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Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.
Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.
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Exactly, with the help of the technology, it's not hard to trace where the transactions came from and even you'll try to hide those important information, it will gonna reveal itself since there's a trace from the receiving ends and processors.

You can't hide that fact and it's not a wise thing to do, trying to blame someone with your mistake, you are the one who are in charge with such actions that you made, it's a sad fact but nothing to be blame but those persons itself who made these actions.
They're just arrogant and they have no escape on this one trying to blame their losses to anyone or an imaginary hacker. It's true that with such tracing, they can be found that they're the ones that really gambled with that money.
They have no way to go if that's proven to them because that's really they are. These are not going to change anything even if they keep making excuses such as this and such as that because it will never change the fact that they're the ones who have gambled and they've just losers trying to blame it to others and can't accept such defeats.
There blame game is nothing out of the ordinary, I mean a thief will always have a reason as to why he become a thief, and if he or she does not blame his actions on this parents, a family member or relative, he will blame it on the government, the economy and the bad situation of his or her country..
That's true, these people rely on pointing their mistakes to another one because they have no balls of admitting and taking care of it. There's always the opposite reaction to doing such.

But the most important thing here remains the fact that who ever is to blame will not stop the law from taking its full course and justice served as it is rightly deserved.
They don't realize that. Whether they make reasons or point to others thinking that they'll be the one to catch the punishment, nothing will change. They can't stop what the law says and whatever is the punishment they must render time to pay for their actions.
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Exactly, with the help of the technology, it's not hard to trace where the transactions came from and even you'll try to hide those important information, it will gonna reveal itself since there's a trace from the receiving ends and processors.

You can't hide that fact and it's not a wise thing to do, trying to blame someone with your mistake, you are the one who are in charge with such actions that you made, it's a sad fact but nothing to be blame but those persons itself who made these actions.
They're just arrogant and they have no escape on this one trying to blame their losses to anyone or an imaginary hacker. It's true that with such tracing, they can be found that they're the ones that really gambled with that money.
They have no way to go if that's proven to them because that's really they are. These are not going to change anything even if they keep making excuses such as this and such as that because it will never change the fact that they're the ones who have gambled and they've just losers trying to blame it to others and can't accept such defeats.
There blame game is nothing out of the ordinary, I mean a thief will always have a reason as to why he become a thief, and if he or she does not blame his actions on this parents, a family member or relative, he will blame it on the government, the economy and the bad situation of his or her country..

But the most important thing here remains the fact that who ever is to blame will not stop the law from taking its full course and justice served as it is rightly deserved.
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Exactly, with the help of the technology, it's not hard to trace where the transactions came from and even you'll try to hide those important information, it will gonna reveal itself since there's a trace from the receiving ends and processors.

You can't hide that fact and it's not a wise thing to do, trying to blame someone with your mistake, you are the one who are in charge with such actions that you made, it's a sad fact but nothing to be blame but those persons itself who made these actions.
They're just arrogant and they have no escape on this one trying to blame their losses to anyone or an imaginary hacker. It's true that with such tracing, they can be found that they're the ones that really gambled with that money.
They have no way to go if that's proven to them because that's really they are. These are not going to change anything even if they keep making excuses such as this and such as that because it will never change the fact that they're the ones who have gambled and they've just losers trying to blame it to others and can't accept such defeats.
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Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment


The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.


Ignorant and negligence taught them a life lesson and they thought they can revert back the lost money by just filing that someone else made the transfer from their account, but its too easy to find such kind of tricks with the help of banking and casino network.

About the context of the title you can't blame anyone for the loss you made, cause you did the action so it's fair you have to face the reaction as well.

Exactly, with the help of the technology, it's not hard to trace where the transactions came from and even you'll try to hide those important information, it will gonna reveal itself since there's a trace from the receiving ends and processors.

You can't hide that fact and it's not a wise thing to do, trying to blame someone with your mistake, you are the one who are in charge with such actions that you made, it's a sad fact but nothing to be blame but those persons itself who made these actions.
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Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment


The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.


Ignorant and negligence taught them a life lesson and they thought they can revert back the lost money by just filing that someone else made the transfer from their account, but its too easy to find such kind of tricks with the help of banking and casino network.

