Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 11. (Read 2213 times)

Another example in this scenario is about a gun. People blaming guns killing people but what they don't really understand is that people killing people. Gambling and guns don't have this brain thing that manipulate humans to do something stupid. We have to act responsibly so we won't end up playing this blame game.

It's obvious that in gambling you don't need to blame anyone for whatever they missed in their gambling and it's obvious that gambling is lucky game and its not mean that in all points you will be unlucky it's obvious that sometimes you have to unlucky in gambling and if we should equate this, it's obvious we have to be unlucky almost everytime in gambling, when you cross check gambling you will notice that gambling is like a game of light and dark and the occurrence of dark always be higher than the one of light..so this reference will make you to understand that benefiting in gambling is rall and its obvious that the statistics of someone being unlucky is higher someone be lucky in gambling activities

Gambling is not completely wrong in this case because it depends on those who use their gambling irresponsibly. When someone's life is ruined because of gambling, it must be because he has become addicted and is unable to stop it, making it uncontrollable and increasingly making him bankrupt and experiencing significant losses. big. I understand what you mean about linking investment with gambling because investment does not run smoothly producing profits, there are profits and losses, sometimes we experience losses and sometimes losses, but if we patiently wait for a long period of time the money we invest will double, which is different from gambling if If you lose, your money will be lost. It takes patience to recover your losses and it is not certain that your money will be returned.

It is true that before we make a decision to gamble we should consider the risks first because that is what will determine whether a gambling journey is disciplined or not because if we don't think about the risks it will end in continuous losses and ultimately ruin your life.

How I wish you were correct but the fact is there are many losers and few winners, you're using the word some on your post as if there's an equal number of winners and losers when it's not, gambling is black or bad for people who made the wrong intention on the platform like trying to make money out of it and blame people and the platform on the platform

You could do that but when you're in front of the gaming table or gambling interface it's different all your ideas and choices go out of the window all you can think of are the games and potential profit that you're going to make, in gambling experience is the best experience until you experienced the bad things about gambling or you've seen an example coming from persons who are dear to you, that's when realization come.

There's this thing called, Fundamental Attribution Error or FAE, which is a normal human phenomena where it's shown that humans will blame everything else first before they blame themselves. I personally don't know the history of why this phenomena came to be and I'm not about to school you about its origins. But this plays a large part as to why people who gamble, revenge gamble.

They'd find ways to find fault against other people, sometimes even mock them amidst their sufferings. You see someone who's pissing himself in the slot machine from playing too much, you immediately think of him as a lowlife bastard who threw his shit away for moments of gratification and a false promise of millions of dollars. But when a similar thing happens to you, you find ways to excuse yourself out of the equation. Funny yeah?

This is how the normal human being's brain work every time they are put in a circumstance, gambling just brings it up a notch. A gambler who has no control over his emotions and psyche will start and continue to blame other factors for his losses but himself. In his head he knew he played his cards right, there's no room for mistake on his end, and everything else that went wrong was not within his realm of control. This is simply false and a massive cause for why people find themselves revenge gambling. They just simply couldn't make it in their minds that the fault was theirs and so they'd continue gambling.

Blaming gambling whenever someone is unlucky? I don't think that's the right point. These people who fall on gambling didn't blame gambling for why they became like that. Instead, they blame themselves for getting into it and not accepting the fact that gambling is a win-win situation.

But actually, that's a good thing that these guys fall. Without that bad experience, they will never realize what they're doing is worse. Fortunately, some people were able to survive being the worst gamblers and now living a happy life outside of gambling. On the other hand, unfortunately, not all people can be like that.

Regarding this, what I’ll say is that if you want to blame gambling then it’s best to stay clear from it. However, if you want to keep gambling then embrace the good and the bad; stop turning your back and blaming gambling when it goes wrong but praise it when it goes right. If it ruined your life, why don’t you stay clear once and for all. But no, they go back, and when they win they’ll forget they accused it of ruining their life.

The gamblers who look to make huge money via gambling may end up blaming the casino for not providing them enough wins. Players are having a hard time trying to get the type of money they seek while gambling, instead of going for the fun, they're completely taken away by the joy of other winners around them. They forget that while gambling could be hard to win, people win every day, but listening to their stories you'd notice they've been losing as well. Hence, players who think that they could win, like any other gambler they've set their eyes on who won some money, may be lying to himself. Because that's not true. He could end up finding it difficult to accept the fault is from his end than he thinks of the casino. Gamblers have a lot to learn, which wouldn't get achieved easily, the player has to experience thicks and thins for his thoughts to balance while gambling. Such that whenever, he doesn't win, it won't cross his mind to blame the casino.

There is one thing that I have understood about some people: they don't like to take the blame for their mistakes; they just want to send the blame somewhere else, and all those things or people should be held responsible for their own actions. That way, they feel better.
 
And many new gamblers believe that because it works for their friend or relative, it must also work for them that same way, which is far from how gambling works, and anytime they place their bet and it goes against their prediction, they start sending blame to the basin rather than themselves. Such people are not ready to start gambling in the first place because their mind is not prepared for what it comes with.

Yeah, take it easy when we gamble and when we lose too. That's one hard thing to absorb when we're gambling and if the amount is higher. It is making us hard to accept that fact when we're losing because that feeling sucks.

IMHO, blaming has been a culture for most when they are disappointed wants to find no fault to themselves. If someone has that attitude then he/she has to change for the better.

Learn to accept the losses and never blame the casino or anyone that you've been losing money because before you gamble, they didn't even pursue you and it's a personal decision to bet.

