There is no possibility of any problem if gambling is conducted normally. But the problem arises when a family member becomes an addicted gambler. An addicted gambler will fail to devote time to the family as needed. As a result, there will be a deficiency in the relationship between him and the family and there will be a possibility of breaking the relationship at some point. When the gambler focuses more on gambling then he will be more attracted and at some point he will face such problems. It is often seen that when a person is addicted to gambling, his family members do not want to believe him. Because they fail to act according to their promises.
What I think is that people who are addicted to gambling don't get respect from their family or friends. Because gambling makes them bad for everyone. People who gamble can't talk to anyone. Few days ago my friend told me about gambling. He borrowed money by lying and gambling with it and lost it. Later I found out that he gambled by borrowing money from me. But if I had first realized that he would gamble by borrowing money, I would have never lent him money. No. Now when I go to his house to ask for money, he is nowhere to be found.
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Gamblers who can't manage their time will usually face a lot of problems with their relationship with their partner or family, because usually gamblers who are busy thinking about themselves will affect any relationship, that's why it's important to maintain relationships with their partner or family, even as an active gambler, at least dividing their time. to be with them before they leave you.
That's actually a perk of gambling, you will be in an activity that's time consuming and will warp your way of thinking as to how time flows, that's why no matter how much you want to do gambling, you will always be someone that's always lacking the time for other things because let's face it, when you're gambling you're always having fun and when you're having fun, you forget your problems and you feel like it's never going to end and then reality will just hit you. Sure this isn't always the case as time consumption for gambling for some casual gamblers aren't that much so they can still do other stuff with their partners or loved ones. Time and effort is always a good thing to maintain a relationship and even if you do have that on the lock and you're still gambling, it's not the time management that's the problem in the relationship.
Gamblers should not feel lonely and alone so that they make their partner or family leave us just because we cause problems, they become addicted to gambling and go bankrupt because of gambling until finally they leave us because their life is a mess. The point is, never ignore them, make time for them so that The relationship remains harmonious, whether with your partner or family. Gamblers must remember when to gamble and when to stop gambling. Gambling can damage relationships with anyone, so be wise when gambling.
The fact that you're partner or lover wants to spend time with you and asks for your time means they're already doing their part in the deal, it's the gambler's turn to return the favor and I don't think that we have any reason to say something about what our partner or lover should do when it comes to making time because they're doing it, and sometimes it's just too much for some and so they end up having to leave that person because they didn't do their part. Relationship is like a dance, if there's only one person doing all the steps then you're bound to do the dance badly and you end up stepping on each other's foot.
There is no possibility of any problem if gambling is conducted normally. But the problem arises when a family member becomes an addicted gambler. An addicted gambler will fail to devote time to the family as needed. As a result, there will be a deficiency in the relationship between him and the family and there will be a possibility of breaking the relationship at some point. When the gambler focuses more on gambling then he will be more attracted and at some point he will face such problems. It is often seen that when a person is addicted to gambling, his family members do not want to believe him. Because they fail to act according to their promises.
What I think is that people who are addicted to gambling don't get respect from their family or friends. Because gambling makes them bad for everyone. People who gamble can't talk to anyone. Few days ago my friend told me about gambling. He borrowed money by lying and gambling with it and lost it. Later I found out that he gambled by borrowing money from me. But if I had first realized that he would gamble by borrowing money, I would have never lent him money. No. Now when I go to his house to ask for money, he is nowhere to be found.Talking about family, a similar situation like this is happening right now in my neighbourhood, it is pathetic for the guy and the family have now resolved to sever their relationship with him because he is just wasting his life and it has become a thing of shame for them having tried all means in years but to no avail. Well, back to the main context, the affected guy/lady themselves must realize their faults over time and make the right changes, it is only then that things can work for them, their relationships and anybody whatsoever that is linked with them. But for those who are gambling responsibly and "not leaving any stone unturned," they will continue to live their lives and gambling as if nothing happened. It will just be a normal way of life that doesn't conflict with the rest.
