Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 17. (Read 6087 times)

You’d be surprised at the number of “fools” we’ve got then, cause it’s a lot. There are a staggering number of people that can’t be bothered to be responsible even for their own actions and when the find out stage swings by, the literally easiest and quite stupid route is to put the blame on someone else for whatever went wrong.
There are also some who wouldn’t want to be fully responsible and would seek to lay part of the fault on someone else so they won’t have to face whatever consequences alone.
You’d really be surprised at how people think and behave out there. It’s maddening.

True.

At the end of the day it is the gambler vs the casino.

And casinos are now extremely sophisticated.

I don't think there is any chance to win most of the times these days, the odds are simply out of reach for the gambler.

And some gamblers know this, and still blame other people. I guess it's to not feel the responsibility when they lose.

When they win though, they love to take responsibility 

Is a decision you took yourself. Even if the predictions are made for you by some sites, friends or neighbors, both you have a final decision either to stake it or not. So if you later stake it and lose, there isn't any reason blaming your lose on anyone or the predictor. Gambling can be a lose or a win for anyone and which ever comes your way should be accepted.

Gambling companies show you various attractive offers to promote themselves and it is natural that insurers will promote a company in exchange for money, but because you see their promotion and jump into gambling without thinking, it is your failure.  And that's why you can't blame anyone for your loss. You could blame someone if he forced you to gamble against your will and you could blame him if you went there and gambled and lost in front of him.  But if you go there on your own and lose, you have to take full responsibility for it

It's exactly a case of false accusations, probably the mother and son were thinking they could get away with this by making such false claims and their attorney should be fined because he or she should be very much aware his or her client is making such frivolous claim and could be jailed and yet didn't advise them against such, that's a level of incompetence been exhibited by such an attorney. The attorney who understands the law better and know the consequences should have educated his client and would have found a better way around such.

The mother and son if they were both involved in the act of gambling then they were really carefree using such amount to gamble when you know you are not financially stable enough to let go of such amount and still live your Live not stressing or bothering over it.

Come on, who's is to blame? Is all about loses and gain. no pain no gain, is all about risk. And you know life itself is a risk. So take the risk and be a billionaire.

First, I completely agree with the adulting part. We're in a casino, not kindergarten. Decisions? Our choices and consequences are ours. The basics of gambling. Being a grown-up in casinos is it.

Dont get carried away. Influencers, you say? Today, they're part of the deal, right? The concept that they determine our choices is overdone. Truly, are we puppets? I see influencers as spice, not the primary meal. They add flavor, but we determine if we like it.

Strategic planning is also a lot of fun. Gambling techniques are like weather forecasts - sometimes accurate, sometimes not. However, isnt experimenting with them more fun? Not merely earning or losing money; playing with flair. Improvisation, adaptation, and enjoyment

Exactly. It's your own will to use your money in gambling. Therefore regardless of someone influence you or promise a sure profit, it doesn't change the fact that it's your decision on why you end up playing. Blaming someone because of your own mistake is like washing hands as if you're innocent and don't know what you are doing. For others, doing so might help them to move on and accept the reality but, still, it's not right to held someone accountable for your own mistake. So if you gamble, be matured enough to face the consequences of your own action.

Come on, we are adults, and if we are in a casino we must assume things, if you are a man then you have to accept the consequences and assume them, so we are men to assume any type of rest and get ahead, for that reason We are always going to see things as a total responsibility for ourselves, the fact that a type of idea that was influenced thanks to an influencer has been included is the total fault of having made the decision in the game by the player in question. , there is no other way, we in the casino are adults, we should not let ourselves be influenced by other people, and if you let yourself make a decision like that, then it is something that you should not do anymore, and it is also something very frowned upon, in fact ua A coherent person should not let himself be influenced by anyone. I can't find another explanation. Based on this, at the time I have more than the money willing to gamble and lose in the casino, did someone give that money to us? I don't think so, much less for an influencer, if the influencer gave the money, then it can greatly influence their decision, we look at influencers and follow any type of person in the game so that we can improve, but that doesn't mean say they are gurus or something similar.

In this case things can be quite obvious that if they try to make any type of movements that are focused, for us to play in a casino we must make our own decisions and well that is something that we have to know very precisely, because this is how We don't allow them to tell us how to play or how to spend money, because they won't accept that either, but blaming others is frowned upon , and we also have to understand something, the strategies in casinos work and don't work, this is something. that will always be guaranteed in every sense, for that reason we will always see things that way, and that is why we must have many strategies to be Able to apply them , at some point one may work out, the game is like that.

