Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 14. (Read 6087 times)

You are right to have thoughts like that because we gamble of our own free will and no one forces us to gamble. They only say or suggest but the final decision is ours so if we feel there is no need to gamble, we don't have to gamble. After all, gambling is entertainment that carries the risk of losing money compared to other entertainment, so we should be able to think about what is best for us and not force ourselves to follow what other people do. We have to be responsible with ourselves and our money.

We gamble on our own accord, with our money, and enjoy the gambling game so that it is our business. Other people have nothing to do with us.

I know there are people who blame their sports betting losses on the bookmaker. Sometimes there may be some truth in this, because the bookmaker does not like players who are profitable over the long haul. After all, the player’s profit is the bookmaker’s loss. But in this case, it is enough to change the financial model of the game. There is betting, in which you play not against a casino or bookmaker, but against other players. Here you will definitely have no one to blame for your losses. However, most players still do not blame anyone. They realize that their strategy is not good enough. And they do nothing to improve the situation.

No matter how much money is spent on gambling and with the unconscious reason of focusing only on what is obtained, it ends up in losing money due to defeat. It's already crushed and down the stairs. The fact is that there will be no security in the money if you spend it by your own actions, there is no such thing as playing games and can be asked back, gambling is a decision to play with two serious predictions, if you lose, you lose if you win, you will get real money even though you are limited to guessing. So if it is pulled into the realm of law it is natural because it includes defamation and accusing without clear basis, because of the fact that they themselves are betting. If you are not able to deal with this fact, it is better to save the money and use it for your needs than to harm others and lead to physical and material misery on a player gambling.

If you lose or lose a gambling bet, you have to take responsibility for it because the gambling conditions state that no one under the age of 18 can participate in gambling and no one can be blamed if there is a big loss in gambling. Moreover, you have to participate in gambling with Ricks at your own risk, there can be both profit and loss. But in both cases the loss of profit is solely the responsibility of the user and in no case anyone else can be blamed. Moreover, a gambler must bet on gambling at his own risk and understanding, and even if he bets on others and loses, the gambling authorities are never responsible for such losses, in which case the user is solely responsible.

To satisfy and justify my Ego , back in the days I kept blaming someone or even the gambling site for my stupid losses but
now until realization comes that this is fully my fault , no one force me to gamble but my desire so why need to blame them?

Gamble on your own  , Blame no one , enjoy playing and go home or stand when you have enough.

I agree with what you said, if that person forced you to gamble, you have the right to blame him, but if it's just you and you run out of money, that's your fault. Why do you have to blame others for your stupidity, you gambled and we know that in gambling we often lose. It's a wrong thing to do, even if you blame it on others. There are many people like this when they lose in gambling they blame or they get drunk first before blaming.

It is true in what you say, we are not obliged to do anything or do what we are told, therefore if someone loses in the game because someone told them something and advised them to make a move to play, if they lose, then it is the fault of the player, not from the other group that spoke, but I will always consider the peeping toms as stick, that is to say, that they have no type of relevance in my game, even if it sounds ugly, but that is the position of the onlookers.

In the event that a person gambles and gives importance to the advice of others, that is the fault and problem of the person who is making the bet, I do not pay attention nor do I give importance to anyone, if someone approaches me and starts talking to me I tell him to please leave me alone and don't interrupt me, I'll fix it that simple, because the only thing that can happen is to lose concentration so that our game doesn't go the way we want, and because of lack of concentration we can lose.

basically we are not bound by any actions we take regarding gambling, and are not bound by suggestions from other people. We are free to do whatever we follow other people's words or not. We already know what the risks are, so blaming other people is useless because it is the final decision we made. arises from oneself without any coercion

Really sometimes we should at least sperate addictions from pour crime, because this is a clear case of criminal deformation of character on the digital payment service which is play in this case because they accused the bank of the crimes but then it was investigated and discovered that the real deal came from the account users themselves.
I read about this case sometime ago and this really gave opay a very bad name back then, because the general public was made to believe that opay and other digital payments platforms have a backend hackers who is transferring customers funds to a sport betting site, that was the case that time before this case was investigated.

