influenced by anything we see in the casino. And if they can use gambling as entertainment, they will definitely not blame gambling because they realize that if they lose a lot, it is because they cannot stop themselves from gambling.

^ Even if the poor gambler does have backup money, it will not be as huge as the rich gambler. Eventually, it will dry up when luck runs out, especially with a strategy that hasn't been perfected. The only that is perfected here is the risk management to prolong the entertainment.

Can't stop themselves from blaming gambling because blaming themselves is more pathetic but eventually they will realize it after the regrets.

I am wondering why Westinhome deleted his comment, or was that the work of a mod, I don't think so..

But back to the discussion, what you said is right, though very different from what I understand Westinhome to be saying, Westinhome is actually talking about the ability for gamblers to test a game in their fun mode, which is often for free, before moving to play the same game in their normal play mode which requires real money, he is saying that doing this will help a gambler learn much about a game and how to win it before the gambler commits real money into the game.

I was going to partially agree with this, on the grounds that this feature is only available on slot and in-house games, and it is also very limited to some casinos or a few casinos rather, and the ultimate reason again, I feel this strategy does not add any value to a gambler is because, from my personal experience, playing a slot game in fun mode, is completely different from playing same game in their normal paid mode, a game one easily wins in fun mode, can be so difficult for the same player to win same game in their paid mode, because fun mode and paid mode of slot and in-house games are programmed differently.

Sometimes it's not even about having more back up money but a lot has to be done with strategy, when you have got a very good strategy and risk management even with your little bankroll, you still be able to stay long enough in the game but without a good risk management strategy, it's very obvious you will not last long gambling before you go bankrupt.

The Rich gambler usually have stake but a poor gambler usually low or stake with the minimum amount allowed at a time so the difference is usually with the amount they are able to stake at a time, the rich may have a very big bank roll and divides it into several portions and stake accordingly but a poor gambler with no strategy may put all his bankroll at once so he will be able to equate with the rich guy and when they loose  he's kicked out while the rich still continues because he's got a strategy with which he continues to stay in the game as against that of the poor guy without a strategy but if the poor guy divides his little bankroll in to several portions then he could stay as long as the rich guy too.

They can blame gambling all they want but it is not gambling fault if they want to gamble in the first place.These persons are not responsible as they only realize when they finish their session and see they have lost money then they say it is the casino fault because they exist and I could not resist the temptation.If this person can't control himself then it is his fault which generates all the bad things that happen after that.

I've blamed the game or casino when things go wrong too. Blaming others is easier than accepting that luck doesnt always cooperate. Gambling is just one example of this human propensity that appears in practically every facet of life. Deflecting blame is our initial reaction to failure. Its a human reaction, but not ideal

I know there's a fine line between pleasant gambling and bad behavior due to frustration. Like you, I've heard horrific loss stories. Venting or being sad over a loss is different from doing crimes. Gambling should always be for fun, never harmful