Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 6. (Read 4469 times)

Yes loses in gambling creats this type of problem in a gambler's life. Because no one have enough money for started gambling. For that after facing big losses the always thik to recover thier money. That thinking is harmful for his. Because in bad thinking people do bad behavior with family members. That's thinking and behavior creat distance inside family. After all of that family can't conect back together. That reason relationship affect in a gambler life.

Although money can alleviate fights in a relationship, it is still not enough to stop the many fights that exist in a relationship. Most of the time when one of the parties to the marriage or relationship has dedicated little time to their partner, then the fights don't end. and gambling is very time consuming for those who are addicted or looking for more profits. I've read many stories of people who said that when they became addicted to gambling, they spent many hours locked in their room playing on the computer and no longer paid attention to their wives and children. as they no longer paid attention to their wives and children, so the wives started to complain in the family and the fights didn't end

but even with so many fights, they didn't stop playing, they even treated their wives and children badly because they wanted to have more time to play, so as time went by the game also started to affect the jobs of these people and the wives got tired and gave up on these activities. people and took their children. I think that gambling has a lot of power to influence relationships in a very negative way, women hardly agree for their partners to play in physical casinos and in the case of online casinos people keep playing without their wives accepting that they play and In a relationship there should be no secrets

One thing about winning and losing in gambling is that the excitement of winning supersedes the agony of losing. What do I mean in essence, can be lossing almost everyday and when you check the accumulative losses it will amount to a very high money but whenever they manage to get one win, the excitement of that winning will make them forget all their accumulative losses.

Relating this to relationship, if someone is always on the winning streak his spouse will be happy and the relationship will be in a good shape, no one will complain. But immediately loses continue and money no longer flow in the family that is when people will understand the negative effect of gambling and blame everything and the gambler. This is the reason why every gambler needs to be financially conscious and spend according to their budget.

Being a responsible gambler is nice for every gambler, but may also be a problem in a relationship for a spouse who doesn't like, one bit, gambling. It also serves as a means of extra work for the gambler. He needs to convince his wife that there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. The aim and goal of that gambler is to secure his home and not put an end to a long-lasting relationship that he has formed in his life. Because the disadvantage of being a responsible gambler in a relationship where the spouse frowns at gambling is that, if the relationship breaks, the responsible gambler can become a compulsive gambler in the process, due to heartbreak. Hence the gambler needs to endeavor to stabilize his relationship and make a space in his time to explain to his wife not to be afraid about his gambling habit. But if the girl's family rule is strictly against it, I don't think the relationship would last long. In such a relationship, the gambler needs to hide it from the nongambling spouse.

That way he doesn't need to gamble at home when the wife is around. Or he can be making use of the physical casinos. It can only get better, but gambling is a threat to most relationships. It has no good news circulating in the brains of people. Once a person figures out you gamble, his first impression of you will change, and he'll begin to see you as a person who is not money-conscious, wastes money on casinos borrows to gamble, etc. And to remove such doubts on them would be difficult, as the ways to prove them are very slim. Unless the players win a jackpot, his spouse will still have doubts about the gambler. Being financially conscious while gambling as a married man is very crucial. Failing our family is like dealing with ourselves too. Whatever we see as bad to us shouldn't be used to affect the peace of our family members.

you have very precise thinking and more precisely, think of gambling as looking for luck with a small amount, who knows, maybe you can get a big win, it can provide extra money for your daily needs.
this kind of thinking is what makes our family harmonious without having serious problems caused by gambling and gambling responsibly is very necessary to be able to continue gambling, but partners also allow it as long as it doesn't worsen the family's economic situation.

but my advice is that if you gamble responsibly, you still have to tell about your gambling activities so that one day when you lose control, your partner will remind you to always gamble responsibly, putting your family first.
the reason I say this is because no matter how hard you gamble, you will definitely lose control at some point when you have problems and force yourself to gamble. so try to be honest with your partner so that your family remains safe from the bad effects of gambling.

