It depends on what you told your partner when you guys started the relationship,it is always very good to be very open in any relationship,hiding somethings from your partner or lieing to them will always cause fight or problem later in the relationship.If you are very open to them,telling them your addictions,things you love to do,it won't result to any problem,but keeping your gambling life secrete at the start of your relationship will make them feel bad when they later find out you are an addict to gambling.
But I believe if your partner will be angry,it depends on your position in the relationship,if you are the lead,she won't threaten leaving you,but if she's controlling everything you do,then there is every tendency that your gambling life will cause problem.
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Gambling disappoints be patient and try to understand never jump to any decision. Give priority to reality rather than emotion. Prioritize your family and career in love as well as family community and workplace. By doing this the relationship will be good and it will be easy to avoid gambling losses. Excess is not good. Stay away from excess. If you spend more money you will not be able to protect yourself if you suffer later.
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It's lucky her spouse can control his gambling, but caution is needed. Gambling is unpredictable, so even the most regulated people can get into riskier habits. Not only is he gaming responsibly now, but his future gambling frequency and intensity may increase. With habits and addiction, the human mind is fascinatingly complex. Even with his responsible gaming, he risks developing a problem as he gambles more. She must stay involved in his gambling to develop open communication and understanding. Encourage him to do other things to promote healthy habits and interests, not just divert him. She can assist him keep gambling as a hobby by broadening his focus and time. Keeping gambling a choice, not a need
If someone can get a partner who can look after him and always remind him, he is truly lucky because he does not need to hide his gambling activities from his partner. He can gamble in peace because his partner will always pay attention to him and tell him to stop gambling if he starts to exceed his limits and ask him to stop gambling. However, if he continues to gamble without limits and does not want to listen to advice from his partner, that is when the misunderstanding between them will begin. However, if his partner can help him divert his attention from his gambling, his partner will try by inviting him to do other activities that can divert his attention from his gambling so that gambling just becomes an ordinary activity that doesn't use a lot of money.Yes, it is indeed a blessing to have an husband who knows the limit in gambling and do not over spend in gambling. Most people will have bad relations with their family because they lose too much money in gambling and their wives and children suffer the most.
Yes, that is what will be able to protect the family from spending excessive money on gambling so that he will pay more attention to his family rather than just gambling. He will also not experience bad relations with his family because he can always keep himself from gambling excessively. He knows it is not good so he will try to stay within his boundaries.Yes, the gambler can lose his self control anytime. Greediness can overcome our mind and emotions. The gambler needs to constantly remind himself that he has to remain within the limits and it will be good if his wife also perform this duty of reminding him frequently about the boundaries of gambling. I know it is difficult to quit gambling but if one wants, he can become a responsible gambler and the family can also play a vital role in this case.
By continuously learning self-control, we will be protected from things that can cause us to lose self-control while gambling and can also control our thoughts and emotions. We can remain calm when gambling from whatever we get from gambling and will not gamble excessively. We can be responsible while playing gambling because we remember that a family is waiting for us after we finish gambling so we will try to be careful in using the money. 
For sure, it affects the relationship. In my understanding, most of the gamblers here were of the middle class and wanted to have a better financial life. To this end, different people choose different paths, and most prefer gambling as it is an easy way of making money when we see it from the outside. The reality is different, and many won't understand it. This is where the problem arises, after losing a good sum, the mind won't rest to stop gambling. They want to recover and end gambling, which isn't possible, and when he keeps trying, his or her loss will surely have an impact on his or her personal life.
Gambling can affect relationship in so many ways especially if the gambler is an addict. Imagine someone I know planning to place bet using all is salary for a month believing the single game he wants to play is a sure game. He was later advice to use half of the salary instead of all. The funny thing is that the game went losing. What will have happened to him and his relatives if he has used all his salary. This will definitely affect his relatives financially.
is that you should really be doing gambling and you are liking to play no matter what. On the time that you do lose priority and importance into other people specially your family then
this is the time that breaking up and divorces or whatever correlates to it would definitely happen. This is why it would be always best that you should really know
on how to control yourself if you dont like to mess up.
You are truly lucky to have a husband who can be responsible for gambling and can still control himself. Many husbands lose control of themselves when gambling or after they have finished gambling, so it will only cause problems for them and their wives.
Yes, it is indeed a blessing to have an husband who knows the limit in gambling and do not over spend in gambling. Most people will have bad relations with their family because they lose too much money in gambling and their wives and children suffer the most.
Your husband must really maintain control of himself because there is no guarantee that he will still be able to do so, especially if he gambles more often. And you, as his wife, must pay attention to him by inviting him to do more activities so that he doesn't just spend his time gambling. Otherwise, he could be dragged into gambling even deeper.
