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legendary
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We just can't control things even if we're all good and we talk about it. Basing it from experience will tell you a lot that when it's come to these, you'll never be able to have that control with these things.

These tips are good but you will not remember them at all times or you may remember them but the force of keep going and your emotion is stronger by that time.

No argument with that, as also basing from a personal experienced, when you are feeling lucky you wanted to push your way and aim for more luck to come, while when you are losing your aggression to bounce back and recover as quick as possible will push you to keep betting, things that in words you can say that you can manage to control.

But in reality, those limitations are being conquered by your emotions, both winning and losing side. You always have that emotions that will force you not to follow your set limitations.
Feeling lucky really pushes us more because our confidence is getting more than the usual that we have and that dictates us to gamble some more because we're simply lucky.

Not until we're losing a lot and that's not the results that we want to see. It's also fooling us around when we're having this feeling but take it from those who have been there, it's gonna make you feel good but make your pocket empty.  Tongue

Hahaha, getting that point you are enjoying but yet regretting and still wanting to push and add some more or will re-try depositing and continue betting until you realize that there's nothing left in your savings, things that most can relate to this particular situation we can't just move on and forget our losses, we will try to contniue and still get the same outcome as we already forget about limitations.

Don’t give advice if he is not asking for it also we are not a professional that can deal with this kind of psychological problem.


This is correct; we don't want to hurt people's egos by giving unsolicited advice. They already know that they are getting addicted to gambling. As a sign of respect, let them learn from their mistakes. Eventually, as they continue to lose and understand the damage they have done to their finances, they might seek help from people who also understand them. It's always right to wait and not judge them right away.

I also feel the same, better to let them seek for help or advise as it's a good sign that they already realize and the willingness is triggering them to quit, it's the best time to provide assistance and all the best help that you can give. Unlike giving advice when the ego is still high and listening is not an option they will just ignore and will be a start of an argument.
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Don’t give advice if he is not asking for it also we are not a professional that can deal with this kind of psychological problem.


This is correct; we don't want to hurt people's egos by giving unsolicited advice. They already know that they are getting addicted to gambling. As a sign of respect, let them learn from their mistakes. Eventually, as they continue to lose and understand the damage they have done to their finances, they might seek help from people who also understand them. It's always right to wait and not judge them right away.
Unless they ask us for advice and at the same time ask for our help to cure their gambling addiction, then we will help them. But this is very rare for people who are addicted to gambling because they will hide it from others. Maybe if we see them losing head-on, we can give advice, but we give it jokingly so they don't take it personally and accept our advice. Maybe the best thing is to accompany them when they play so that we can ask them to stop if the situation doesn't allow them to play gambling anymore.
legendary
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Well, it's a pity that CR7 is voting for things for the Worse, Honestly I don't know how he can stay well in a team, it's not bad that he returns to Portugal,to his League,it may be that there he recovers as he was when he started in his Career, I think that many things have affected him and it is unfortunate, but as long as he is emotionally bad, it is something that prevents many from getting off to a good start in their lives, and that affects everything,and I also think that with his wife he has a made-up life,no I think that CR7 is behaving badly,it is something that does not make sense,for some the most Important thing is to have their Family well, at least for me it means a lot.


Seriously, Ronaldo did exactly know where he is going when he left Manchester United. Imagine if it was a reason for him now to blame his team mates for not being good enough, come on Ronaldo, what do you even expect? When you leave Manchester United and join a team in the SPL, what could the expectation even be? And would he feel any different when were to win the SPL? This is not a title that ever got him excited. Understandably, but blaming others in hindsight would be a very weak action and an indication of a really bad character. I think Ronaldo has a massive problem to accept that his career is coming to an end and that in the last moment of the h2h competition with Messi, Messi won the World Cup and another world soccer player award. That hurt Ronaldo for sure.

The temperament of a CR7 can never be that of a loser, for this reason he believes that sometimes his team does not give it all, and that is something that is evident, personally , I think that sometimes he is right , because I don't think so about age, I still see Ibrahimovic with a lot of potential, only that injuries don't allow him to do things well, at Milan they say they won't renew him anymore, I think it's a big mistake, this guy of players put a lot of heart into their work and that makes them make a difference, in Portugal in their National team if they want to join CR7 and the same technical director called him to talk to him and everything, to tell him that he counts on him, we hope That this time they do things well , everything will be evidenced in Euro 2024.
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Don’t give advice if he is not asking for it also we are not a professional that can deal with this kind of psychological problem.


