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Quote from: dezoel on May 07, 2023, 01:25:24 PM

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Yeah, such people exist and I've seen them too, and you won't believe how annoying such people are. And some are even worst than that, when they are gambling, if you are around, they will ask for your advice or suggestion and when you suggest something and they place a bet based on that if they win, they praise you and be happy, but when they lose, they simply blame you for that.

Even if they don't say it in front of you, they will say it to someone else in your absence and that makes you way too angry but you decide to just leave them and don't give them any attention the next time when they are around.

Yeah, many gamblers will try to blame someone else for their own action, and also explain unknown phenomena (winning in a roulette, etc) with some weird explanation like they won because they had a beautiful girl next to them, or whatever.

It's all fun and games while they are winning, but it becomes rather nasty when they lose. And many gamblers lose it all in a night, and can get quite destructive. Best to stay far away from that negative force, otherwise you might end up in a bad situation.

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Quote from: rojan on May 05, 2023, 03:17:31 AM

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head. If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

Yeah, such people exist and I've seen them too, and you won't believe how annoying such people are. And some are even worst than that, when they are gambling, if you are around, they will ask for your advice or suggestion and when you suggest something and they place a bet based on that if they win, they praise you and be happy, but when they lose, they simply blame you for that.

Even if they don't say it in front of you, they will say it to someone else in your absence and that makes you way too angry but you decide to just leave them and don't give them any attention the next time when they are around.

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Quote from: molsewid on May 06, 2023, 10:12:52 AM

Quote from: ultrloa on May 06, 2023, 06:00:49 AM

Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose. Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.

Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable.

Yes, that's mostly embedded to us as human nature, things that we don't want to be accountable, and we wanted to point our fingers
to blame someone just to satisfy our guilt.

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We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.

And we can't remove that in fault finder even it's your own mistake you will always find ways to throw those blame to other people
just to stay and continue what you are doing with your gambling habits.

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Quote from: molsewid on May 06, 2023, 10:12:52 AM

Quote from: ultrloa on May 06, 2023, 06:00:49 AM

Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose. Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.

Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.

Personally, I do not see the point in blaming someone else when I make a mistake, because only by understanding the reason for a mistake can we learn not to make it. In my opinion you have told correctly, that search of guilty around itself is a defense mechanism of the person, but only I in such situation would prefer not to be deceived, because only possessing the true information it is possible to estimate soberly world around us and to interpret these or those events.

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Quote from: molsewid on May 06, 2023, 10:12:52 AM

Quote from: ultrloa on May 06, 2023, 06:00:49 AM

Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose. Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.

Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.

Loss is not a total failure and failure with experience derived from it even weighs more than success at times. It is so unfair of anyone to blame someone for their losses, although this particular case on this thread is different. These people are pathetic scammers, they are wicked actually and want to indirectly scam the company, thinking that a thorough investigation would not be carried out.

Neither did they think that it could reach the level of finding themselves behind bars.

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Quote from: ultrloa on May 06, 2023, 06:00:49 AM

Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose. Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.

Actually, it is a defense mechanism. In order for a person not to be felt accountable or if don't want to be responsible for his or her losses he will blame other people or some other things just to make himself feel better and comfortable. We should be the one who will be accountable for everything that we are doing especially when we are betting and when we lose too much because of our greed then we should not point it to other people or to the current scenario we are facing.

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Quote from: Cling18 on April 28, 2023, 10:20:42 AM

I think they're just trying to save themselves from huge losses but what they did have brought them into a worse situation. The truth will always prevail no matter how we cover up our mistakes. Blaming someone else isn't a good idea and it couldn't even save us from our huge losses. We are only dragging ourselves to bad situations more. It will be better to control ourselves or just accept losses in case we lose our funds since that's a part of gambling. We can't blame others if we are the ones who are making wrong decisions.

Infact they are very lucky that the money belongs to both of them had it been it was a loan or borrowed money used to gamble they could have forfeited there assets and properties to repay the loan and probably sentence to prison, this is a risk not worth taken at all after losing the whole $8,000 they tried to blame someone else in a false claim, honestly the judge even gave them an option of fine which I believe is a soft landing and was very lenient with them, unfortunately they duo are not ready to accept their losses after gambling with the whole money probably anticipating winning a much more money, they could have gamble with part of the money but they were very greedy.

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Quote from: Ebede on May 01, 2023, 04:34:04 PM

As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.

I get your point mate and the truth be told that most times as a person, there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely responsible for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone for our losses.

You're right usually when gambling sites get hurt by advice from others without practicing it themselves, many people blame it. But when it comes to gambling, it is better to consider yourself rather than blame others. Many people use their intelligence information and analytical skills to win one bet after another. There will be less regret for losses here because later one will win by applying one's intellect.