You arent that forced to do something in the first place on which on the time that you do make out some bets then it is really that according into your own decision on which you dont really have the rights on
pointing out fingers into someone just because they had influenced you on what are the bets that you are taking. It is really just that according into your own choice and no one had forced you to bet on on which it is really just that too unfair for you to blame out someone just because you had lost that particular bet. You are really just that making yourself that laughable on which we do know that there's no other
that should be blamed but rather yourself on why you do commit out those loses. Its your money and its your right on what you should gonna do.
It is really just that there are people who are really that having this kind of behavior which it isnt actually good.

Ironically, there should also be a question if we actually upload people for our wins. If we can praise someone for the win in gambling it therefore means that we can also blame someone for our losses. There are people that gives out prediction for others to gamble and when they give such prediction they also give them 100% assurance that the bet will be won. But unfortunately you most cases they lose the bet. It is okay to blame such a person for losing that very bet.

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But this is quite different from what op said. Although the woman and her son might have a case if they present it very well that they were not the people that moved their money from their bank account to the sportybet account.

And that's should be the right thing to do,  blaming yourself and take the ownership of that said responsibility as you are the one who play and place your bets, even there are someone who influenced you,  it's still you who choose to follow,  there is no one that should take the responsibility than you. Just accept the reality and take that risk if ever that there are huge stake behind that pick, the blame should be on you and nothing else.

Indeed, we cannot blame other people for our mistakes and should know that. But because blaming other people is the easiest, we still blame other people, especially when we lose when gambling. Once again, it is true that casinos never force people to gamble and become greedy, but it is because of the desire of people who want to continue gambling because they want to win more so they become greedy. Once again, this resulted from their mistakes and not because of invitations from other people, let alone the casino. Casinos only provide a place to gamble for people, and casinos always warn people to always be responsible when gambling so that if people lose when gambling, it is because they cannot be responsible with themselves and their money.

Yes, it's true that blaming yourself would be better than having to blame influencers because they only seek profit from the broadcasts they make, get paid from the number of people who watch their broadcasts and they usually never force us to try the gambling they are using and if one of them those who see influencer broadcasts mean that they have accepted all the risks and as gamblers they should understand what the main risk of gambling is, namely always losing and if they understand this risk, there is no need to blame anyone or the influencer because they are never wrong, only we are at fault, we cannot understand these risks and ignore about gambling with small amounts do not expect big wins.

So I think the gambling person's own decision is not the right reason to blame someone for the losses. No one can do anything unless I am involved in gambling myself a person needs to change his mentality even if he loses by gambling on chatter it will be entirely his own fault. Casinos do not force anyone gamblers become greedy and join them it is better to change yourself than to blame someone

I don't do this but it is a regular practice among gamblers especially those playing offline. If you visit a gamblishing shop, you will likely see this for yourself. Online casinos have actually reduced this character because people tend to be more private with their gambling now than before.

Gambling is actually a private affair that one should be able to do privately and also take responsibility for the outcome. So, I don't find the style of blaming others for losses ideal.

Yes, usually influencers also advise before their followers register for a casino account. A good influencer will review the platform first and assess the advantages and disadvantages of the platform. Maybe it would be different if the influencer collaborated with a casino platform whose aim was to invite and encourage their followers to register at the casino.
Even though the goal remains the same, the choice is still in our own hands. If you bet with your money, then you are responsible for everything. Remain wise and don't become a gambling addict.

LOL, only a fool would do this kind of action.
The blame itself is passed on to others who invite them, even though from the beginning it has been given a warning that gambling is not good for those who are too panicked and cannot control emotions.

People who blame others too much, can't accept their own defeat, they are too selfish.
If they are given a big win, they will also forget who taught it and think it was their own effort.

Yeah, that's the main point.

The thing is that many people choose to go on the easy route blaming others for their actions.

It just doesn't work like that though.

You are on point and let's look at it this way. Gambling is for only adults and if you could say you want to gamble means that you are satisfied with the condition and ready to take responsibility for the outcome whether good or bad. This fairness should be inculcated by anyone gambling or making personal decisions on what they want to use their money to do, not that they blame anyone else for their action. I have seen a friend introduced a business to his fellow friend and lost a huge amount from it and start blaming the friend, are you not the one who agreed to it and committed your money to it? What if the business is successful?

The same thing goes for gambling, whether someone advises you to gamble, tricks you or even gives you signals to gamble, the outcome must be well acceptable and not playing smart the way it put the people the OP narrated into trouble. It is also good to work with a good budget as it is big and unaffordable to lose amounts that cause people to blame others. But if you are daring enough to use a very good amount, you should be very ready to accept the fate of the outcome as it is presented to you.