This is correct; we don't want to hurt people's egos by giving unsolicited advice. They already know that they are getting addicted to gambling. As a sign of respect, let them learn from their mistakes. Eventually, as they continue to lose and understand the damage they have done to their finances, they might seek help from people who also understand them. It's always right to wait and not judge them right away.
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It means that his brain has been poisoned by gambling so that he can no longer think clearly and he is even willing to scold other people who give him positive advice.
I wonder why people like that can survive in gambling while their financial life or even their family is destroyed because they have become gambling addicts.
Maybe you are right, they need surgery to clear their minds so they can think better in the future. I myself, if dealing with this kind of person, will never be able to overcome it.
Giving an advice to compulsive gambler is one thing that I will not do because they are so easy to irritate when talking about gambling. It’s like throwing salt on a wound when you will give him an advice about gambling while he knew exactly how bad it is since he is already experiencing it. Don’t give advice if he is not asking for it also we are not a professional that can deal with this kind of psychological problem.

I have a gambling addict friend and we are just supporting him through socializing with other things that is not related to gambling.
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If you can, you can also give them advice to have more control over gambling.

Hmm, the situation I talked about has gone beyond advice. The only solution is to carve out his brain and replace it with a new one. If I see a surgeon that can do it, the only kindness I can do is give a hand in the donation for the surgery 😂😆. @tusandii, advice is not the solution again; he even gets angry at anyone who tries to mention it to him.
Such cases are really difficult to manage, people who don't acknowledge themselves that they have an issue will never listen to anyone advising them or telling them that they need help because as you said, they will get angry and start arguing or fighting with you, these are very severe cases and it's very difficult, in fact, impossible to talk them out of that situation.

There needs to be some kind of therapy and hypnosis sessions for these kinds of people because they surely need help but they don't realize it themselves nor do they let others help them, they just stick to what they like to do which is basically dangerous for them.
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If you can, you can also give them advice to have more control over gambling.

Hmm, the situation I talked about has gone beyond advice. The only solution is to carve out his brain and replace it with a new one. If I see a surgeon that can do it, the only kindness I can do is give a hand in the donation for the surgery 😂😆. @tusandii, advice is not the solution again; he even gets angry at anyone who tries to mention it to him.
It means that his brain has been poisoned by gambling so that he can no longer think clearly and he is even willing to scold other people who give him positive advice.
I wonder why people like that can survive in gambling while their financial life or even their family is destroyed because they have become gambling addicts.
Maybe you are right, they need surgery to clear their minds so they can think better in the future. I myself, if dealing with this kind of person, will never be able to overcome it.
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If you can, you can also give them advice to have more control over gambling.

Hmm, the situation I talked about has gone beyond advice. The only solution is to carve out his brain and replace it with a new one. If I see a surgeon that can do it, the only kindness I can do is give a hand in the donation for the surgery 😂😆. @tusandii, advice is not the solution again; he even gets angry at anyone who tries to mention it to him.
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We just can't control things even if we're all good and we talk about it. Basing it from experience will tell you a lot that when it's come to these, you'll never be able to have that control with these things.

These tips are good but you will not remember them at all times or you may remember them but the force of keep going and your emotion is stronger by that time.

No argument with that, as also basing from a personal experienced, when you are feeling lucky you wanted to push your way and aim for more luck to come, while when you are losing your aggression to bounce back and recover as quick as possible will push you to keep betting, things that in words you can say that you can manage to control.

But in reality, those limitations are being conquered by your emotions, both winning and losing side. You always have that emotions that will force you not to follow your set limitations.
Feeling lucky really pushes us more because our confidence is getting more than the usual that we have and that dictates us to gamble some more because we're simply lucky.

Not until we're losing a lot and that's not the results that we want to see. It's also fooling us around when we're having this feeling but take it from those who have been there, it's gonna make you feel good but make your pocket empty.  Tongue
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The best answer is education, any person need to know his limit, money management and thinking the future. Although all people want to be rich and I agree with the statement if not all people can become rich, that's why there's a person can gamble $100 per week, someone can gamble $100,000 per week and someone can't gamble because he don't have any money anymore.

Education won't completely help though; educating yourself on some level when it regards financial decisions helps to some point, but what I see that actually contributes deeply to the reduction of loss and minimizes the rate and length of time one is addicted to gambling is self-decision. Because even when you have mapped out all your gambling strategies: having a limited amount that you want to gamble with, knowing when to stop, emotional control, etc. Without making very strong decisions, you might not be able to stick to your gambling strategy.

