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Those who look at themselves and then hate them should be able to realize that it is too late because they have already experienced loss in gambling. They cannot see what impact they will get after they finish gambling, so they can only see this after they finish gambling. If they are obsessed with chasing wins, they will not be able to see how much they have lost but will only focus on their efforts to win the gambling game. If we realize that we have hated ourselves for losing self-control, we must try to prevent that from happening again by always trying to exercise self-control because that is the only thing that can help us prevent many losses. But we must not hate ourselves no matter what mistakes we have made, and we can only try to correct those mistakes so they don't happen again.
mistakes are valuable lessons that don't need to be regretted or even blamed yourself, it's not necessary.
with mistakes we have a very good experience to become a better self and if there is a gambler who hates himself because of a previous mistake which made him lose all his money I think it is not necessary and instead it should be used for learning and take something positive not to repeat it in the future.
every gambler here, I'm sure they all had bad experiences in the past, making them feel very guilty for making that mistake, but I'm sure that after making a mistake in gambling, they become very careful when betting and always remember their mistakes in the past so they don't repeat it again.
but if some of them still repeat the same mistakes, I'm sure they are not ordinary gamblers but excessive gamblers or gambling addicts who ignore everything related to the risks they will get.

there is no point in regretting the mistakes we made because we gambled because of our own choice and when something happens we should be able to accept the risk.
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In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.
Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

It's true that there is no definite belief about winning at gambling. In my opinion, this is something that is still a mystery and will forever be a mystery because no one can guess accurately whether the gambling they do will result in a win. Some gamblers don't think about the risks involved, I mean the risks involved in gambling are often ignored, even though if they could see this side maybe they wouldn't experience big losses.

I think by them recovering the loss it means they can't see the risky side of gambling. also I think when every time they lose gambling they regret it, but the regret is still outweighed by the hope they have of winning big. and in every regretted loss they may hate themselves for not being able to control themselves well. it is true what you said that saving yourself from gambling should be done consciously not to gamble excessively,  because it is not a completely profitable action.
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I once won a lot of money gambling, because of my greed, I didn't get a single penny, it really impressed me, if I withdrew all my winnings, of course I could buy a house, until now I hate it, that's why now I rarely gamble
Maybe many people have been in a situation like yours where they managed to win a lot of money from gambling but they became greedy and instead continued their gambling game. But it turned out that it didn't give the results they wanted because they lost so much that they had to spend all their money, including their winnings.

You should not hate yourself because of that experience. But you must be able to learn from this so that it doesn't happen again. And you have done a good thing by reducing your gambling activities by rarely gambling. I think that's what other gamblers should do too.
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In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.
Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.
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I once won a lot of money gambling, because of my greed, I didn't get a single penny, it really impressed me, if I withdrew all my winnings, of course I could buy a house, until now I hate it, that's why now I rarely gamble
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There have been a lot of such instances, but in most of them, I didn't lose my bankroll directly, instead, I used to win some money, more than my initial bankroll, and then I used to gamble more with that money out of greed to earn even more, and then I would lose everything, including my initial bankroll. In such moments, I hated myself very much for not stopping when the time was right and when I already had a lot of profit on top of my initial bankroll.

My reason for hating myself is probably more common because you might feel bad if you don't win anything for a whole month, but you will need much worse if you manage to win a large sum, but because of a lack of patience and self-control, you lose it all back to the house instead of stopping and withdrawing the funds.
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There was actually a time where I got angry with gambling because I keep losing my money, I don't use a lot of money but the gradual losing was so noticeable and it went on for a long period of time, I got mad and I forced myself to open up a new account on another casino.

This was the time that I stopped gambling like four times in a week, now I do it just twice, and opening a new casino doesn't solve the constant losing then, I decided to went on a break for like three weeks and I came back and it was a bit better than before, I think taking some time off gambling is not a bad idea after all.