In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.
Yes, that's true because if someone gambles too often, it can result in poor relationships with the people around him. Especially if he is the head of the household whose job is to earn a living for his family but instead uses the money to gamble. This will disrupt his financial position so that his family cannot meet his living needs. The relationship could get worse if he doesn't realize that he has made a bad mistake and neglected his family and is only concerned with gambling. He had to end everything immediately and return to his family before things turned worse, where he could experience a divorce with his partner.And even though he doesn't have a family yet, he can also experience disturbances in his relationships with those around him. He will be someone who doesn't care about his surroundings and doesn't care about other people, especially if he is gambling in his room. He won't come out of his room to gamble so he doesn't know the situation and conditions that exist out there.
Yes gambling addection creat distance inside family. For that reason many relationship break. But now days gambling is common and some people taking it as a profession. Because if someone can be a professional gambler then there is no chance to look back. In this game it has huge risk and it also give huge profit. But if someone in gambling and he or she is the main earner of family if full family depends on him or her then that's the problem. Becose gambling addection is very bad if he or she have money they play all in that create financial problems. That type of greedy work of gambler mainly affect in relationship and also their economy.
In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.
Gamblers who can't manage their time will usually face a lot of problems with their relationship with their partner or family, because usually gamblers who are busy thinking about themselves will affect any relationship, that's why it's important to maintain relationships with their partner or family, even as an active gambler, at least dividing their time. to be with them before they leave you.Gamblers should not feel lonely and alone so that they make their partner or family leave us just because we cause problems, they become addicted to gambling and go bankrupt because of gambling until finally they leave us because their life is a mess. The point is, never ignore them, make time for them so that The relationship remains harmonious, whether with your partner or family. Gamblers must remember when to gamble and when to stop gambling. Gambling can damage relationships with anyone, so be wise when gambling.
In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.
I've seen folks struggle with this before. When stuff gets rocky in their relationships, it can muck up their thinking around gambling too. All that stress messes with your head. Makes it real tough to keep a level head and make good bets. And then they lose more money, which definitely doesn't help matters at home.
It's probably smart for gamblers to think about how problems in their relationships can spill over into poor choices at the tables or track and if youre fighting with your partner might be best to step away until you get that sorted, instead of losing a bunch of money and making things worse. Just my two cents though based on what I've observed with people close to me.
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In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.
Yes, that's true because if someone gambles too often, it can result in poor relationships with the people around him. Especially if he is the head of the household whose job is to earn a living for his family but instead uses the money to gamble. This will disrupt his financial position so that his family cannot meet his living needs. The relationship could get worse if he doesn't realize that he has made a bad mistake and neglected his family and is only concerned with gambling. He had to end everything immediately and return to his family before things turned worse, where he could experience a divorce with his partner.And even though he doesn't have a family yet, he can also experience disturbances in his relationships with those around him. He will be someone who doesn't care about his surroundings and doesn't care about other people, especially if he is gambling in his room. He won't come out of his room to gamble so he doesn't know the situation and conditions that exist out there.
In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.
There is no possibility of any problem if gambling is conducted normally. But the problem arises when a family member becomes an addicted gambler. An addicted gambler will fail to devote time to the family as needed. As a result, there will be a deficiency in the relationship between him and the family and there will be a possibility of breaking the relationship at some point. When the gambler focuses more on gambling then he will be more attracted and at some point he will face such problems. It is often seen that when a person is addicted to gambling, his family members do not want to believe him. Because they fail to act according to their promises.
What I think is that people who are addicted to gambling don't get respect from their family or friends. Because gambling makes them bad for everyone. People who gamble can't talk to anyone. Few days ago my friend told me about gambling. He borrowed money by lying and gambling with it and lost it. Later I found out that he gambled by borrowing money from me. But if I had first realized that he would gamble by borrowing money, I would have never lent him money. No. Now when I go to his house to ask for money, he is nowhere to be found. 