Another thing is to limit the kind of friend and gambling colleague you associate yourself with. Rich people see the $100-1000, which a lot of us see as big money, as nothing, but to you, who is an average man, it's a lot, but sometimes because your rich friend wagers with $1000 and wins a huge amount, you might also be tempted to do the same, taking a higher risk to take a higher winning, which sometimes might not be on your side, and you will count that $1000 as a loss, which you could have been using gradually for different betting. So why, considering the option of reducing the amount you wager, should one not add this option too?
legendary
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You call him a bet addict because he has money to play bets all the time, some of us who can’t even afford to feed, how do we go about raising funds to bet? Talk of turning to addicts

Deny yourself on anything that you know may gives you more access to gambling opportunities by maintaining a principled lifestyle, though to me it's not the best because gambling is not meant to be restricted on somebody, everyone should have thesame equal rights to play and enjoy gambling games, it is now our own responsibility and duty to target ourselves and apply the necessary control measures when we see that things about gambling were ot going as it were meant to be agains, if discovered early, it could be prevented.

If you are good in adjusting yourself once you discover the chance of getting engaged that can lead you to addiction, then you are good to go and continue your gaming, but if you think that there's no control that will happen when you go deep then better not to start, I know it's fair enough to have all the equal rights to decide whether to play or participate or not,

but it's your responsibility to assess and analyze yourself before doing anything or before deciding to get some fun and entertainment.
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You call him a bet addict because he has money to play bets all the time, some of us who can’t even afford to feed, how do we go about raising funds to bet? Talk of turning to addicts

Deny yourself on anything that you know may gives you more access to gambling opportunities by maintaining a principled lifestyle, though to me it's not the best because gambling is not meant to be restricted on somebody, everyone should have thesame equal rights to play and enjoy gambling games, it is now our own responsibility and duty to target ourselves and apply the necessary control measures when we see that things about gambling were ot going as it were meant to be agains, if discovered early, it could be prevented.
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You should be able to get rid of some of these thoughts or feelings in order to avoid losses and gambling addiction.
It may be difficult because when you are in a casino and playing a game, the curiosity and pleasure you get eliminates thoughts of risk and self-control.
But when you realize that if you continue it will have a bad impact, then you can indirectly stop and leave the gambling site.
Just think of everything as a valuable experience so now you start to become a more responsible gambler and always prioritize limits and self-control.

Not really me, though, because I have had self-control over gambling right from the start, despite the fact that I even made friends with a lot of bad gamblers since I started gambling right when I was 18 years old. I thought I would just become a very addicted gambler who could never save money because most of my friends then were not living up to my standards now. I am not bragging, but the people I am referring to are not living very happily because they have allowed gambling to fully take control over them. Like, can you picture a situation where one cannot live a single day without gambling? The same situation where the person gambles with every single penny that he gets hold of, whether it's his money or not?

Although addiction can start with those repetitive thoughts of a demanding urge to always gamble at every slight loss because they think they can win the next time they gamble again, anyone who cannot get those thoughts out of their head cannot exercise self-control at all.
If indeed you can control yourself over gambling from the start then that's great. Moreover, you have friends who are bad gamblers, which is impressive because you are not influenced by them.
Maybe they will soon realize and stop if they have had a lot of truly bitter experiences, such as losing everything just to gamble and destroying their family or social life.
If you can, you can also give them advice to have more control over gambling.

The mind of a gambling addict will always be bad and they only have thoughts about gambling without any other more positive thoughts.
We all but what an addict thinks is to gamble win and gamble, this is why even if they lose big they still continue to gamble.
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You should be able to get rid of some of these thoughts or feelings in order to avoid losses and gambling addiction.
It may be difficult because when you are in a casino and playing a game, the curiosity and pleasure you get eliminates thoughts of risk and self-control.
But when you realize that if you continue it will have a bad impact, then you can indirectly stop and leave the gambling site.
Just think of everything as a valuable experience so now you start to become a more responsible gambler and always prioritize limits and self-control.

Not really me, though, because I have had self-control over gambling right from the start, despite the fact that I even made friends with a lot of bad gamblers since I started gambling right when I was 18 years old. I thought I would just become a very addicted gambler who could never save money because most of my friends then were not living up to my standards now. I am not bragging, but the people I am referring to are not living very happily because they have allowed gambling to fully take control over them. Like, can you picture a situation where one cannot live a single day without gambling? The same situation where the person gambles with every single penny that he gets hold of, whether it's his money or not?

Although addiction can start with those repetitive thoughts of a demanding urge to always gamble at every slight loss because they think they can win the next time they gamble again, anyone who cannot get those thoughts out of their head cannot exercise self-control at all.
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Now the real comment, football season in Europe is over currently, any addict should have enough reason to rest now because there’s literally nothing to play

Basketball season as well has ended, every addict has nothing to play, let’s see if he won’t rest this period

You call him a bet addict because he has money to play bets all the time, some of us who can’t even afford to feed, how do we go about raising funds to bet? Talk of turning to addicts😂
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That is the sign of a gambling addict. If things like these keep popping up in your mind:

"Play one more session."
"You will surely win this time."
"You can't lose all the time, this time you will surely manage to win something big and recover everything."

