Topic: Why people are unhappy? - page 26. (Read 6082 times)

People become unhappy when they don't know how to appreciate things that they already have and still chase and focus on the things that they don't or can't have. Contentment is key to happiness.

Why would someone make such a suggestion?

Because of a lack of control. Lack of control of their environment, wealth, of others, and so on and so on.

One of possible reasons is there s a hollow part in their life that they haven't yet recognized, like emptiness in spiritual. Self-contemtment, people are acting Strong to cope up with the fast changing needs and to adopt to their environment.  Maybe I can suggest that people should fill in hallows fromheart start fron the true happiness that you may found from relative and Loved ones, and anything or evertlything else follows

because they cant go/do what they want and i think there are something wrong in there society

I think becaue they cant have what they want or they cant achieve there goals

I think people are unhappy because of envy and not being contented of what they already have. We people most of the time compare ourselves to others. Why not we make a change be blissful of what we already have and just embrace happiness 😊.

I think because the person is less grateful so in the distribution of sustenance he mesara less ,,
When in fact if we are always grateful it will create happiness ,,,
And accept what is the sustenance of Allah SWT,
So that happiness comes naturally from us,
thank you

Because of stress,Depression,Jealousy and being not satisfy with what they have,
I think these are the reasons why people are being unhappy.

Humans in possessing traits that there is never lasting satisfaction. The happiness will arise when people feel satisfied and it will not last after that they are looking for things they do not yet have. When people have possessions and everything but they are unhappy because they have no one who loves, cares and accompanies their day and I think that is the cause of discontent people who have property

Yes many people feels unhappy in their life, many things can cause this,
as I know these facts:

A. Your worry, Worry creates inner turmoil. It’s like a rocking chair moving feverishly, but going nowhere. Worrying doesn’t create action, it freezes you so you are unable to think clearly and make changes to ensure the negative outcome never happens. Your energy would be better utilized in changing things that you can control, and letting the rest go.

B. You hold onto the perceived idea of control, at times, people seem to believe that they stepped straight out of a superhero comic book. They believe that they can control everything very well and things will just turn out exactly what they planned. What a burden to carry! You would certainly need superman’s strength to pick up that weight. However, the reality is that we don’t have the ability to control anything else other than ourselves.

C. You hold grudges, holding a grudge has about the same logic as drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. You are harming yourself by carrying all of that negative energy. Let the bitterness go… for your own benefit. The person who criticized you is probably having a great time without giving you a second thought, while you waste your life sending them death rays with your mind.

D. You believe everyone should play by your rules, the world doesn’t live by your rule book. The sooner you accept this, the happier you will be. No one else got your memo about the way things should be done, how they should treat you, or how to live their lives by your standards and beliefs. People often get angry because someone violates their deeply-held ideals. Yet, trying to do an impossible task – getting everyone to live by your idea of perfection – is bound to create a lot of frustration.

yes, you are right, they are not happy with their life, but they are in the right to change it...they are not trees or animals...they are people who can make decisions and follow them, achieve their goals...therefore I can say, that people are dissatisfied with their lives, when they don't want to take responsibility for it or they are just lazy to change something

More people are unhappy because they are not contented of their lives. 

Most of "happy" people are just pretending they're happy and nothing more. I'm sick of all this "positive thinking" and whatever.
A little number of people are adequatively fine with their life.

Not all the people are unhappy some others are unhappy because they are not contented on what they have and being jealous  to others because of what they have but they dont.

Most of the people are pressed for money and lack of love. That are the main reasons that make people unhappy

Because they are not contented in their lives and many insecurities.

People become worried of being unhappy when they did not get what they are suppose to achieve  this makes people feel bad all the time ..Such unhappy people are to see a counselor si that they can feel better

Yes. You can bre happy if you have your family beside you

God gave blessings to us even in the simplest way. Sometimes, we are not aware that we're blessed.

But,most of us, are still unhappy because people don't have the SENSE OF CONTENTMENT and they are not FEELING GRATEFUL.

They are asking for more.. Longing for more.. Sometimes, they want things that other people have which they don't have.

As a result, if they don't have the things that they "wants", instead of pursuing their needs, they are feeling not happy at all. Worst, they can have ANXIETY. Thinking more... Worrying more and more..

We should PRAY. Be GRATEFUL of what we have and pursue our needs in a HUMBLE WAY. We can have what we want but still within our means. In this way, loneliness will not strike us or bring us down.