Gambling can destroy family bound and relationships. But all depending on the kind of understanding among members in the family. There are sometimes, children would be playing gambles while the parents are not therefore they would against them to participate in gambling and when the pressure is too much the children or the child would just left them to stay with his friends. I have seen couples quarrel and I have also seen a wife stabbed her husband because of gambling.
Conflict or violent among couples because of gambling is not a new thing in the world. There are sometimes wife would used the market money to play gamble and come home with empty handed and they would be heavy fight among them. Then the recent incident in my location. The wife sells provision store. That is milk, Milo and other retail things. And the husband of the wife used to use her business money to play gamble so the business was not growing so the woman decided to park her things and left the man to her parents house. And now the man is alone. So gambling break relationship very well but if there is understanding then there is no problem.
Conflict or violent among couples because of gambling is not a new thing in the world. There are sometimes wife would used the market money to play gamble and come home with empty handed and they would be heavy fight among them. Then the recent incident in my location. The wife sells provision store. That is milk, Milo and other retail things. And the husband of the wife used to use her business money to play gamble so the business was not growing so the woman decided to park her things and left the man to her parents house. And now the man is alone. So gambling break relationship very well but if there is understanding then there is no problem.
We know that gambling doesn't do any good to people especially if it's already affecting their finances. If you are gonna commit to a relationship, you know that some lifestyles won't be the same anymore as you have more responsibility in your life which is your partner or your family.
Most of the people that I know who gamble do not do well are those who are addicted to gambling. Things get worse for most people like that, but if you are gambling for fun, then I don’t see any harm that gambling will do to the person. But don’t always pass your limit, just have fun whenever you feel like it. Don't have the mindset to make money from gambling.
If I am in a relationship and my partner doesn’t like gambling and she requests I stop gambling, I will ask her first why she wants me to stop gambling, and if she can come up with a reasonable excuse and I notice it is really worth it, then I will stop gambling. But if she doesn’t have any serious reason, then I will let her know that I gamble just for fun and am not addicted to gambling. I will just try to convince her and am sure she will understand.
We should not allow gambling to affect anything we are into, this is not about relationships alone but the work we do and other aspects of life we are into, we must learn to be able to make balance of not making things got affected by one for the other, so many gamblers already have made alot of mistakes that have cost them the sacrifice of the prestigious relationship all because they couldn't manage things up as they should with gambling.
Relationship is something we need to make sure we protect and we don't allow gambling to affect us for a very long time. For us to safe our relationship, we are make sure that we keep anything about our gambling activities from our family. Relationship should be solid and we should try everything possible to make sure that we always keep trying our best to make sure that gambling do not affect us too much. Addiction is one thing that can disrupt us and make our family to know about our gambling activities and if this continues, it could affect us in a long time. 
the relationship with the wife is always the first to be affected when a person is addicted to gambling. when the money runs out, it is always a factor in a broken relationship. a family can't stay whole when finances are not sufficient, and then the wife will have to stand up and find a job to support their kid.
there have been stories in movies about this, you couldn't believe it would happen to one family in real life but it does. money plays a bigger role in a family.
there have been stories in movies about this, you couldn't believe it would happen to one family in real life but it does. money plays a bigger role in a family.
Well said, no matter for the rich or the poor - money is the top reason of marital conflicts.
And in this matter, gambling addiction + more losses than wins definitely will make it worse.
Its ok to gamble as long we have a steady income and able to spare some of it for gamble and never hide it from our wife or gf.
We should not allow gambling to affect anything we are into, this is not about relationships alone but the work we do and other aspects of life we are into, we must learn to be able to make balance of not making things got affected by one for the other, so many gamblers already have made alot of mistakes that have cost them the sacrifice of the prestigious relationship all because they couldn't manage things up as they should with gambling.
