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May 23, 2019, 11:18:15 PM
#64
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
all the people will not be like that some of them were keep the the character like that so we cannot say sorry because of our ego if the ego will definitely in Limited level asking the sorry will not been difficult for anyone
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May 23, 2019, 07:14:51 PM
#63
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
don't consider about say sorry is very difficult because it is like a normal thing that how we can say thank you and help me which is also like that so don't feel shy saying sorry.
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May 23, 2019, 06:56:49 PM
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Because you are somewhat (for the most part) admitting wrong-doing. And humans are (in my mind) biologically opposed to this.
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May 23, 2019, 06:26:59 PM
#61
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
the main reason is ego when it comes to your mind you will not accept anything if it was right also that's why you cannot say sorry also but this will not stay for long time so asking sorry will not been affected any of your life that's why you can say sorry also in something
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May 23, 2019, 06:41:53 AM
#60
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?

1. Ego may be one of the factor
2. Your pride may be the reason
3. If you didn't do any wrong

If you did something wrong, then admit it. Admitting wrong will not decrease your respect but will increase in double or more amount.
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May 17, 2019, 12:41:11 AM
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
because we are humans and our ego will stop you to say sorry if you are making any mistakes that is the problems here available in the mindset of your one this is the thing that we need to find the solution to teach it is not tough to ask sorry

Sometime we never need to say sorry, because not all the time, we did mistake and sometime other people hurt us, and they jealous with us, and in this wise some miss-understanding happened and no one is responsible for it.
But you are right, when we did mistake or misbehave to others and we can't say sorry, so it is our ego, and our ego not allow to say sorry. 
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May 16, 2019, 06:39:05 PM
#58
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
because we are humans and our ego will stop you to say sorry if you are making any mistakes that is the problems here available in the mindset of your one this is the thing that we need to find the solution to teach it is not tough to ask sorry
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May 16, 2019, 11:21:53 AM
#57
Because you do not want to hurt others. And it is your habit too.
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May 15, 2019, 08:06:12 PM
#56
As mentioned above, the pride that exists inside our minds really affects our emotions, it's not hard to say sorry if we will just use our sincerity asking for forgiveness, but when ego interfere from our way surely it will be a hard thing to do, as you'll have a lots of reasoning inside your minds.
Yes I agree, and when you already control that pride for sure getting an apology for something that you've done is easy for you and also it is easy for you to forgive. We must move on from what they did to us and just forgive them and also say sorry.
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May 16, 2019, 10:10:19 AM
#56
It depends on the situation that requires you to apologize , i have the opposite problem i apologize way too much most of the time
for stuff that's not even worthy of an apology. So it's incredibly different from person to person and topic wise
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May 15, 2019, 09:16:29 PM
#55
In most cases it's just because we don't want to admit we were wrong, as was very well said many times here already, but in another cases it's because we fear to have a negative reply back from the other person.
It's possible to open your heart to say you are so sorry, but the other person might affront you back. I know it doesn't matter, as we are doing our part, but even knowing this, the feeling of being rejected pass through our minds and makes the apologize decision harder.
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May 15, 2019, 02:42:08 PM
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
some people taking it as a Prestige problem but there is nothing to carry your Prestige will give something in your life so if you are doing something wrong say sorry at the time the problem will be solved.
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May 15, 2019, 10:38:12 AM
#53
I've noticed its much easier to express your feelings on a different language. So instead of saying excusing on my native language, I say "I'm sorry". Doesn't matter if the person I'm speaking to speaks english. Its steal easier
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May 15, 2019, 12:39:10 PM
#53
As mentioned above, the pride that exists inside our minds really affects our emotions, it's not hard to say sorry if we will just use our sincerity asking for forgiveness, but when ego interfere from our way surely it will be a hard thing to do, as you'll have a lots of reasoning inside your minds.
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May 15, 2019, 10:33:49 AM
#52
To ask for forgiveness, for many it is usually difficult, because they believe that they are leaving their pride underneath, that they are lowering themselves, that it is not doing the right thing, but when you manage to have enough courage to do so they tell you no, it does not matter , the cross that has been removed is very large, the inner peace that you feel is unique, it is not having the weight on your shoulders.

Many times to get to ask for forgiveness is so difficult that the person is considered to have much more courage than any other to make that decision, but it is really healing to the soul. If you have done some kind of harm to someone, ask for forgiveness, so they say no, you have already done your part, your repentance, that is very valuable.
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May 15, 2019, 06:03:54 AM
#51
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?


Ego Pride etc many different reason why people hard to say sorry even they know he/she have mistkes
For in my own hard to say sorry because sometimes have people are didn't accept sorry
Ego is the big thing that stops one from saying sorry. Apart from this people have different reasons for the same. Some thing what they've did is right while the same in others view is a mistake. This is where people hesitate to say a sorry. Here some realization point needs to be reached which is possible only with the intervention of a third person.
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May 15, 2019, 05:16:19 AM
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What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?


Ego Pride etc many different reason why people hard to say sorry even they know he/she have mistkes
For in my own hard to say sorry because sometimes have people are didn't accept sorry
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May 15, 2019, 02:24:44 AM
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To some people, apologizing can make some people feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status. Others simply equate saying "I'm sorry" with admitting they're inadequate or incompetent, which makes admitting mistakes so much harder to do.
One who are not ready to accept their mistakes will never move to the next level,mistakes are the one will make us better person so saying sorry for our mistakes is nothing related to our personality.Everyone is just like you (imperfect).
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May 14, 2019, 11:38:07 PM
#48
It's because people can't accept their mistakes. And they are in a defensive mode, very very hard to admit to themselves that they have make a mistakes and the possible consequences of it.

Or possible they don't want to hurt the feelings of the other party and just chooses to ignore everything as if nothing happens.

How can someone hurt another person by apologizing? I think it has to do with your first option and the stupid ego that is ehynpeople findnit hard to say am sorry.
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May 14, 2019, 11:17:31 PM
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It is hard to say sorry because you admit that you made something wrong but sometimes you just say it to fix things up even it's not your fault. Just like what happened to me, I need to say sorry to someone who lies to me and who hurt me for me not to feel guilty. Sometimes we have to apologize on things that we didn't make, for them to realize what they did.
Not all people who say sorry are doing wrong or mistakes maybe the person did not know that they are do wrong things or mistakes.
Exactly mate because sometimes we say words or do things carelessly and don’t know that we have hurt or offended someone by our actions so saying sorry is not admitting fault but to stop the issue and move on
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Saying sorry means you will fix the mistake or misunderstanding not means you are the wrong maybe you do first action to fix the problem because you are marture enough to understand the situation.
And this is the best way if we really wanted to have a peaceful living,world is not for the people who has high pride but for the people who can reverse the situation for the betterment of all affected
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