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Quote from: adzino on May 04, 2023, 11:51:20 PM

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

These people that you mentioned are in denial. They can't seem to accept the fact that they have lost the game and they have lost the funds they bet on especially if the amount is a huge one. Sometimes people tend to blame others for their own doing because they don't want to carry all the burden such as the regrets and losses that came from the miscalculated or impulsive decision they have made. If you are close with someone that possess this kind of mindset, you should give them a heads up about their actions. But if they won't do something about it or if ever they lash out on you because of your concern about them, it's time to cut them off before you also fall victim into their dirty tactics.

Just deserve all the people are not equal in behavior or actions, there are also differences among gamblers. Some blame others to hide their own failures. But you must be careful when dealing with such gamblers otherwise you too can be found guilty anytime. There are many gamblers who do not blame others when they lose at the wits of others. They know very well that since he will not give anyone the loss or profit share of gambling, he will not blame anyone. A gambler conducts gambling with his own money so should not be influenced by the words of others.

Blame fest? Nah, it's a shame fest, folks! Gamblers, so eager to dodge their blunders, they'll do anything to dump blame elsewhere. Here's the deal: gambling? You're the captain, the mastermind. Nobody else calls the shots, nobody else accountable for the highs and lows. So, why not embrace your choices? Own your gambling odyssey. Tough? Sure. But way better than the blame circus and pulling others into the mess, right?

Some people do that to escape the feeling if being guilty in their own negligence and mostly they blane the casino as rigged one since they want to create situation maybe a part of revenge that they are scam and each result is manipulated that's why they lose. Not everyone can easily handle the situation and good for people who can accept immediately on what they are receiving and try to become more better on next time around.

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Quote from: livingfree on May 05, 2023, 05:41:39 PM

With that reasoning out, they've already denied it that it's not their fault. But even if they will deny it, they've already been sentenced and that's more than enough for them.

Hopefully, the punishment can make them realize what they did was wrong. And they also want to make up for it after getting out of prison.

Quote from: livingfree on May 05, 2023, 05:41:39 PM

That should how it must be but, there's now that doubt that it won't be as exact as what we're thinking because they might just go back and again, blame it again to the others and anything if they've been caught and got a losing streak.

If they can't do their best to make amends, no one will be able to help them and just leave them in jail for a long time. If they did it again and got caught, no one would care about it and just leave it be. They should be able to change for the better later and regret their mistakes.

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Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.

Gambling is real and the addiction is real but the case of mother and son is surprising to me
It used to be son and the mother or the parents act as check on their son by threatening to report to the agencies. I mean in the countries like the one described by Op. Some times Father and son works and conivr together but I am surprised of the case of mother and son.
It could be that the son misled the mother and I can say that the judge was just lenient on them for the reduced cost to order.

They both give the consent of trying to blame someone with the gambling addiction/participation. Either it's a mother and son or a father and son duo the action are the same, trying to point fingers to someone but the truth is they are the one who really perform the action and they both lose the money as the court see the weight of their claims.

It's a lesson to be learned that addiction can really hurt your finances to the point that you'll be able to do something that is not how a normal person can do.

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Quote from: AicecreaME on May 05, 2023, 08:57:09 PM

Quote from: adzino on May 04, 2023, 11:51:20 PM

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

These people that you mentioned are in denial. They can't seem to accept the fact that they have lost the game and they have lost the funds they bet on especially if the amount is a huge one. Sometimes people tend to blame others for their own doing because they don't want to carry all the burden such as the regrets and losses that came from the miscalculated or impulsive decision they have made. If you are close with someone that possess this kind of mindset, you should give them a heads up about their actions. But if they won't do something about it or if ever they lash out on you because of your concern about them, it's time to cut them off before you also fall victim into their dirty tactics.

Just deserve all the people are not equal in behavior or actions, there are also differences among gamblers. Some blame others to hide their own failures. But you must be careful when dealing with such gamblers otherwise you too can be found guilty anytime. There are many gamblers who do not blame others when they lose at the wits of others. They know very well that since he will not give anyone the loss or profit share of gambling, he will not blame anyone. A gambler conducts gambling with his own money so should not be influenced by the words of others.

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Quote from: STT on May 05, 2023, 06:36:23 PM

Blame your maths teacher if you want to blame anyone external to your own decisions. If you learn maths and various dynamics like statistics and probability theory then you have a far better chance of comprehending risk vs reward on any game. If you know when its a good pay off vs a risk not worth taking you are better off already and can steer to avoid losses not that there is ever any guarantee but I feel people better able to gauge their progress will do better in appreciating a good sequence of wins and when to quit with those gains. Ultimately a person can or should only ever consider themselves as the captain of their own destiny but opinions vary.

You are not wrong but at the same time people hate math, so even if they had the best possible teacher they could get, there is no guarantee they will learn anything out of them, and that is because they do not really realize that math is everywhere and that it can be applied to a great variety of problems that have a very direct effect on their lives, so they try to avoid the responsibility for their actions by pointing their finger at someone else, but even if they deceived everyone else they cannot deceive themselves, since they know they are responsible for the losses they suffered when they gamble.