People gambling others things and people but themselves. It is nothing new and it is exclusive to gambling, by the way. I believe it has happened to all of us, we try to deflect the blame other way when we feel we have been wronged and when we feel we have done nothing wrong for us to suffer such consequences. In the case of gambling is common, because it is an activity which directly involves money.
The most common way for people to deflect the blame when they lose money in the casino is to alledge the game is rigged against them, which could be possible if they play in a shady/scam casino, but those kind of point of view are dismantled when the game is either other source or probably fair.
If anyone gambles and after losing throws a temper tantrum on the casino or their bad luck, perhaps that person is not supposed to gamble in the first place. Though, throwing a temper tantrum and venting are different from each other, immature adults and toddlers throw temper tantrums, adults and mature young adults vent from time to time to keep their mental health in check.

People always love to shift the blame whenever possible. A lot of gamblers don't want to take responsibility and accountability for losing their money, hence they will look for ways to take the blame somewhere else. I never once blamed anyone when I lost money in the casino or in sports betting sites. I know it's my fault for playing at that time and there's no one responsible for my own loss but me.

These people should not be allowed to hold other people's money IMO. They will only make lots of financial mistakes and they will never take accountability when shit hits the fan.

what you described over there is more like running a legitimate business...the differences between your illustration on gambling at the receivers's end (the casino owners) is actually wider than being at the giver's end (addicted gamblers)...

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I'm still gonna say there's nothing wrong with having them complain - most gambling site don't even give a fuck how much you deposited/ how much you've lost so far.. all they're after is their cuts at the end which makes the whole thing very creepy to anyone that sees the insight.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

Nonsense, they experience a loss in gambling and then they regret it, promising not to repeat the same mistake and to gamble responsibly. But the next day, they returned to betting an unreasonable amount and gambled indefinitely, they only stopped when the money in their household was gone. And if they feel they are still not satisfied with gambling, they will take out a loan or sell their belongings, so they can continue betting. They are really addicted to gambling and are unable to control themselves well when gambling.

And of course it's not the gambling that's wrong, but their own bad assumptions and behavior that often makes them make mistakes, which ultimately leads to losses and other negative impacts. Gambling is just entertainment, which is played for fun, not for profit.

remember that gambling should be considered a responsible form of entertainment and not as a way to deal with financial or emotional problems. Implementing self-control measures can help minimize the risk of error and result in a more positive gambling experience.

That is true every time when ever we do gambling we always have to keep one things in our head and mind that gambling is all about luck it fully depend on luck whether you will won or whether you will face losses. So if we lose the gamble then we should take it easy, And we have to agree with that losing are also the part of gambling so before doing gambling we have to set our mind on that way.

So it's like this Dude, basically we can't forbid someone from making their posts according to what they want.  especially, related to the defeat he suffered. Several members of the community want to share their complaints, or some experiences related to their problems. and in fact, there is nothing wrong with all that. most importantly, no rules were violated. conversely, so do the people who post their wins. All of this is their right, although it is not uncommon for some to want to show off and many also share their experiences with their wins. We here, on the gambling discussion board, can discuss anything, especially gambling. there are those who complain, there are those who are happy with their winnings, there are those who share tips, there are those who want to get rid of their addiction and many other things. What is certain is that you cannot forbid someone from doing what they want, especially if it does not violate existing regulations.

Including you, who made the post in this thread. Maybe you are a little uncomfortable, with so many people screaming about how their gambling has ruined their lives. but in fact, they still make posts on gambling discussion boards. Well, if there are those who still view gambling as a very dangerous thing as you said. In fact, you will not be able to force our different mindsets regarding gambling. So, it's a normal part of the dynamics that occur especially in our community. Most importantly, you can make threads according to what you want, even more useful. or, you just stop by the thread you like. the rest, ignore. yeah, it's that simple Dude. one more thing, gamble while you enjoy it. stop, if it is no longer interesting and enjoyable.

The time gambling can be seen as a dangerous thing is on the ground that people are found addicted to it by spending more than they bargained for, allowing gambling to control their lives, which will lead them to live a reckless life. That's how I sense why some people view gambling as a dangerous thing to humans.

Those who sense it to be that way, are judging gambling because of how some people engage in it wrongly by not having fun in it, betting on what they can't afford to lose, and also gambling with the mindset of being rich out of gambling.

Putting this into consideration, when you see people who partake in gambling with the wrong mindset, you can view it as a dangerous thing without knowing that those who engage in It in such a manner are to be blamed for it

Theoretically, on an average one can have fewer wins than their lose but it just depends on the luck factor of an individual but myself who is know what amount of luck I had when I attempt to change the fortune of life with something little, it just ended up as nothing and I am okay with it because I didn't expect it to happen, I just wish if it happen then I would be happy but even when it didn't I have nothing to lose cause I did what will be the most expected outcome.

These are the primary things that you should make yourself that realize that gambling isnt something that you could really be able to treat it up as an investment but rather it is really just that good for leisure things.
Risk is high and you should really that having that kind of realization in the first place on which you would really be needing up for you to know that gambling is really just that for the sake of fun and not for making money.
Tendency or chances of losing is really that very high and if you are someone who do keep pushing your luck then you would really be having those odds on losing up more rather than on making yourself making some profits.
For those who do really love to blame then yes its really that common behavior of someone but its not really that right at all. You are the ones who have decided on taking some gambling and not others
on which you are really that doing it on your own free will on which blaming someone is really just that useless nor really be able to take back those things that are currently happening.

People who usually paint gambling as bad simply because they have been unlucky are immature. Gambling is a two way thing, it's either you win or you lose. There is no gambler that has not lost money at one point or the other so have they also won certain amount of money. If you think gambling is not for you then quit and let those who are ready to gamble responsible continue. Many times gambling has given me big winnings when I least expected.