About the context of the title you can't blame anyone for the loss you made, cause you did the action so it's fair you have to face the reaction as well.
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But if they only blame other people for making them lose money from gambling, it's not purely the fault of their friends because that person could have avoided it by saying no to gambling and choosing to go home. But we have no power to refuse it, and we will even follow our friends to play gambling. And if they lose, they try to get their money, but the harder they try, the more money they will lose on the gambling table.
Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.
There is no certainty in gambling to get profit, everything is pure luck and that is what they have to understand that luck will not come in succession where when someone is sure to lose, remembering that gambling is a game to be called fun.
Even if there is another will that forces him to play while he thinks negatively about gambling then he will not take that step, but many of us try to play once, hopefully there will be luck and that is where sometimes many people try many times until they make continuous deposits.
We must be prepared to take responsibility when gambling, whether we want to win or lose, it is a risk that must be taken.
legendary
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hmph..
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But if they only blame other people for making them lose money from gambling, it's not purely the fault of their friends because that person could have avoided it by saying no to gambling and choosing to go home. But we have no power to refuse it, and we will even follow our friends to play gambling. And if they lose, they try to get their money, but the harder they try, the more money they will lose on the gambling table.
Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.
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One of the most common humans reactions is denial, whenever people receive some sort of bad news the very first thing they do is to deny that such a thing even happened, and it is not until they have no other choice but to accept the reality in front of them they finally decide to do it, the people described on the OP lost their money against the casino, but since this was not part of their plans they simply thought they could deny the reality and find a way to get their money back, and now they are realizing that doing such a thing can bring grave consequences to themselves.
It's easy to deny something we don't want but based on the facts and evidence, they won't be able to do it even if they still don't want to admit it. But if they only blame other people for making them lose money from gambling, it's not purely the fault of their friends because that person could have avoided it by saying no to gambling and choosing to go home. But we have no power to refuse it, and we will even follow our friends to play gambling. And if they lose, they try to get their money, but the harder they try, the more money they will lose on the gambling table.
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Blame your maths teacher if you want to blame anyone external to your own decisions.  If you learn maths and various dynamics like statistics and probability theory then you have a far better chance of comprehending risk vs reward on any game.  If you know when its a good pay off vs a risk not worth taking you are better off already and can steer to avoid losses not that there is ever any guarantee but I feel people better able to gauge their progress will do better in appreciating a good sequence of wins and when to quit with those gains.  Ultimately a person can or should only ever consider themselves as the captain of their own destiny but opinions vary.
You are not wrong but at the same time people hate math, so even if they had the best possible teacher they could get, there is no guarantee they will learn anything out of them, and that is because they do not really realize that math is everywhere and that it can be applied to a great variety of problems that have a very direct effect on their lives, so they try to avoid the responsibility for their actions by pointing their finger at someone else, but even if they deceived everyone else they cannot deceive themselves, since they know they are responsible for the losses they suffered when they gamble.
I don't think most people act logical when they decide about things in their lives. Humans are very irrational, emotional creatures. When we, humans, gamble we don't consider calculations as factor to our win - but instead we consider that day's mood. Or things we see that day as "call to fortune" (like birds, cats whatever). I wish people could become lot more rational to not blame others around them. I think people should also consider not let anyone affect their decision. You may ask a friend with gamble you plan but final decision should be yours, you know what I mean.
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Yep it's insensible as if they are the cause of how you lose on your gambling session. I'm guessing that they are just steaming out the anger and frustrations they have inside to reduce the pain of losing such money but yeah it's not a right way of blowing steam on someone especially if they didn't do anything to cause the losses. It also just make the situation worst and I don't think that doing it is right at the first place. If you can't manage your loses, Asses yourself first on how did you end up on that point and reflect. Blaming other don't really do anything good.
One of the most common humans reactions is denial, whenever people receive some sort of bad news the very first thing they do is to deny that such a thing even happened, and it is not until they have no other choice but to accept the reality in front of them they finally decide to do it, the people described on the OP lost their money against the casino, but since this was not part of their plans they simply thought they could deny the reality and find a way to get their money back, and now they are realizing that doing such a thing can bring grave consequences to themselves.
Denial? It would have been better if someone they love died and they denial the fact that it happened, but going to a casino to gamble is pure intention, they knew what could possibly happen if they gamble, they must have heard a lot of stories about people losing life savings and properties to gambling, yet they put the blame on someone else? Will they wake the hell up if the person they put the blame on was nailed hard for something he didn't commit? I doubt they would, if the person they put the blame up decide to pay the money won't they accept the payment?

