Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 9. (Read 3760 times)

You are right now days gambling is very popular and mainly the teenage are connected with it. For make themself self dependent. But that make addected at the time of middle age. That addiction creat problem in a relationship because you don't give time to your parent. When you face losses you rudely behave with your family members. At a time you can see that type of behavior creat distance from your family.

Yes, that's right, gambling addiction can have an impact on oneself and on one's family or partner, because always losing will likely make a person change his attitude, become stubborn, easily angry and become a person who may easily commit violence or argue, because of gambling. can damage someone's way of thinking. But you need to remember that this happens because they themselves cannot control themselves when gambling. If they can control themselves when gambling then they will not experience bad things that could have a negative impact on them or the people around them.

relationships will become chaotic if someone is addicted to gambling because the chance of losing is big, making them always lose at gambling and allowing them to experience psychological disorders, sooner or later they will experience changes that become negative, this needs to be avoided so that things don't happen that don't happen. desired. because family relationships can also be damaged just by one person being addicted to gambling

Normally Gambling is not something that  will just affect some one relationship mostly well managed, but what can cause that is being addicted to it when you're gambling non stop to cover your losses really fast and end losing more in that process can lead to financial difficulties, mostly when you start using your hard earn cashes when supposed to be using cashes  you risk. That may also lead mental break down and anger issues affecting your partner.

Right, and the point is that whatever impact you will experience someday will always depend on how you treat the activity, if indeed you do it in the wrong way and approach then obviously don't be strange if someday you will experience bad impacts as a result, but sometimes it's like there are people who don't realize their mistakes and don't evaluate that the way they do it is really not recommended so they have to experience bad impacts like that. So of course everything really depends on how they treat and address gambling itself, if indeed they come with the right understanding and also with a good level of awareness then I think actually this activity will not really affect the finances in your relationship later, but however overall obviously I would prefer anyone to stop if possible.

Basically the risk of gambling is not only going to have a financial impact but obviously you also agree that this activity has an impact on a relationship which can certainly make them lose trust with their partner, because after all gambling activities are always synonymous with a very negative point of view in the eyes of society, so of course there is nothing better than stopping, there is no other reason because they can do it slowly.

Gambling addiction is like any other addiction in that it can have devastating consequences for the individual and their family members. Instead of spending time with their partner and family or fulfilling commitments, gamblers may choose to spend their leisure time gambling. This can make a partner or family member worry that the gambler no longer cares about them. It's not just couples who suffer. Parents, siblings, and children can be deeply affected by a family member's gambling addiction. It is leading to the irreversible breakdown of the relationship.

Thinking about disrespecting addicted gamblers is not an objective attitude, if they don't cause trouble and directly affect relationships, I will still give them a certain amount of respect because it is very clear that individual activities cannot be the standard for evaluation, besides, money cannot be kept forever, it needs to be circulated to create spiritual values as well as material values for businesses. You should only really evaluate them as you say, lending money and disappearing, these are intentional acts of taking advantage of the relationship to profit as well as appropriate other people's money.

That's actually a perk of gambling, you will be in an activity that's time consuming and will warp your way of thinking as to how time flows, that's why no matter how much you want to do gambling, you will always be someone that's always lacking the time for other things because let's face it, when you're gambling you're always having fun and when you're having fun, you forget your problems and you feel like it's never going to end and then reality will just hit you.

Sure this isn't always the case as time consumption for gambling for some casual gamblers aren't that much so they can still do other stuff with their partners or loved ones. Time and effort is always a good thing to maintain a relationship and even if you do have that on the lock and you're still gambling, it's not the time management that's the problem in the relationship.
The fact that you're partner or lover wants to spend time with you and asks for your time means they're already doing their part in the deal, it's the gambler's turn to return the favor and I don't think that we have any reason to say something about what our partner or lover should do when it comes to making time because they're doing it, and sometimes it's just too much for some and so they end up having to leave that person because they didn't do their part.

Relationship is like a dance, if there's only one person doing all the steps then you're bound to do the dance badly and you end up stepping on each other's foot.

This kind of addiction has entered into the worst stage and there is no way it will not affect one's relationships. For instance, if the person is working in a reputable establishment and he is earning good money too but has nothing to show for it due to gambling. This of course cannot go down well with his girlfriend if the person is a guy, and I don't know how a reasonable lady would want to spend the rest of her life with a guy who is not wise enough to plan his life. This goes for the family of the guy as well, they can't be happy with him in this situation.

Talking about family, a similar situation like this is happening right now in my neighbourhood, it is pathetic for the guy and the family have now resolved to sever their relationship with him because he is just wasting his life and it has become a thing of shame for them having tried all means in years but to no avail. Well, back to the main context, the affected guy/lady themselves must realize their faults over time and make the right changes, it is only then that things can work for them, their relationships and anybody whatsoever that is linked with them. But for those who are gambling responsibly and "not leaving any stone unturned," they will continue to live their lives and gambling as if nothing happened. It will just be a normal way of life that doesn't conflict with the rest.

Yes gambling addection creat distance inside family. For that reason many relationship break. But now days gambling is common and some people taking it as a profession. Because if someone can be a professional gambler then there is no chance to look back. In this game it has huge risk and it also give huge profit. But if someone in gambling and he or she is the main earner of family if full family depends on him or her then that's the problem. Becose gambling addection is very bad if he or she have money they play all in that create financial problems. That type of greedy work of gambler mainly affect in relationship and also their economy.

