I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Your husband must really maintain control of himself because there is no guarantee that he will still be able to do so, especially if he gambles more often. And you, as his wife, must pay attention to him by inviting him to do more activities so that he doesn't just spend his time gambling. Otherwise, he could be dragged into gambling even deeper.
You are right that it is really lucky to have such a husband who can control himself and manage gambling. I have seen in most cases the tendency to quarrel in those families. In many cases, their long-term relationship also breaks down. Because when the gambler is addicted, there is a big problem.
when it comes to certain approach and self realizations and this is why it would really be that totally different when it comes to recovery if ever they would really be that have devastated with gambling.
When it comes to affecting relationship then it does, on the time that finances has been affected and the support and correlated aspect isnt something that right anymore
then it wont really be shocking that they would really be that highly reactive on the things that they would really be able to encounter or dealing with.