I mean it can for sure affect your relationship with your partner especially if you are a gambling addict and gamble a lot your partner for your are concern about what you are doing and not gonna allowed that if your are not gonna listen to your partner and that is also affecting your financial that could totally leads to fights and worst even break up or divorce on the end. I mean i've know alot of people where they get they live their man since the man doesnt want to stop what his doing always wasting there money gambling on cock fights if your familiar with it. Her wife knows about his gambling addiction and it always lead to fights since most of the time its all about money.

But in some cases this could easily be prevented since in the first place gambling are for entertainment and you could always gamble responsible and moderately, with that you could set limitations and doing it just for fun just to see if your kinda lucky. I mean if you get it there are times that you kinda want to bet on a lotto and thinking that your going to win, then you bet on it, in the end you dont really care if you win just want to do it just for fun.

You are right to be a responsible gambler because we don't want to see our lives fall apart because we gamble excessively. We also know that many gamblers end up losing their responsibility in gambling, which causes their relationship with their partner to fall apart. And it's not worth it if we experience it because our goal in gambling is to have fun and get entertainment, so we have to be responsible gamblers. However, when we gamble, there will be temptations that will encourage us to continue gambling. But responsibility, self-control, and the desire to avoid more losses can make us stop our gambling activities before things turn bad. We will not experience any problems by gambling responsibly.

That's true, as men of course we have a big responsibility, especially towards our own family where in our own family of course we will be the head of the family who has to provide for our own family because that is the responsibility of the head of the family. also as a man we have to be able to manage our finances well, therefore we have to have a clear income to be able to support our family, even if we like to gamble it doesn't matter as long as it doesn't disturb the finances which should be the family's right, so if you really want to gamble please being able to just set aside our pocket money is better.
Even though women are known to be better at managing finances, there is nothing wrong with men having to be able to manage their finances well, and also men must be able to regulate themselves to limit gambling because otherwise their finances might be in conflict which could have an impact on their relationship. their family, and clearly this is a disaster, as best as possible if you really like gambling, don't let your own family be affected by the effects of gambling.

I gamble responsibly such that I never let it affect my relationship with my partner that is I only gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose therefore if lose no pain no gain after all my commitment to the family is not affected by gambling activities because I don't rely solely on gambling as means of income to support or cater for my family rather whatever income I earned from gambling serve as extra source of income that can be used to pay for some minor bills, of course I knew the consequences of being addicted to gambling and how it can affect my relationship with my partner thus I will always avoid anything that can bring about a strain relationship with my partner.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

this is the real problem point.
as a man, it is our responsibility to support his family and if we want to gamble, it won't be a problem as long as it doesn't affect the economy or our daily needs and we are able to manage our finances well. if we really want to gamble, try to find a side job that can make more money than your target every month and if that is successful we do it, make sure we only spend 2-5% of our monthly income on gambling and so far it has been going well without any problems and we can afford it. managing well, the relationship with our partner will definitely not be damaged and everything will be fine, even if a man's income is always good without any problems, a partner will definitely allow her husband to gamble.

most important thing is to give confidence to your partner with good behavior and a strong commitment if you are able to gamble responsibly and I am sure your partner will allow it.

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

The gambler only loss the life after their big loss in the gambling site.Because till that loss,he will have some money for the rotation of expenses.The gambler who had good experience can build their own carrier from the beginning of gambling game.The technical skills and technology acceptance will make the gambler to shine in the gambling.Because the random gambler was here most of the people,So they will loss their money in the gambling site.If you keep successful in the betting,the future game will be favour to the betting gambler site.So try to successfully in all the bet placed on the gambling site.

