I don't know why believers think that non-believers do not understand concepts like love, or that they are secretly unhappy. I love people, life, nature. And in fact I'm happier and filled with more love than most people I meet. Atheism is not a lack of morality and joy, rather a lack of belief in a god.
I try to be as kind and truthful as I can, to help those who are less fortunate, and to spread joy while ending suffering. These things are not because of a god. These are basic human feelings that are shared by people of all religions and atheists.
The reason why I don't believe in a god is the same reason I don't believe in Santa Clause. There is not a single shred of evidence for it. Until someone can address that, I can't imagine not being an atheist.
It is not that we do not think the non-believers do not understand love, or are even unhappy. Quite the contrary. I believe that many people are wildly happy and do love (often more so than many that call themselves Christians unfortunately) The problem is the concept of where the "good things in life" or Love even comes from. And what is love?
Every good and perfect gift comes from God. God is love. God created love. So the problem lies more in the fact that non-believers do not understand where the good things in life comes from and God does not get the credit due for that. Basically He is behind the scenes giving great blessings and putting love in our hearts and we just ignore Him, say we do not need Him or say He is not relevant or important. We have this crazy idea that we could exist, or love each other without Him. How would that even be possible if He IS Love???
You seem together and like a loving person. I don't see you ranting with hateful words. Many of my close friends are like that also and believe in one god or another. I have nothing against religion at all. But I have seen many religions traveling around the world. Met many lovely people with wildly differing beliefs. However no one has ever provided any evidence of their God. That is what is missing for me.
Thanks. To be hateful would go entirely against what I should be as a Christian so I take that as a compliment.
It gets complicated to be a Christian sometimes. Because I believe so strongly that the Bible is true I am seen as totally narrow minded by many people. But because I believe the Bible to be true to my core I cannot rewrite the Bible and make it say whatever I want it too. Then I would not be a true Christian. In fact, I see many people that claim to be that pick and choose what they want to believe out of the Bible. In a way they are just creating their own "god".
As for providing evidence. I could go a few different directions with that. There is a book called "The Case For Christ" by Lee Strobel
http://www.amazon.com/The-Case-Christ-Journalists-Investigation/dp/0310209307 where a well known reporter approached searching for evidence for proof that Jesus was really who he said he was. He did not believe it and wanted to prove once and for all that Jesus was just a big scam but came to realize that there was evidence out there that was undeniable. That said, even with "evidence" it takes someone with a willingness to accept that evidence as truth or as some call it "faith."
Also, one thing that resonates with me for the evidence of God is the complexity of the human body. Even the complexity of a single cell in our bodies should make us wonder at how would that ever just happen by chance. As intelligent as humans are we cannot even understand everything about how our bodies work. Isn't that enough to make us think that there is something greater out there? I would think that it would cause someone to at least believe in Intelligent Design. If we were walking along the beach and saw a glass bottle with the coke logo on it would we think "Wow, what a strange sand formation?" Of course not. It obviously was created by someone. How much more complex are humans? We were obviously intricately designed.
As for all of the different paths or "gods" the Bible is pretty narrow in that it says, "There is one way to the Father, through Jesus Christ." This is not popular for sure. I think the thing that is eye opening for me is that all of the other religions require people to do works to earn their way to a "higher place" "nirvana" or the afterlife they believe in. Christianity is the only religion where one realizes that there is nothing that we can do in ourselves. It is not about "earning" or being "good." It is about understanding we will never be good enough and we need a savior and our salvation is a free gift. So Christianity is different then all religions in that.
I had a long conversation with a Hindu I met at the beach once. He argued with me that all paths were valid. I said that if all paths were valid and Christianity said that there was only one way to the Father and it was through accepting Jesus, then the most logical choice would be to become a Christian so that your salvation would be guaranteed. He smiled and said, "You are beginning to persuade me." I am not sure what he did decide to do because I have not seen him since.
But all of this is just words on a page. True faith is about letting go of our pride and actually praying to God and asking Him for help. Simple yet profound and it seems so few want to do that. The sad thing is even I, as a Christian, find myself struggling to "let go and let God" have His way at times too. It is a journey for sure.