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Quote from: adzino on May 04, 2023, 11:51:20 PM

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

These people that you mentioned are in denial. They can't seem to accept the fact that they have lost the game and they have lost the funds they bet on especially if the amount is a huge one. Sometimes people tend to blame others for their own doing because they don't want to carry all the burden such as the regrets and losses that came from the miscalculated or impulsive decision they have made. If you are close with someone that possess this kind of mindset, you should give them a heads up about their actions. But if they won't do something about it or if ever they lash out on you because of your concern about them, it's time to cut them off before you also fall victim into their dirty tactics.

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Blame your maths teacher if you want to blame anyone external to your own decisions. If you learn maths and various dynamics like statistics and probability theory then you have a far better chance of comprehending risk vs reward on any game. If you know when its a good pay off vs a risk not worth taking you are better off already and can steer to avoid losses not that there is ever any guarantee but I feel people better able to gauge their progress will do better in appreciating a good sequence of wins and when to quit with those gains. Ultimately a person can or should only ever consider themselves as the captain of their own destiny but opinions vary.

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Quote from: adzino on May 04, 2023, 11:51:20 PM

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

Yes, usually people who don't want to experience big losses will usually do the same thing, even though he consciously knows that playing gambling is full of risks, but people like this always underestimate the risk. It's clear that whenever playing gambling, there will definitely be risks that must be accepted. whether it's losing money or losing assets, so you better not play gambling if you don't want to play risk it's better to work or become an entrepreneur to earn money.

I also see it strange and funny why people can do and say that casinos are committing fraud even though there have been many warnings that playing gambling cannot make people rich, so play wisely don't play greedy so that when you lose you don't make it as told by OP in this thread. Cheesy

I agree since those people only blame other others so that they can hide from the fact that they make a wrong decision. They ignore the fact that gambling is a game of luck and although they know that luck isn't always on your side, they still go for their gambling activity and always believe that their next game would be a win ending up for them to lose big time. So, indeed that in gambling world, one should not be greedy to the extent that they can risk everything without taking into consideration their life. We should not be drown to the idea that if someone get rich in this way, you can be too since this is still a game of uncertainty and you can end up in the wrong side. So, always be wise in your decisions and always take the risks that we can really afford.

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Quote from: Gozie51 on April 28, 2023, 07:24:46 AM

Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.

Gambling is real and the addiction is real but the case of mother and son is surprising to me
It used to be son and the mother or the parents act as check on their son by threatening to report to the agencies. I mean in the countries like the one described by Op. Some times Father and son works and conivr together but I am surprised of the case of mother and son.
It could be that the son misled the mother and I can say that the judge was just lenient on them for the reduced cost to order.

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Quote from: QueenVera on May 05, 2023, 04:24:50 PM

Quote from: Ebede on May 01, 2023, 04:34:04 PM

As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.

I get your point mate and the truth be told that most times as a person, there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely responsible for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone for our losses.

Ofc nobody directs us or uses gun to make deposit on online casino but since everything especially online banking is one click away we can make quick decisions to chase big wins for entertainment. Some gamblers love to blame other people mostly close circle around him for losing big amount on online slots, I have seen such debats on live streaming platforms. We have to understand risks on casinos and never play with the amount we can't afford to lose as responsible gamblers.

It is common with gambling that we need to spend what we can afford to loss. When we gamble based on someone's suggestion and loss it hurts, in particular when the lost bet amount is high. I never exceed a bet amount of $10 when placing based on someone's suggestion. In specific those used to be just for fun with friends (going with their prediction).

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on May 05, 2023, 12:27:48 AM

Quote from: livingfree on May 04, 2023, 06:48:45 AM

And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.

Well, they shouldn't deny their mistakes and instead, turn around to make amends by changing for the better. That's what they have to do so that the punishment they will receive will not be too severe.

With that reasoning out, they've already denied it that it's not their fault. But even if they will deny it, they've already been sentenced and that's more than enough for them.

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And after they have served their sentence and are free, they must try to prevent all the mistakes they have made before. That way, people will see if they really want to change for the better.

That should how it must be but, there's now that doubt that it won't be as exact as what we're thinking because they might just go back and again, blame it again to the others and anything if they've been caught and got a losing streak.

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Quote from: rojan on May 05, 2023, 03:17:31 AM

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head. If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

We can totally understand it. When everything goes well, no one feels sad or angry, no one hates good things. But once they encounter difficulties, losses, they lose money, they start to feel regret and regret. But in the meantime, that regret is too bad and they can't accept that they themselves were wrong, they need someone to blame, right? And if you are there, or you join them, you will be a target, a trash can for them to vent their emotions.

It's best not to work with people like that, they're bad Roll Eyes

Therefore, we don't need to invite other people to gamble following us because we can have fun. Sometimes we will not be able to accept other people's annoyance and tend to blame us for asking them to gamble. Those who have lost money because of an invitation to play gambling will certainly feel sorry, but maybe they don't blame us if we have told them that gambling has a risk of loss and we always remind them not to bet in large amounts. And we also need to remind you that gambling is only for fun, and you don't intend to win money at the gambling table because we have the opportunity to lose. So just have fun and nothing to lose.

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