Yes, the gambler can lose his self control anytime. Greediness can overcome our mind and emotions. The gambler needs to constantly remind himself that he has to remain within the limits and it will be good if his wife also perform this duty of reminding him frequently about the boundaries of gambling. I know it is difficult to quit gambling but if one wants, he can become a responsible gambler and the family can also play a vital role in this case.
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Creating fun activities with his family would help him a long way in regaining his attitudes back and love his home once again. Gamblers visit casinos out of boredom and money. While some doesn't care about the money, they need fun at all time to stay happy. A man who runs a healthy family shouldn't bother about being addicted in gambling. He could be gambling once a while and it won't cost his home any much trouble. The main problem is gambling every day. It's not advisable because things could get out of hand some day. He could spend the money meant for gambling on other activities like visiting the zoo with his family. Those memories can help reconstruct his brain and make him think accurately. Nothing is wrong with developing a habit. What is problematic is failing to moderate one self and acting in a way that people close to us now suffer because of our gambling habit.
If he can limit and control himself then I sure nothing bad will happen, including gambling addiction or even having problems with his family.
However, most gamblers fail, they still often forget their families in order to use the money they have to gamble, and this is what causes them to often be considered bad by other people around them because they have neglected their families in order to gamble.
I know that not all gamblers experience serious problems with their families as result of gambling, but indeed someone who is married would be much better off prioritizing the needs of their family in how they use their money and when they have nothing left to gamble.
This is about sense of responsibility and also financial management as husband or head of the family. Responsibilities as husband and father should not be ignored.
The game means that the players are always in constant emotions and sometimes they may prefer that they get along very well with the casino games and not with their relationship, the relationship if they have takes a backseat and that is serious because it should not be like that Never, when they are in casinos that are not online, sometimes they can drink alcohol and a man who comes home drunk is like throwing it away and that's it, because we don't know what reactions they can have due to the effect of alcohol, they usually Sometimes they don't even know what they are doing, so many women have been killed to get there after a casino, and then they start inventing, that happens a lot in countries where the majority of men get there and the women beat them, a panorama like that when you see it, The man for me is useless.
If he puts the game and his priorities above the relationship, then that is something because a man like that is not worth it, the same thing can happen if he is a woman, if it is a woman who likes him a lot and is addicted, well no, It is someone who is not Appropriate.
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Creating fun activities with his family would help him a long way in regaining his attitudes back and love his home once again. Gamblers visit casinos out of boredom and money. While some doesn't care about the money, they need fun at all time to stay happy. A man who runs a healthy family shouldn't bother about being addicted in gambling. He could be gambling once a while and it won't cost his home any much trouble. The main problem is gambling every day. It's not advisable because things could get out of hand some day. He could spend the money meant for gambling on other activities like visiting the zoo with his family. Those memories can help reconstruct his brain and make him think accurately. Nothing is wrong with developing a habit. What is problematic is failing to moderate one self and acting in a way that people close to us now suffer because of our gambling habit.
If he can limit and control himself then I sure nothing bad will happen, including gambling addiction or even having problems with his family.
However, most gamblers fail, they still often forget their families in order to use the money they have to gamble, and this is what causes them to often be considered bad by other people around them because they have neglected their families in order to gamble.
I know that not all gamblers experience serious problems with their families as result of gambling, but indeed someone who is married would be much better off prioritizing the needs of their family in how they use their money and when they have nothing left to gamble.
This is about sense of responsibility and also financial management as husband or head of the family. Responsibilities as husband and father should not be ignored.
The main key may be mutual openness, because when our partner finds out about our gambling habits, there are two possibilities: firstly, he will accept it well, and secondly, someone may object to the gambling habit, because it is clear that gambling can harm them, and when everyone already knows There must be someone who gives in to the gambling habit, either the partner who gives in so they can accept the habit that has been carried out, or we who give in to reduce or even abandon the habit of gambling, because if at times like this we still prioritize each other's egos then the winner is separation.
In my opinion, gambling can indeed affect family relationships or relationships with a partner, especially if someone is addicted to gambling, they tend to experience changes that make them a more stubborn person, and tend not to want to give in. so if they already have a partner and they are addicted to gambling, I think gambling could affect their relationship, triggering a separation.
I'm inclined to think that if your partner finds out about your gambling addiction, it will always have a negative impact on your attitude. Luckily, I didn’t have to go through this, but my friend found out that her husband had a serious gambling addiction, and as a result, it had a very serious impact on their family budget, because he lost a very impressive amount.In my opinion, gambling can indeed affect family relationships or relationships with a partner, especially if someone is addicted to gambling, they tend to experience changes that make them a more stubborn person, and tend not to want to give in. so if they already have a partner and they are addicted to gambling, I think gambling could affect their relationship, triggering a separation.