It simply means that you have become addicted to gambling and that is the urge which is keeping you restless and wants you to gamble more even though there is no guarantee that you will actually win but your mind will keep saying that to you so that you do it.
You might be correct, though, and I don't really see it as being so accurate. I think most gamblers feel that way, and such feelings don't really happen when someone is really an addict. It can happen to some gamblers, but what's just left for the person to do is show their self-control abilities and also not allow emotion to take the decision but to be in better composure and take the right decision to quit at the moment and repeat back leta when they feel it's a good time to try some luck again.

It really does happen to me; that's how I know, and I also tried to ask a few people, and they confirmed they normally do have such feelings, but just that they control themselves. You know, gambling is not just what I started a few years ago.
Avoiding the urge is obviously always an option but only a few can do that, and as mentioned, if you ignore these thoughts and do act upon them and then you stay restless and can't think of something else or do anything as the thoughts keep messing with you, it simply means that you are unable to control your mind and get the urge away easily.

An addict will never be able to avoid the urge to gamble and that is why they are called gambling addicts, it's clearly not normal if you don't gamble but stay restless, and being restless only goes away when you finally gamble.
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This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:

Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.

Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling? Tongue
and if you're consistently on the loosing side, please take a longer break, don't try to jump on every opportunity just to ensure you win, you might just be increasing damages to your mental health.

Seek advice and directions from people who are used to the system.
This is of course the right advice, but not all people who gamble can just cope with themselves to just suddenly stop playing these games and keep a big pause in the game. 
You can do it a little differently.  Advise simply to lower the stakes to the minimum level, when the losses become not at all critical for the life of the player and his family.  And of course at the same time also reduce the number of bets.  It seems to me that this method will perhaps calm down a player who has been plagued by failures in the game for a long time. 
I think that such a transition to minimum stakes or even a change of casino will still keep the excitement at some kind of childish level, but it will also help overcome the player’s strong craving to play large amounts again and again.  It neutralizes his mental arousal a little.
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This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:

Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.

Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling? Tongue
and if you're consistently on the loosing side, please take a longer break, don't try to jump on every opportunity just to ensure you win, you might just be increasing damages to your mental health.

Seek advice and directions from people who are used to the system.
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Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
The Budget which should not effect on your emotions means set that budget which you lose, and this will not effect on you depression level.
And not become an addict of gambling which harmful for your health or for your mental level and be aware when your are gambling and control yourself when you are loosing the bets.
But in reality, many gamblers will be affected by their emotions when they see that their gambling budget has decreased because of a loss, which triggers them to recover from the loss. But they don't know that recovering from losses will be even more difficult and they can experience more losses.

If many gamblers don't think so, they can stay alert if they have lost several times. Maybe they need to stop gambling before they want to continue gambling. It will serve them to freshen up their minds so that when they return to gambling, they won't get emotional.

What's important is that we know what to do when we have managed to get several wins or defeats. We must remember that we cannot always win at gambling.
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You can always easily remind yourselves with these great tips and create your own as well. But when the intensity is there, will you still remember all of those tips to control your gambling activities?

And if you're losing a lot already but still got some money left, are you still gonna consider to forget your losses? For us in talks, they're easy to do but if you get to the actual situation, you're gonna be fighting with your own emotion.

While that's the hardest battle that you'll be in, you know that sometimes most plans don't go according to what we've planned for.

Indeed, not all the plan will completely executed most of the time you will exceed from your target both with your winning and your losing limitation, and you are right with your example scenario, if you still have the money and you already suffer from long losing streak the fight between you and your emotion will lead you lose more.

That decision making to rest out and to avoid continuing to save some of your capital, that's really something that we can all say hard to resist, not generalizing as there might be some who really have a good practice in times when situation like this take place, but most I believe experienced this kind of situation,.
We just can't control things even if we're all good and we talk about it. Basing it from experience will tell you a lot that when it's come to these, you'll never be able to have that control with these things.

These tips are good but you will not remember them at all times or you may remember them but the force of keep going and your emotion is stronger by that time.

No argument with that, as also basing from a personal experienced, when you are feeling lucky you wanted to push your way and aim for more luck to come, while when you are losing your aggression to bounce back and recover as quick as possible will push you to keep betting, things that in words you can say that you can manage to control.

But in reality, those limitations are being conquered by your emotions, both winning and losing side. You always have that emotions that will force you not to follow your set limitations.
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