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For me all the time I have gambled I consider it fun although I loss but it's funny sometimes because I intentionally place bet that even common sense will tell you that it's never gonna work but I still proceed.

I use to gamble because I want to make a significant amount of money that will change my life but i realized its never possible to make a good living out of gambling.

One time i had bad experience with gambling was when I got scammed apart from that experience I have never had any bad experience with gambling anymore.

Some time ago i was with my boss in his apartment and everyday we spent together after work we will fund our online casino which is the BC games we usually compete with each other who will make more profit while playing the crash game so it's just fun all the time.
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Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  Grin.

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now?  Grin

Lets discuss.

You know, I had an experience where, while I was playing gambling, I felt very annoyed because I always lost. It was the kind of feeling that I didn't want to be given a chance to really win, that I felt someone was controlling the game I was playing. You know that feeling of a gambler.

This is where I realized that what others say is true: the house always controls the game, no matter what you choose to play; they will also decide if they want you to win a small or large amount. But what you're saying is that I haven't gotten to the point where I'm disgusted with myself.
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This hating of oneself is not nice for my looking because if one hate himself because he loss games then he would stop gambling and I don't think one can hate himself but can only hate unlucky nature and not himself. Or hate the particular casino and would not play the game again. You can only pity yourself and not to hate yourself. A gambler slogan is always I will win one day so if a gambler hate himself then that slogan can't be actualize because he has to cut himself from gambling so that hatred of oneself will not be there again.

When you pity yourself then you have to use another strategy to win.
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First, before you go on to  hating yourself because you are not making profits in your gambling why not stop to ask yourself will my hating of myself due to my persistent gambling losses change anything in the results in my future gambling or everything will still be static. Hating oneself because of gambling losses which obviously this is not within your control it's like leaving the cause to attack the effect. The cause of your losing is that you're gambling, so why don't you stop gambling and see how you will not be losing your money anymore. Very simple right? Yeah!
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So far, I have never experienced anything like that, because when I gamble, I always try to remain consistent with the limits that I have previously set. In the gambling that I do, apart from setting a maximum deposit amount, I also set a maximum playing time limit, and I even schedule it. where I only gamble on weekends and the maximum limit I can spend on gambling is two hours. So I only gamble for two hours a week. and it is clear that by doing this, apart from being able to help me overcome financial losses and the negative impacts of gambling, this can also help and make it easier for me to control these activities. So that the gambling that I do does not become an inhibiting factor in carrying out other activities, which are more important than just gambling.

And I never hate myself personally, when I experience defeat, because defeat is a normal thing and has become a certainty that we will get. I am always able to accept the final result I get at the end of the game, even if it is a defeat.
You look like a disciplined player, I think there are few of them, because many come to relax or release stress. They are not interested in following the rules; they came to break them in the form of an inadequate bet on all the money here and now. Thus, after a week of disciplined work, the player wants to feel irresponsible at least here. But he doesn’t realize how frivolously this will ultimately lead him to losing.

In fact, even for me, it is very difficult to observe such restrictions as you have made for yourself. I couldn't stand them even for one gaming session. Still, I come to gambling to relax a little, but at the same time I don’t allow myself to do inappropriate actions and I can stop in time.
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In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?
like I keep saying, I've had several experiences and alot of surprising things keep happening everyday... An incident where a man stripped himself naked and offered his life to anyone who's ready to take it, at his will, with full responsibilities to it... We had to like, beg him to atleast to get dressed - probably he was drunk? ion know.. sometimes I wonder why people won't just desist from doing things that would hurt them at the tail-end.
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I'm sure what you described has been mentioned quite a few times on Reddit and possibly on the forum as well; unfortunately, it's quite common. First of all, under no circumstances should someone contemplate suicide for whatever reason, especially if it's about money. First things first, I don't bet large amounts and tend to be a little conservative when it comes to betting. I find it kind of a waste of money to bet large amounts; I'm not expecting to yield huge returns, and I prefer to wager what I can afford and don't mind losing.