Even though we may pretend that it is not good to blame others for gambling losses, it happens and I can tell you that some people can actually make you change your games. If you do visit physical gambling shops, you will understand better. In my neighborhood, there are people that spend their entire day in gambling shop most of whom are broke and looking for who to give their prediction to play in exchange of a few bucks. They have this annoying habit of meddling in what is not their business and if you are not careful, they will convince you into abandoning your prediction for theirs because their display high level of knowledge of the teams and players as well as some advance casino patterns. In a case they convince one to play their game and the money is lost, there is no way they will not receive the blame. The only thing that makes it better now is the advent of online casinos which makes it not necessary visiting physical shops where the broke experts operate.

For those that still visit physical shops, please avoid those broke experts before they ruin you. I don't know if they work for the gambling companies but the truth is that their games hardly ever win.

It is possible for certain gamblers to place the blame on someone else as a way of avoiding accepting responsibility for their losses. Perhaps it would be simpler for them to place the blame for their shortcomings on other forces rather than taking responsibility for their own choices or errors. Based on my observation of certain gamblers in my nation, it appears that some of them go through severe states of emotion. Perhaps by blaming others, they can momentarily ease their own feelings of disappointment and anguish.
 
I recall a situation where two brothers were betting on billiards games. They also used cards, and the number of cards you could receive determined the number you needed to strike with the billiard cue. The two brothers were arguing and attempting to start a fight after just a minute of playing. There were a lot of commotions going on. They said that the reason for their argument was that one of the brothers had cheated on the game, which is why one of them became enraged as he lost a few games and didn't win at all.

Because in the end, it would seem very silly if we gamble personally but blame something when we lose. We are adults and the proof that we are gambling is that we already know that this is something that is only done by people who already have more thoughts not the thoughts of children so when we lose then we have to accept it gently because we did it. Blaming things on others for the actions we take personally in my opinion is a situation where we cannot think more mature and it is a dirty way of thinking so don't do anything if you still do things like that.
There are times when we have to be more honorable even if it is a loss and in gambling I think it is quite important because after all all the forms that are done in gambling are of our own free will so we have to blame others if we cannot win in a bet.

We should not blame anyone for the loss that occurs during bets since it's something decided by an individual, not by another one who forces them to keep gambling and lose money that is actually needed for something else. If someone is forcing you to bet even against your will then its a crime and you won't actually blame them because you were compelled to obey the person for some reason.

I agree with you, why do we have to blame other people if we lose at gambling it is very unreasonable, how can other people control us, people are very stupid if they have to blame other people for the losses they suffer, let's say we tell people to play with the money we have, why do we give people control over our money? Let's say we trust him, of course we are ready for all the risks whatever happens

We often hear the words "your attitude, your responsibility" if we don't have principles then other people will control us and never blame them because you don't have an attitude of responsibility, so there is no reason to blame other people when we have lost funds in gambling even if someone urges us to place high bets on gambling, but if you don't follow other people's instructions then you will not lose gambling funds. So don't let other people regulate your bets, but you are the owner of the funds who can control the bets in gambling.

It's normal the wife of a gambler will get mad on him after he has lost a considerable sum of money betting which was going to be used for family's expenses. The gambler should be humble, apologise with his wife and promise it's not going to happen again. But if he tries to strike back with accusations and blaming someone or something else for his addicted gambling behavior, then I think this person isn't just an addicted individual, but also a bad character one. Nowadays everyone talks about narcissism, as the characteristic of someone who always think to be right on their actions, while blaming another factors for the faced failures, but I prefer to say bad character. Even addicted people can be humble to accept they are commiting mistakes and prejudicing people around, but a narcissism can't.

So I think the best this wife can do is to stay away from the husband, because it's not likely he is going to change, as the first requirement to change is to accept his flaws. Something he is not willing to do...

That is something very common that always happens, you cannot blame others for doing something like that, as far as I am concerned I will Always say something when a person spends the entire family budget on gambling, it is something very irresponsible , no There should be no type of Compassion at all, because a person must always be responsible for their actions, obviously, if a person enters a casino and spends everything , then it is the absolute Responsibility of that person, but obviously , when he or she arrives with the mnso you empty his home, what the woman is going to tell him is absolutely right, so if that's the case, and if he knows that things can't be done the way he did them, why did he do them? It not only puts at risk the well-being of him as a person but also of the entire family in general, especially when there are children, if they are on diapers and milk, then it is the worst thing, there is always evidence that responsibility is the most s important.

In this order of things, things need to be done in the best way ,  We are people who are always going to do the most appropriate thing, If we are the head of the family, we should not enter the casino without first having given a clear example of how to do things, To spend the money, first you must make a collection of obligatory expenses for the home, then if there is some money left over, not allocate it all, but a part, which is not affected, because you do not have to download it so that other things can be done, For example, non-predestined expenses , or surprise expenses, that if someone gets sick, that if they have to go to the emergency room , all these things are the ones that we must take care of and always leave money there so that later we don't have to run and not ask. money or anything, the money runs ou t, that's why we must do all that, then if there are 5 or 10usd left to spend, well that's different, but the fact that the family Budget is spent is absolute Irresponsibility.

Simply, it was a dumb move from both of them to create such an unbelievable story and lying to the authorities about a fraudulent transaction while they were the ones who have done it and lost their money to gambling. This is obviously due to gambling addiction since that amount of money could be used in an investment or something better other than wasting them in sport betting at once.
Personally, I have never accused someone else by something I have done myself. Especially, not my gambling losses and to whom? The authorities; people who have the power and the means to find and discover any inconvenient small thing, it was a very impulsive weak idea the mother and son did thinking they could get away of it this easy and of course they got what they deserve.

We are witnessing weird stories and cases lately by gambling addicts, so I hope everyone will take such stories as an example to avoid falling into addiction leading to impulsive decisions just to gamble more or recover losses.

We know very well that in each of the following phases of the caisno we have to be responsible, the first phase for me is before going to the caisno, where I always have my ideal ready to lose, I don't think about what I will win, I just hear what I will lose, for me it is better this way, we will create false illusions, then the second phase is to say how much I am willing to win, if I am on a good streak then I will start to retire when I reach triple the amount that I am willing to lose, That for me is what I always do and I do that because it is the same strategy that I use for trading, whenever I trade those are my basic principles, in this order of ideas I learned that doing things that way is easier Do it to avoid losing the right money, and for me the most important thing in a casino is not to lose money, and if I lose it is only what I am destined to lose, nothing more.

Another thing is that when we are in a game we must do Everything to be able to have control, we are already ready when we must lose , I think we can give free rein to our opinion, play as we want, do as we want, because the things for this are quite Difficult , whenever we are playing we must see how we can win and reduce the moment we could lose, if we have money willing to lose we need to take it to the highest level, in the form of profits, of course when we do not have the luck, the right moves were not made, because there is nothing to do, you have to accept things as they are, but the ideal is always that we as people have that ready to lose, but I have seen or more recently it has happened to me that little I have taken the money to good money, also all the people who play with little money have taken it to very respectable figures and that is only what I Applaud , and that is being Responsible , when you have limits things turn out well.

There's a time that gamblers could handle their emotions after losing in the casino, but of course after going home when the wife or family finds out that he lost a lot of money, of course their reactions would be mad and angry to the gambler which is there's a tendency for them to be triggered and lose control of their emotion where they would put the blame to others, worst is they would be violent or verbal abuse. A responsible gambler are ready for this kind of scenarios where you don't only have to control your self when playing gambling but also before and after since you know the risk of engaging in gambling. If there's someone to blame it would be yourself cause your the one who started it in the first place.