Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 18. (Read 6087 times)

We have so many of them here. Some females are now in telegram groups and Twitter looking for the next codes they can stake some changes on and expect win and even when they had no odea on how to pick good options, they win and that'd why they come back often times without numbers to keep playing because even the money they are using to bets is from their rich boyfriends, they don't gamble there own money but the ones they get as free instead of using them to buy hair and then later ask for another one, they prefer to best on them bit by bit until they make something out of it.

One thing I learn from them, they don't give up even when they do have a single missed from different accumulated games and they stick to a single bettor that give them games to stake. Whenever the person has lost, they get the same result and when the person has winnings, they also celebrate it together. That's how they continue to bets because most of the people they follow are very good in bets predictions even though they lost sometimes.

I agree keenly with the facts that when you gamble outside your best mood you may likely make some irrational picks which will actually not be what you intended to stake on but because you weren't in the best mood you may make these picks and until they come out with a result that doesn't make sense you wouldn't understand your mistake.

It's usually good we keep emotions out of gambling especially when you aren't gambling for fun but so you can make some money off gambling, it will be much more better you avoid it when you quarreling with you favourite person because at that point you will definitely get obsessed and it will indeed tell on you greatly so much that you may not be able to make rational decisions so it will be very good bif you can at that point avoid anything that will involve money so as to cut down on your losses possibly.

The influence of influencers cannot be used as an excuse for losses in gambling, influencers only share content that can interest other people but they never directly invite them to do the same. The lack of patience and control when the situation is at a loss makes gamblers have to reflect on the actions they have just taken. Blaming yourself is wiser and will lead to positive thoughts, only people who are not ready to take risks blame others for the losses that befall them. Winning or losing in gambling is a result that must be accepted by the gambler.

Yes agree with this mate we can not blame others if we loss in gambling cause we have our own mind we control it which means we are the author of our thinking skills. Our decision is ours why should we blame others  if we loss. But in reality nowadays there's a story which from a friend of mine that his siblings will hot angry after lossing his bet. Cause before his sibling bet my friend pit his bet on the team he like and when his sibling saw that he copy  the bet of my friend but ended to loss. And then after  he start murmuring and angry because of that loss. Which is pretty bad cause my friend didn't know why his sibling copied his bet.

Its never been good and you are really just that showing on who you really are in terms of behavior and overall as a person because it isnt really just that right that you would be pointing out your
fingers into those people whom doesnt really have any involvement in regarding into your gambling habit or activity on which they might be giving out those advises and tips but its up to your choice
whether you should really be following those tips or not. You are the ones who would really be deciding in the end of the day and not theirs because its your money that you've been using not theirs.
It is really just that a very common human being behavior on there's someone that they could blame off with on the mistakes that they had done which we do know that it is really just that
no sense on doing such act since it was their choice since from the start.

Agree. It is a bad attitude to blame other people for the mistakes we made in our life. If we got losses in gambling it is because of our own mistakes, no one forces us to play gambling. Although we know gambling from someone, I am sure he/she never forced us to gamble. Even some people try to warn us to stay away from gambling if we can't handle our emotion or have weak mentality.

Sure, it is about our choice to gamble or not. When we already gamble many times, it means we are ready to win and also get losses as well. It is impossible to always win in gambling, even we experience more losses. So, it is actually not very surprising things when we got losses. Moreover if we play pure luck-based games (slots, betting), losses is something familiar in the games.

This one happens often blaming influencers about what happen to them after gambling, but i think what to blame is their lack of control , more often if the influencer are showing a bit of skin, to impress the girl they will try to register and do gambling, they should blame themselves gambling is okay if for just fun if they will do that often or daily thats already a vice.

But there are a lot of people blaming other people. For example, if an influencer was sponsored to show gambling videos on their channel, other influencers wouldn't accept this kind of sponsorship deal because they know that people would get addicted to or have their lives affected by the gambling that they shared, as it will attract their followers to do it, and the worse is that the blame is on them, even if it is not directly stated because If they haven't shown that video, no one will get addicted to it.

Yes, that could have happened to people who have argued with people they love. Those who experience losses from gambling can easily blame others, especially those around them. And if people nearby do something inappropriate, the gambler can get angry and blame those people.

But when gambling has become a daily activity and you experience big losses but instead accuse someone of transferring their funds to someone else's gambling account without their knowledge, that is not a good action. They should be responsible for their accounts and themselves and if they gamble, they should really set clear limits on how they use their money so that they don't lose a lot of money gambling.

Your decision is your own, even the devil cannot be blamed, after all, you wanted something that should have taken you years to save for in minutes or hours. You got greedy and took the risk.

I will never blame anyone when I lose money, even when it's not in gambling, like how someone moved out my bitcoin some weeks ago and I had to stop using the Bitcoin wallet, it was painful but I get over it, it was my decision to use the wallet anyway.

The truth here is many gamblers risk more than they can afford to lose, they don't think about their decision first, they just go with the plan, and plans do fail, when something seem perfect to you, always think about the other side of been perfect and get prepared or work hard to avoid the other side, that's why I only use small dollars on gambling, there will be no regrets when losses come.

