To bad (or not lol) I am already married
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First of all I would like to point on that gambling is not a problem for me, so this isnt a "possible gambling problem". I dont think that gambling addiction appears because of person gambles to much. It is more emotional and personal. One can become addicted after first bet, other can start and stop his gambling hobby for years. I am lucky to find woman that shares my vision of balance. We dont bother each other much and speak out every single possible problem or misunderstanding between. As long as gambling does not interfere family, I or my wife can freely gamble. As to balance things, I dont bother her on stuff like spending money on manicure or other cosmetic procedures. That is just her, that is non of my business. If she wants to do it, then she is free to do it, as long as this does not harm family or lives.
I think that's the deal, communication. If you can communicate with each other on what you like and what you do not like and both sides could come to an agreement that could work for both sides then it should be okay.
I mean I have seen people who are "married" and literally live at different cities, it was definitely a difficult thing there is no doubt about that but their jobs were on different places and they had to live like that, and it's not like just for a few months or years, it was 14 years before they finally got enough money to retire and do their own business together. They said it worked well for them because they would see each other once a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and even had problems where they couldn't see each other for over a month, but that kept the love going.
My point being is that as long as you can communicate, anything is possible and you can keep gambling if the other side is fine with the way you are gambling.
Talking it out in a relationship is important, whether you're together or apart. It's about "Hey, this is me, this is what I need, and what about you?" Two-way street, right? We must commit like poker players who read the table, recognize cues, and play our hands. You mentioned a couple in various cities: high-rollers? They gambled, yet they communicated, strategized, and succeeded for 14 years! That's love and life skill, not luck.
I’m not just talking cards and dice; I'm talking about the gamble we take in relationships. Communication is your secret weapon in this high-stakes game. You must know when to hold and fold in love and gambling. Gambling is fun! Rush, unpredictability, skill, and chance. Same with relationships. We always bet on each other, right? Risking, playing, winning, and learning. Smart play with heart and intellect in tune is key. Hit the jackpot in casinos and life that way