Topic: Why is it hard to say sorry - page 5. (Read 961 times)
Well because it's hard to admit that we are wrong. To say sorry can hurt someone self-esteem. We're afraid people will reject or even shame us after that. It's pretty common feeling but I guess we apologize because we want to fix something or strengthen relationship, so it's the right thing to do.
Sometimes it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say. The prospect of getting a cold shoulder, not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling, especially when it comes from someone you still love, care about and want to maintain a relationship with. Sometimes people feel that initiating an apology is a sign of weakness.
if you fail to master how to apologize to fellow brothers, it might be difficult for you to apologize to somebody else. our upbringing says much about we treat people around us.
Since we always claiming to be right, it is very difficult to say sorry when we did not feel offending someone. Human beings find it very difficult to suspend their pride and accept responsibility because when ever we said sorry we take responsibility.
Pride? Some people think that they are right all the time and they hardly admit they are wrong even if they have hurt others already. Accepting you are wrong is a sign of humility and saying sorry doesn't mean you are wrong and they are right but we say sorry if we hurt others by our actions or words but that doesn't mean you've agreed with them. Sorry means we value their feelings and we value relationships but some just don't care so they don't say sorry. Admitting you are wrong is different from saying sorry.
Not so hard for me,when I know there is something wrong from our side then it not a huge task to ask for apologize.
So if it is hard for you means then it depends on your living style,you need to build your character to let it accept what you had done.
So if it is hard for you means then it depends on your living style,you need to build your character to let it accept what you had done.
Most people are not able to accept what they are wrong. It is very sad. Everyone believes that they are right in any situation, and it is very difficult for them to accept the opposite.
Therefore, getting used to this, you will constantly meet with such people, the main thing is the ability to negotiate with such people.
I think that only smart and strong people can prove the opposite.
Therefore, getting used to this, you will constantly meet with such people, the main thing is the ability to negotiate with such people.
I think that only smart and strong people can prove the opposite.
Pride.
You can't accept that you are wrong and saying sorry makes you feel you are lowering your ego.
You can't accept that you are wrong and saying sorry makes you feel you are lowering your ego.
I agree with your point. When pride walks in, it's so hard to apologise. You need to be higher than yourself, to overcome this feature for the sake of your relationships
It is because sometimes we feel like sorry is not enough to revoke the mistake that we did to someone,
sometimes it's not the word that works to make them see you feel sorry we must mix it with action and good deeds.
sometimes it's not the word that works to make them see you feel sorry we must mix it with action and good deeds.
Is it hard though? I don't really find it hard to apologize esecially if it's my fault. Pride is something that needs to be taken aside sometimes if you want to be at peace both with yourself and with other people. A simple apology can have a lot of positive effects both for you and the other person.
in your head you are sorry. You really are. But you can't say it. Something to do with Ego.
Because people are too proud to admit their mistakes
It’s hard to say sorry. For me, its like losing your pride and belittled by others. Your losing your power and kinda humiliating. I would rather say, “ i’ll do better next time” than “I’m sorry”
People don't like to admit being wrong, and have a sense of pride going on, don't know if its in our nature or some cultural issue.
Not an expert in terms of this topics but I guess it's more of a nature of human being. It's more on a mechanism and reaction that we do when others find fault within us. Though this attitude can be removed base on how you were raised and on how you grew up, environment where you live at is also a big factor.
People don't like to admit being wrong, and have a sense of pride going on, don't know if its in our nature or some cultural issue.
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
It is not hard to say sorry , saying the truth is the hardest part of it because sorry is just a word and is not difficult to say sorry to everyone. If you hurt someone and saying sorry is just easy as one , two , three , but the feeling is not the factor to make the person easy again in the situation. Saying sorry that is not meant is like fooling a person.
We have different situation if we want to say sorry to the person we hurt sometimes maybe if we want to say sorry we are shy to say that sinple words but lot's of meaning. Apology is being a good person because you know that you are wrong of what action you do.
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
I can't say for others but can share my experience.
I feel that sometimes is very difficult to say sorry because we don't want to confess that we are wrong or we are afraid that we will lose our reputation or authority.
What are the most common reason why is it hard to say sorry to someone?
There’s no normal reasn but its for the Pride,we can’t lowered our pride thats why even if we know about beinh wrong or committed mistakes yet we stand not guilty about that
Sorry is basically admitting guilt. Of course it’s our natural instinct to not admit guilt.
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