any choice in every bodies’ life is actually a gambling…
choose a wise husband from a bunch of boys is a gambling
choose a school to study is a gambling
choose a boss to work with is a gambling
so, gambling is addictive…
no one can escape...
I don't think any of your selection can be considered gambling unless you select blindly like for example choosing a school to work is gambling, you just going to choose any school, you will do a research on the reputation of the school, you always set up criteria to come out with good results, you don't do this thing blindly, if you choose like that, then you are indeed gambling.