When you're single and rich, it's fun. It's different when talking about a family. You must prioritize now that you have duties. Money can't be scattered like confetti. You're no longer alone. I'm not saying gambling is evil. No, no. If you can responsibly do it, that's your business. However, moderation is vital. Don't let the pleasure of the gamble distract you from what counts. Talking about your family, partner, and kids. They're your jackpot, not a casino victory. If things are out of control, don't be ashamed to seek for help. It's okay to admit to gambling addiction. All of us need assistance sometimes. The smartest, most successful people I know? They know when to seek assistance. Professional help can make all the difference. So stand back, reassess, and realize that the house doesn't always win 
Moderation is surely vital. I think gambling could still be fun when you’re married and rich. If you’re an individual who finds gambling fun when single, you could still indulge in the activity when you get married provided you strictly moderate your time indulging in such activities.
Also, if you’ve got enough money to comfortably afford to put some away to gamble whenever you want to, then money problems won’t pop up. With a lot of frequent gamblers, issues with money seems to be a common theme so as an individual who’s married and has the means to still comfortably afford his gambling lifestyle, then I don’t see how it could affect the relationship.
We’ve just got to be responsible with our activities most especially when you want to settle down.
I do not understand this. There are many gamblers in the world. Many gamblers are not addicts and have no problem financially because of gambling. What you are referring to are addicted gamblers. If you are not an addict, you can feel free to let your wife or mother know that you are gambling. It is not what they will even realize because they know that you are not wasting money on it and no disturbance from anyone. If you are responsible and being the one responsible for the finances of your family and taking good care of your children and you are moving forward financially, your spouce will value you and not think of your gambling or not. Just do it responsibly and not waste money on gambling.
The gambler who get affected by the gambling loss and they took a loan to rejoin the gambling to target the loss.Such people are gambling addiction in my opinion,because of his loan not only he get affected.The family of such people also affected in real life,because they didn’t have any funds for their proper food.The family may suffer with the monthly expenses,but they will play the gambling by not interfering with the financial struggles of the family.The important thing in the gambling addicted people mind will be to recover the loss in the gambling site at any cost.But they fail to understand it’s impossible until the gambler had good luck.The skill also plays important roles in the gambling winning and make money from gambling site.
In fact not all gamblers have the same life situation so emotional turmoil, social isolation and family problems may not be the case for everyone. I spent a lot of money and time in life but got no response from the social side but faced some obstacles from the family. I earn the money i need to gamble myself so i have no debt accumulation and financial privacy so i am free from family pressure. But those who become addicted to gambling from unemployment have problems in all aspects of social and family life because they collect money from family. However i prefer to work in privacy myself so i may disagree with you.
What a story! Your situation is even the inverse to what many would have thought and based on the context of this title itself as you use gambling to cover for your finances and still have it as the hobby that helps you deal with the family pressure. This is one of the reasons why I say that it is not always the same with everybody, to some, it might be that gambling itself that is helping them to avoid a lot of issues and fight overthinking and depression at times. It is all about how you play it and take it the activity, that will determine what will eventually be imparted to the person by it. I hope gamblers will all be approaching it with all minds of sensitivity, they need to be calculative and be time conscious about it. I can't imagine myself gambling excessively and still wasting too much time on it. I am thorough and decisive on this and in all my gambling style, I don't think I have spent more than 3 hours at ago.Personally, the fact that gambling could even affect one's relationship has never been my thing, although I do think it towards the angle that if the person is so irresponsible in his gambling, there could be a possibility for that, but if the person is responsible in his gambling, there is no possibility for that unless he just gambles when he is having issues with his relation to cool us. This could be good for some people instead of taking alcohol and others. But for the person who is playing responsibly and does not have issues with his relationships, gambling shouldn't be a problem as there will be a time for gambling and there will be time for family/relations. The two shouldn't mix at all, and one shouldn't deprive the other as there are wide gaps and time between them in living.
the relationship with the wife is always the first to be affected when a person is addicted to gambling. when the money runs out, it is always a factor in a broken relationship. a family can't stay whole when finances are not sufficient, and then the wife will have to stand up and find a job to support their kid.
there have been stories in movies about this, you couldn't believe it would happen to one family in real life but it does. money plays a bigger role in a family.