With that being said, although I've certainly lost some money in the past, I wouldn't go ahead and hate myself for it; it's a choice. I find it way too exaggerated to resort to such measures.
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So far, I have never experienced anything like that, because when I gamble, I always try to remain consistent with the limits that I have previously set. In the gambling that I do, apart from setting a maximum deposit amount, I also set a maximum playing time limit, and I even schedule it. where I only gamble on weekends and the maximum limit I can spend on gambling is two hours. So I only gamble for two hours a week. and it is clear that by doing this, apart from being able to help me overcome financial losses and the negative impacts of gambling, this can also help and make it easier for me to control these activities. So that the gambling that I do does not become an inhibiting factor in carrying out other activities, which are more important than just gambling.

And I never hate myself personally, when I experience defeat, because defeat is a normal thing and has become a certainty that we will get. I am always able to accept the final result I get at the end of the game, even if it is a defeat.
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Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  Grin.

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now?  Grin

Lets discuss.

I don't gamble every day because I know that I'm very unlucky in gambling games, I don't know why, but in every game I play, I always lose, I also win sometimes, but most of them really lose. I remembered every gambling game I played in those days was a total loss, that's 1 month that I always lost, but the beauty of it was that I only gambled once a week, but of course I was still disappointed in myself during those days. and what I did was quit gambling for a few months. My budget is also around $44. It's so bad, I don't know if that has happened to others, straight 1 month of loss. Maybe the good thing about me is that I'm not addicted to gambling, because I don't have a hard time letting go of gambling, probably because that's the only time I gamble. If you gamble every day, there is a chance that you will become addicted to gambling and your money will run out very quickly, especially if you always lose. Now I'm playing gambling again and I just reduced my gambling budget.
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I don't feel that way because of losing because I understand gambling is not what you will be optimistic about to win but however, I do feel very bad if I allow a cash out to disappear in my eyes  Grin and I ended up losing the game. This happens in football when the cash out is available and I become indecisive to go for the smaller profit against waiting for the full payment, thus losing such makes me feel bad and regretful.
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I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  Grin.
Many people that are gambling want to make money from gambling. That is where the addiction starts. I have been like the person before, although I gain and lose but my losses are always more. Sometimes I will gain but instead for me to quit for the day, I will continue to gamble and ended the day with losses. If I gain I continue to gamble. If I lose I continue to gamble. That is the problem with addiction. The more you are addicted the more you will just feel like gambling.  He needs to change his mentality about gambling. He should stop gambling with the amount of money that he can not afford to lose.
It's one of the most important tool to always know when to quit for the day,  and since gambling is full of uncertainty of events,  I think it best that we take proper caution on how we handles things,  and to always set a limit as to what and how we go about our gaming time,  some times,  the most important thing to learn is to learn to respect timing and if we set a timer such as stop time,  we should endeavour to follow such time and to arrive as a safer state of mind.

I used to lose also applying this kind of formula in the past like,  I always got carried away with gambling more than my spare time,  and even if I won or lost,  I still continued to gamble due to my over-energy or greed to either recover or make more winnings.
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Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?


Yes, I have a series of losses that I forgot when was the last time I won, I'm just so lucky that I'm not losing a fortune during the time that I experienced a lot of losses, but it also made me realize that there's such a thing as longest losing streak in gambling so I always in check not to allocate a huge portion of my money to gamble or even take a loan.

It was a blessing in disguise because it gave me a true picture of what gambling is that losing is inevitable and that there's such a thing as a long losing streak something that will remind you to bet what you can afford to lose.
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In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I have had some doh! moments thanks to questionable bets, thats for sure.  I never went full-on self-loathing though.  Kicking yourself when luck goes south just makes a bad situation feel worse.  Its like stumbling down the stairs then getting mad at the stairs and  sure, I had regrets over money wasted, but beating myself up over stuff I cannot control? That road only leads to more ramen my friend.  All you can do is shrug, maybe laugh at your own stubbornness, and try to make better bets next time.  Win or lose though, got to remind yourself: its just money.  Your worth is not tied to dollars lost gambling.
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Well I would say if you haven't had these then it's safe to call you a newbie to gambling because I believe everyone must have experience such. For me the feeling was hectic as I hated myself so much that I couldn't even sleep and all I ever thought about was for how I would claim back money I used up in the playing that whole session but like every other time, I resorted to my therapy which helps calm my nerves alot and this is hours of swimming, it helps me alot and since from that day I have always watched my gambling if the loses are in a series o quietly just end the whole session.
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Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