It is clear that if they are married and one of them is addicted to gambling, it is likely that they will have problems with their finances which can spread to other things which can also trigger arguments and even fatal separation. I don't know what would happen if a couple had the same habits or were both addicted to gambling, maybe their lives would be filled with negative things, maybe that's because I can't guess clearly.
For sure, it affects the relationship. In my understanding, most of the gamblers here were of the middle class and wanted to have a better financial life. To this end, different people choose different paths, and most prefer gambling as it is an easy way of making money when we see it from the outside. The reality is different, and many won't understand it. This is where the problem arises, after losing a good sum, the mind won't rest to stop gambling. They want to recover and end gambling, which isn't possible, and when he keeps trying, his or her loss will surely have an impact on his or her personal life.
Gambling can affect relationship in so many ways especially if the gambler is an addict. Imagine someone I know planning to place bet using all is salary for a month believing the single game he wants to play is a sure game. He was later advice to use half of the salary instead of all. The funny thing is that the game went losing. What will have happened to him and his relatives if he has used all his salary. This will definitely affect his relatives financially.
If a gambler realizes that his gambling activities can make his relationship with other family members experience undesirable things, he should try to reduce his gambling activities. He needs to get closer to the other members of his family so that their relationship can be restored to normal. He also doesn't need to gamble to get pleasure, but he can do activities together with his family members, which can also provide pleasure. This will benefit him and other family members more because they can become closer in their family relationships and provide comfort in their household. But they can continue gambling, and as long as they can take good care of themselves, their household relationships will not be disturbed because they can differentiate between their gambling activities and their household.
Creating fun activities with his family would help him a long way in regaining his attitudes back and love his home once again. Gamblers visit casinos out of boredom and money. While some doesn't care about the money, they need fun at all time to stay happy. A man who runs a healthy family shouldn't bother about being addicted in gambling. He could be gambling once a while and it won't cost his home any much trouble. The main problem is gambling every day. It's not advisable because things could get out of hand some day. He could spend the money meant for gambling on other activities like visiting the zoo with his family. Those memories can help reconstruct his brain and make him think accurately. Nothing is wrong with developing a habit. What is problematic is failing to moderate one self and acting in a way that people close to us now suffer because of our gambling habit.
For sure, it affects the relationship. In my understanding, most of the gamblers here were of the middle class and wanted to have a better financial life. To this end, different people choose different paths, and most prefer gambling as it is an easy way of making money when we see it from the outside. The reality is different, and many won't understand it. This is where the problem arises, after losing a good sum, the mind won't rest to stop gambling. They want to recover and end gambling, which isn't possible, and when he keeps trying, his or her loss will surely have an impact on his or her personal life.
Our lives can either be good or bad depending on the decisions we take. Our partner cared so much for us and they would want us to bounce back to a life of regrets and lose because gambling do collects every penny when one is an addict in gambling, the whole matter become worsen. Gambling is not everyone but the wise gamblers can actually be indulging in this activity and not also give up on their relationship, having a smooth end. Sometimes I wonder how these set of people are able to do it because things are going a little bit messy down here.Yes they love us and they always ready to forgive ore every mistake and every wrong work we have done. But one we addected with gambling at the moment we forget everything that who is yours who wants you who is stand with you etc. That mostly effect on a gamble mr relationship. Everyone want to stay with their parents but at the moment they thik they don't give time that create distance between them. That's the reason usually relationship break. There is an other things happen you are facing losses but you still addected with gambling at the end you have nothing for that reason your partner lives you because you didn't care about him or her. That's the reason a relationship effect becose of gambling.
I say that everything should be open, not just like that, but because my husband (erlier my boyfriend) was active in gambling. I found out about this by chance, but he didn’t hide it and didn’t talk about it.
I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
You are truly lucky to have a husband who can be responsible for gambling and can still control himself. Many husbands lose control of themselves when gambling or after they have finished gambling, so it will only cause problems for them and their wives.I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Your husband must really maintain control of himself because there is no guarantee that he will still be able to do so, especially if he gambles more often. And you, as his wife, must pay attention to him by inviting him to do more activities so that he doesn't just spend his time gambling. Otherwise, he could be dragged into gambling even deeper.
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I say that everything should be open, not just like that, but because my husband (erlier my boyfriend) was active in gambling. I found out about this by chance, but he didn’t hide it and didn’t talk about it.
I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
You are truly lucky to have a husband who can be responsible for gambling and can still control himself. Many husbands lose control of themselves when gambling or after they have finished gambling, so it will only cause problems for them and their wives.I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Your husband must really maintain control of himself because there is no guarantee that he will still be able to do so, especially if he gambles more often. And you, as his wife, must pay attention to him by inviting him to do more activities so that he doesn't just spend his time gambling. Otherwise, he could be dragged into gambling even deeper.