Yes, you're right in what you said, dude. It's not right for us to shift the blame to other people if we lose in gambling. Because everything that is happening in our lives today is the reason why we are here today.

It means that for all of us gamblers, it is a matter of choice as to why we entered this field of crypto gambling. Maybe we want to know what there is to gambling in the casino, and maybe we also want to experience getting a jackpot while gambling.

It's not blaming on someone. But sometimes it heppend if you are in pressure and sometimes you are quiral with your favorite person it can effect on your gambling that could be a reason when you gambling and faces losses. Because your mind in on other side you can blame some one for that reason because you are in para and for that reason you take wrong gamble.

LMAO, how can you blame the devil while the decision is on your hand, it is called by free-will. No matter how hard the devil tries to tease you for something bad, as long as you have strong will to control yourself to stay in the positive side, you wont be affected by the devil. But I'm confused here, at first you blame devil but at the end you blame yourself, so you are blaming both yourself and the devil?

Gambling addictions and the blames that goes with it will take a new turn when people finally realise that whatever we do is entirely our own decision, hence, our own responsibility.

I mean, how can you transfer blame on a thing you consciously got yourself involved in, part of the reason why we have irresponsibility ravaging loads of classes.

If we all understand that there are consequences for our actions, therefore, we should take responsibility for our actions then gambling loss blames will stop

Rarely when I am in a traditional or physical casino I get into the juice of others, more often than not they are making very big bets, because it is very easy to give advice and for the person to do it and not win, but lose, That is something that, first of all, would make me ashamed and second, it is very ugly, because I consider that the peeping toms are stupid, that is what they use to say around here, so when we are in a caisno we should always have such a behavior so that it doesn't get angry. nobody in a difficult situation, that's why if someone runs a casino we don't know the people as such, and they can feel so much anger that they can even do something to us , so it's better to be calm, swallow our words, because in In a casino , what is Played the most is money , and everything that involves money is quite delicate and we cannot go too far with the trust that people give us, especially with strangers, I have learned that since I was little, perhaps the discipline in the sports, it's what makes you a better person.

There are some who do not give importance to this, they lose Concentration, they go to casinos and that can be harmful Because of what I said previously, things can turn out very badly because people are very delicate with the word, and the fact that they lose like this be 1 dollar , because that can trigger a lot of anger in others, sometimes there are dead people in the streets and we don't know why, one of the Reasons could be that, because there are people who are not so social or who accept that some People are like that , in my case where I live , there are people who are very dangerous, guerrillas, paramilitaries, people from important governments with a lot of money, even drug traffickers, who sometimes you don't even know, but it turns out that they are no strangers to the rest, then it is better to keep quiet and that's it, that's why they sometimes say : "The fish dies through the mouth."

There are people who are not good in predicting games but are very much interested in gambling and does ask for predictions from people who are prediction experts but one thing that some of them fail to know is that prediction expert does also make bad predictions on some occasions and shouldn't be held accountable whenever they fail with their predictions. So as a gambler, when you know you're the kind of person who will blame someone for your gambling losses, it's absolutely not advisable to take any form of prediction or advice from anyone whenever you're gambling.
If you can't quietly manage your gambling losses whenever you incure them, then it's needless to involve other people that you know you'll want to blame when things turns sour

Yeah, spot on.

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

There are many things that trigger risks in gambling, even though they already know that what they did was wrong, but if they have a bad mindset, it is likely that they will do it again, making this impulsive act no longer strange, many of them gamble. They consciously take the wrong steps and dare to take risks, but what is unfortunate is that many of them dare to take risks but cannot accept the defeat that occurs so they become annoyed with themselves which leads to gambling addiction.

gambling addiction occurs because of their own actions, everything they do is on their own basis, there is no element of coercion from other people, and the losses that occur which of course are detrimental to them they cannot accept so that sometimes they become uncontrollable emotions that can They just end up blaming other people, especially when they gamble with their friends next to them, and if they lose they will probably blame their friends, because uncontrolled emotions make everything chaotic. They should be able to admit their mistakes like you said, if that's the case, maybe they won't blame other people.

Of course, the best thing we can do is accept losses. You just need to accept reality and not live on the planet of pink ponies. You can only accept the inevitable. Ultimately, the responsibility for losses will always lie with ourselves. The best we can do is accept reality and move on. But it is important to learn something useful from your mistakes in order to prevent them from happening again. It seems trivial, but surprisingly, not everyone does it. There are many gamblers who repeat the same mistakes for years. They seem to be walking in circles. Sometimes, in order to understand some simple truths, you need to make mistakes for years. Surprisingly, this is true.

But that still shouldn't be done because blaming other people for the defeats we experience is not a good way because they may refuse to be blamed. After all, it has nothing to do with them. This will only cause problems for both parties and will cause arguments between them.
We should accept the loss because it was our own fault. Not many people can sincerely accept their own mistakes, while others still blame others.
We must realize that mistakes happen because we are too eager to chase victory, so we must experience many losses.
It is time for us to realize that we must try to reduce gambling activities for our own good.