Gamblers who don't have a lot to lose always end up chasing losses, I've not done this before because I knew about the urge of chasing losses in gambling, it's like walking into the trap of a casino, this will definitely drain you faster than anything else, trust me, not all those that ended up chasing losses knew they would, it just happened.
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There is a very subtle point here in that they begin to look at themselves from the outside only after it is too late to do this and everything is lost. It is important to understand that this should have been done at the moment when the player is in the game, but it is so difficult to do that it is almost impossible, because the player is almost obsessed with such feelings as: excitement, curiosity, excessive self-confidence. From this we must draw conclusions that will not allow us to repeat these mistakes. And if they were a little smarter and more restrained, they wouldn’t have to hate themselves because of it later. Therefore, it is important what we do in the moment, because it determines our entire future life and different areas, be it gambling or something else.
Those who look at themselves and then hate them should be able to realize that it is too late because they have already experienced loss in gambling. They cannot see what impact they will get after they finish gambling, so they can only see this after they finish gambling. If they are obsessed with chasing wins, they will not be able to see how much they have lost but will only focus on their efforts to win the gambling game. If we realize that we have hated ourselves for losing self-control, we must try to prevent that from happening again by always trying to exercise self-control because that is the only thing that can help us prevent many losses. But we must not hate ourselves no matter what mistakes we have made, and we can only try to correct those mistakes so they don't happen again.
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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.
A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.

In my opinion, this is because they still have hope in gambling, where they still have the belief that gambling can give them big wins that they can get. so they don't look at the risks involved, because they can still cover this with confidence in the big wins they can get. But even so, I think they must occasionally think about the large number of losses they have suffered and reflect on it. It's true what you said, no one knows whether luck will come or when it will be on your side.

Yes, that's right, in my opinion, there are many people who chase after defeat or want to recover from their losses, with the ambition that they have that makes them fall into something that is not profitable, if they can accept the reality of the defeat that they experienced, maybe there won't be any big losses. happen. But unfortunately many gamblers cannot accept the reality, they tend to want to recover their losses which leads them to become addicted to gambling in the long term.
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I believe this is not strange to regular gamblers. We often joke with each other that once you fall into a streak of bad luck, it will be difficult for you to escape, you will only lose and lose. At that time, you almost just threw money into gambling unconsciously, without thinking about anything else.
I have also experienced this situation many times, I once placed 20 consecutive bets on only one over, but it only came out under, and countless other times were the same, also a bit disappointed about myself, but why only appeared 1 door, when the probability is always 50/50? What I learned later is that you should not stubbornly continue to play when you have had more than 3-5 consecutive losses, stopping and coming back the next day will be a wise choice to escape the losing streak.
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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.
A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.
Yeah, losing is more common than win. Recognizing the risk doesn't equal accepting loss. Game comprehension is key. The beast accumulates loses. Success requires judgments, discipline, and, dare I say, knowledge

You highlight addiction, a major issue none can ignore. Hope and despair fuel it. Now we pivot—it's not about winning or chasing; it's about playing wisely and within your means. The golden rule. Every gambler can hold or fold. No shame in leaving. That's strategy, not loss. Avoid glorifying irresponsibility for the love of the game. Gambling should be fun, not life-destroying. Play smart, safe
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Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling
This usually happens to many gamblers who experience consecutive losses, but that doesn't stop them from continuing to gamble. They don't feel that the losing streak can make them stop gambling, but they feel that their win is closer than before. For this reason, many of them ultimately choose to continue gambling. But they don't realize that it will only increase the number of losses, and when they realize that, it's too late, and they feel disappointed seeing the results they got. And they feel that they hate themselves because they gambled excessively and couldn't prevent the many losses.
There is a very subtle point here in that they begin to look at themselves from the outside only after it is too late to do this and everything is lost. It is important to understand that this should have been done at the moment when the player is in the game, but it is so difficult to do that it is almost impossible, because the player is almost obsessed with such feelings as: excitement, curiosity, excessive self-confidence. From this we must draw conclusions that will not allow us to repeat these mistakes. And if they were a little smarter and more restrained, they wouldn’t have to hate themselves because of it later. Therefore, it is important what we do in the moment, because it determines our entire future life and different areas, be it gambling or something else.
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Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling
This usually happens to many gamblers who experience consecutive losses, but that doesn't stop them from continuing to gamble. They don't feel that the losing streak can make them stop gambling, but they feel that their win is closer than before. For this reason, many of them ultimately choose to continue gambling. But they don't realize that it will only increase the number of losses, and when they realize that, it's too late, and they feel disappointed seeing the results they got. And they feel that they hate themselves because they gambled excessively and couldn't prevent the many losses.
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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.
A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.
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So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now?  Grin
I can recall losing several deposits in a row throughout the week, and the worst thing i've done is probably slapping my face to wake up from the same mistake that i've been struggling to deal with.

