Let's not make the same mistake as Beta did.
The VHS/beta argument is way overplayed in my view. Yes beta had better picture quality. VHS had longer recording time and lower cost. Does that make one better than the other? Not really. People really felt the recording time and cost were the more important factors. There is no need to resort to arguments about the worse technology winning because of better marketing or suggest that people were being tricked into buying the objectively worse product. Does that ever happen? Maybe, but not nearly as often as the argument is made about beta/vhs for example (and a few others).
Anyway, user-frendliness and good enough marketing that people are at least aware of the solution and its advantages are necessary. I mean you can make the same case about "better anonymity" vs. "ease of use" that I made in the previous paragraph about better picture quality vs recording time. I think this is valid.
I don't disagree with you. That old example came to mind but of course there are many. Instead of focusing on why "my" argument may be wrong, it might be safer to think about why it might be right. It can't hurt to have all bases covered.
Again, I'm not meaning this in a way against any of the supporters as I am one (via holding XMR, not DRK) but just speaking my mind in a less technical way, for as observed time and time again, the best doesn't always win. An example that I know of personally was Oracle over Sybase (back in the day). I was pissed to move to Oracle as I objectively found Sybase superior, not just better, than Oracle back in the 90's (late). Within a few years the marketing of Oracle drew the customers and then money was poured into research, integration, etc. and then it was better. After seeing Dark have had forks and still a following, don't discount stupidity of people to stick with it even though it has given warning signs.
I have not used Dash, so I have no idea of user friendliness between it and XMR. At this stage I don't think that is an issue, as most haven'T even heard of XMR or DRK. But those that have, how do you sway? I think enough money is in DRK and they will prop up that position. Once XMR has that money in (and it is coming unless the volume is all fake), then it will be protected and built upon. In the meantime, it just gets a bit antsy (on days like today.)
Marketing is super important, it's like half the battle. I agree with you fully, and those that just focus on we are best, (which we are) doesn't matter. I just recently found out about what monero is doing, so unless you have time and ability to sift through BTC talk, you'll unlikely find information. It's not clear and dry to non tech people the advantages, and twitter with other free social media is underutilized.
I'm all for Monero moving up the ladder getting respect it deserves, and missives and interviews are helping, but on top of that, staying on peoples minds, via social media and targeted marketing will do just as much, if not more than tech. Stinks it works that way, but look at massive effort to get noobs into paycoin. It was trainwreck non crypto, and is still traded highly cause these people don't know any better.
We need not overestimate the knowledge base or understanding people have about Monero. I'm not a programmer and half the roadmap doesn't make bit of sense to me, and that is not being negative, but it's some of these goals to me are have no impact on my decision as I don't know or understand what projects will do for coin.
If I don't know this, many others don't.
I will say this, Monero right now has some extremely smart people involved, with lots of ability to get things done, but average joe six pack that will really be ultimate goal doesn't even know what bitcoin is, and let alone benifits of Monero.
My suggestion to those involved here, is that you should consider targeting not only the tech savvy but dumb things down a lot also on social media and marketing, to draw in new people. Clearly state in easy to understand ways why someone looking at Monero doesn't get lost in tech talk, but very simple reasons this coin is the best.