This happens often in gambling. Being encouraged to gamble by friends is a very common phenomenon. Many gamblers do not dare to take decisions on their own but when influenced by a friend they take part in gambling. There are some who blame their friends when they lose that bet. Many people try to understand the matter. A gambler can be easily influenced by others even if he doesn't want. When friends invite a gambler, rejecting invitation is a very difficult task that not everyone can do. But friends won't be harmed for winning or losing bets. For which a gambler will be responsible. So a gambler should give priority to his own decision.
Even though following a friend's invitation is not always a guarantee because some friends invite us to do something that can have bad consequences for us. But some can't always blame their friends when they lose or something bad happens, so they can only let it all happen. And that's the most common thing that happens to us where we can't blame our friends. But if it is gambling, we should be able to refuse it so that nothing happens to us and we also can't blame them but instead, we blame ourselves. It will have an impact on our psychology in making friends with them. 
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Only if there is actually a technical problem where I gamble. DO not go around and say that gambling is your fault and losing is your fault all the time. Obviously if you gamble properly and nothing is wrong and you lose that means there is nobody else to blame and I agree to that.
However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
Blaming the management for having a technical issue on a platform or in a game is a different thing and losing your money and blaming another person is a totally different ball game altogether. It is obviously not your fault if you are losing because of an issue in the system and the management should have fixed it already and should compensate you for your losses.However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
But some people are made differently, they will gamble, lose their money, and then start blaming someone else for what has happened instead of having the courage to accept their losses and simply move on with things.
Be responsible for your own actions. Blaming others will not solve your losses. Even though you are influenced by others to gamble, never blame your losses on someone because you know you are risking something for your own benefit. If your mind and heart can't take the pressure of gambling, never try it.
At first, people are being denial about those things, they keep on saying that it is not their fault when in fact they are the one who plays the game and loses it. We should be accountable at all times and in everything because blaming other people will not make us relieve to our loses. It will teach us to be disciplined and make us bets and assets organized to avoid loses and blaming it to other. Be responsible for your own actions. Blaming others will not solve your losses. Even though you are influenced by others to gamble, never blame your losses on someone because you know you are risking something for your own benefit. If your mind and heart can't take the pressure of gambling, never try it.
At first, people are being denial about those things, they keep on saying that it is not their fault when in fact they are the one who plays the game and loses it. We should be accountable at all times and in everything because blaming other people will not make us relieve to our loses. It will teach us to be disciplined and make us bets and assets organized to avoid loses and blaming it to other.
Be responsible for your own actions. Blaming others will not solve your losses. Even though you are influenced by others to gamble, never blame your losses on someone because you know you are risking something for your own benefit. If your mind and heart can't take the pressure of gambling, never try it.
Only if there is actually a technical problem where I gamble. DO not go around and say that gambling is your fault and losing is your fault all the time. Obviously if you gamble properly and nothing is wrong and you lose that means there is nobody else to blame and I agree to that.
However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
I agree with you, it makes no sense to go and look around for who to blame our gambling losses on. After a big loss it's hard to keep our emotions in check, but it won't do us any good if we blame the casino or ourselves for it. In the end it was our own decision that lead to our losses, which doesn't mean it was wrong decisions. Gambling is a game of chance that involves a lot of randomness, we can't avoid losses forever the longer we play. In my opinion it's best to accept losses as inevitable part of the game and shouldn't be blamed on one person or decision. It helps to ask ourselves what good does it to blame someone for our loss. It's not like we are getting our money back from it. We also shouldn't start lying to ourselves, accepting the truth and reality will help us the most longterm.
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someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling. for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.Quote
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.
Thus, if you gamble be certain that you're doing it because no one influence or force you to do so. This way, you will not held others accountable incase you lose your money in gambling. Be mature enough to accept the outcome and move on because there's no good if you dwell in the past since it happened already.
We are responsible for the money and if we accept friends' invitations, we also have to have or know when we have to stop. Just let those who still want to play gambling because maybe they really don't care if the money runs out. We don't need to get into trouble losing money at the gambling table and should stay away from gambling before it's too late.
Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do?
The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
This seems like a simple case of fraud, they didn't specifically accuse someone of taking part in this "heist" but just claimed that some unknown hacker must have done it. The first thing any police officer will do however, is try to establish a motive and seek out the people who stand to gain the most from this - which clearly leads back to the original account owners. This has probably happened many times to casino's and payment processors, so they are easily able to identify the red flags, plus they'll have sophisticated fingerprinting software that can easily catch abusers out.
