Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 3. (Read 3760 times)
Lying will alter your relationship mostly, being a man with faults with hobbies even if not always positive I dont see as bad; this is normal everyday occurrence and should not be the biggest thing. The easiest way to dissolve a relationship is to lie as it puts distance between the people and they are lost in their common ground even if you disagree with someone you should at least know the nature and basis of differences between yourselves. Plenty men get drunk on a regular basis whether their partner likes that or not, its part of what they look forward to when working etc. Thats a disagreement and I place alcohol as a greater threat in terms of vices then gambling for most people, either way the most destructive thing of either disagreement or difference would to be not open on your differences because then you dont know where you are.
I say that everything should be open, not just like that, but because my husband (erlier my boyfriend) was active in gambling. I found out about this by chance, but he didn’t hide it and didn’t talk about it.
I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
I applaud your partner for being open about various things including gambling, even though generally all couples hide their gambling activities because they assume their partner will strictly prohibit gambling, even though you are given access to monitor the history of their gambling activities and I hope you never experience budget problems with your husband. If you are experiencing budget constraints then you should check again the use of betting funds on your husband's gambling account because gambling is not a machine for making profits, but sometimes we experience high losses due to the influence of emotions that cannot be controlled in gambling. I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
I think marriage isn't only for adults but for people with matured mind who are ready to sacrifice many things to make their marriage work and that's why if as a man, you can't sacrifice some of the things you used to engage yourself in to before marriage, then it's not good for you
So many people have discussed in this thread since last year and when you check the thread they are discussing the same thing in gambling or in this thread concerning relationship and gambling, so I will advice that is high time for the op of the thread to locks the thread because people are spamming and also repeating what they said concerning relationship and gambling, so I find out from my suggestion that its a weak man can be distracted from gambling to the marital life, so many people have suggested well.
Expect that when pages created in between 5-10 then it would be considered megathread on which it is really that understandable that the opinions and feedbacks or comments are already that repeated all over again and again so its not really that shocking anymore. So better get used to it.
Going back into the topic on gambling could affect relationship? Of course it will and if you do find yourself that not that responsible on the actions that you are making
towards gambling then sooner or later you would really be able to experience the worst and this is something that you must avoid in the first place.
You should not make yourself that going into this kind in point of life because of bad decisions and mistakes that you have done.
So many people have discussed in this thread since last year and when you check the thread they are discussing the same thing in gambling or in this thread concerning relationship and gambling, so I will advice that is high time for the op of the thread to locks the thread because people are spamming and also repeating what they said concerning relationship and gambling, so I find out from my suggestion that its a weak man can be distracted from gambling to the marital life, so many people have suggested well.
Maybe gambling affected the relationship between your aunt and uncle so much because he was addicted to gambling. If he was just a casual gambler betting loose cash solely on weekends it wouldn't have been a big issue inside their marriage. The problem starts when people neglect other activities and duties of their daily lives in order to gamble. Then the wife or husband will surely get made on their partners, because they will feel like all responsabilities are under their shoulders, while the other person is living irresponsibly a life of ephemeral egoistical pleasures.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
The gambler can able to loss or win based on their ability to win using their involvement to the game.The gambler may loss the money in the gambling,but it won’t affect him,but the gambler may get some extra depression from the loss.So if the gambler show the loss depression to their family,it mostly leads to the divorce for the relationship.If you are in the relationship with the girlfriend,it’s better to not speak with the girlfriend on the loss day.The gambler also try to skip the time giving for the life partner because gambler was busy with doing the game and to achieve the big winning from the gambling site.But the fact is gambler also skip to give money to their family members.Finally this leads to the partition of the relationship by the gambling some times.
actually yes. you could say I'm not a gambling addict. If I gamble I always do it in my free time like holidays and also when I have extra money for entertainment. but if my partner knows it will definitely damage my relationship, I can only gamble behind his back. I understand what it means so that I don't become an addict, but for me this is entertainment that as long as I can control it, I won't be addicted here.
The main key may be mutual openness, because when our partner finds out about our gambling habits, there are two possibilities: firstly, he will accept it well, and secondly, someone may object to the gambling habit, because it is clear that gambling can harm them, and when everyone already knows There must be someone who gives in to the gambling habit, either the partner who gives in so they can accept the habit that has been carried out, or we who give in to reduce or even abandon the habit of gambling, because if at times like this we still prioritize each other's egos then the winner is separation.
