Topic: To what extent have you hated yourself due to your gambling losses? - page 4. (Read 1170 times)

Of course I have, and I think all gamblers have felt disappointed and even hated their own decisions after losing. I think this is a normal thing, in fact this way we can be more careful in making decisions when gambling. However, if you keep making the same mistakes, you need to readjust the way you gamble because if it continues it will become a disease. because the disease of self-blame is very dangerous if not treated immediately, blaming yourself usually results in regret and regret leads to stress.

I used to hate myself when I gambled and lost. This often happens when I get so carried away by the euphoria of winning that I still want to continue gambling even though I should stop first and withdraw some of the winnings. However, because I lost control, ultimately what was a victory became a defeat and that's where I often blamed myself.

Well, the truth is, when I play and I have losses that I Shouldn't have, it's something to hate oneself, because having a good balance and deciding to risk everything, it's something that I've done, and I come out feeling guilty about doing it because it's something that's very wrong. , we are people who must learn to do things better, we cannot be thinking about doing things just to do them and risking things just like that, because we are people who must always do everything so that we can win, so when we take those risks we they make us lose our balance if it is a reason for us to hate each other, but first of all be present in our conscience that things can be done in different ways and that is where our responsibility Comes in, it is something that we must do better , if we take care of our way. To do things, because it is different , we have to do everything we can to avoid errors.

My biggest mistakes in this is using the martingale, I learned that very well when I played dice on freebitco.in, I always lived using the strategies that I saw the most on YouTube about them, so it is in this order of ideas that we should know that when we are playing for any case that we have, it is very reckless to use the martingale, unless we have a lot of balance , I would not do it, because it is risking a lot of money, and well, from experience doing that always made me regret it, and that I made no mistake without lying, I made it like 3 or 4 times , staying at zero, after I had some Respectable balance, then one learns like that , because it is the only thing that can be done, losing, I am honest when I lost it because I learned more that martingale was not a strategy for me, even with a lot of balance, it is not good to do it, unless you have a lot of Money and it is not a problem for the Person to run out of Money.

Not for once and it's probably never going to happen, because gambling isn't going to be fair with gamblers, it's money game and it's more favouring to the casinos not the gamblers, if I can't use small money what will happen to my bank account? I will probably end up in debt and fucked my life up, by myself.

It's just the reality, gambling isn't going to make you rich like you dream, it's better to be safer than sorry later, but people will never do this, their stupid ways of believing everything is outrageous, don't get it confused, you can make money from gambling, but don't expect to always make money like it's your source of income.

Many gamblers deserves what happen to them, the vibe that we get in gambling is the most impossible way of making money, you should all be scared and have some senses to safe your bankroll and risk very little amount.

I can not remember how many or countless times I have loss in gambling which made me angry at my self. But no matter the situation I kept playing untill I won. but after that I haven't been able to win again. But I haven given up though. Life is all about risk is better to take the risk than always saying hadbi know!!

Yes usually this is always the problem of most gamblers, they do not put the amount they can afford which in turn makes them focus on recovery actions and obviously by focusing on this then they will do more experiments because their goal is to restore something that has been lost and actually this action will only make them end up with a slump or a greater amount of loss. So of course as you suggest we must limit the gambling activities that we do because with that indirectly we will not suffer many defeats like those experienced by gambling addicts who always act excessively, however control and also limits are always recommended if we are involved in the world of gambling because with this besides we can minimize the budget we can also minimize the possibility of emotions which of course can make you end up with out of control actions because of the situation of defeat that you cannot accept.

True and maybe I would say that it is typical of irresponsible gamblers in the sense that they are unable to accept any results at the end of the session especially losing, as you said this happens because of a lack of consideration before betting which makes them unable to accept losing at the end of the session. This is why it is important to understand what gambling is all about, after all gambling is not at all a place to earn but nothing more than a game of "possibilities" that will lead to two things between winning or losing, one will never know what the end of the game will be.

So the point is if you are involved in gambling then you must be able to accept both results, if you really want to win then you must also be prepared to lose, don't be a loser because after all you can't beat the arrangements made by the casino. This is why we are always advised to apply limits and self-control in gambling, because after all this activity is very vulnerable to making you lose a lot of money due to uncontrolled emotions. So the bottom line is that we must be able to make peace with ourselves about losing, with this then I think you will not feel too emotional and do not have to hate yourself for losing.

It seems that you have lost funds on gambling overnight but you don't realize that you should stop gambling when greed forces you to increase the bet on the next gambling, you should avoid every word "recovery" on gambling before you will be disappointed about losing higher funds,

If you set a budget limit for gambling then emotions can be controlled and you will avoid greedy gambling because it will not increase your other budget for betting.

If I remember the losses that made me really hate myself, it was when I lost in a row and I sold whatever items I had just to recover the losses. That was what was on my mind at that time, but after everything was over the next day I started to realize that I it was very stupid to expect more from gambling, and that became a lesson in my life in gambling

Why bother with hate when its a negative and can only make you lose more, it wont add better judgement only add self doubt.   Hate the mistake and lack of consideration before a bet not yourself, you can always correct yourself and be optimistic in that outlook so long as you are prepared to apply more patience and thought to your process.    Hate would be an immediate empty reaction, I would save that energy towards avoidance of future mistakes quite often we are too quick to react and it does not help and is an inaccurate counter to the mistake.

Until one finds himself into the conditions that make other feels pitiful on him for what has happened, when we took risk beyond we could manage to cope or bear, then things turned a calamity on us only for the purpose of us gambling a d taking the wrong steps in doing so, some good example people do that makes them regret were as follows.