Gamblers who can't manage their time will usually face a lot of problems with their relationship with their partner or family, because usually gamblers who are busy thinking about themselves will affect any relationship, that's why it's important to maintain relationships with their partner or family, even as an active gambler, at least dividing their time. to be with them before they leave you.

Gamblers should not feel lonely and alone so that they make their partner or family leave us just because we cause problems, they become addicted to gambling and go bankrupt because of gambling until finally they leave us because their life is a mess. The point is, never ignore them, make time for them so that The relationship remains harmonious, whether with your partner or family. Gamblers must remember when to gamble and when to stop gambling. Gambling can damage relationships with anyone, so be wise when gambling.

I've seen folks struggle with this before.  When stuff gets rocky in their relationships, it can muck up their thinking around gambling too.  All that stress messes with your head. Makes it real tough to keep a level head and make good bets.  And then they lose more money, which definitely doesn't help matters at home.

It's probably smart for gamblers to think about how problems in their relationships can spill over into poor choices at the tables or track and  if youre fighting with your partner might be best to step away until you get that sorted, instead of losing a bunch of money and making things worse.  Just my two cents though based on what I've observed with people close to me.

Yes, that's true because if someone gambles too often, it can result in poor relationships with the people around him. Especially if he is the head of the household whose job is to earn a living for his family but instead uses the money to gamble. This will disrupt his financial position so that his family cannot meet his living needs. The relationship could get worse if he doesn't realize that he has made a bad mistake and neglected his family and is only concerned with gambling. He had to end everything immediately and return to his family before things turned worse, where he could experience a divorce with his partner.

And even though he doesn't have a family yet, he can also experience disturbances in his relationships with those around him. He will be someone who doesn't care about his surroundings and doesn't care about other people, especially if he is gambling in his room. He won't come out of his room to gamble so he doesn't know the situation and conditions that exist out there.

In my opening gambling gan affect relationship and relationship can also affect gambling. Because in life time any where a gamble face economical problem. That create problem in a gambler relationship. On the other side relationship can affect on gambling because when your partner create problem and you are tensed that time you can't gambling in cold mind. That pressure and depression lose your sure win. That's the reason relationship and gambling both can affect.

What I think is that people who are addicted to gambling don't get respect from their family or friends. Because gambling makes them bad for everyone. People who gamble can't talk to anyone. Few days ago my friend told me about gambling.  He borrowed money by lying and gambling with it and lost it. Later I found out that he gambled by borrowing money from me. But if I had first realized that he would gamble by borrowing money, I would have never lent him money.  No. Now when I go to his house to ask for money, he is nowhere to be found.

Gambling can destroy family bound and relationships. But all depending on the kind of understanding among members in the family. There are sometimes, children would be playing gambles while the parents are not therefore they would against them to participate in gambling and when the pressure is too much the children or the child would just left them to stay with his friends. I have seen couples quarrel and I have also seen a wife stabbed her husband because of gambling.

Conflict or violent among couples because of gambling is not a new thing in the world. There are sometimes wife would used the market money to play gamble and come home with empty handed and they would be heavy fight among them. Then the recent incident in my location. The wife sells provision store. That is milk, Milo and other retail things. And the husband of the wife used to use her business money to play gamble so the business was not growing so the woman decided to park her things and left the man to her parents house. And now the man is alone. So gambling break relationship very well but if there is understanding then there is no problem.

Most of the people that I know who gamble do not do well are those who are addicted to gambling. Things get worse for most people like that, but if you are gambling for fun, then I don’t see any harm that gambling will do to the person. But don’t always pass your limit, just have fun whenever you feel like it. Don't have the mindset to make money from gambling.
 
If I am in a relationship and my partner doesn’t like gambling and she requests I stop gambling, I will ask her first why she wants me to stop gambling, and if she can come up with a reasonable excuse and I notice it is really worth it, then I will stop gambling. But if she doesn’t have any serious reason, then I will let her know that I gamble just for fun and am not addicted to gambling. I will just try to convince her and am sure she will understand.

Relationship is something we need to make sure we protect and we don't allow gambling to affect us for a very long time. For us to safe our relationship, we are make sure that we keep anything about our gambling activities from our family. Relationship should be solid and we should try everything possible to make sure that we always keep trying our best to make sure that gambling do not affect us too much. Addiction is one thing that can disrupt us and make our family to know about our gambling activities and if this continues, it could affect us in a long time.

Well said, no matter for the rich or the poor - money is the top reason of marital conflicts.
And in this matter, gambling addiction + more losses than wins definitely will make it worse.

Its ok to gamble as long we have a steady income and able to spare some of it for gamble and never hide it from our wife or gf.

We should not allow gambling to affect anything we are into, this is not about relationships alone but the work we do and other aspects of life we are into, we must learn to be able to make balance of not making things got affected by one for the other, so many gamblers already have made alot of mistakes that have cost them the sacrifice of the prestigious relationship all because they couldn't manage things up as they should with gambling.

Moderation is surely vital. I think gambling could still be fun when you’re married and rich. If you’re an individual who finds gambling fun when single, you could still indulge in the activity when you get married provided you strictly moderate your time indulging in such activities.

Also, if you’ve got enough money to comfortably afford to put some away to gamble whenever you want to, then money problems won’t pop up. With a lot of frequent gamblers, issues with money seems to be a common theme so as an individual who’s married and has the means to still comfortably afford his gambling lifestyle, then I don’t see how it could affect the relationship.
We’ve just got to be responsible with our activities most especially when you want to settle down.