In my opinion, gambling can indeed affect family relationships or relationships with a partner, especially if someone is addicted to gambling, they tend to experience changes that make them a more stubborn person, and tend not to want to give in. so if they already have a partner and they are addicted to gambling, I think gambling could affect their relationship, triggering a separation.
I'm inclined to think that if your partner finds out about your gambling addiction, it will always have a negative impact on your attitude. Luckily, I didn’t have to go through this, but my friend found out that her husband had a serious gambling addiction, and as a result, it had a very serious impact on their family budget, because he lost a very impressive amount.In my opinion, gambling can indeed affect family relationships or relationships with a partner, especially if someone is addicted to gambling, they tend to experience changes that make them a more stubborn person, and tend not to want to give in. so if they already have a partner and they are addicted to gambling, I think gambling could affect their relationship, triggering a separation.
In establishing a relationship, whether it is between a husband and wife or someone and their partner, it must be done openly. If one of them often gambles, they should honestly tell their partner so that there are no misunderstandings between them because this often happens to couples who don't want to say openly that they gamble. If they don't say it, one day, it could cause a commotion that could affect their relationship. If that happens, maybe they will separate just because of a misunderstanding or one person is always violent because he often gambles, loses, and takes it out on his partner. This is beyond the limit and people who gamble must immediately realize this and end their gambling activities by looking for other, safer activities. He cannot sacrifice his relationship with his partner, especially if they have lived together for a long time, because their relationship is more important than just gambling.
I say that everything should be open, not just like that, but because my husband (erlier my boyfriend) was active in gambling. I found out about this by chance, but he didn’t hide it and didn’t talk about it. I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
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Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
In my opinion, gambling can indeed affect family relationships or relationships with a partner, especially if someone is addicted to gambling, they tend to experience changes that make them a more stubborn person, and tend not to want to give in. so if they already have a partner and they are addicted to gambling, I think gambling could affect their relationship, triggering a separation.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
I don't want to be rude but gambling will 1000% affect your relationship so better stay out of gamble when you have a family. I know this because my aunt had a similar problem with her husband around 20 years ago and I remember well how bad it was for her during that period because that guy was all about gambling and not just on casinos but also on street which can become very dangerous.
Maybe gambling affected the relationship between your aunt and uncle so much because he was addicted to gambling. If he was just a casual gambler betting loose cash solely on weekends it wouldn't have been a big issue inside their marriage. The problem starts when people neglect other activities and duties of their daily lives in order to gamble. Then the wife or husband will surely get made on their partners, because they will feel like all responsabilities are under their shoulders, while the other person is living irresponsibly a life of ephemeral egoistical pleasures.Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
That's the truth, no casino stands when you're sick. It is your loved ones who take care of you. It is better to understand the reality of life and make decisions than to just stick to multiplying wealth in a simple way. We always have the thought that money can make us feel better, which is true to some extent. Beyond a certain limit, we go in search of love. When we're open and transparent, even when we're failing in gambling, our loved ones will find a solution and make us better than suffering out of the pain of loss. When we think of gambling and making life better, we should understand that gambling is not about work; it is all about luck. We shouldn't have a never-give-up mentality when gambling.
Life becomes sweet when we share and portray extreme love for our loved ones and doesn't engaged in activities that would make them tender complaints. My relationship comes first, the exact illustration of family comes first. We don't compromise our relationship with our partners or companion simply because of gambling which doesn't do any good, rather frustration and that's really not what we seek. We're open to receiving whatever profits that comes from our immense years of hardworks in the system. There's always a day that comes, and it's called pay-day. Many gives priority to the other things not love not family the think they will make gambling as a game changer and earn a lot for that reason the addected and the faces many problems. For that reason the losses money they create distance between family. At the end if the day they don't have any thik they lost money the lost family they lost everything. For that reason game particular time both of them it will be more helpful.
People wont see those importance until they would really be able to experience such hardships or failure or already with those effects into their lives.It is really just that a common thing that they would be doing if ever they have seen that the negative effect is already start on kicking in. This is why it would be always best that you should really take things on balance way on which you arent compromising the time with your loved ones or other people around you then its still good but if it turns out that it had been affected then this is where you should consider on stopping things
before its too late or things becomes more severe in speaking about potential effects into your life. Be sensible into your actions so that you wont really be ending up miserable.