Pure wickedness 💯, it has nothing to do with receiving shocking news, this isn't a shocking news, they gamble with their hands and they will either win or lose, what's bad news here? They saw this coming, unfortunately for them they lose.
legendary
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Yep it's insensible as if they are the cause of how you lose on your gambling session. I'm guessing that they are just steaming out the anger and frustrations they have inside to reduce the pain of losing such money but yeah it's not a right way of blowing steam on someone especially if they didn't do anything to cause the losses. It also just make the situation worst and I don't think that doing it is right at the first place. If you can't manage your loses, Asses yourself first on how did you end up on that point and reflect. Blaming other don't really do anything good.
One of the most common humans reactions is denial, whenever people receive some sort of bad news the very first thing they do is to deny that such a thing even happened, and it is not until they have no other choice but to accept the reality in front of them they finally decide to do it, the people described on the OP lost their money against the casino, but since this was not part of their plans they simply thought they could deny the reality and find a way to get their money back, and now they are realizing that doing such a thing can bring grave consequences to themselves.
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Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose.  Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.
Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.
I agree with you. There are many gamblers who blame others as a way of comforting themselves after losing. Such a trend is seen among many gamblers. As the number of such gamblers is high, they are more or less everywhere.They cannot bear that defeat alone. A gambler should welcome win or lose. Gambling by blaming others can't guarantee a win so why blame others? There is a lack of awareness among those who practice such behavior. If you can't win by blaming others, what's the advantage?
Pointing out your fingers into someone is totally insensible or something which does have no point. What if you do blame up someone because of your losses? Are you taking back those things or just simply trying out to ease the pain and emotion or rage that you do feel inside? It is really a typical but in the sense that there's no way on taking back things up once again which means there's no point on doing so.
You would really be just creating some possible ruckus or trouble around.On the time that you would be pointing out fingers then whats next?

In regarding on the situation which had been stated on OP, then its impossible that there's someone who could have the access of their card.Once there is really some unrecognized or unauthorize transactions
whether on your bank account or credit or debit/card then it would be definitely be sending out those alerts which the situation wont really become that worst or would be having that
huge spending or slice of the money they do have. I cant really just believe such story imho.
Yep it's insensible as if they are the cause of how you lose on your gambling session. I'm guessing that they are just steaming out the anger and frustrations they have inside to reduce the pain of losing such money but yeah it's not a right way of blowing steam on someone especially if they didn't do anything to cause the losses. It also just make the situation worst and I don't think that doing it is right at the first place. If you can't manage your loses, Asses yourself first on how did you end up on that point and reflect. Blaming other don't really do anything good.
If its just for the sake of steaming out your anger and frustration then it isnt the right way on doing so on which you would blame out someone on the mistakes that you have done which it doesnt really make no sense.
There's no one who should really be blamed out into your condition but only into yourself.It isnt really just right to make out some argumentation or quarrels into someone basing on what you have done.
Its your action then it is really that there's no one should really be blamed on but you. In speaking about easing out the pain or the anger then there's lots of options for you to take. You could
really pull out yourself into that gambling session and call it a day without having any words to say and as much as possible it would be ideal that you should really be that avoiding other people discussion
because most likely you would really that get irritated on the time that you would be facing up someone. So its better to avoid rather than on starting up some possible conflicts which i dont really
like for it to happen.
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As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.
I get your point mate and the truth  be told that most times as a person,  there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely  responsible  for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone  for our losses.
I guess those who are blaming others for their losses in gambling are actually not responsible gamblers because they put the blame on others when everything they do in the first place is actually from their own will and decision. Though in some instances, gamblers may blame others, maybe in the case for tipsters whom they actually believe that they will really win the game without doubts.
Yes, In accordance with the OP's direction they are blaming others for getting out of that situation when they lose after betting themselves. However, their cleverness is easily caught by others. Although they claim to be innocent, they themselves are guilty of nature. There are some gamblers who cannot bear their losses. Then they try to be humanely lighter by blaming others. But there is no advantage by blaming others but only to spoil the gambling environment.
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People taking lives for money, and you think someone cannot blame ? I don’t know about the case mentioned in the OP, but most of the time, if people losses huge amount of money they blame on other person. Directly or indirectly they point the second person and some how made him responsible for the losses. If instead of the loss, if the bet goes for win, then they will praise the second person, but if by chance the bet goes to loss, then for the whole rest of the life, they gonna abuse him. So if it’s your money,then you should bet on your calls only.