1. Taking loan on bets
2. Addictions in gambling
3. Continuous losses
4. Inexperience gambling
5. Over confidence.

All these are things gamblers could go into and make them have their worst nightmares while gambling if they do beyond their capacity.

I believe these words are very wise. A simple example, this is related to sports betting, I am sure that if we bet on every match, even every day, the possibility of losing will be very large - I say this because I have experienced it, besides we bet randomly on clubs that we don't know the chance of winning. also small because our observations are not in-depth in a match.

If we observe sports matches, especially football, with a big chance of winning, we understand what clubs will play in the match. And that doesn't happen every day, there will be a break.

Therefore, perhaps it is better to be careful and patient and make good choices. We don't need to rush or have to gamble every day, which could possibly increase stress if we lose. It's better to have low intensity but have a high chance of winning.

not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.

Of course, no one wants to lose when engaging in gambling activities; this is the outcome we are actively trying to avoid. However, the nature of gambling dictates that losing is an unavoidable event, while winning is only a possibility. Despite our best efforts to achieve victory, the harsh reality is that no single strategy can ensure a consistent winning streak in every gambling endeavor. Perhaps, it even makes sense that achieving victory in our gambling or betting endeavors requires some losses to be endured first. Sometimes, experiencing loss may make us feel a little discouraged. When we are in a state of stress, there are people who choose to take a break while others choose to continue their gambling activities. However, it would be better if we choose to take a break from these efforts to restore peace of mind and emotions. Because if we continue to carry out gambling activities, this will only foster impulsive tendencies which have the potential to worsen the losses we experience.

I mean most of the time this is probably what is going to happen since we are going to regret it in the end when we gamble so we surely hate ourselves when we lose and have a lot of regrets about gambling. For sure most of us as well are saying that you are very unlucky if you lose a bet right, and that is just it we are just unlucky to win and we are going to end ourselves that time.

Most of the time I have a lot of regrets about making a huge bet, but at this time it doesnt happen very often since I already know before even I start to gamble or create a bet, I already set up my mind that my bet is going to lose for sure and I'm gambling only just for entertainment and for fun not really because I wanted to win When I'm doing it most of the time, I could easily avoid being frustrated on my game and getting a good game if I win the be.

Probably one of the worst experience is just losing hundreds of dollars in gambling, I mean it seems to be working first on my experience and few rolls/bets, then all of a sudden just completely lose my it and my momentum is just gone a consecutive lose streak losing a hundred of dollars, which is a huge amount for me that time since i was just a student that time.

Oh yes definitely!

This happened recently wherein I had to gamble $400 because I was rationalizing with myself that I am too deep now and I have committed so much money that everything would be a waste if I did not win a single round. Unfortunately, the night ended with me losing much more money and I was never able to recover the money that I have betted on.

The problem with gambling stems from that hope that you are chasing- such hope that you MIGHT win in order to recover your losses. But that hope is a dangerous landfall that can snowball quickly especially if you are afraid of accepting that you just lost a handful amount of money.

With that experience, it made me thing that I never want to experience battling the odds. If today is just not my day, maybe gambling is not really for me.

It does really shows that your emotionally unstable and not really that much that stable when it comes to thinking on which you do hate up yourself just because of your gambling losses.
On the moment that you are already hating up yourself because you do lose so much then it does means that you arent prepared on doing gambling. On this way it would really be that best that you should really stopping on doing such thing. So far i havent been able to reach up into the point that i do hate up myself because of too much gambling loses.
Gambling should really be that fun and not something that stressful, you should really be stopping as soon as possible if you are really that having these kind of disappointment
and stressful moments.

You are right, what happens to others by the mistakes they make is definitely how the wise people learn their lesson in order for them not to do what will cause them to go through the same ordeal.

From my personal experience, responsibly gambling requires a well conscious and focused mind, and slipping out of course in this regard can be very easy, this is to say that, there is a very tin line in between responsible gambling and irresponsible gambling, there have been times when I was playing slot game, I was losing but yet, could not bring myself to quit, why,? Because I was hoping for a win that will help me recover all the money I have lost in that session, or at least, some of it, and before I know what is happening, my entire bank roll was gone like the wind, this is exactly how some gamblers end up in regrets.

This is not always the case on most gambler. You are really lucky if you manage to limit your bankroll to your dedicated amount for a long time gambling since many gambling always failed to do that when they are on the actual effect of gambling that usually cause the addiction.

Not all people can fight their greediness when gambling and usually over extents their budget for the sake of chasing losses. I encounter chasing loses many times that makes me hate myself during the time when I still have a lot of funds from my bounty profit here in the forum. I learned my lesson a lot that time and become real responsible gambler right after I sum up all my total lose.

Well I believe what can only make me hate myself or have regrets will be when I have over gambled away all my bankroll which I have a very watchful mind on. If you don't want to ever feel regrets then planning and setting limits to gambling habits is the only way to it and  also  many people stories about how they merciless fucked up has proven to be a big teacher too and reading this always helps keep me in check and avoid doing those things that makes a gambler go crazy.

If they have reached the stage of hating themselves for losing, this should make them realize that they don't need to gamble too often and should immediately reduce their gambling activities. That could make them experience even more losses if they continue to use and spend more money. Indeed, some people can win, but if they calculate the total of their wins and losses, they will see that they still experience losses. Those who hate themselves because they have used a lot of money, but it turns out all the money was spent on gambling, and they haven't been able to win any money. They really have to introspect themselves if they hate themselves after gambling and losing a lot.