For sure, it affects the relationship. In my understanding, most of the gamblers here were of the middle class and wanted to have a better financial life. To this end, different people choose different paths, and most prefer gambling as it is an easy way of making money when we see it from the outside. The reality is different, and many won't understand it. This is where the problem arises, after losing a good sum, the mind won't rest to stop gambling. They want to recover and end gambling, which isn't possible, and when he keeps trying, his or her loss will surely have an impact on his or her personal life.
Our lives can either be good or bad depending on the decisions we take. Our partner cared so much for us and they would want us to bounce back to a life of regrets and lose because gambling do collects every penny when one is an addict in gambling, the whole matter become worsen. Gambling is not everyone but the wise gamblers can actually be indulging in this activity and not also give up on their relationship, having a smooth end. Sometimes I wonder how these set of people are able to do it because things are going a little bit messy down here. 
For sure, it affects the relationship. In my understanding, most of the gamblers here were of the middle class and wanted to have a better financial life. To this end, different people choose different paths, and most prefer gambling as it is an easy way of making money when we see it from the outside. The reality is different, and many won't understand it. This is where the problem arises, after losing a good sum, the mind won't rest to stop gambling. They want to recover and end gambling, which isn't possible, and when he keeps trying, his or her loss will surely have an impact on his or her personal life.
Gambling is still perceived as a thing of irresponsibility in my area, it has been a great deal over here. Once people around here notice that you are a gambler they start looking at you as someone who is not trustworthy to deal with. Despite the stories of people winning gambling has not really been accepted fully in my neighborhood.
It would be quite difficult to change the perception people in your locale have embraced over time. You wouldn’t fault them either as there are numerous cases abound of gamblers(most likely gambling addicts) displaying extreme reckless and blatant irresponsibility. As irresponsibility in an individual is clearly visible to all, people have for far too long seen and heard stories of gamblers and the problems that arose from being irresponsible.
It’s a long shot but you could try and with your actions and those of your responsible friends, start to change the mindset of people in your community that gamblers can also be responsible.
Gambling not only causes economic and health damage but is also one of the important causes leading to broken family happiness. There are many cases where families are separated and broken up because gambling addiction cannot be overcome well. What I find most serious is that families with children addicted to gambling often cannot maintain long-term harmony and happiness. At the same time, they cannot raise their children in a healthy, positive way or even increase the risk of gambling addiction in children.
If a person has a severe gambling addiction, it can affect relationships with friends and the community, leading to emotional loss, separation, and difficulty maintaining relationships. People around them may also gradually stay away from them because they do not want to get involved with a gambling addict.
If a person has a severe gambling addiction, it can affect relationships with friends and the community, leading to emotional loss, separation, and difficulty maintaining relationships. People around them may also gradually stay away from them because they do not want to get involved with a gambling addict.
Lying will alter your relationship mostly, being a man with faults with hobbies even if not always positive I dont see as bad; this is normal everyday occurrence and should not be the biggest thing. The easiest way to dissolve a relationship is to lie as it puts distance between the people and they are lost in their common ground even if you disagree with someone you should at least know the nature and basis of differences between yourselves. Plenty men get drunk on a regular basis whether their partner likes that or not, its part of what they look forward to when working etc. Thats a disagreement and I place alcohol as a greater threat in terms of vices then gambling for most people, either way the most destructive thing of either disagreement or difference would to be not open on your differences because then you dont know where you are.
I say that everything should be open, not just like that, but because my husband (erlier my boyfriend) was active in gambling. I found out about this by chance, but he didn’t hide it and didn’t talk about it.
I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
I applaud your partner for being open about various things including gambling, even though generally all couples hide their gambling activities because they assume their partner will strictly prohibit gambling, even though you are given access to monitor the history of their gambling activities and I hope you never experience budget problems with your husband. If you are experiencing budget constraints then you should check again the use of betting funds on your husband's gambling account because gambling is not a machine for making profits, but sometimes we experience high losses due to the influence of emotions that cannot be controlled in gambling. I just wondered what he was doing and he simply gave me access to all his accounts. I didn’t ask for this, but I was allowed, then of course I wanted to see the history of his account.
I will say this, I was lucky that my man is good at gambling, he systematically withdraws profits, and this was the only time I looked at the history of his bets, after that I never looked at his accounts.
Gambling has to remain as a secondary hobby activity in someone's schedules. It can't be the priority in anyways. The priority has to be the person's mental and physical health, integrity plus welfare in first place, then in second place the marriage and its commitments, only after hobbies, where gambling is included, take place. When the individual puts gambling above everything, of course there will be negative consequences for him/her, especially the total discontent of his/her partner and children.
I think marriage isn't only for adults but for people with matured mind who are ready to sacrifice many things to make their marriage work and that's why if as a man, you can't sacrifice some of the things you used to engage yourself in to before marriage, then it's not good for you
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