 For sure it happens more especially at a time when you needed winning the most to sort out some immediate problems and you continuously use the little you have to pursue winnings from gambling yet you kept losing like you are actually going to be so emotional because of the fact that you're experiencing this losses at a very critical time and that's the more reason why gamblers should not take gambling as an escape root to solve immediate problems if not you may live to regret it because at that time you will look so useless to yourself in the sense that the more you try to win, the more you waste the little you have and it might even be at a time when you wanted to use that money to get some food for yourself and you eventually gambled with it and you will be facing hunger and anger of losing at same time so no matter the situation you find yourself in, never result to using gambling as what will take you out of such a situation otherwise you will even get into more worst situation.
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In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

It did really comes into a certain point that i have started out to think in a corner on which i have those thoughts in mind on what the heck that i have done? Why i did make out such action? I should have stopped
and able to secure those winnings while im still positive or with those common lines on which we do know that most gamblers would really be having so. Its never been that simple not really that easy
i should say on trying out to control yourself here on gambling space on which on the time that emotion would really be getting involved then there's no way that you could really be able to find yourself
that easily avoid on tending to tolerate it specially when you are on such condition on which you dont really care on whats happening around you.

There would really be coming into a point in life that you would be starting on blaming out yourself on the time that you would be messing up. Self realizations and admitting out your mistakes
could really be only possible on the time that you would be experiencing those unfortunate events but before that you wont really be thinking up that much.
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One thing we should know is that gambling is a game and in every game, there must be a winner and there must be a loser. Gambling as the name implies is a game of uncertainty. Gamblers takes thee risk and accept the results as it is hence gamblers are advised to gamble with the mindset of having fun and not to earn, gamble with what you can afford to lose and not what you are banking on to fetch you a return on profit, gamble responsibly and not aggressively.
I have never hated myself for loses because I already made up mind of the uncertainty that comes with gambling. Of I lose any game, it doesn't affect me because I play by the rules and principles of gambling. So I don't feel it that much when ever I gamble as I do it for fun.
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In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?
Losing is of course unpleasant, even if it's not worth much. A series of consecutive defeats of course makes anyone feel angry with themselves, including me, but this is not the best way to express yourself. Gamblers must be aware that they need to be responsible gamblers for whatever impact they have, so they should not hate themselves and regret their losses for a long time.

Losing and winning are part of gambling, so they should not forget that. If you lose a lot today, stop for a moment and come back tomorrow or go somewhere to meditate. No loss is fun, it's all annoying.
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Let me tell you a simple personal story about myself and my gambling experience, in the last couple of months back,  I have experienced a series of losses to the point that some weeks I lost all my entire holding with zero balance available at the end of each week,  at that point,  I felt bad but being a player with experience and management practice I know that,  at some point, I am going to make a good bounce back winning so I endured all along.

Until last Tuesday when I heard may series of wins and luckily for me,  I made some good profits from my session and was able to withdraw my balance,  this healed me of all my previous bad experiences.
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So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now?  Grin

One of the worst experiences I had was last month. I experienced a losing streak, actually I had won but I was greedy so I didn't withdraw a penny and kept playing until I ran out again. I spent all my income from the campaign on gambling, for maybe 5 weeks in a row I made deposits but didn't make any withdrawals. At that time I was too ambitious to chase losses so I experienced losing streak, this rarely happens and last month was the worst for me

And what makes me even more regretful is, I had a loan on the forum and I should have been able to pay it off but because I was chasing losses I used the money to gamble. It was really bad but I've got myself under control again and I think everything will be fine in the next few weeks. No, I don't hate myself, sometimes maybe yes, but generally no
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