Gambling can destroy your relationship when your partner notice that you are addicted gambler, if you are a someone that plays gambling with a precautions and hind it to your family you never have a misunderstanding with your partner or with your family, many people seems gamblers or whosoever that plays gambling as irresponsible person, but that is a fatal lies because gambling can not change your character except its a situation whereby you alone gambling to penetrate into your lifestyle and initiate another way, their is no educated person that gamble beyond its monthly and weekly income, so what causes issues in family or relationship towards gambling is when you are not meeting up with provision of your family and you divert the funds to gamble, so that is only thing that brings issues between partner towards gambling

People wont see those importance until they would really be able to experience such hardships or failure or already with those effects into their lives.It is really just that a common thing that they would be doing if ever they have seen that the negative effect is already start on kicking in. This is why it would be always best that you should really take things on balance way on which you arent compromising the time with your loved ones or other people around you then its still good but if it turns out that it had been affected then this is where you should consider on stopping things
before its too late or things becomes more severe in speaking about potential effects into your life. Be sensible into your actions so that you wont really be ending up miserable.

Time spent can never be recovered. And when we spend more and more time doing nothing productive and meaningful to our lives, we end up starting to fail to discern and give importance and time to the important things in our lives.
And for someone who’s gainfully employed and married, giving more time to his gambling activities would certainly tell on his performance at work and affect his family life at home. At that point, gambling may seem more fun to do than spend time with family and having thoughts of gambling even while at work, would reduce any innovative possibilities of such worker.

If you gamble for fun, it may not have any effect on your relationship. But those who become addicted to gambling in the name of entertainment have relationship problems. Gambling is not bad if you can take it as entertainment, gambling is bad only when it becomes your addiction. But a person should spend 1%-5% of income on gambling and not more than that. Also it is good to keep track of losses and wins because if you keep track of losses and wins it will not become addictive and the relationship will not be damaged.

Yes of course, gambling can affect your relationship, if you have a partner who does not encourage gambling I think he or she may opt for a breakup because he or she might not be satisfied with such a habit, gambling has ruined many marriages today, gambling as an addictive act, has many defects, a chronic gambler does not know what he or she does sometimes but what they are always considering is to satisfy themselves, many gamblers sell off the only property or thing the family owns in other to make their gambling habit a continues process, relation is meant to accommodate open discussion within both partners but a gambler can hide his income rate for his partner so that he can use his or her excesses to gamble and when their partner notice thsi, it becomes a problem that can lead to breakup.

I agree, how can you handle the relationship properly if you yourself can't control yourself from gambling. Gambling destroys many relationships as well as families and we know that but others still gamble knowing that they are in control but in the end they are not. I also believe that even if you are not addicted to gambling as long as you gamble it will still affect your relationship.

The most expensive things on earth are those we get free, but the money we gain through gambling is not free. Somehow the gambler pays to get the win. However it's not the main motive of gambling, though, many gamblers have turned it into their most important motive of venturing into gambling. In life, we have to spend or lose something for another, so gambling can affect our relationship in some ways that we may not describe. Gamblers would think that it's only when they're addicted that people or loved ones would get upset about the gambler's habit. However, I realized that by focusing on gambling and doing it consistently, even when not addicted, the gambler's spouse can get angry and begin to complain about it. Especially if the girl came from a family that doesn't accept gambling no matter the odds. While the gambler in the response by summonerrk, may be seen as the one people would hate, can be lucky to end up with a loving spouse, who will stand by them and try to change them for good. I'd always say that gambling works for people differently, same with luck. Gambling doesn't end in the casino alone, whatever thing happening in the life of a gambler should seem to him as gambling.

We can't predict those who will get sad or upset of our mistakes. Same way our results in gambling are not predictable, that's how people in relationships can't be known to go or stay if their friend, goes astray due to gambling addiction. A member of the forum once testified in his response that his girlfriend stood by him during his struggling days with gambling addiction. Which helped him to survive problem gambling to date. He wasn't just addicted, he lost all his money in gambling. One would say or think that every woman would abandon such a man. But the opposite happened. That's why we can't conclude whether gambling can break every relationship. It's all about the rapport between the people in the relationship. Gambling addiction is fast cured through this relationship, but because the gambler is now toxic or low on money, people close to him, who are his best therapists, begin to let go of him, penalizing his actions and making him suffer more in the future.