Now, I would simply cope through other means instead of hating myself so I could quickly move on from those losses and form a plan on what my next move would be because losing is always part of gambling, and the best way to deal with it is by letting it go.
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Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

all gamblers have at one point experience their losses and it is up to the gambler how he react once he got his losses. depending on the level of the situation you are in. is the money coming from a loan shark? or is the money dedicated for your tuition or your kid's tuition? the degree how you react relies on your financial needs on that period and where it should be going to if not spent on your gambling.

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?
Of course I have, and I think all gamblers have felt disappointed and even hated their own decisions after losing. I think this is a normal thing, in fact this way we can be more careful in making decisions when gambling. However, if you keep making the same mistakes, you need to readjust the way you gamble because if it continues it will become a disease. because the disease of self-blame is very dangerous if not treated immediately, blaming yourself usually results in regret and regret leads to stress.

I used to hate myself when I gambled and lost. This often happens when I get so carried away by the euphoria of winning that I still want to continue gambling even though I should stop first and withdraw some of the winnings. However, because I lost control, ultimately what was a victory became a defeat and that's where I often blamed myself.

every gambler has his own failures, regrets, mistakes and more. so at one point, i guess everyone is guilty of such feeling. how many times? i guess, a lot here can't count anymore how many times they have had such episodes of hating themselves. it is no surprise. hate yourself but still coming back to your games. the important thing is you know how to move on, forget what happened and still know your limits in this game. without setting your boundaries, you will truly regret your decisions because you may suffer some unforgettable circumstances owed to your gambling habits.

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Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling
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Spending time and money on hundreds of gambling games and not winning is very painful and makes you feel like you haven't been lucky. But for me it doesn't make me hate myself just because I still haven't won gambling. I believe that everyone has different luck and different times. So I will still play because I really like the game rather than having to blame myself and hate myself.

Many gamblers get the way of the game after the loss in the gambling site.The reason was the money he had loss was the real money earned by the gamblers.But the gamblers who try to keep their game continuous after the loss only able to make the money from the gambling sites.Because the gamblers may loss the money,but actually they had earned more knowledge from the gambling losses.But some gamblers doesn’t recognise that knowledge was gained instead they criticise themselves for their loss.After the loss,I had a habit of playing by arranging the funds.Because I know their was the possibility of winning in the gambling site.
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Spending time and money on hundreds of gambling games and not winning is very painful and makes you feel like you haven't been lucky. But for me it doesn't make me hate myself just because I still haven't won gambling. I believe that everyone has different luck and different times. So I will still play because I really like the game rather than having to blame myself and hate myself.
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So far, I have never experienced anything like that, because when I gamble, I always try to remain consistent with the limits that I have previously set. In the gambling that I do, apart from setting a maximum deposit amount, I also set a maximum playing time limit, and I even schedule it. where I only gamble on weekends and the maximum limit I can spend on gambling is two hours. So I only gamble for two hours a week. and it is clear that by doing this, apart from being able to help me overcome financial losses and the negative impacts of gambling, this can also help and make it easier for me to control these activities. So that the gambling that I do does not become an inhibiting factor in carrying out other activities, which are more important than just gambling.

And I never hate myself personally, when I experience defeat, because defeat is a normal thing and has become a certainty that we will get. I am always able to accept the final result I get at the end of the game, even if it is a defeat.
You look like a disciplined player, I think there are few of them, because many come to relax or release stress. They are not interested in following the rules; they came to break them in the form of an inadequate bet on all the money here and now. Thus, after a week of disciplined work, the player wants to feel irresponsible at least here. But he doesn’t realize how frivolously this will ultimately lead him to losing.

In fact, even for me, it is very difficult to observe such restrictions as you have made for yourself. I couldn't stand them even for one gaming session. Still, I come to gambling to relax a little, but at the same time I don’t allow myself to do inappropriate actions and I can stop in time.

To be able to remain consistent with the rules we have made, and have good self-discipline. So we must be able to respect these rules, and never try to break them once in a while, because once we break these rules, this will continue until in the end we eliminate the rules that we have made ourselves.

And as wise gamblers, we must be able to view gambling as mere entertainment, nothing else. And to maintain a balance in our lives and daily productivity, we must be able to determine what is a necessity and what is just entertainment. So we will always prioritize things that must be prioritized (obligations and responsibilities).

And indeed, sometimes when we win, it can make us more confident to continue playing because we think that luck is on our side. So this is why it is important to act normal and not be too euphoric about the victory we have achieved. My advice is that when you get a number of wins that are quite large, then immediately stop and take a break from the activity, to just soak in your emotions and regain full control over the gambling that we do, and the same goes for when we experience consecutive losses.
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