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someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling. for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.Quote
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.
Thus, if you gamble be certain that you're doing it because no one influence or force you to do so. This way, you will not held others accountable incase you lose your money in gambling. Be mature enough to accept the outcome and move on because there's no good if you dwell in the past since it happened already.
We are responsible for the money and if we accept friends' invitations, we also have to have or know when we have to stop. Just let those who still want to play gambling because maybe they really don't care if the money runs out. We don't need to get into trouble losing money at the gambling table and should stay away from gambling before it's too late.
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someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling. for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.Quote
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.
Thus, if you gamble be certain that you're doing it because no one influence or force you to do so. This way, you will not held others accountable incase you lose your money in gambling. Be mature enough to accept the outcome and move on because there's no good if you dwell in the past since it happened already.
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someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling.Quote
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .Quote
for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.
then you are stupid to listen , who can be a person like that to gamble and listen when a friend tell him that he will win>?is he holding a mirror ball? lol.
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from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.
lol, your money is your responsibilities , you must decide your own and even if friends told you still you have to decide .
Only if there is actually a technical problem where I gamble. DO not go around and say that gambling is your fault and losing is your fault all the time. Obviously if you gamble properly and nothing is wrong and you lose that means there is nobody else to blame and I agree to that.
However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.
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Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .
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someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling. for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.Quote
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.
Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.
Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.
It's silly if anyone blames his losses on gambling on anyone else. Even if they blame someone, will they get their money back? No
Those who do that live in a fool's paradise and also they are only satisfied and justify these losses by blaming others.
because check their attitude ,are they even thanking others when they won? of course not means this is one way to boost their Ego.
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Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes . 
Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.
Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.
It's silly if anyone blames his losses on gambling on anyone else. Even if they blame someone, will they get their money back? No
Those who do that live in a fool's paradise and also they are only satisfied and justify these losses by blaming others.
Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?
Anyway, I don't blame anyone whenever I lose a session from playing at casinos.
From that news, the convicts do not literally blame other people. Instead of accepting their misfortune, they resorted to deceiving the authorities. They seem to have believed they could obtain all the money if the court ruled in their favor. I don't know them; however, from everything I've read, I can tell that they are greedy.
Sometimes some people are jumping the gun to quickly. I agree with most of the things that have been said here. Take responsibility for your actions, don't blame someone else.
But often times we don't know the context in which someone decided to do something. Sometimes we will never get full information and yet lots of people make a judgment after reading a few lines of a certain case.
The story that OP posted here is sad. They have made an enormous mistake and even now we don't know what really happened. We only know they lost N5.6 million in gambling and made false allegations. But sending them to prison for 7 years, how does that relate to the harm they caused? Like, how is 7 years in prison better than 2 years when the goal is to punish and resocialize someone who hurt themselves financially and admitted they've made false allegations?
But often times we don't know the context in which someone decided to do something. Sometimes we will never get full information and yet lots of people make a judgment after reading a few lines of a certain case.
The story that OP posted here is sad. They have made an enormous mistake and even now we don't know what really happened. We only know they lost N5.6 million in gambling and made false allegations. But sending them to prison for 7 years, how does that relate to the harm they caused? Like, how is 7 years in prison better than 2 years when the goal is to punish and resocialize someone who hurt themselves financially and admitted they've made false allegations?
One good reason not to blame others for your decision to gamble is that it will continue the losses, in a way thats repeated for hundreds of years it has to be recognized that the weight of your actions and bets are in your hands. If you dont fully weigh up and take responsibility for your own gambling win or loss then your own estimations for gambling in any game will become off-set and inaccurate, you will tend to lose more is something that should be realized.
Some risks we cannot avoid in life and must be undertaken to prosper but gambling for a game is personal choice; reduce your bets if you are not especially involved & in a bad mood in this way, until you fix your feeling etc. it will put off your game easily imo.
Some risks we cannot avoid in life and must be undertaken to prosper but gambling for a game is personal choice; reduce your bets if you are not especially involved & in a bad mood in this way, until you fix your feeling etc. it will put off your game easily imo.
You cannot blame anyone for your gambling losses except yourself or your foolishness or your luck never it whatever you want but it's all you .
If you don't waste your money on gambling you can do many things with your life and with that money.
did you not read in full what happened at the OP, the two (mother and son) slandered the gambling site even though it was very clear that they were the ones who made the deposit consciouslyIf you don't waste your money on gambling you can do many things with your life and with that money.
this proves that there are still many people out there who play gambling just for the sake of winning and also money but in fact, it is just a trap in their minds
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