It really depends on how you work out your relationship but major reasons of partner's misunderstanding is when one of their partner is involved in gambling activities, worst is being addicted into it. Disclaimer, there's nothing wrong in doing gambling but it's a different matter if your partner is already addicted to gambling and it affects your relationship especially when it comes to time and money. If a person doesn't want to take the negative effect of gambling, He should be responsible enough to avoid such trouble and disappointments from your partner and family.
We know that gambling doesn't do any good to people especially if it's already affecting their finances. If you are gonna commit to a relationship, you know that some lifestyles won't be the same anymore as you have more responsibility in your life which is your partner or your family. There's nothing wrong with gambling especially if you are just a single person and have enough money to gamble. Just imagine the time you are spending into gambling where you can do many things already with your partner or family like bonding with them. You can actually gamble once if you are financially stable and have spare money to bet. If the case is your partner is already addicted, I think it would be better to seek professional help.
Honestly I think that even if they have pretty good control and boundaries and also have fairly stable finances in my opinion there will always be concerns that are likely to occur. The worry is when you unconsciously enter the addiction phase which can eventually affect the finances of your family, so I still think stopping is better and you can do it slowly.
Actions would be made would really be just that depending entirely on you on how you would gonna act into this one.
Can gambling affect your relationship? Of course on which on the time that you have kept a secret into your loved ones, compromise time spent and other related things then
it is better to stop and get rid of gambling immediately before you would be losing your loved ones and pretty much sure we dont all liking for it to happen.
This is why it would be best that you should be wary on the actions that you are taking.
In fact not all gamblers have the same life situation so emotional turmoil, social isolation and family problems may not be the case for everyone. I spent a lot of money and time in life but got no response from the social side but faced some obstacles from the family. I earn the money i need to gamble myself so i have no debt accumulation and financial privacy so i am free from family pressure. But those who become addicted to gambling from unemployment have problems in all aspects of social and family life because they collect money from family. However i prefer to work in privacy myself so i may disagree with you.
What a story! Your situation is even the inverse to what many would have thought and based on the context of this title itself as you use gambling to cover for your finances and still have it as the hobby that helps you deal with the family pressure. This is one of the reasons why I say that it is not always the same with everybody, to some, it might be that gambling itself that is helping them to avoid a lot of issues and fight overthinking and depression at times. It is all about how you play it and take it the activity, that will determine what will eventually be imparted to the person by it. I hope gamblers will all be approaching it with all minds of sensitivity, they need to be calculative and be time conscious about it. I can't imagine myself gambling excessively and still wasting too much time on it. I am thorough and decisive on this and in all my gambling style, I don't think I have spent more than 3 hours at ago.Personally, the fact that gambling could even affect one's relationship has never been my thing, although I do think it towards the angle that if the person is so irresponsible in his gambling, there could be a possibility for that, but if the person is responsible in his gambling, there is no possibility for that unless he just gambles when he is having issues with his relation to cool us. This could be good for some people instead of taking alcohol and others. But for the person who is playing responsibly and does not have issues with his relationships, gambling shouldn't be a problem as there will be a time for gambling and there will be time for family/relations. The two shouldn't mix at all, and one shouldn't deprive the other as there are wide gaps and time between them in living.
In fact not all gamblers have the same life situation so emotional turmoil, social isolation and family problems may not be the case for everyone. I spent a lot of money and time in life but got no response from the social side but faced some obstacles from the family. I earn the money i need to gamble myself so i have no debt accumulation and financial privacy so i am free from family pressure. But those who become addicted to gambling from unemployment have problems in all aspects of social and family life because they collect money from family. However i prefer to work in privacy myself so i may disagree with you.
I think this is important, gambling requires privacy for yourself without involving your family. If you involve your family, even if you are not addicted, there will be problems in the future.Moreover, if there is a problem, women will definitely bring up gambling, so it is not surprising if we see news about people getting divorced because of gambling. And it is also important to be smart in allocating money for family needs and for gambling. Don't mix gambling money and money for your family.
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