The gambler only loss the life after their big loss in the gambling site.Because till that loss,he will have some money for the rotation of expenses.The gambler who had good experience can build their own carrier from the beginning of gambling game.The technical skills and technology acceptance will make the gambler to shine in the gambling.Because the random gambler was here most of the people,So they will loss their money in the gambling site.If you keep successful in the betting,the future game will be favour to the betting gambler site.So try to successfully in all the bet placed on the gambling site.
This money is sensitive if it runs out at all costs, it is different if you win in gambling even though I guarantee that you will be praised, proud of and more affectionate
, itu hanya umpama, saya tidak melihat peluang setiap kali bermain akan menang, tetap jangan tamak dalam bermain dan kelola keuangan tersebut.Indeed, not everyone likes gambling and its performance system that can turn around at any time, for me it is better to enjoy quality time by visiting similar websites, not always with capital and many provide promos sometimes, depending on taste. because speculating money or crypto in a wallet is tiring and does not know the results, even if it runs out of a few dollars but can have a fun effect.
I don't want to be rude but gambling will 1000% affect your relationship so better stay out of gamble when you have a family. I know this because my aunt had a similar problem with her husband around 20 years ago and I remember well how bad it was for her during that period because that guy was all about gambling and not just on casinos but also on street which can become very dangerous.
But unlike today's more modern circumstances, gambling is done from their mobile phones very easily and without the need to leave home. But yes, in essence, gambling is not good if gambling has a bad impact such as a rift in family relationships due to gambling addiction.
This all depends on how one manages their gambling and does not become too addicted.
I sometimes gamble just for entertainment and also watch football matches with very few bets I place. .
Gambling 1000% does affect the relationship between anyone, but it depends on how to manage everything well.
Do not make gambling the main reason for a relationship that is not harmonious, this depends on each individual.
I don't want to be rude but gambling will 1000% affect your relationship so better stay out of gamble when you have a family. I know this because my aunt had a similar problem with her husband around 20 years ago and I remember well how bad it was for her during that period because that guy was all about gambling and not just on casinos but also on street which can become very dangerous.
Gambling is still perceived as a thing of irresponsibility in my area, it has been a great deal over here. Once people around here notice that you are a gambler they start looking at you as someone who is not trustworthy to deal with. Despite the stories of people winning gambling has not really been accepted fully in my neighborhood.
Actually, it not like it irresponsible but it like an evil activity, the same thing also happens in several countries because everyone perspective on various activities such as gambling will always be different.There are people who consider gambling to be normal activity and it happens everywhere, but there are also some groups of people who consider gambling bad, even worse, they consider gambler to be like criminal.
I have also encountered similar things in several areas of the country I live in, however there are also several areas where gambling has become an activity that is popular with all levels of society there, especially for physical betting.
But if you think carefully about gambling, it is not bad and evil or even criminal because gambling is just place and activity for someone to have fun by risking some money.
It just that the perspective is different because there are some gamblers who lose control and commit various crimes such as violence and criminal acts because they lose big or are even addicts.
But there are only few gamblers who do bad things like that and not all gamblers do things beyond normal limits when they are experiencing problems with their gambling activities.
And even worse, there are still those who join in and even invite their neighbors to participate in these activities. so the prohibition of gambling is only for those who are found or reported to the authorities. if there is no report, it's like turning a blind eye and being left alone.
That's the truth, no casino stands when you're sick. It is your loved ones who take care of you. It is better to understand the reality of life and make decisions than to just stick to multiplying wealth in a simple way. We always have the thought that money can make us feel better, which is true to some extent. Beyond a certain limit, we go in search of love. When we're open and transparent, even when we're failing in gambling, our loved ones will find a solution and make us better than suffering out of the pain of loss. When we think of gambling and making life better, we should understand that gambling is not about work; it is all about luck. We shouldn't have a never-give-up mentality when gambling.
Life becomes sweet when we share and portray extreme love for our loved ones and doesn't engaged in activities that would make them tender complaints. My relationship comes first, the exact illustration of family comes first. We don't compromise our relationship with our partners or companion simply because of gambling which doesn't do any good, rather frustration and that's really not what we seek. We're open to receiving whatever profits that comes from our immense years of hardworks in the system. There's always a day that comes, and it's called pay-day. Jump to: