Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 15. (Read 6130 times)

This has often happened in many places, and there are gamblers like that who don't want to lose, but they still gamble. We can try to understand it because they may be a little frustrated with the losses they get, so they act like that. And we also don't need to be too close to them, especially when they have experienced loss because later we might be blamed too. We should stay away from them and do what we want to do, and if we want to gamble, we should gamble alone in our room so that there are no people like that. They can't realize that that's what happens in gambling, and the more they want to win, the more likely they are to experience losses that could be bigger than they imagined. They may not be able to achieve a win yet, so they will start looking for someone nearby to blame.

If gamblers have set their mindset about gambling from the start, they will not try to gamble excessively. They will continue to guard themselves when gambling and will leave the casino when they have had enough gambling. They will not want to use more money to try to catch up on their wins or recover their losses because getting it is difficult for them.

Agreed that there are many gamblers who simply cannot accept their losses. A responsible gambler never tries to blame others. Because the time he spends blaming others, the time he spends on something else will be fruitful. If I lose at gambling, I try to keep myself more motivated. Because I don't want to tell anyone about my loss. If I blame one person for my loss, others may make fun of me instead, which can spread to multiple people. Why would I decrease my reputation? But those who engage in such activities should think about this matter quietly. People who engage in uncontrolled gambling have this tendency. If you lose in this case, you should know how to control yourself.

Gambling is made to be for adults for this same reason, to deduce the rate of complaints, blames and regrets from gamblers. It's not easy to spend hours in gambling, but we weren't forced or pushed to do it out of our will. However, while blaming people is wrong, taking responsibility is the right option as a gambler. Moving ahead with new motives and re arranging our lives is faster in recovering from our mistakes than any other method, such as regret. Some gamblers behave like this, due to the famous believe that one can be forced to do what they don't want to through their brain. In the sense that a friend who reminded or introduced them to gambling is at fault and should be blamed for their gambling addiction. The person has no explanation to make, but it's important to include these things in our discussions with non-gamblers.

Most of them don't have a strong foundation of gambling information before venturing into the niche. The choices remain with the gambler, not his friends. He wagered the money hoping for more money. If he won those games, would he have blamed his friends, or appreciate him for helping him get a win in gambling, no. People take responsibility only when there is a success, and blame others for their failure. I've experienced this, and concluded not to talk about gambling to people who are non-gamblers. Things may get sour along the line, they'll have me in mind, once the trouble begin. Tagging their friends in every complaint wouldn't be hard to them anymore. To stay on a safer side, it's better for the gambler to focus on changing his lifestyle for good and battle his addictive nature.

Indeed right, with that perception you would be able to realize what's going to happen and what affects your decision making, having that wrong judgement will put you in the place where you keep denying things that you already knew that you are doing wrong, blaming someone in an action that you freely did is always going to shadows you.

Decision making keeps on relying with how you foreseen the possible outcome and how you will react on your own and not to put fingers to someone who don't have any business in controlling you.

However, if someone has decided to gamble, he must realize that gambling has risks, and he must be able to accept whatever the risk is and only take risks that he can afford. So he only needs to gamble a few times because there is a risk of losing that money and he can only gamble with the money he can afford. This is to avoid the regret that comes when he has finished gambling when he sees the remaining money he has. Many gamblers regret having lost a lot of money while they couldn't win because that's how gambling is. Gambling cannot always give us a win and gambling can even take all our money if we cannot control ourselves. And when we have experienced defeat, we don't need to blame other people because they have invited us to gamble. After all, it is our responsibility when we decide to gamble.

The decision to gamble or not to gamble comes from us. Even if a friend invites us to gamble, the decision is still in our hands. If we cannot accept losing money from gambling, we should not gamble. So it's funny if people still blame others for inviting them to gamble because it is each person's decision.

Yeah, that's how a great life can be achieved, by taking full responsibility of your actions and their outcomes.

No one else is responsible of your life other than yourself.

And that's a great thing because you can change yourself, but you can't change others.

In my opinion, blaming other people will actually make things worse. Apart from losing money, you will also hate other people. I agree with you, be responsible with what you decide with your money and your rules.

Never blame other people in making gambling decisions, whether winning or losing. Every gambler must have their own strategy, this is what is called an intelligent gambler. Usually people blame other people for gambling because they are not confident in gambling games so that all their gambling decisions are the result of other people's analysis. Actually, there is no problem taking cheat results or other people's analysis, but you also have to have your own analysis so you can make a decision between the two analyses.

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A very common human being behavior on which you would really be that loving on pointing out your fingers into those people whom you do believe that they are the ones who are the reason
for you to lose without even trying to look into yourself on what you have done on which you are actually the ones who are really that not having that kind of easy acceptance of their own mistakes but rather they would really be loving in trying out to blame others on the things that they are currently experiencing on which its never been that appealing to look at but rather
its laughable.

This is why it would really be that always best that you should really be that realizing on what gambling is and what are the things that you could be able to encounter
and experience on which it would really be just that normal that you should really be acting out accordingly and not just simply blaming out
someone because you've been that unfortunate on your gambling activity.

When they are in the winning side they don't find anyone to point their fingers and enjoy everything,  but once they start suffering from a losing streaks that's the time they will start putting that blame to other people, a common reaction with people who can't accept the fact that they already suffering from addiction,  they wanted to look for a good excuse and unable to accept everything happened is because of their uncontrolled behavior towards gambling.

This story shows how a person can't accept the reality,  that you can lose everything when you overspend your money in this venue of entertainment,  once addiction conquered everything inside your mind and you are unwilling to accept it, you'll do everything to find that escape goat and try to put the blame to other people.

Those gambler how actually blame others when they are in losses then that's not normal. cause why you involve in gambling and then once you are in rouble or in losses you start blaming other person which pretty bad idea. Cause when you are lucky then you will win but if you are too unlucky then you will loss a lot of money.  And you are the one who are driven yourself so there no one to blame if you got mistakes.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

It is true that gambling is an activity that is full of risks and the risk is losing money, every gambler must be able to accept the risks they take and every gambler must be willing to lose money if they decide to start gambling.
Blaming other people for losses or losses that get is very inappropriate and we gamble without any coercion from anyone, so when we lose, the best step is to learn and try to accept it.
Every bad experience will have positive impact if we can take the positive side, this will be related to much better results in the future and of course we will not feel regret or blame other people when we experience defeat.
A gambler who cannot accept defeat and blames other people or even blames the gambling site for the defeat he suffers can clearly be said to be an amateur gambler, he still needs to learn lot and gather experience before he really dares to take betting risks.

Decision making is the tool that most often makes gamblers make mistakes, they don't think long and consider what will happen with the steps they will take.
This is mistake that is quite fatal and often occurs among gamblers, but it is very funny when you see gambler who bravely and enthusiastically gambles suddenly feels angry and blames anyone, including the gambling site, when he gets detrimental result.

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

We don't need to blame other people for the losses we experience from gambling. When we gamble, we already know that it will cause us to lose a certain amount of money and the more often we gamble, we can lose more money. We have to be responsible when playing gambling so we really have to have limits to prevent lots of losses. You can blame other people for forcing you to gamble, but that rarely happens because gambling depends on each person and there is no compulsion to gamble. So we have to be wise in responding to it and don't need to blame other people if we lose.

How will I blame someone for a loss I have, anyone who have started the journey of gambling must be above the age of 16,and he must be solely responsible and accountable to every action he takes when it comes to selection of the game to play.i don't think anyone can ever be responsible for another person's loss in gambling because while playing,you must have already made up your mind that it's either you win or you loose,one thing must happen.The only way you can blame someone is maybe you gave a game to someone to play,and the person went ahead to play what you didn't predict,and the game eventually plays,one can be angry,and can probably blame who you sent to play the game for you.

People who bet without thinking can lose a lot of money. This shows how far some people will go to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. Making up charges against the mother and son to escape taking responsibility shows that they don't have any self-control. To stay out of bad scenarios like these, people who gamble need to set limits, both in terms of money and feelings. Also, blaming someone of fraud when you have no proof is not only wrong, it can also get you in trouble with the law. This case demonstrates how important it is to bet wisely and handle the outcomes of your gambling maturely.

And when he loses, that is the risk of gambling, and if he doesn't want to lose, he should not gamble and leave gambling forever so that he can be free from that loss. Unfortunately, it won't be as easy as it says because when someone has started gambling, there will be a feeling of wanting to gamble again, and this can get worse depending on one's self-control. And when they get too deep into gambling, they will find it difficult to stop themselves from gambling. So they actually can't blame other people for gambling because it was their own choice to want to gamble and feel the sensation of gambling. People like that have to experience loss before realizing that what they did was wrong and trying to fix it, even though it is difficult.

It's really good when you don't blame anyone except yourself because in that way you can ponder everything you did and you can just simply move without putting much negative thought on why you lost. Sometimes it is really nice to acknowledge our own fault rather putting the blame on others especially those who were innocent of what we have been doing without our lives. Different communities have different stories regarding this matter because, in our community, there was a time when a gambling man ran amok in the street because he lost big after playing the whole day it didn't go well for him because even though he was a big dude, he was quickly knockout by lots of people who beat him right away. That's why it's really better to keep it for yourself rather than anybody else.

Right every gamblers use there own strategy own rules own money for gambling and when he win all the wining money use alone for there personal things so he will nor able to blame someone for his loss. Those who blame others for their losses are not aware of the gambling rules and are unaware of the risks involved in gambling thinking it is an easy way to make money. So he is not worth gambling.  Such people should stay away from gambling.