well, the OP's story is that the suspect himself used the money for gambling and lost it and yet, they accused of someone siphoning their funds without their knowledge. they thought they can get away with it but nope. they are the ones who should be blamed because it is them that used their funds.
i can understand that if your friends made a bet and you split up with the payment of the bet, and you followed the bet of your friend and lost. somehow there will be blaming part on this. but if you agreed on such bet, so it is also on you.
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Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose.  Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.
Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.
I agree with you. There are many gamblers who blame others as a way of comforting themselves after losing. Such a trend is seen among many gamblers. As the number of such gamblers is high, they are more or less everywhere.They cannot bear that defeat alone. A gambler should welcome win or lose. Gambling by blaming others can't guarantee a win so why blame others? There is a lack of awareness among those who practice such behavior. If you can't win by blaming others, what's the advantage?
Pointing out your fingers into someone is totally insensible or something which does have no point. What if you do blame up someone because of your losses? Are you taking back those things or just simply trying out to ease the pain and emotion or rage that you do feel inside? It is really a typical but in the sense that there's no way on taking back things up once again which means there's no point on doing so.
You would really be just creating some possible ruckus or trouble around.On the time that you would be pointing out fingers then whats next?

In regarding on the situation which had been stated on OP, then its impossible that there's someone who could have the access of their card.Once there is really some unrecognized or unauthorize transactions
whether on your bank account or credit or debit/card then it would be definitely be sending out those alerts which the situation wont really become that worst or would be having that
huge spending or slice of the money they do have. I cant really just believe such story imho.
Yep it's insensible as if they are the cause of how you lose on your gambling session. I'm guessing that they are just steaming out the anger and frustrations they have inside to reduce the pain of losing such money but yeah it's not a right way of blowing steam on someone especially if they didn't do anything to cause the losses. It also just make the situation worst and I don't think that doing it is right at the first place. If you can't manage your loses, Asses yourself first on how did you end up on that point and reflect. Blaming other don't really do anything good.
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Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose.  Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.
Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.
I agree with you. There are many gamblers who blame others as a way of comforting themselves after losing. Such a trend is seen among many gamblers. As the number of such gamblers is high, they are more or less everywhere.They cannot bear that defeat alone. A gambler should welcome win or lose. Gambling by blaming others can't guarantee a win so why blame others? There is a lack of awareness among those who practice such behavior. If you can't win by blaming others, what's the advantage?
Pointing out your fingers into someone is totally insensible or something which does have no point. What if you do blame up someone because of your losses? Are you taking back those things or just simply trying out to ease the pain and emotion or rage that you do feel inside? It is really a typical but in the sense that there's no way on taking back things up once again which means there's no point on doing so.
You would really be just creating some possible ruckus or trouble around.On the time that you would be pointing out fingers then whats next?

In regarding on the situation which had been stated on OP, then its impossible that there's someone who could have the access of their card.Once there is really some unrecognized or unauthorize transactions
whether on your bank account or credit or debit/card then it would be definitely be sending out those alerts which the situation wont really become that worst or would be having that
huge spending or slice of the money they do have. I cant really just believe such story imho.
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As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.
I get your point mate and the truth  be told that most times as a person,  there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely  responsible  for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone  for our losses.
I guess those who are blaming others for their losses in gambling are actually not responsible gamblers because they put the blame on others when everything they do in the first place is actually from their own will and decision. Though in some instances, gamblers may blame others, maybe in the case for tipsters whom they actually believe that they will really win the game without doubts.
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Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose.  Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.
Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.
I agree with you. There are many gamblers who blame others as a way of comforting themselves after losing. Such a trend is seen among many gamblers. As the number of such gamblers is high, they are more or less everywhere.They cannot bear that defeat alone. A gambler should welcome win or lose. Gambling by blaming others can't guarantee a win so why blame others? There is a lack of awareness among those who practice such behavior. If you can't win by blaming others, what's the advantage?
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People taking lives for money, and you think someone cannot blame ? I don’t know about the case mentioned in the OP, but most of the time, if people losses huge amount of money they blame on other person. Directly or indirectly they point the second person and some how made him responsible for the losses. If instead of the loss, if the bet goes for win, then they will praise the second person, but if by chance the bet goes to loss, then for the whole rest of the life, they gonna abuse him. So if it’s your money,then you should bet on your calls only.
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